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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth...
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:06:22 AM | Let me weigh in on this, I was a chronic "nice guy" once upon a time and to a degree I still am. Here's the trick, observe behavior, words are meaningless. If they start distancing themselves from you, end it post haste. Chew them out for being morons and passing up a hell of a worthy man. That's what you have to be though, a man. You can be sensitive and a gentlemen but you can't be something they perceive as weak. From an anthropological standpoint women have been attracted to the best warriors/hunters because they were protectors and could provide them with greater chances of survival. "Bad boys" give off this particular behavioral pattern and it resonates with womens biological drives. It's kind of hard to ignore tens of thousands of years of cellular biological memory. That's also why Kpool or whomever is correct in his observation in the sex department, you have to be a lion in bed.
Biggest key for me was I started watching behavior and if she started changing the way she acted it was ALWAYS a sign of something. No matter how trivial it may appear, behavioral changes are indications of a life alteration of some kind. When something seems wrong or out of the norm, somethings up. Period. Don't back down, don't let her hand you excuses, she doesn't want to talk about it, end the relationship. Walk away, the end. Almost all women are natural communicators and have no difficulty imparting intimate feelings with those whom they feel close to. If she doesn't want to share with you, it means she either A) Doesn't trust you, or B) It's about you and she is either ashamed/afraid of your reaction. Both are grounds for dismissal.
Bottom line heres the keys to survival as a "nice guy".
-Behavior, behavior, behavior/Words=worthless, people can say whatever they want but they also do whatever they want and can't hide that forever
-If you see the signs, end it first and fast before you hear about the drunken nights with your (former) best friend. *The week she went MIA should have been the indicator.*
-Keep your self respect. If they don't want to be with you, THEY are the degenerate fools who can't evolve above their basic biology, the difference between us and the animals is we HAVE a choice. Animals just run on instinct. Bad boys have an average IQ of around 85-90 and will die young from alcohol and drug abuse. GO Darwin!
-Educate yourself in the arts of tantra and eroticism. I STILL get calls from ex's from many years past telling me I was the best lover ever and would I free up some time for them please. Selfish men are generally just as selfish in the sack. Two pumps in a drunken torpor and roll over and sleep. (REAL satisfying ladies.)
-There really are plenty of fish in the sea. Keep a high public exposure and you'll meet women, possibly the right one for you but you have to put yourself out there.
I'm 30 and I'm still single but I know, without a shadow of a doubt that somewhere out there is the right woman for ME. She'll be one of a kind, not the generic run of the mill woman. Keep that in mind brother. When the pieces of the puzzle finally fall into place for men like us, it's that life long forever kind of love and everyone else will be jealous. | | | |
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