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notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 37 (view)

television-- pros and cons Posted: 10/14/2009 6:16:21 PM
Like most of you I grew up with tv. In England though we only got about 6 hours of broadcasts a day and we only had 2 channels. I think most of the programs were aimed at adults because I can't think of any times when I wouldn't rather be out on my bike or swimming than stuck in the house watching tv. When I moved here is when I started watching . 24 hours a day and all those channels. I was like a kid in a candy store for the first year. Fortunately I did get over it. Nowadays, even though my girlfriend would disagree, I can take it or leave it. I like some sports so if the Cubs are on I tend to not give her a hundred percent of my attention. I think she takes advantage of this by claiming to have told me things during "the game" that I have no recollection of.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 47 (view)

Precautionary measures Posted: 10/4/2009 9:57:39 AM
Now when I wear my ski-mask out in public i'll blend in.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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average and below Posted: 10/4/2009 9:26:01 AM
Your whole premise is so full of crap I wonder if you're posting to provoke an argument or you really believe it. Looks have absolutely nothing to do with sexuality. I may look like an average Joe but in reality i'm James Bond. Not really, but I always try to exude confidence and make whoever i'm with feel special, appreciated, and lucky to be with me. Your personality is what is going to determine who is going to be attracted to you.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 34 (view)

How do you like to be treated after sex... and how important is it to you? Posted: 10/3/2009 7:07:49 PM
I like to be untied and the blindfold removed so I can figure out where the hell I am.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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Casual Relationships...... Can they work???? Posted: 10/1/2009 4:12:17 PM
Go make yourself a large pot of coffee then smell it. Yes he's taking advatage. Tell him if ever you run out of money to buy new batteries you'll give him a call, till then keep on looking. There are plenty of fish in this pond that are looking for more than a "casual relationship".

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 90 (view)

Men help me with Fellatio?? tips??? Posted: 9/16/2009 8:16:02 PM
Talking about no teeth reminds me of an ex. She had just got braces put on (before you ask, no, i'm not a perv, we were in our 30's) and we were in the throes of passion when she went down on me. It felt kind of tingly and scratchy, not bad feeling, just different. After she'd finished I surveyed the equipment and was shocked to be looking like it had been caught in my zipper (that's another topic waiting to happen). Needless to say I went without oral gratification for the next 18 months.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

How important .... Posted: 9/16/2009 4:21:28 PM
The next time you say goodbye imagine your other half gets hit by a truck. You're going to have the rest of your life hoping he knew how you felt and wishing you'd told him. SAY IT. (and I don't mean ditto)

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 45 (view)

the last- Best You Ever Had Posted: 9/14/2009 7:21:47 PM
I think if you're not with "the best" you should move on and keep on looking, otherwise you're settling. I was fortunate enough to meet my best about 18 months ago on this site. (I know it's the best cos she always makes my toes curl.)

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 26 (view)

In Search of Dudes' Opinions Posted: 9/14/2009 6:28:41 PM
Your experience ( or lack of) is what makes you you. I have never volunteered info on my past unless my gf wanted to know. It's not something you hide, but it's not something you brag about either. My advice would be to keep your past sexual history to yourself until you are at a point in your relationship that you feel comfortable talking about it. When you get there you wont have to ask us dinasaurs, you'll know.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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Making time.... Posted: 2/4/2009 5:29:46 PM
If she's been on 6 or 7 dates with you she must be interested. Maybe you should have a buddy tag along with you and see if he can hook up with her friend.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 40 (view)

Need help!!! Posted: 2/4/2009 5:25:29 PM
Millet, the greatest thing about internet dating is what you're going through. You learn to connect with someone on an emotional level, unlike real life when everything is based on your physical perceptions of each other. The hard part is over, you've already clicked. If you have the zap as well when you meet each other, that's just icing on the cake, if not you've still got the cake. I met my lady on here a year ago. We emailed, then talked, then finally met. We're 500 miles apart but it's hard to remember when she wasn't part of my life. I hope you have the same success.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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At what point............. Posted: 2/4/2009 5:01:46 PM
Is the future something you've talked about with him?? I know kids and careers are a handful but you should be able to make plans for when they're finally out of the house. I'm in a ldr and only see my girlfriend every few weeks but we've talked about a future together. I wouldn't be in a relationship if there wasn't a point to it. Let's face it we're not getting any younger, if he can't at least commit to commit it may be time to start looking again.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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Staying for Sex Posted: 2/4/2009 4:52:44 PM
Yes, I've had several one night stands that were so good I dragged it out for the whole weekend.

notverymanyfish

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Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..? Posted: 2/4/2009 2:55:13 PM
With all these noble people it makes me wonder where all the cheaters are, must be reading different threads I guess. I've been cheated on a few times while i've been in "relationships" so I wouldn't want to inflict that hurt on someone else. Back in the 80's when things were a lot more relaxed and we'd never heard of aids and herpes, I was a lot more promiscuous than I like to admit. There were several occasions I suspected the lady I was with wasn't entirely single so I guess that may count as cheating by proxy. I never used to ask. Nowadays i'm fortunate enough to have a woman who fills me so i don't have the need or desire to step out.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 43 (view)

Sex Massage Posted: 1/27/2009 6:42:03 PM
Why the heck are you there?? The guy is a pig. Could you imagine yourself with a 56 year old man, think about it. When you're his age (38) he's gonna be 56. Your age difference doesn't seem so bad right now, wait till then. If you're serving this pig now imagine what you'll be doing for him in the future. If you feel empty now how are you going to feel with a bunch of kids wondering where your man is and who he's with?. Get the hell out and find someone closer to your own age with similar values. They exist. You have everything going for you. Take your time and find someone who appreciates you.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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Do you believe a woman when she says ... Posted: 1/17/2009 10:03:55 AM
20 to 30 years ago I found more women feigning interest in some of the more masculine activities, probably so the didn't feel left out while we're watching/doing them. Nowadays, it's not necessary for them to be so intermingled in our lives, they actually are allowed to do stuff outside the home, even work. We've all evolved (well most of us) to the point where there aren't girl things/boy things. I like to cook, I don't hate shopping and if I ever had the time i'd love a manicure/pedicure/massage.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 5798 (view)

LAST LINE BECOMES YOUR FIRST LINE OF AN 8 (EIGHT) LINE STANZA Posted: 1/17/2009 7:19:33 AM
as I softly moan watching you move in on my erogenous zone moving in slowly , your eye on the goal then your head goes down and swallows it whole your eyes meet mine, we exchange a knowing look this wasn't something you'd read in a book with practised precision you finished your chore with all the expertise of a singapore whore

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 4274 (view)

First Line, Last Line (Part Deux) Posted: 1/17/2009 4:08:36 AM
Should I finish her off from behind or in front as I ram her hard and make her grunt Flipping her over the rear entry wins we both work at it as the room spins till finally i hear her moan with delight then I deliver my load, all hot and white.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

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Need some advise (relationship talk and deployment) Posted: 1/16/2009 6:04:30 PM
It seems your relationship was early enough that you never moved from the emotional to the physical. There's nothing wrong with wanting a commitment. He also has been totally honest with you which is admirable. He didn't try to play you by making false promises. You could still keep on being his friend till he returns and then see if either of your feelings have changed. I'm still friends with a lot of my ex's, you can never have too many friends.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 67 (view)

I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 1/16/2009 5:46:14 PM
I think doing 69ers is the ultimate in multi-tasking. I don't dislike it but it's so much more fun to be concentrating on the 6 or the 9 individually.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

is sex better with a stranger than when you're in love with somebody ? when are you more relaxed ? ? Posted: 1/16/2009 5:02:00 PM
The best thing about the first time is the unknown, you've been waiting for ...hours, days, weeks, (maybe minutes) and the passion has been building. You don't know what s/he is going to be like. You both try harder to please each other, that's probably why it's so memorable. As time goes on and you learn each others wants and likes, that's when you have truly great sex.

notverymanyfish

Joined: 1/12/2009

Msg: 72 (view)

What about the sex thing?-Need a woman's perspective. Posted: 1/16/2009 4:22:21 PM
If this were posted by a 20 year old it wouldn't surprise me but you're 42.... Maybe things are different in Mississippi but the rest of the planet has evolved. I would know in1 possibly 2 dates if someone was going to be compatible with me. The crap you write about "subtle hints" sounds so sophomoric I want to puke. Does your mouth work?. If not maybe you can send her an email, or maybe show her this forum, but then she may see you're still looking for a woman for "friends". If you have actually made advances, ie. held her hand, kissed her, nuzzled her neck, etc, and she shoved you away, that is when you ask her what's wrong. She either tells you your mouthwash isn't cutting it, she's really a guy and doesn't want you to find out, or she just thinks of you as a friend. Any which way it turns out you will have communicated and found your answer.

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