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 Author Thread: Regretfully didn't give him my number!!!! Now what??
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Regretfully didn't give him my number!!!! Now what??
Posted: 11/19/2009 9:42:47 PM
NightJ?

867-5309 was a song by Tommy Tutone in 1982.

Drove the phone companies nuts.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 164 (view)
 
What is your Bail?
Posted: 11/18/2009 9:54:50 PM
Today my bail would be $640.

A little over a year ago it was $595.

$45 increase over a year? Sigh.....
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
dumped on facebook
Posted: 11/18/2009 9:30:37 PM
My niece was dumped on Facesplatt, too. She's fifteen.

Oh......

Seriously, you're 37? Oopsie, sorry 'bout that.

Gawd.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
A Hypothetical Situation
Posted: 11/18/2009 9:25:27 PM
I'm confused: How is this thread in any way a "Hypothetical Situation"?

Meh.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Book Suggestions
Posted: 11/8/2009 7:56:31 AM
Alice Sebold, I can't believe I forgot about her. Her novels The Lovely Bones (made in to a movie which I didn't see) and The Almost Moon are powerful reads. Her memoir about her rape, ironically enough called Lucky, was one of the best I've ever read.

The Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini were good too.

Jodi Picoult's book My Sister's Keeper made me cry. It was such a good book. I've read a few of her others, but unfortunately, once you've read one, you've basically read them all, in my opinion.

Robert Walker is an author who appeals to me because of the straight-forward way he has. He wrote The Bridges of Madison County and Slow Waltz Around Cedar Bend, which was the first book to make me cry.

Okay, I now have a pile of books that I want to reread. I've got to stop or I'll be reading them all again.

Wait, easy reads: the Harry Potter series (yes, I'm really 42) and books by J. D. Robb (pseudomyn of what's her face, Nora Roberts, whose books I don't really like). I also like the alphabet series by Sue Grafton and really anything by Janet Evanovich, especially the Stephanie Plum series. And I'll pick up a Deathlands book by James Axler every once in a while.

Are you sick of me yet?

 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Book Suggestions
Posted: 11/8/2009 6:59:47 AM
Well, I for one thought it was funny. Nothing wrong with injecting a little bit of humor in my opinion. And it kinda sorta was on topic

I'm a voracious reader. I started off with Douglas Adams and the Hitchhiker series (kind of leery about the sixth book in the trilogy since it wasn't written by Adams) and progressed in to Jean Auel and her ilk, such as the husband/wife team, the Gears. Then on to C.S. Lewis, J.R.R. Toilken, and Edgar Cayce.

Over the last few years however, I've found myself more drawn to the memoir genre. Not biographies of "famous people"; I'm talking about people that have had lives outside the norm.

I highly recommend Augusten Burrough's memoirs, he's written three of them so far, one of which was adapted in to a movie, Running With Scissors. The other two, Dry and A Wolf at the Table are pretty good reads as well.

I found another memoir on the sales table at Chapters one day. As soon as I can find it (if I haven't loaned it to someone and never had it returned) I'll let you know. It was about a young man who was going blind and was addicted to drugs and/or alcohol.

Beautiful Boy: A Father's Journey Through His Son's Addiction by David Sheff was powerful. His son, Nic Sheff, wrote the book Tweak, about his addiction to meth. I've been meaning to get Nic's book.

I also like Canadian author Miriam Toews. Her books are thoroughly enjoyable. Another author along the same lines is, hang on, gotta check the pile, Sue Miller.

Ami McKay's Birth House was a good book too. The Secret Life of Bees and The Mermaid Chair by Sue Monk Kidd are highly recommended.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith (which was published in 1943, surprisingly) and The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls (a memoir) are wonderful reads.

Really, if I listed all the books I've read, have enjoyed and highly recommend, the PoF police would probably cite me for taking over.

I'll add more as I go through the five banana boxes and various stacks of books I have all over the place.

The best/worst day of my life was when I donated over five hundred books to a book sale raising money for literacy

edit: I almost forgot Mitch Albom. I've never read Tuesdays with Morrie, but The Five People You Meet in Heaven and For One More Day were fricken tear jerkers, let me tell ya. I want to get his book Have a Little Faith.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Best friend was hitting on your spouse. What would you do?
Posted: 10/28/2009 5:38:59 PM
Get a shovel and start digging.

But that's just me :)
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Kissing cheating?
Posted: 10/23/2009 12:36:32 PM
Seriously, this is your THIRD thread about this same girl...and you're basically asking us to provide you with a loophole every time. Sadly, there is none.

The answer is still going to be the same regardless of how many threads you start: Move the frig on already.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
soldier looking for directions
Posted: 10/22/2009 8:20:54 PM
...unless he is looking for a man and should change "she" to "he".

 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
soldier looking for directions
Posted: 10/22/2009 8:11:30 PM
Honey, you may want to check the gender specification. You seemed to have checked looking for a man, but in the section describing what to do on a date, you refer to "she".

Might want to clear that right up.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
should i continue with her
Posted: 10/22/2009 9:16:37 AM
Dear lord boy, she's scamming you.....

Jeepers.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 54 (view)
 
What a Nerve A Question for the men
Posted: 10/19/2009 5:27:13 PM
Sticks and stones, people...sticks and stones.

Or wait, are we still in kindergarden?
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
is this just a womans thing or men do it also?
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:09:01 PM
Then I guess they shouldn't plan sleepovers on the same night.

But if they do? Then big creep-out full body shudder happening.

It's nice to be close to your family, but you just gotta draw the line somewhere.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
is this just a womans thing or men do it also?
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:01:47 PM
You don't mention whether there's an incestuous foursome waiting to happen.

If not, then what's the fricken big deal?
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Tattoos
Posted: 10/12/2009 6:46:13 PM
I have five (technically six) tattoos, all of which were done in Charlottetown.

Each has it's own significant meaning to me....can't be explained to anyone else.

And the pain in the main reason I continue to get them.

When I got my right ankle tattooed, I almost kicked the artist in the face at least three times. Those the kind of stories that you're interested in?

And yeah, it's the pain.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
What does it mean when a woman says...
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:27:18 PM
e) A combination of all of the above.

Probably. Sorry 'bout that.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Humor and jokes ....
Posted: 10/1/2009 6:35:38 PM
Some people have way way way way waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much time on their hands.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Married. So Why Is My Home Not His Home?
Posted: 10/1/2009 4:47:41 PM
Did I miss the OP leaving the house, so to speak?

Funny.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What is POF to you?......Hmm.... Plenty Of Freaks???
Posted: 9/17/2009 4:12:34 PM
Wow......I mean really, just "WOW".

Shaved, consider yourself lucky that if indeed you have turned down classy in the past, that your judgement was spot on.

Count your blessings.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
The Nice,Cool, and Interesting Thread..
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:56:55 PM
Hey, this was my first year seeing the fireflies, too. I would just sit on the back deck and watch them prance/fly/dance all around the backyard. It was pretty darn cool. Boyfriend thought I was nuts, but the fireflies are the least of the reasons ;)

I think it's pretty cool and kinda interesting that even after all these years, my freckles popping out all over the place when I'm in the sun still amazes me. I find new ones all the time.

And it continues to amaze me that a lot of people use stupid as their drug of choice.

Just saying.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Who is your dream gal/guy starlete etc...
Posted: 9/10/2009 5:26:33 PM
Well, yeah. That's why they call him "Inspector".

I gave this a lot of serious thought. Really, I did.

 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
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Who is your dream gal/guy starlete etc...
Posted: 9/10/2009 4:20:37 PM
Sam Elliott came a close second, but if I were stranded on a deserted island for a year with someone? I'd have to choose Inspector Gadget. C'mon now, he'd have anything a girl could ask for hiding beneath that trenchcoat...and he'd be good for a laugh.

As for romance? I'm betting he has a bathtub tucked away somewhere.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 67 (view)
 
FINDING OUT SECRETS
Posted: 8/11/2009 7:15:54 PM
Thanks for the link afashionlady, but I've been following that thread as well.

And idoc's g/f of six weeks has just shown up.

There's room on the couch if you don't wiggle too much.

Bring butter for the popcorn.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
FINDING OUT SECRETS
Posted: 8/11/2009 5:19:27 PM
I usually read an entire thread before posting my thoughts to the op (or feel the "pins and needles" in my hands from sitting on them...sheesh) but this time? Uh uh, I'm getting right to the point.

He lied: You both agreed to take your profiles off; you did, he didn't.

He cheated (figuratively/literally): He was corresponding with a woman who lives near him.

I love the fact that you "accidentally" figured out his password. And then you "pretty much told her to back off". Sorry, just had the pins and needles thing.

Grow up, kick him to the curb, concentrate on your kids and focus on figuring out why you continue to search out destructive relationships.

Now I'll go read the rest of the thread and see if anybody else feels the same way.

**Edit: Darn it all to blazes, I should have read the entire thread. I'll know better next time. Rock man? My hat's off to you.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 332 (view)
 
It's me
Posted: 2/27/2009 1:32:53 PM
Hey

Been in Freddy now for a whopping two weeks. Already have an SO but looking for friends who can appreciate the weirdness that is me.

Don't be shy to say hello IF all you're looking for is someone to hang out with. Cause that would be me.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
People who suck
Posted: 2/27/2009 1:29:36 PM
^^^ Made me snort my Ceasar through my nose...ouchie
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Is it o.k. to hint on flowers for St. Valentine?
Posted: 2/12/2009 5:20:28 AM

So that leaves me wondering if perhaps you’re the one who needs to get the hint here??


Yup, I'm thinking OP needs to get a clue. Especially after reading her thread history and her profile....especially the age part.

Dear god.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
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Is it o.k. to hint on flowers for St. Valentine?
Posted: 2/11/2009 4:26:05 PM
If he wants to take the time and use his internet access to send you flowers, I'm sure he will.

To "hint" about it? Just to show up a friend? To make yourself feel better? Get a grip.


I have never demanded anything from him and was patient and understanding.


Continue to do so then.


It is not about me being a demanding b"""" while he is at war and demand some stupid flowers.


Um, well it seems to be.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
How to help your love who's down but doesnt want warmth, comfort etc?
Posted: 2/8/2009 10:59:40 AM
Or you could post a new thread. Oh, wait....you already did.

How much is friendship and caring worth in the absence of affection?
Posted: 2/8/2009 1049 AM

Cheers and good luck.

**edit: I like how the dead clown face posted in the time line ^^^ Cool.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
The Girl Of my dreams
Posted: 2/6/2009 3:28:00 PM
Once again......Your fricken question is?

Why am I wasting my breath....er, fingers?

So that stoner thing, not quite working for you, huh?

**Note: I'm not a stoner and I was able to string three questions together. Yay me
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I dont love him
Posted: 2/6/2009 6:33:03 AM
Sasssie, sorry for your run of bad luck......I'm talking about not loving the guy with whom you are having a child.

Don't stay with a man you don't love just because you're preggers. The father can still be a good daddy and not be in a relationship with you.

Good luck, hun.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Is this weird?
Posted: 2/6/2009 5:11:02 AM

Trust me kissing frogs is not all it's cracked up to be hun.


Sniff, sniff. I take offense to that statement.



OT: Kiby, in order to find any peace with this, speak to your parents. Let them know how you feel and try to work something out in regards to having a social life, with boys in particular.

Good luck.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What about (pseudo) parents who let their children choose their friends
Posted: 2/4/2009 3:31:06 AM
Tyme......Tyme, Tyme, Tyme, Tyme, Tyme.

*shakes head*

I think I caught the gist of what you were trying to say. Next time you want to say something? Please edit, re-word if necessary, use spell check and then read it again. Oh and most importantly: If something pisses you off? Calm the hell down before posting...trust me on that one.

The post as it stands now? You are sooo gonna get ripped a new one by the posters. Sorry.

Just sayin'.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 2/4/2009 2:19:00 AM
I met my SO here. We chatted for a while and we each slowly started feeling those "butterflies", even before we actually met. Scared the bejeepers out of both of us.

But here we are now, six months later, and I still feel the butterflies.....when I talk to him, when I chat with him, when I think about him, when I see him, when he touches me, when he kisses me....

Gotta love those butterflies
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Would you become 'GOOD, CLOSE FRIENDS' with a MARRIED man or woman?
Posted: 2/2/2009 12:20:48 PM

I really like this guy (as a friend) and I would like to have him as a close friend, but is it crossing a boundary because he has a wife? And one who wouldn't know? (If I was married - and I was once - I'm not sure if I'd appreciate my husband forming a close friendship with a woman!


Are you insinuating that his wife would never know that her husband is friends with a single woman?

As far as I'm concerned, you've answered your own question.

And furthermore:

(Joe did say he finds me attractive, but would never act on it because he is married and also because he knows I won't date or be with a married man)


Definitely dangerous territory.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 104 (view)
 
Sensitive issues
Posted: 2/2/2009 9:33:55 AM
I'm not even bothering to read further, just the OP.

Unless you have a past with this girl i.e. chat/email, all you had, bub, was a one-night stand, exactly the same thing she had with you.

If this is the case? I commend you on being sensitive to her plight, but c'mon, it was a one night stand.

Now I'm going to go read the rest of the posts in your thread, and see how wide I should open my mouth for my foot.

Yup, it's gonna be one of those Mondays......sigh.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
a president of a dating site is quoted as saying this how does it make u feel reading his statement?
Posted: 2/1/2009 2:11:52 AM

i was just curious to know how does it make u feel knowing that a president of an online dating site says something so ignorant like that?

he says quote""Physical intimacy is no different than requiring oxygen to breathe or water to drink," "If it's missing in your relationship, I don't care who you are ... you're going to step outside your relationship. That's the bottom line."


Obviously the president of this "cheater's dating site" is stirring the pot in order to draw attention to his site.

How better to do it than with some controversy?
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Cuddling
Posted: 1/31/2009 11:39:23 PM
Cuddling/snuggling with or without clothes is a-okay in my books. Nothing like nestling in and listening to your lover's heartbeat....

But when I'm ready to sleep? Big hug, nice kiss, and we're rolling over. So long as one part of my body is touching his, I'll drift off to sleep with a smile on my face.

He's a damn fricken furnace, I'd melt if we stayed entwined all night.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 83 (view)
 
getting pregnant by someone u have been dating for a week
Posted: 1/31/2009 3:53:08 AM
Second and final announcement, after this, you folks are on your own:

OLD POST ALERT: OPENING POST WAS SEPTMBER 07 IN 2005.

Her decision has been made.

I'm sending a message to the mods about regurgitating posts this old.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 77 (view)
 
getting pregnant by someone u have been dating for a week
Posted: 1/30/2009 9:14:11 PM
Hate to point this out to all you well-meaning folks, but this thread began September 7.....2005.

 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Maybe they were all just screwy
Posted: 1/30/2009 9:04:15 AM
I've been lucky enough to find someone equally as screwy as I am. We're both a little left of center/off the wall/normal in an oh-not-so normal way.

I don't think anyone is "normal" anymore. What's normal for one is whacked out to another. We just need to find someone who suits us, normal/whacked out, whatever. Mental I can do without.

I'm just happy to have found my (dare we say it?) match?
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Do you want a drama free relationship?
Posted: 1/28/2009 4:05:32 PM
Wow.

I've read all your posts in this thread, OP, and I still have no idea what the fricken hell you're talking about.

Definitely come off as bitter, though, IMHO.

When people refer to "drama" in a relationship, they're usually referring to over-the-top emotional rants. Hmmmm.

Could be confused with "high maintenance" as well.

Just sayin'.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
would you date someone you were not attracted to?
Posted: 1/27/2009 9:16:54 PM
Pray for some level-headed women, deleting.

Cause I can just imagine how some might act.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
would you date someone you were not attracted to?
Posted: 1/27/2009 9:08:02 PM
Uh oh......

No worries, she'll see this on your profile and you're off the hook.

Oopsie, wonder how many ladies you're chatting with that will think this thread is about them.

Might need a new pole/bait/pond.

Good luck.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Dating or Friends with Benifits !!!
Posted: 1/27/2009 7:54:12 PM
Dating: the act of meeting with an individual to see if there is an attraction between the two, if likes/dislikes are similar, if physical chemistry is there, if there's a certain compatibility. This might lead to a commited/exclusive relationship (which would probably involve sex but would definitely involve emotional connection).

FWB (Friends With Benefits): Someone cool that you can hang out with, watch a hockey/baseball/football game with...and just as easily make out with on the couch/bump uglies in the bedroom and then finish watching the game. Usually done between two consenting adults who are not looking for an emotional attachment but who have that certain "itch" that needs to be scratch.

Fvck Buddies (aka "Booty Call"): he/she calls/knocks.....Wham bam orgasms, catch you next time, bubye now. No emotional attachment but might be a bit of physical attraction involved.

Of course, this is all my humble opinion.....and I'm probably right for me and wrong for others. It's all relative.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
strange situation
Posted: 1/27/2009 7:25:18 PM

I've been seeing this guy for a few months and I sensed he lost interest and ask whether the relationship is over and he denies, but he doesn't call and acts distantly whenever I had a chance to talk to him.


Trust your instinct; you sense he's lost interest? He probably has. Time to say bubye.

Or leave it as it is and lower your self-respect with every passing day.

Totally up to you.

edit: These quote thingies drive me absolutely insane. Just sayin.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
need review heres, new to the internets + lonely male
Posted: 1/27/2009 11:36:49 AM
Dude....just dude .

*shakes head disbelievingly*

I don't even know where to start.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
STOVE TOP RICE PUDDING
Posted: 1/27/2009 11:07:04 AM
Thanks, weiner....I did try googling it before but neglected to put the "stove top" description in. Another one of my moments

And thank you too, classic.
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
STOVE TOP RICE PUDDING
Posted: 1/27/2009 10:46:57 AM
I tried a thread search and found three recipes but all were for the oven.

I can remember my mom making rice pudding on the stove top with no raisins.

I've tried playing around on my own, but no luck. Can anyone help?
 forum_froggie
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
I guess I just called my girlfriend fat
Posted: 1/27/2009 8:26:49 AM
My, how refreshing!! A well-thought out and well-written thread topic.

I can't see how the conversation would have been improved had you been allowed to continue speaking. She obviously heard something that you unintentionally implied (God forbid) and was not willing or able to discuss it further at that time.

You're up the creek, pal, sorry to say.

Psssst....I would be a little concerned over her recurring "shushing" problem.
 
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