Well, 90% of women DO NOT enjoy it!

This feature would deffiently be nice to have. If you have emiled that person before it could say something simple like, the last time you sent this person a message was, something to that effect. I know that you can view your entire contact history, but when you are messaging other people, to have to go check your history everytime is painstaking. If I have messaged a lot of people, then I have to scroll through every page just to make sure I have not alredy messaged this person. It would just be easier to have something on the persons page when it loads that tells you if you have messaged them before. It would be a simple add in to the web page.

I was somewhat....er....sarcastic. If he were to look beyond looks and there was nothing else that attracted him, then maybe that would be a good indicator that this wouldn't be much of a connection?

If there's nothing of interest in her profile - why would you write to her in the first place?

How, exactly, do relationships come to women "out of the blue"? You mean, I can just sit at home by myself, in sweats and no makeup, never go out, never talk to people, and never join a dating website, and men will come knock on my door? Cool.

Yeah us Men have it harder because we usually have to take all of that emotional risks, we usually have to initiate everything in the beginning with women, we have to make the first move, start a conversation and keeping it going, ask them out on a date. It's also hard for us Men because we have to be careful what we say when we are trying to initiate a conversation with a women or trying to keep it going, we have to say the right things and at the right time, if Men make a mistake during a conversation, it's over, they have blown it, however, Women get more chances than Men do during initial conversations. If a Woman wants to start a conversation and break the ice with a Man, all she has to do is say "Hi", us Men have to come up with something more creative, many sentences to get a conversation going. It seems like Men are more receptive to Women starting a conversation with them than the other way around.

but I would not mind dating the late Bruce Lee!

So my question is, if a guy already has lots of women who think he's "fun", that he hangs out with, why does he need to come here and look for more? If guy has a lot of beautiful women already - what does he need me for? I not insecure, just realistic. Does he need a lot of women to validate himself? In that case he is insecure.

She is the body type 80% of men prefer

If I ever did get married (and yes, it'll be a stretch) and my wife porked up to the point that I didn't find her physically attractive, then yes, I'd leave her. Why would I want to be married to someone I'm not attracted to?