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*Surfgyrl*

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~~~The Barn - Sanford ~~~ Saturday 10/17/09 7:00pm to ??? Posted: 10/17/2009 9:42:34 AM
Brenda, What kind of drink specials are there gonna be? Candi

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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love Posted: 8/12/2009 8:57:14 AM
Since you are looking for a man to answer that question, (especially if both have met and have been steadily seeing each other) it will not happen. A man will not tell a woman what it takes for him to be completely in love with her, just like a woman will not tell a man what it takes for her to be completely turned on by him. :)

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Please explain Love Posted: 8/10/2009 5:56:52 AM
For men: "Love is the feeling they get on the head of their d*ck just before they come."

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Do women understand what a Posted: 7/18/2009 6:21:17 AM
That it is a way for women who like a certain guy to try and get him snared into a relationship thinking he will start wanting her more, but it is actually the opposite. He automatically thinks that she will want more out of the situation which is true. But now it is anytime a woman shows any interest the man thinks that way. Then he will say and do anything....dates, flowers, dinner, etc... to get her in bed and then start throwing in the fk buddy thing afterwards. Talking about it before hand is a joke. How do you know if you want him for a fk buddy before hand if you find out he really is no good at sex and you don't even get off? THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT WOMEN ALWAYS WANT MORE BECAUSE THEY CAN GET SEX WHENEVER THEY WANT AND A MAN CAN'T. "WOMEN WANT QUALITY AND MEN WANT QUANTITY." unless he can't get it ever and then when he does he keeps it around so he has at least something to f*k. How much more easier can we make it now for men?

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What do I do with a hot lady with a smelly pussi? Posted: 7/15/2009 11:29:23 PM
"I smell a rat and the wind is coming from your direction."

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When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape? Posted: 6/29/2009 5:25:09 AM
ALL GUILTY!! SLAM THE HAMMER!! Give me a break with the first pg. of this ole post where I get the sense of soooooooo many people saying..."Oh, and what are you doing takin home some.....yadda, yadda, yadda! Give me a break. I didn't get past the first page of post beore we get that sense of holier than thou among other things blended in with it to soften it with.

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The BEST crockpot recipes...please post yours~ Posted: 4/9/2009 12:53:02 AM
Me so hungy!!! Me go eat

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Photos that are not headshots/users face Posted: 4/9/2009 12:38:40 AM
I'd put one (a caption) if my photo hadn't vanished into thin air.

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Photos that are not headshots/users face Posted: 4/8/2009 8:19:55 PM
Well damn, I guess I should have not had my day at the beach wearing my sunglasses and a very clear head shot as my main pic for a Looooooooooong time..... And then "POOF"! Gone into the black hole and unretreivable. I should have maybe moved it from main shot before it got deleted. The LAWS will always change, and it is your responsibilioty to stay up with them or forfeit the game. That tics me off. Now my profile explains a picture and what I was doing that isn't even there anymore. Nice...

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Why Do People Cheat ? Posted: 4/8/2009 7:35:21 PM
EVERY woman desires to really be wanted, during sex the biggest turn on is to turn on the other person and really make them WANT you, the ultimate turn on for woman.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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How long do men feel the need to pursue? Posted: 3/17/2009 7:45:17 AM
Let's see, It seems that when the man knows that a woman gets interested, it means for more than just sex, and then poof they are gone. Why put any kind of work into it when it is so easy to find another woman who won't make him work for it. Then when he get's it he is gone any way.

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Older women are less inhibited? Posted: 3/16/2009 12:22:29 AM
No such thing as experience.

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Older women are less inhibited? Posted: 3/16/2009 12:16:08 AM
I am always less inhibited and it was nothing to do with age. It was because of that wonderful feeling of finally going over the edge for the first time, definitely making me want to be TOTALLY uninhibited and be able to let go forever!!! Never being satiated.

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He couldn't get it UP, should I give him another chance?? Posted: 3/15/2009 11:53:37 PM
Johnny, Augustus, Slim, Husky, Marathon Man!!! The names are killin' me What is with the names??

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He couldn't get it UP, should I give him another chance?? Posted: 3/15/2009 11:06:04 PM
forthisreason I once again am skimming along and someone makes some remark and then i glance over at their expression and laugh

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How many people have actually went on a date using this site? Posted: 3/8/2009 3:06:51 PM
Met two who looked nothing like their pictures, I had to scan the horizon to find them when I first arrived. I think the pictures should have to be updated periodically somehow or get on video cam first. Is that possible on POF?

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Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/8/2009 2:23:04 PM
"No more Mr. Nice Guy"... Anybody like to play out in the garden and pull weeds??? That would be doing good. Action speaks louder than words... We all know the codes and games that are played and created by men for each other to manipulate us and they are to "never break the code" amongst themselves to us. "Us women need to value ourselves more and see it for what it is." Women don't stick together like men do." "Good Men" is just another one of those gimmicks to use when they try to reel ya in.... To much effort when it is so easy to just go out and p/u someone.

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Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met Posted: 3/5/2009 7:22:11 AM
Did anyone mention maybe these guys thought that their looks didn't matter if they could find out if the woman would let him pay for a "date" with her? Just a thought.

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What do you think about dating on the REBOUND? Posted: 3/4/2009 8:46:19 AM
It doesn't seem to bother a man as amuch as a woman, and it is sooooo much easier for them. The only time I really see a man distraught over a woman is when he is the dumpee. Is it more of an ego thing? Why would someone even say "dumped"? You mean like trash. Men think with their heads women think more with their hearts. I wish I could think like that, then it would be so much easire to just go out and have sex. If I were a good lookin man I would have sex with every gorgeous woman I could. Honestly. I am gonna have to jump on that big white stallion !!!!! Might have to get my Lady Godiva on.

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What do you think about dating on the REBOUND? Posted: 3/4/2009 7:01:25 AM
Why is it that a woman on the rebound doesn't even want to think of another man right away but still wants to go out and try to have a good time and a man immediately goes out on a date with whoever? I just don't get it. Is it good or bad for you?

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Labia reduction surgery?? Posted: 3/4/2009 5:21:28 AM
Remember Fiona Flaps ?

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How fast is Too Fast? Posted: 3/3/2009 5:00:02 AM
How bout just having him pull up this thread??

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How would you feel if your partner required pre-marital counseling? Posted: 3/3/2009 4:57:05 AM
Outofthedesert, I will see little things that become big things later on, Isn't love supposed to be unconditional? And ya can't "change" people. I think most of women have become too desperate and most men have come with ways to keep us down for centuries, causing us not to require ANYTHING. I can name a few, Steve Harvey (the comedian) let us women in on a couple of them in his new book. The key is looking at yourself and truly deciding what you want in a person that you are marrying and going to grow old with. (Whew! Scary thought). By law, a man cannot touch a women, or kiss a woman, etc... without having her permission, so why don't we use that to our advantage and make him more of a gentleman that men are supposed to be? (Jus quotin Mr. Harvey).

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How would you feel if your partner required pre-marital counseling? Posted: 3/3/2009 4:42:52 AM
A pre-nup is never anything much except about MONEY. Period. I have senn a LOT of them. Anybody need me to fill out the forms for you?

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Too Old, Too Fat, Too Ugly, Too Dumb! Posted: 3/3/2009 4:28:20 AM
Hey Babe and Arcticdude, Goes back to the old sayings in one way or another that say; "Clean up you own backyard first," or "Can you look at yourself in the mirror everyday." Yadda, Yadda yadda. Application is all it takes. Sounds like a false sense of security.

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Too Old, Too Fat, Too Ugly, Too Dumb! Posted: 2/28/2009 7:21:53 AM
hey Cornelius, My x boyfriend who is american indian, has a son who looks just like you. I even went over to their house to pull you up and show him. Especially your main picture you have here. I tend to read your posts because of it. Your posts are definitely for real, almost to the point of giving guys secrets away, by the way you are. Just for all you peeps out there asking all these relationship questions, Steve Harvey just came out with a book called "Think like a Man, Act like a Lady" It is on the top sellers list, and he was just on the show called "The View". He said he wrote it to empower more women and the things that men have created to keep us down.

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Fear of relationship when having fun with someone you like Posted: 2/26/2009 6:57:26 PM
So the names change, but the game remains the same.

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Fear of relationship when having fun with someone you like Posted: 2/26/2009 6:53:13 PM
I may say that next time... about four-wheeling, fishing and fvcking, but not in that order.

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Fear of relationship when having fun with someone you like Posted: 2/25/2009 9:47:36 PM
Okay now, all you bashers can lay it on me now.... He has a girlfriend that he is on the rocks with and I have a boyfriend that I am on the rocks with. We used to stand and talk around the water cooler about how she is going through menopause and has not given him sex for a loooooooong time, and about how my boyfriend yelled at me at the top of his lungs and it shocked me so much when he yelled at me like a dog with no respect that I cried three times driving home. He would tell me how much money he spent on her, and even paid for her to go up north for xmas with her daughter to visit family. He told me she said: "I thought I was going to miss u when u were gone but I didn't miss u at all." She doesn't even want him to touch her, rub her back, and no physical contract except a quick kiss on the cheek and a hug when her sees her. That was very hard to believe, but it didn't matter. For some strange reason, suddenly I wanted to make him feel good and to make love to him after how much it bothered him and he seemed lonely and we got to know each other. So off we went into heaven... He even told me that he felt 40% that he wanted to be with me and 60% to be with her. So what, he has to close the deal??? Last but not least, he is having major financial problems with the economy the way it is.

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Fear of relationship when having fun with someone you like Posted: 2/25/2009 11:15:37 AM
Recently been seeing a guy that I knew through my work who says that every woman he has been with falls "in love" with him. I feel like that automatically makes me one of those women who use tactics to get him to "fall in love" with me too and that he is scared of that already. I feel like I have already been categorized as soon as we started really having fun and talking. He told me that he was scared because he enjoyed being with me so much, and we had wonderful sex. I just wanted to see him and go fishing and riding on the 4-wheeler, and have fun. Now all of a sudden I feel like he is not talking much to me anymore. I did tell him I really liked him too. Maybe that scared him. What I can't show affection? What he thinks now I want to marry him or something? I like being his friend and having sex too. Why is it that men can't show their feelings? It has been ingrained in their head since they were little boys. Just the word scares them. To me a man who can honestly show his feelings means he is more of a man and is not scared. I can't stand the big muscle men who act like they command their presence, and has a BIG truck and is so tough. Sorry to keep on about it it has just been buggin me for a long time.

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The Dreaded Are You Interested? Posted: 2/25/2009 5:59:34 AM
Kinda hard for some men to put much else in an intro when they are just emailing everyone looking for a "date".

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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 2/9/2009 8:10:04 AM
Was referring to the OP and u Mr. Church

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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 2/7/2009 1:56:46 PM
This is soooo much bs people don't even get it just like the above post. This guy above is making it it okay if a guy can do it and go get himself off and have threesomes at the same time for him as a man/boy. Maybe because they never get any and just go to the ho to get it in the mean time. And why are you so concerned what "the guys" care??? Oh, never mind, you care what the guys think so they don't let women, (girls you might like to fk in your case) know that you try to play like a decent guy just to get a PIECE OF ASS. (1) And condescending is referring to you with how you try to disrespect females and let everyone know about it making the female feel bad for having a THREESOME (and always being the protective one. ) just like you wanted to do if you even did it. You are just jealous because u can't get any, or as much as u want. Has nothing to do with who. Just go have fun and enjoy someone carefully without getting into a "relationship". Now she is a wh*e and all your "guys" will spread stuff around just to keep females from getting the hell away from u. because men are sooooooo jealous that they can't just go out and pick and choose like us women do and so try to turn it on us by making us feel like ho's and that is a form of control. No time taken even trying to think how a woman feels.

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I feel like I violated my sweetie pie.... Posted: 2/5/2009 8:42:23 PM
I can't quit laughing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My jaws are getting sore from gaggin' & laughin'!!!! Sometimes a gross thing can be loving.... OMG!! Stopppppppppppppp You people are killing me....

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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 2/5/2009 8:17:11 AM
"I've never done this before, but you're the best!"

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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 2/5/2009 8:02:17 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^5th post. "OP, sit back and ask yourself : if you could get that much ass, would you? and be honest with yourself." DITTO. OMG.....that is so funny, you did make me say OMG!

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test drive before buying? Posted: 2/5/2009 7:53:17 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^somewhere up there^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ "I agree with this too. It's not about how attracted to him I am because without that in the first place I don't consider going any further. Once the sex begins, however there has to be a chemistry there beyond that attraction, and a give-take ratio that works for each couple individually, or they're just not evenly matched. Same goes for personality and sense of humor, those things carry into the bedroom as well. It has to make sense to both to want to be there again the next time." Yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If it is good I'm cumming back.

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Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him? Posted: 2/2/2009 11:18:28 PM
Oh hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Would you become 'GOOD, CLOSE FRIENDS' with a MARRIED man or woman? Posted: 2/2/2009 10:58:48 PM
anenigma, I understand what you mean as far as the way women are a majority of the time w/ cattiness, etc... It is always involving "their" man. How much easier it is for a man to not have to worry about anything as long as when it comes to women fighting over them in one subtle way or not. If I were a man, What a TURN OFF! No one is ever owned. I also, have 3 brothers one twin and two older. I also took care of my Dad before he died. Seems like you need companionship. No need to defend yourself. All these posts made you lose track of what you were trying to understand about yourself. Bob makes you feel pretty and special, nothing wrong with that, but if he had sex with his wife just before seeing you at the bar, or talking to you, would he still be that interested in your "friendship?" "If it smells like a fish, if it looks like a fish, and it swims like a fish... it's probly a fish."

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When someone sticks their Tongue in your ear Posted: 1/12/2009 7:05:08 AM
Hi Everyone, I am just wondering why some people like to stick their tongue in other people's ears. I know men get turned on by someone nibbling on their ear lobe and their neck during sex, especially when the man is over you and he has a longer torso so it is easier for him to not have to bend his neck to kiss you, but what about him sticking his tongue in your ear. Does that mean he is ready to stick his tongue in other places? I guess any orifice will do? Personally I don't want to do to it, really.... Any thoughts?

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is sex everything in a relationship? Posted: 9/30/2008 9:54:37 AM
Sounds like an ego problem with trying to make your "partner" get off. It takes me a long time and men take it personally which doesn't help. (EGO) and it is always that they want to be bigger. (even though they know not needed for me)(EGO) Women can always tell when a man is just trying to satisfy them, and it makes them uncomfortable because he is not just letting go and doing what feels good for him too. It turns me more on when he is totally turned on. There are many times I don't get "satisfied" but I Love it all just the same. Men need to release, and it easier for them.

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ALONE FOR THE HOLIDAYS? how are you dealing with it? Posted: 12/24/2006 5:54:37 PM
Get high, and be more depressed.

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... * Posted: 10/4/2006 11:07:36 PM
I like the maturity of an older man but I still look very good and am too picky, I am just gonna go do a young pup...

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Is sweet attractive? Posted: 8/18/2006 10:13:50 AM
It could be that he is inaccessible because he has someone and says he is out of town, and can't be reached, and maybe wasn't sure about the first date before he could find out if he could get away. How good of friends are you with his mutual friend? and vice versa? Buddies will help each other to get a piece of a**. Not only that, considering all the variables, you need to know more about this guy, where does he actually live? Why haven't you told us about his work? What is it? Is he working on satellite towers? Are you sure he is even out of town? It sounds like he doesn't know your mutual friend that much or he would have told him more than you are just sweet, and maybe this friend doesn't want to tell you something. You need to give all of us more info. I love sweethearts as long as it isn't a mask for insecurity and it is genuine. To me, a man is more masculine if he isn't afraid to show his sweet vulnerable side. Girls and women are supposed to be sweet, maybe he likes sweet girls and is part of his fantasy to try and persuade you. If I were a man I would always go for the sweet girl.

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Can't see the forest for the trees Posted: 8/10/2006 9:10:35 PM
A person chooses to be a victim. Also, I disagree with the girl who said that the children should come first. Is this guy going to grow old with his children by his side? NO. they have lives of their own and when he gets old the children will be with their own families. And to pandora's big box, give it a rest.

*Surfgyrl*

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how to keep a man Posted: 8/10/2006 8:54:47 PM
Stomach full and balls empty!!! Never heard it put that way before....laughin' hard here!!!!

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Msg: 287 (view)

The Dog or the Girl? Posted: 8/7/2006 6:01:25 PM
How about the well behaved dog that follows the man around so close that you can't get next to him, and when he eats, the dog is within inches of his plate and then he feeds it off his plate and comments about how gentle it is by not taking off his finger while it drolls all over it. I am sooo turned off by it I can't even look any more. To I love canada, Your dog rules you.

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A Man and his Dog Posted: 8/7/2006 4:52:43 PM
What is with men and their dogs? This guy lets his dog come within one foot of his plate and then feeds the dog off his plate with the drool probably running down his fingers and then comments about how the dog is so gentle when he eats from him? I have told him I get turned off by it and he continues. what gives?

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The Chase Posted: 7/30/2006 12:39:59 PM
So much easier not having to do any work by not pursuing. That fish looks so good while it is being pulled into the boat to flop around and die once it is caught.

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Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship? Posted: 7/28/2006 8:07:02 AM
What is with the cheap comments? Who the f**k is for sale you idiot with the mullet?

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