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Joined: 12/15/2005

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Quick question Posted: 12/21/2005 11:31:55 PM
i think it is a little of both. when you are with someone you put out positive energy and that somehow attracts the opposite sex. and the other reason is that we as a people tend to want things we can't have. lovely29

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My first friends with benefits experience Posted: 12/21/2005 11:18:28 PM
He's fallen for you or you are putting it on him girl lol. If you don't want this to be a serious relationship you better sit down with him and talk about where you stand... lovely29

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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women? Posted: 12/21/2005 11:13:36 PM
Maybe they think they will be in constant competition with the "beautiful girls". Whatever! Everyone is beautiful in there own way. And you can't say who you will fall for.

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Marry an ugly woman Posted: 12/21/2005 11:02:47 PM
none taken, but Atone, whose to say what ugly is. Beauty is only in the eye of the beholder. You should do what is best for Atone. I mean you should listen to you gut instincts. Yes parents are wiser than we are but you know what you want and you don't seem like a shallow person so just do you sweety. Besides everyone is beautiful in their own way. You should give anyone that finds you interesting a try. You may meet you best friend one day or maybe your wife. lovely29

Joined: 12/15/2005

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And if she sleeps with you on the first date? Posted: 12/21/2005 10:54:38 PM
If you sleep with someone on the first date what do you have to look forward to other than doing it again. And then you may not get to get some again based on the fact that the guy has lost all respect for you because you did him on the first date. Come on girl think about it. A guy that looks for sex on the first date as well as a women isn't really looking for forever. They are looking for right now. I personally wouldn't do it on a first date because I have respect for myself and for the friendship/relationship that is to come. You can find anyone to do but if it is someone that you just met give that relationship a chance to blossom into something magical. And if anything else, you may just become friends with benefits... lovely29

Joined: 12/15/2005

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Would you do this for your lover?? Men and women please respond Posted: 12/21/2005 10:38:36 PM
okay first question : ARE YOU CRAZY? Why in the world would you do something like that. He needs to stand up and be a man and not hide behind his woman. You should not take the wrap because he has made mistakes in the past that has wrecked his reputation. No, please don't do it. Heck no it is not respectable of you to do this for your man it's actually dumb... And of course he is gonna tell you that because he is gonna come out on top in the whole situation. How do you know how his mom will react. Think long and hard about what you are about to do before you two make any decisions. lovely29

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Has anyone heard about the new child support law coming into effect? Posted: 12/21/2005 9:58:53 PM
this is new to me and girl north carolina laws are not that much better. cse sucks out here in Raleigh, NC. I mean the amount I receive for my son only pays for his lunch at school per week and to hear that they may make the cp pay support as well is just CRAZY.. I mean we only take care of them morning, noon and night. provide a place for them to stay and food for them to eat. Yes it is my responsibility and all but that makes no sense. Give me a break. But I too will do some investigating down here in the NC to let you know. This is just down right wrong if it is true. lovely29

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Why do women.... Posted: 12/21/2005 9:06:11 PM
hi. First of all not all women are ruthless. You just need to learn how to pick the ones that have not lost there everlasting minds. Some women do not know how to handle their hurt or pain so they tkae it out on the person that is closest to them or they feel like every man is spitting game on them. So my advice to you is to learn what women are not crazy. Learn how to base you approach on more that whatever you are basing it on. Whether it may be the way she looks or the way she treats you. Just remember the signs are always there even before you try to holla at her. The crazy ones are those that have there noses in the air, don't pay you any attention or ignores you. Just be mindful on what you are approaching and think long and hard about how you approach and when you do and start up a conversation, LISTEN, cause you can learn a lot in a short conversation. Find yourself some happiness, put that out in the world . Leave the negative thoughts about "all women" behind. Remeber you get back what you put out...... lovely29

Joined: 12/15/2005

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I need some help... Posted: 12/21/2005 8:52:33 PM
J9, I totally understand where you are coming from because I was in a relationship with someone for 41/2 years. We had a child and everything together and well I was staying in it for my son. But anyway he stole from me and yes he was in jail before I met him and I didn't find this out until we broke up but I loved him, even though he put me through hell. But just because you got one bad fruit doesn't mean that you will in up with another one. Don't take what someone else did to you out on someone new. You could be throwing away a great relationship. I'm not saying to put your whole heart and soul into this man but at least give him a chance. Hey you have known him for a while so you already know what you want to do. If he does it for you take it slow and give him a chance girl.... lovely29

Joined: 12/15/2005

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WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT? Posted: 12/21/2005 3:56:58 PM
OKAY HERE IS THE DEAL CAN ANY MAN OUT THERE TELL ME EXACTLY WHAT A MAN REALLY WANTS. WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR FROM A TO Z.

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