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Thirty and not married Posted: 12/21/2007 1:38:47 AM
31, single single single..... :)

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What exactly he wants? Posted: 10/15/2007 7:58:25 AM
I did try to communicate many times, each time he got annoyed and asked me why I keep telling him the same things, he said we should focus on working it out together in the future. I said I had to address the problem... and he was upset whenever I raised it up. He said he got it and let's don't ruin the time we were together to talk about all the negatives...... really I can't talk with him.

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What exactly he wants? Posted: 10/15/2007 5:11:18 AM
Take it slow doesn't mean a totally change, right?

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Am I playing the fool? Posted: 10/15/2007 1:44:57 AM
I am in the same boat, he was so into me at the beginning, phone calls, text messages, wanted to see me every single day. He was the one who intiated to have serious relationship with me..... but now, he just responds to my text, does what I requested him to do....

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What exactly he wants? Posted: 10/15/2007 12:46:41 AM
Hi all, I have been dating with divorced man (not recently divorced, but 2 years ago) nearly 3 months. During the first month, he did all the chase and told me that he felt so special on me, he used to call me and send me message few times a day, wanted to see me everyday, he said he wanted to have a serious relationship with me, he said he wanted to introduce all his friends to me, introduced his mum to me when she visits the city, promised to go for weekend getaway etc. . At that moment, I felt a bit too fast and told him I woud like to take it slow..... So everything went well, until after 4 weeks we have been out, he went back home for vacation and came back with him mum visited the my country.... since then, he was always busy (which is true, cos he put on webcam and let me watch him at work), didn't want to introduce his mum to me.... rare phone calls or messages from him anymore. When I was away for trip, he won't call me or text me, only replied me when I sent him... I told him I have noticed a big change and demanded for an explanation, he said he still loves me as what it used to be. I said I couldn't take that being left out, and really wanted to end everything, he was the one who said no and promised to change. He didn't ask me out much now, so what does he want?? Why hang on with me but do this to me?

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Is it just me or do women just start getting good after 30 Posted: 4/25/2007 3:38:59 AM
Definitely after 30. I turned 30 last year, and I felt I was truely a woman, and a golden age time of life. LOVE IT :)

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What are the secrets to keeping girls interested? Posted: 10/4/2006 10:26:08 PM
try to open up yourself, tell her your feeling.....

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He Loves Another Posted: 9/26/2006 7:51:10 PM
Spicyredhead, I am in the same situation, exactly the same, in fact, we have not cut off cleaarly yet and his silence tells me the answer, so you are not alone. I know is hurting, and when I think of losing someone who promised to take me out holidays, it hurts. When I think of not hearing his voice and seeing him again, it hurts. But what is best for us is to let go, to find someone deserves our love. If you need to someone to talk with, send me a mail, we can walk through it together Yours Bubu

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what did i do wrong????? Posted: 9/26/2006 2:03:09 AM
hi Teacup, I am in the same situation as you, right now. He kept promise to call me but never did, end up I called him and he found annoying. He is staying the other side on earth and before he left, he called and left a message said he loves me soo much and would call me as soon as he arrives, guess what he didn't, I then called him again, said he was busy and would call me later, that later of cause never happened........ but now I really stop calling, wait and see what happen. If he really cares, no matter what he will be in touch with you, otherwise, move on. I know is hard, trust me, I have been crying non-stop and thinking a lot of sweet things happened between us before, but we need to learn how to love ourselves more hun!!!!

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Any reason still hang around with your GF/BF, while you don't have love feeling anymore? Posted: 8/23/2006 8:43:56 PM
I am curious too, but it does happen, not to me, but to someones I know, that's y I want to find out why why why???

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Any reason still hang around with your GF/BF, while you don't have love feeling anymore? Posted: 8/23/2006 8:40:19 PM
What I mean is still staying together, being a couple in front of friends, doing all those things which normal couple would do, but you both realise that the love feeling is not there anymore?

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Any reason still hang around with your GF/BF, while you don't have love feeling anymore? Posted: 8/23/2006 8:28:17 PM
Is that possible to hang around with your GF/BF, while you guys don't have love feeling to each other anymore?

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would you go overseas to find your true love ? Posted: 7/27/2006 10:19:45 PM
[I know 99.999999% of the overseas females only want a ticket into the U.S] I ve been to the US more than 10 times and when I landed, I just wanted to leave immediately...lol, I must be the 0.0000001% on earth. I would go all over the world, not to find the true love but to enjoy my life!!

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I love u but u r not the one for me Posted: 6/28/2006 8:23:04 AM
My friend recently asked me a question, she has been going out with a guy for 1 year, and they both admitted that that is Love between each others. One day she told him "u r the one for me, do u think I am the one for u?" The guy replied "I dunno, I am not sure if I am the one for u, and I think I haven't find the one yet" Of cos she was so upset. She now asking me why he kept saying he loves her but she is not the one? Any thoughts?

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Going to Israel.... Posted: 6/8/2006 2:04:28 AM
I am so excited.... counting down two weeks...... Any advice? Travelling tips there?

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When do you tell someone you love them? Posted: 6/8/2006 1:39:13 AM
Just follow what ur heart says.

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What Has Been Your most Romantic Memory????? Posted: 6/8/2006 1:09:01 AM
A helicopter ride with my mr.

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Is he worth for me to wait? Posted: 5/27/2006 7:23:43 AM
Thanks guys, I told him I will wait for one year. I also told him is hard for me to be friend with him anymore if things doesn't work out. But I really doubt if I can really do it, only occasionally phone calls, emails, msn cannot ease my pain.... I am struggling should I cut him off right away.......

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Is he worth for me to wait? Posted: 5/27/2006 7:09:04 AM
I wish I could find someone else, but things not that easy.

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Is he worth for me to wait? Posted: 5/27/2006 6:33:10 AM
Sparticuss,I don't think he travels extensively in order to avoid her, is because of his job. Honestly I totally know he is a cheater, and doesn't deserve my love, but when it comes by u, the feeling of being with someone, u can totally be urself, feel the love, feel the care from him, those I have really missed out for looonnngggg time, I couldn't resist. We were so compatible together. Another question, can man's tear be faken? When he left, I didn't see him off, and he was in his hotel to pack alone, he suddenly called me and cried and said he didn't want to leave, gonna miss me so much, my heart totally felt into him......

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Is he worth for me to wait? Posted: 5/27/2006 6:00:15 AM
I know my situation isn't doing any good to me and trying to be strong, told myself that he is not worth. But when his calls in, I became weak again.......

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Is he worth for me to wait? Posted: 5/27/2006 5:02:46 AM
Dear all, I am really in pain, please advise.... A year ago, I met a guy online, he was on his business trip for 8 months in my territory.He told me he has a GF for 7 years, and had lots of problem, since he travelled lots, hardly to be with her, the crush on her has gone. I really treated him as good friend and we could talk everything and we shared more. We finally met and he fell for me, we then had sex, but I still stayed alert and didn't want to lose the friendship, and also I didn't want to be the third person...but I really have fallen in love with him. He is kindda person doesn't like to speak much about his feeling but all shown that he had the same feeling to me. So we still keep each other company during all weekends until 4 months later, he left, but he said he will come back for another 4 months. When he came back in Jan this year, we found out that we missed each other so much and really fell in love with each others..... weeks before he left, he finally opened up his heart and told me he loved me. He wanted to do some other things he is interest in, but too much worries about everything. He cried and said he gonna miss me so much and didn't want to leave, he loves me but has no right to ask me to wait for him, as he wants to settle everything before he promise me with anything. I therefore said I will wait for him...... Now, 3 days after he left, I was so in pain by not able to see him, not able to talk to him freely as he still sort of staying with his GF. Just talked to him on phone, I asked him if he still have the crush on me, he said yes, but he really needs to settle things at home first. Should I wait for him? Please advise, I am starting to think too much, and I couldn't sleep at all sinc he left. Thanks much!

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Is it possible to be not built for relationships? Posted: 3/13/2006 5:32:41 AM
I have the same feeling too, I always think I am not meant to be in relationships. All guys I found them attractive were those who just wanted sex or as special friends. For those who wanted to start a serious relationship with me were not my cup of tea... that's life, isn't it?

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What if a man asks for ur HIV test before he orals u? Posted: 1/26/2006 11:43:37 PM
lol talking about the belittled guy........ same feeling too!

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What if a man asks for ur HIV test before he orals u? Posted: 1/26/2006 11:34:30 PM
What would u response if a man asked for ur HIV test before he orals u?

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