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geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 116 (view)

Movie Reviews Posted: 3/6/2007 9:56:35 AM
The Number 23: Um... different. Not bad, not great... not quite a thriller, not quite a mystery, not really heartwarming, not too creepy... it doesn't really fall into any real genre for me. I don't know what score I'd give it, probably about 64%. . . And, recently I've watched a couple older movies on video... Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels: 4.5/5 A mishmash of criminal misadventures, some violence and choice dialogue. Jason Statham's in this one (The Transporter 1 and 2, Crank, Mean Machine. Oh, watch Mean Machine too.) The Master of the Flying Guillotine versus The One Armed Boxer: 2/5 for a "normal" movie, 4/5 for what it is... which is a horrible, loveable kung-fu movie. It happens to be one of Quentin Tarantino's favourites. Features the One Armed Boxer as a main character, obviously a guy with one arm either in his shirt behind his back or in his shirt in front of his belly. Classic.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 113 (view)

Movie Reviews Posted: 2/26/2007 1:02:59 AM
Ghost Rider. Don't bother. It's mostly drek and I usually LIKE superhero movies. The Blood Diamond. Besides Leo's accent roaming around somewhere (and the fact that I'm not a fan of Leonardo D.) the movie is amazing and gripping. It makes you stop and think about how good we have it in NS. It also makes you think about how evil, and how good, a human being can be. Those are the only two new-ish movies I've seen recently.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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What is up this Friday/Saturday? Posted: 2/24/2007 2:40:15 PM
I'm being all boring and working. Yay.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Giving something up for Lent? Posted: 2/22/2007 10:27:58 PM
I'm with Professor Random Danger, I've given up Lent a LONG time ago. I was raised Roman Catholic, so it's something I used to do. Can't say that I'm religious any longer so I gave up giving up things for lent. :P I think if I were to give something up for a spiritual reason it'd have to be something I really like to do, or a food I love or something along that line. I think some people give up really easy things because they want to participate but either don't understand why they're giving something up or simply don't really believe but want the facade of being a believer so they still "belong" to the group. I would say that if you don't give up something that you truly enjoy then you're missing the point. It'd be like a non-smoker giving up smoking for Lent or someone (like me) who's allergic to a food giving that up. . . defeats the purpose. Just my 2 cents on the whole thing. Oh, and if it doesn't make 100% sense, it's because I just woke up. :D Yes, that's my disclaimer. <-- I love this little guy. :D

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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VALENTINES AT The Warehouse Feb 17th Posted: 2/9/2007 2:43:02 PM
Paige: MO == Modus Operandi From Meriam-Webster: a method of procedure; especially : a distinct pattern or method of operation that indicates or suggests the work of a single criminal in more than one crime Yes, it should be a fun time. I'm going to try to attend, and I hope all those who are hesitant about attending decide to come out as well. It's always fun! <-- I love that little guy.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 101 (view)

VALENTINES AT The Warehouse Feb 17th Posted: 2/4/2007 11:43:24 PM
She means dress up as in wear something classy, instead of jeans and t-shirts (which is most likely what I'll have on. :D) It's open to everyone 19+ because it's a bar, and these events are always fun. If you're contemplating coming out but don't know anyone, post something here. Say hello to someone who's going and show up for a fun night out.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Sex horoscopes Posted: 2/2/2007 7:59:24 PM
They're all essentially the same...

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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I'm blonde...not stupid Posted: 1/30/2007 9:41:52 AM
It really doesn't make a difference. People do have a hair colour preference though. I don't, really, but more of a certain "look" that I tend to like.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Roses and peeping Posted: 1/26/2007 5:36:14 AM
Everything you mentioned is completely possible, Synergy. I probably will never send a "rose" on here but it's a nice gesture, I guess. The favourite list does have that kind of feature, but not everyone can see it. :D Fun stuff! I believe that for some people, Late, it'll be a HUGE logical leap. If you see a profile feature, you can safely assume it's been thought out with the purpose of the site in mind, and not the <1% of the user-base who frequent forums. Um... I can't guarantee that's the truth. Many large and small corporations implement ideas based on a whim, especially if it comes from a "boss" or someone important. Some of the worst decisions are made that way but when the big cheese says, "This is how it's going to go." then that's how it goes. I'm not against the new "rose" feature at all. It seems rather hokey to me, and I don't really think it's a necessity for this website. I would be willing to wager that a large number of the users will enjoy it and make good use of it so... why not? :D I'm ending this with this little guy 'cause I like him too much. I hope he never goes away.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Roses and peeping Posted: 1/25/2007 11:40:05 PM
The roses: Cheesy. People seeing that I took a peek at their profile: I don't mind. I'm sure the forum trolls who look but never speak will have an issue with that and turn it off though. :P Explain things as eloquently as you like (and you certainly did... which was nice to see) but people will formulate various opinions about the new "features" regardless of the intent.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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just want to know Posted: 1/25/2007 4:21:58 PM
1- Are you homophobic? Nope, not at all. 2- How do you feel about gay marriage? I have no issues with it whatsoever, I feel that if two consenting adults want to be married then what difference should gender make? 3- What occupation are/were your parents in? Banking/Vehicle repairs. 4- How do you feel about door-to-door "preachers"? I usually scare 'em off somehow, but to each their own. 5- How much does one's religion play into your determination of compatibility? Somewhat, faith is necessary for some people, not for others. I couldn't be with someone who's extremely religious, I don't think. 6- Ever accidentally farted on a date? Were you able to hide it? Probably, probably. 7- Ever thrown up in view of others in public? Yeah, but when you're sick.. what can you do? 8- Favorite style of food? The kind that goes in my belly. 9- Ever cracked up laughing during sex? Why? Yes. It's a long story. 10- If you could choose a POF party theme, what would it be? (example, club, bar, karaoke, hot tub, etc). Pub with good food, music and conversation. That or card party #2! 11- What movies have scared the living "poop" out of you? Uh.. none since I was knee high to a grasshopper. 12- Do you enjoy pranking people? Give examples. No. 13- What is the best prank that has been pulled on you? I don't usually have them pulled on me. 14- When is the last time you were in a physical fight if ever? It's been ages. 15- Do you condone casual sex? I won't not NOT condone it. It's good for some people, bad for others. That's it. 16- When is the last time you got drunk? . . . heh. . . does now count? 17- What happened last time you laughed until you cried (What caused it)? I was at a comedy show with my amazing ex-gf, as a birthday gift to me from her. I had such a good time I laughed until tears came to my eyes. 18- Does someone's political views enter into your determination of compatibility? I'm not overly political, so not unless they're extreme or militant in their views. 19- If you could party with any POF members, who would be your top choices? (You obviously don't have to include me just because I am asking)....and why? Darn near any and all of 'em. :D 20- Do you watch adult films? (For you aggies that means x-rated) Most of us do. ;)

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Coffee or Tea - the great debate begins. Posted: 1/17/2007 12:45:09 PM
The great debate ends here... The winner is... whatever you prefer to drink.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Making assumptions and your personality temperment Posted: 1/17/2007 12:44:14 PM
Temperament Score Idealist 9 Rationalist 9 Traditionalist 9 Hedonist 3 Your temperament type is undetermined. Haha, I broke it, too.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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A plea to the men Posted: 1/15/2007 2:01:08 AM
I'm not saying a guy who wears pink is not masculine....I guess I sort of see it as a sign a guy is trying hard to be trendy....and well i guess I'm just not attracted to that...I don't like pretty boys.....or guys who spend a lot of time focusing on how they look....same as I don't like girls like that either lol Sounds like you want a boy like me. I do not succumb to trends at all... :P Seriosly though, I can't handle anyone who focuses too much on how the look. What is the point of all that? I don't get it. Sesain: Good luck ripping into me if I wear a pink shirt. . .

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Fav. catagory of movies? Posted: 1/13/2007 10:21:45 PM
The kind that don't make me want to get my money and/or time back for watching them.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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A plea to the men Posted: 1/12/2007 8:26:28 PM
cough It's not pink. It's salmon, or dusty rose. :P

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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meeting people in NS Posted: 1/10/2007 5:47:23 PM
Well, your profile is too short and has no pictures on it at all. Try filling it out a bit more, put in some effort. I've met quite a few Halifax PoF'ers, and I've only been on the site for a year or so. So.. fill out your profile and put up a pic, or at least have one you can e-mail to people... plus, try starting up or posting on some meaningful forum topics.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Dealing with Arrogance Posted: 1/10/2007 4:28:59 PM
I love arrogant people. . . I love giving them verbal smackdowns. :P

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Youth violence in Nova Scotia, Is it out of control Posted: 1/8/2007 12:31:51 PM
I feel that it is not the community's problem, it's the lack of parental guidance followed by a judicial system that doesn't really work when it comes to punishing juveniles. Nothing is easy these days, kids grow up faster than we did as children and it seems that the world is a harsher place than the one I grew up in. Semper Vera: I am not saying physically punishing a child every time they do something wrong, but when all other options fail you have to do something. I do not think people shoud be running around beating their kids every time they do something wrong. If a child is out of control physically, for example, and you have to physically restrain them you should not be worried about charges being laid against you for doing so. I am rather glad that when I did things I really should not have done as a child that I was corrected. I don't tend to believe any published statistics on, well, anything really. . . so I don't believe that violent crime has decreased. If you've been downtown on a week-end, you've probably seen something happen. If you've read a newspaper or spoken with a cab driver, you'll find all kinds of things happening. I've noticed an increase since the first year I lived in Halifax so I can't see how it's lower now. JMHO

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Youth violence in Nova Scotia, Is it out of control Posted: 1/7/2007 2:19:24 PM
Ever since parents have not been allowed to proper discipline their children we have been having these problems, and unless the youth justice system gets a MAJOR overhaul nothing will be done about it. It's gotten to the point where I worry about larger groups of kids at night and will try to avoid them or at least stay out of their way. I have been accosted by small groups of kids in the past, one even demanded something that I was carrying with me. I refused and told the two kids to be on their way, but the kid could have had a pistol or other weapon. They were both wearing masks covering their faces and were attempting to be intimidating. If I'd reported it to the police, what could they possibly do under the current laws? And, of course, you don't want to go doing anything TO the kids or even try to intimidate them back for fear of being charged yourself... a fear they don't have. It's the way things are, I just hope that some change is in the works.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Your favorite place to hike in N.S. Posted: 1/6/2007 10:55:33 PM
Back from the bars to my place. :P Typical Nova Scotian answer!

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Body rubs or sex?? Posted: 1/6/2007 10:43:56 PM
Some of us have to take what we can get. :P

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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POF Party at the Warehouse Jan 6th 9PM Posted: 1/6/2007 10:38:22 PM
Great to see everyone again, and glad some of you decided to come out for the first time. Fantastic crowd and turnout! I can't wait for the next one! For some of you folks who got me confused with someone else.. just imagine me with a beard.... I'm not who you thought I was. :P -geekguy

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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NS Minimum Wage Posted: 1/4/2007 8:03:24 PM
It's pretty sad when people in prison get better lodgings, food, education and PROMPT medical attention...

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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NS Minimum Wage Posted: 1/4/2007 3:46:27 PM
Part of the problem is that the government lets people like CEO's get away with making ten times more in one year than most of us will ever see in a lifetime. The taxation system hoses the little guy and rewards the big guy. Overall it's a corrupt system that most politicians are a PART of, which is why it's not going to change anytime soon. That's about all I have to say about that.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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F.E.A.R. Posted: 1/1/2007 1:20:30 AM
The game's got a creepy factor going on, but I wouldn't call it scary either. F.E.A.R. has half decent enemy AI, but it does fail here and there. The enemy WILL fall back and flank you from time to time but, as usual, your character is better than they are so it shouldn't be TOO much of a problem. I did enjoy the game, but found the multiplayer lacking. The game has been patched quite a lot since I've played, which would have been back when it first came out, so hopefully they've fixed the multiplayer. I recommend it, especially if you can get the game for a bargain price. I've got a mediocre system compared to what many people have these days and it runs just fine for me. p4 2.4, 1 gig ram, x1600 pro 512 agp 8x, sata hdd and it seems to run smoothly in 1024x768. I hear lots of people with dual core systems having issues with various games that seem to zip along happily on my older CPU.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Happy New Years!! Posted: 1/1/2007 1:16:23 AM
Happy thing and such to everyone who celebrates the holidays. To the rest of ya... lighten up will ya? :D Wow, it's WAY past my bedtime... hehe.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Would any of you want a chance at Flavor Flave? Posted: 12/30/2006 9:21:34 AM
He may be degrading the women on the show, but they're practically begging for it just by being there. I do think that most of them must be getting a pretty hefty cheque just to be on that show and most likely have no interest in "The Flav" at all.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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POF Party at the Warehouse Jan 6th 9PM Posted: 12/30/2006 9:18:42 AM
Quite a few people do show up but many are too shy to approach someone they don't know but that's what these events are for, after all. Go say hello to people. If you don't know anyone and are too shy to start saying hello to people you don't know yet then make some noise on the forums and chat with folks here first. When you get there you'll know a few people, and they'll probably introduce you to even more. Just go out and have a good time, these events are a lot of fun.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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I make only one Posted: 12/28/2006 3:47:06 PM
I made a resolution once to never make resolutions again. I've kept it thus far. :D

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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List of Questions!!!! Posted: 12/28/2006 3:43:44 PM
1- Nope, I wouldn't inflict that on everyone. Eww. 2- I don't own a vehicle. 3- No comment. 4- Variety is the spice of life. :D 5- My parents. 6- Looks are important to an extent but it's about the whole package. 7- No comment. 8- Yep. 9- Nerdy, smart people. 10- Nope. 11- Meh. 12- Allergic to cats, but I like both. 13- Life in general. :P 14- Eyes. 15- Hell no. 16- Too many to list. 17- Probably not. 18- Yes. 19- Good, overall. 20- Never. 21- None, none, anything that's catchy, casual/relaxed. 22- Hair's hair. As long as it looks good to the person wearin' the haircut. 23- No comment. 24- I'd move if it felt right to do so. 25- Too numerous to list. 26- Nope, I know how to tell 'em. 27- It's okay to go on dates with people, it's not okay to "go steady" with multiple people. 28- No comment. 29- Yes. 30- Sit if it's clean, wait (if possible) if it isn't. phew. Long list.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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critique my profile Posted: 12/28/2006 10:49:08 AM
Not bad, put a pic of just YOU in there, people won't know who you are. It's too short for my tastes, but then I wrote a novel. I'd go for a few more paragraphs if I were you. Oh, and capitalization never hurts... :P

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Norwark virus is hitting us hard..... Posted: 12/28/2006 10:47:27 AM
Sounds like the big panic we had a few years ago about some illness that nobody really remembers now because it wasn't as dangerous as the media made people think. Mountains out of molehills... Yes, we do over-use anti-bacterial soaps, etc. It means that only the strong bacteria survives and thrives... we're making things worse by cleansing everything so much. Also, people taking antibiotics for every case of the sniffles aren't helping matters either..

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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The Science of Sex Posted: 12/24/2006 2:36:00 AM
I've spoken with some women who are able to achieve female ejaculation (aka g-spot orgasm) who say that they feel satisfied and somewhat drained after having one, something that they don't feel when they achieve only orgasms. Otherwise, sounds about right.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Broken Heart Posted: 12/20/2006 4:01:53 PM
I disagree, there IS such a thing as Karma. It is true, however, that some people are their own worst enemy.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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haliax regional school board dismisal Posted: 12/19/2006 3:18:38 PM
It's a fantastic idea because the people on the board would get nothing done in hours and hours of meetings, they would even argue about where people were supposed to sit and what time the snacks should arrive. Their performance was dismal, and their dismissal was long overdue. I'd rather see a modified system than the mire of political red tape that we've managed to create for ourselves. I like the idea of democracy, but someone has to step in when things get to the point where they're wastes of both money and time. Perhaps an impartial facilitator who would force things to get done. I don't know how to fix the problem, just that there IS a problem that needs fixin'.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Broken Heart Posted: 12/19/2006 8:05:15 AM
Yes, that does hurt. It happens, and I've just been in a similar situation. Someone I recently met, and felt really good about, went back to her ex to give it that one final try. I think everyone can be on either side of that though, and sometimes we move into something new when the time isn't quite right. If I loved someone who came to me and said they wanted to give it another shot, I'd be hard pressed to say no. However, if I'd just moved in with my current girlfriend, I'd have to give the ex the "Too little, too late." speech.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Walmart going 24 - 7 Posted: 12/18/2006 12:31:38 PM
There is really no need for anything to be open 24 hours except for gas stations - for obvious reasons. People have very little patience to wait for anything these days and will always be in want of something. I sort-of agree but what about those of us who don't have 9 to 5 jobs and work week-ends? I've always been a supporter of stores being open every day IF they want to be and wouldn't have any problem with any store being open 24 hours/day either. Why would you say gas stations are so important that they should be open 24/7 and nothing else like a 24 hour pharmacy/drug store or restaurant? I could argue that people should think ahead so they won't run out of gas at 3 a.m., but that's not the way the world works so if someone wants to buy a tent at Wal-Mart at 2 in the morning, why not let them?

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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POF Party at the Warehouse Jan 6th 9PM Posted: 12/15/2006 9:04:19 PM
Not sure if I CAN make it but I will attempt to. Since I'm not 100% sure I will not be signing up. Hopefully it's as fun as the last few events! Thanks to the organizer(s)!

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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Xmas music Posted: 12/14/2006 4:45:39 PM
Cant' stand most Xmas music... drives me bonkers. Yes, I worked in a shopping mall around Xmas once... and yes, that's affected how I feel about it.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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My Boyfriend flerts Posted: 12/13/2006 3:21:53 PM
Yes, yes we are.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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You know he/she is cheap when... Posted: 12/6/2006 6:35:27 PM
You're both completely wrong. I AM the kind of guy who WILL pick up the bill for dinner dates, for example, but I'm also the kind of guy who will let someone make a decision and won't assume they're trying to trick me when they offer to pay for half. You're being pretty damn shallow if you offer and then refuse a second date based on only that. But... to each their own. If he can't afford to pay the bills on the dates, he will never afford to pay for anything else. Um... what if he's testing you to see if you're gold digging? What if he wants to see if you're willing to pay for half of the meal on the first dinner date just to make sure you like the guy for who he is not what's in his wallet? Don't be so quick to judge someone based on such a petty thing. Open your mind a tad. I don't think I'm the one that needs things explained, Mac. Thanks for the effort, however.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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You know he/she is cheap when... Posted: 12/6/2006 11:47:56 AM
Well, you've just categorized yourself. If you don't want to pay, don't offer to pay. Treating someone like a human being and being honest with them is far more important (in my opinion) than offering to let you pay for your half when you are really doing it to find out if they are what you consider to be cheap. Someone tells me they want one thing when they actually want another, well, that's lying. Far worse than letting you do something you offered to do. And... Since when should the MAN be the one to pay for everything and assume the responsibilities when HE has to? If I'm in a relationship, it's a two way street. I'm not footing the bill so someone can take it easy and be "treated like a lady". You're basically saying you want the man to be responsible so you can do whatever you want, and not have to worry about it. I could be wrong but that sounds like gold digging to me.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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If a teacher is homophobic should they be teaching children? Posted: 12/6/2006 11:43:13 AM
I guess it boils down to what each of us considers normal.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

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If a teacher is homophobic should they be teaching children? Posted: 12/6/2006 2:59:08 AM
You can't tell by looking, but I'm afraid of both heights and snakes. I don't know why, I just am. You can't tell someone's homophobic by looking either, or agrophobic. If someone is teaching kids and has any phobias they should be allowed to continue as long as they're not skewing the information based on it. I'm not going to tell kids they can't go in elevators or shouldn't live on any floor above the 3d in a building because it's too high. I'm not going to tell them not to have a pet snake because I'm afraid of them. As long as the homophobic person isn't teaching that homosexuality is wrong, then I think it's okay for them to teach. The trouble here is if these people are inflicting their views about homosexuality on children, well, that's not acceptable. Teachers influence us during our impressionable years. I do feel that regardless of whether or not they openly display their phobias that it could have an affect. Kids tend to pick up on a lot of things that adults miss. I do agree that it depends on the age of the audience. Someone who is still rapidly developing their own world views, their own ideas about things, shouldn't be so influenced... but it happens. Kids are raised by racist parents, children have drug addicted parents... they see violence everywhere. The world is a crazy place... Basically as previously postd, if it's NOT affecting the development of that child's morality and views then it's not an issue. Everyone has to decide for themselves what they feel is right and wrong, but at the same time we are all influenced in some way by what others say and do. It's too bad we just can't all get along. I can't resist mentioning that a lot of children, at very young ages, are taught that homosexuality is wrong. Often that teaching comes from parents or community and religious leaders. I can't see the homophobic teacher who doesn't let it come up or out during class having as much impact as, say, the preacher (of random faith) telling you it's wrong and you're going to you-know-where (random place of punishment based on faith) if you even think about it. We shouldn't try to change who we are or what we like because someone tells us it's wrong. Everyone's different... if we weren't then life would be awfully boring, no? :D

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 25 (view)

You know he/she is cheap when... Posted: 12/6/2006 2:49:03 AM
Seems like CJ is right. At least OFFER to cover half. If it's a mutual decision to go out, usually it's safe to assume pay for your own. If someone's inviting you out and makes a big deal out of doing so, they're probably expecting to pay for the whole thing. Handle it on a case-by-case basis... but don't be cheap and expect it every time. If I can't afford to do something for whatever reason I'll be up front about it during the planning stage. Yes, cheapos, before you GET there. It's very awkward to tell your date when you finish your second slice of cheesecake after a gourmet meal that you can't really afford to eat at Chez Wherever. If you're up front about it, and offer to get the NEXT meal, then maybe they'll cover you this time. If you aren't, you probably won't get to have another lunch date with that particular person. Indicating bad services at a restaurant - 1 cent is the golden rule - never heard of 2 cents! Maybe that's being generous on the insult in services - lol. At one time including a penny with the tip meant "Great service, thank you!" Putting only a penny would get the point across, I guess, since leaving no tip often means that you're either just cheap or mostly broke at that point. Usually I like to point it out to either the server OR, failing any kind of acceptable attention or service from said server(and I've recently run into that), the management. That way they KNOW they messed up and, with luck, the customer will be satisfied with how the problem was handled. I went out recently somewhere, had horrid service with cold, bland and improperly cooked food. The server didn't seem to care, another server from another section did more than our server did to rectify the situation. I have to admit that it wasn't more than telling OUR server about the first of many issues with the food that arrived at our table.. but at least they did something. It was to the point where I didn't want to ever eat there again, but the manager recovered somewhat with some gift certificates. I still don't think I'll be going back, I'm sick of bad food and unacceptable service in restaurants around Halifax. It's been going downhill lately, though I must admit that I've been to a few places that have "WOWed" me every single time. If you ask me, my entire meal (except the drinks and dessert, which were fine) should have been comped, or re-cooked when I pointed out the problems. You don't offer to "warm up" someone's food. You go get them a new meal. A (supposedly) decent restaurant where the bill climbs quickly toward 80 dollars for two people should not be offering to microwave your meal for you to heat it back up when it arrives at the table COLD, even McGeneric Fast Foody's doesn't do that. Ah, sorry about the rant... I guess that it's still driving me nuts two weeks later.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

Prenups...Good, Bad, indifferent? Posted: 12/3/2006 6:32:16 PM
Hmm.. yes, I wouldn't want kids to suffer in such a situation. It's too bad all this weasel-speak(legal-eze) is necessary these days. One SHOULD be able to leave with what they brought. If I bring 10% and the other person brings 90%, then when we leave I shouldn't be getting 50%... just my 10%. Seems simple, but our society seems content to complicate things.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Internet Dating and Toy Stores Posted: 12/3/2006 6:28:57 PM
It's an odd situation to find oneself in when you wind up single after leaving one possible relationship for another possible relationship only to end up dating neither. You might find yourself thinking that you should have stayed with the first person you dated. Keep in mind that if you're not into them enough to refrain from seeking someone else when you've first started dating, you probably wouldn't be after a few months or years either. If all else fails, go with your gut feelings, I find they're rarely wrong. :D

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

Prenups...Good, Bad, indifferent? Posted: 12/3/2006 2:18:17 AM
Prenups seem to be the way to go these days. It's safer and like y'all said... the person you divorce is NOT the person you married. I can see couples who are considered common law having problems, but if you at all suspect it will be an issue the best idea is to have them sign a similar document. I can't believe it's still only six months for common law status though... that's way too soon. Crazy laws in this crazy province. Darkman: Don't laugh at someone's interpretation of a word (which I'll bet is competely correct) if you can't even punctuate properly. Not that I can... but at least I try. I actually have some trouble deciphering your posts.

geekguy_hfx

Joined: 12/16/2005

Msg: 4 (view)

You know he/she is cheap when... Posted: 12/3/2006 2:10:52 AM
I have never really had that problem. Usually if someone was short on cash they'd be honest about it and we'd either pick something affordable or (mostly) free or I'd cover the cost. It's gone the other way a few times as well. I'd rather just say the money's tight that week and still be able to do something than hum and haw about it, not fess up and wind up doing nothing with the other person.

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