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 Author Thread: what would u do for a true freind.
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
what would u do for a true freind.
Posted: 10/15/2006 11:19:53 PM
For a "friend" as I define it ...

anything at all that does not compromise my morals.

I guess eat a bullet for them about sums it up .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Why such a trend?? Seeking young things!!
Posted: 10/10/2006 9:35:07 AM
^^^^^^^^ well said , personallly i dont beleive age matters , theres a 30+ year age gap beetween my dad and his "girlfriend" and they have been together for 25 + years ... ( hes 83 )
my brothers fiance is 21 .. he is 45

what im re-itterating is that the age is irrelevant , its about attitude and chemistry , when that spark happens age doesnt come into it .
No one in our family "acts their age" , this doesn not mean we are not responsible adults holding down good jobs with mortgages and the rest of that ball of wax , it does mean that we see life on a lighter note than most people , are more willing to be silly and let loose with inanities .

the other side of it that occurs to me when dating ( and it has been mentioned higher up the thread ) , is about the children , some of the women I have dated on or around my age ( +/- 2 years ) have kids already , they have put their time in as it were and now want no more because they are finally at a point where the kids can be independant enough for mum to get out and have a life again .

Whereas with the younger women , yes they may have kids , but they are at a younger age ( the children ) and there is less of an age gap beetween them and any new kids that come along , also that they have not got that independance back and are more willing to consider adding to the family .

just my 2 cents :P
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
If you could change one thing in your last relationship...what have you learned?
Posted: 10/9/2006 11:08:36 PM
that i need a woman who is sure enough of herself to NOT change to be what she thinks I want !
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Kitchener POF Bash, Edelweiss.10 /14/ 06..Ride / Room Thread.......
Posted: 10/9/2006 11:02:00 PM
ill be driving there ( from within KW ) and leaving via cab

that said , i can pick up KW / camb area and save some peeps cab money with some notice . No ride from though unless you happen to be heading in the same general direction as me cab .

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
how does huggin make u feel
Posted: 10/7/2006 1:47:11 AM
forget paulie lol , im here ..........

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ what shappy said ....

that said , off to bed , wouldnt it feel good for a hugh hug right now .. Damn ! wheres my fish for a huggin' ....
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
You Can't Compete????
Posted: 10/7/2006 1:44:32 AM
ok , ill admit it , i read the first page ish ...

that said , different interest = fun

diversity is good , explore new places , explore new things ...

maybe theres something you should have done but havnt ...

maybe theres something they should have done but havnt ...

(too late at night for examples lol )

ste


if everyone was the same , how much fun would that be ....

ill take diversity thanks .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
WIERD ..............
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:05:36 AM
follow that feeling ...

ive felt it twice , both times i found out afterwards very distasteful things about the person who i had met .

the first time i found out the guy used to see my girlfriend before me and beat her on a regular basis .

the 2nd time the guy was charged with child molestation on his own kids a month later .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Funny lines in profiles
Posted: 10/6/2006 12:28:51 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^

ah , but he roxors !

us mere mortals cant hope to compare to him !
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Once up pond a time there was a little fishy...
Posted: 10/4/2006 10:31:12 PM
laughing madly , the liverpool fish grabbed a large peice of weed in his fins and stood off the fish in white-jackets .

"its just a flesh wound " was heard as he retreated quickly from the shark who could smell the blood , "fish are friends , not food !" he shouted over his shoulder swimming madly away.
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Funny lines in profiles
Posted: 10/4/2006 10:14:38 PM
a couple of my favorites are for sheer humor in the profile , a few samples :-

Did you expect me to say something like .. I can suck start a Harley or I am tighter than an 18yr old virgin. How about I like it a little rough and I hate having control.

I have never won a Grammy, an Oscar or the Nobel Prize, my teeth aren't pearly white and I love to sing but sound like a cat trapped in a motor.

( both from the same profile )

Oh, by the way, if you're seeking a woman 100lbs soaking wet - If you're looking for a skinny-minnie - you'll want to keep looking. I won't ask you how big your penis is and you won't ask me my weight! ;)

I'm adding the ones that got lost here....because my friends know me pretty well, and they seem to like me! :)
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Hair Colour - Do you or would you?
Posted: 10/4/2006 12:12:23 PM
when i had my hair long id turn most of it to my natural reddy/brown except for a streak ive had since I was 18 and that was one of my mums legacies to me .
Now its dead short again I just leave it , it grows to fast to bother with .

besides , i kind of like the gray when its this short .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Holding sex back- Does waiting make you lose interest or build up desire in anticipation for it?
Posted: 10/4/2006 7:50:02 AM
both ..

waiting and holding back a lil is good , I want to know she wants more than just a quick roll in the hay , if im looking at a relationship I want to know its more than that .

that said , as has been said , beyond a month you should know ( depending on the frequency of dates and communication ) wheter there is going to be anything worth persuing in it , at which point the wait should be over when it feels right
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Stormy Morning (Thunderstorms)
Posted: 10/3/2006 11:58:57 AM
mmmmmmmmmm

thunder boomers ............ mmmmm

park the car in a field , put the top down and watch the show with someone to , ah , share with

for that matter , forget the car , give me a thunderstorm and a partner and im happy as larry ( who must be really happy )
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
What's everyone's plans for Thanksgiving?
Posted: 10/3/2006 11:28:31 AM
oktoberfesting with a date !

sunday and monday , maybe follow up dates hopefully
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
XTREME Paintball Feedback **Sept 30th!!!!***
Posted: 10/2/2006 7:27:04 AM
im still bummed I missed this ..

get another one orgainised Jeff and count me in .

i saw someone in urban camo , would of been a good day for that with the overcast , i find the white flashes "shoot me" when you move though lol .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Single Dads Raising Their Kids Alone
Posted: 10/2/2006 7:10:12 AM
Kudos to anyone raising kids alone ! both men and women , having been raised in a one parent family ( by mum ) I saw the work and effort involved ..



to all those single parents .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 44 (view)
 
5 things (or more) you have never done in life
Posted: 10/2/2006 6:37:51 AM
Dom Perignon is overrated lol

never caught a 72 inch musky or pike
never held the ontario carp record ( although I was only 10 lds off one year )
never had a canadian speeding ticket ( touch wood )
never had a woman buy me flowers
never had a SO plan /exectute a romantic get away for me
never ridden in the paris / dakar rally
never swam with dolphins
never been scuba diving ( must remedy this )
never hiked in the australian outback with a native guide
never been on a canadian survival trip with a native guide
never had a slow dance I didnt enjoy
never kissed someone and regretted it
never been caught by a cop having sex outdoors

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Is she hitting on me?
Posted: 10/1/2006 8:03:33 AM
the one that sticks in my head , it was a saturday afternoon , id been in the pub to watch a match ( english premier league football ) , went outside for a smoke and got talking to this irish woman who was there .
I ended up talking to her for an hour outside lol , then she left , I didnt even think to ask for her phone number ! GAH !

Never seen her again
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Is she hitting on me?
Posted: 10/1/2006 5:43:26 AM
rofl , any time a woman talks to me I wonder this since im completely und utterly incapable of seeing the signs lol

with the ex i was wondering and couldnt decide , then once we hit the dance floor she made it plainly obvious by copping a feel and telling me I had better be a damn good kisser
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
who do you considor to be your best friend? (human or non human)
Posted: 10/1/2006 5:13:51 AM
my mate Chris , he lives in north wales and has a very busy life , which makes keeping in contact hard .

that said , a year can go by , if i call , its like we talked yesterday ,
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Pet Names
Posted: 10/1/2006 5:02:03 AM
when im dating someone , i tend to use hon , or luv or a shortened name

ive been called god ( used as a joke around friends lol , as in OH GOD )
normally i just end up getting ste or scouse .

the bedroom names , well , even im too shy to post them lol

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
~ Hot Steamy & Fiery Passion ~
Posted: 9/30/2006 9:59:21 AM
Rhett Butler: No, I don't think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.


one of the best movie lines every written , i can think of someone who this applies to
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 174 (view)
 
Confess your crush list
Posted: 9/30/2006 9:18:11 AM
ok Pomik , dont know how i missed my name on there last night lol , ok , i do , it was all the pubs fault !

@ you

now who is morph lol , so i can give him or her a hug too !

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
** XTREME PAINTBALL Hamilton Sept 30th **
Posted: 9/30/2006 12:59:43 AM
well , as you can see , its 4AM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

shit came up , i wont be able to make it :(

next time ill get the shitty VL Orion down there !

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
what did you believe when you were a little kid?
Posted: 9/29/2006 5:36:47 PM
I beleived that id be married to the best woman ever , with a soccer team of my own kids by now , drive a porsche when I didnt have the kids with me , that some day I would hire Queen to play for me for my birthday

ah , the beauty of youth !
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
It is friday and do you want to go out ???????
Posted: 9/29/2006 5:29:41 PM
*worships the Divine moo!*

off to the pub as soon as i can drag myself away from the comp lol .

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 58 (view)
 
** XTREME PAINTBALL Hamilton Sept 30th **
Posted: 9/29/2006 5:24:23 PM
ill need a gun , mask etc after all , seems i cant find all the bits ( this is what happens when you strip it down before work ! ) , oh , and its just a crappy viewloader orion to the person who asked earlier :P

the drive is gonna be a biatch in the morning , hour and a half from kw , and im getting ready to go the pub now

see yas tommorrow

ste
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 163 (view)
 
Confess your crush list
Posted: 9/29/2006 4:26:56 PM
now i just need my 2nd crush to fess up ...

actually , hopefully it wont matter soon :D
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 159 (view)
 
What are you thinking right now ? part 2
Posted: 9/29/2006 4:12:13 PM
that I should get my a*** in gear and go get some stuff done so's I can head the pub
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 161 (view)
 
Confess your crush list
Posted: 9/29/2006 4:02:19 PM
and mine were done , some according to the humor in their profile or posts , some are favorites , a friend and the rest were crushes

d-belle
terminallycute
ersunshine
P.A.T.C.H
kitchna
Katzzmeow
hellokittyakahk
angeleyez24
rawkchick
divinebovine
irisheyez
ginger114
BrownEyedBrunetteBabyGirl
Irish eyes
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 810 (view)
 
Crush list 2006
Posted: 9/29/2006 3:33:58 PM
rofl !

the full list of double didgiters :-

alfino – 12
Carrie_33 –10
Chritters – 11
d-belle – 12
ERsunshine – 17
IrishEyes – 12
KatzzMeow – 10
Kitchna – 18
LL3 – 13
Open Book – 10
P.A.T.C.H. – 14
Rascal1060 – 12
RoxyGemini – 25
Stillalicious – 10
Tabbs – 10
VampVixen – 16
willy_wonka – 12


that was fun , the crushes , not the being a smart ass ;)
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
a fishy
Posted: 9/28/2006 10:02:08 PM
softly shining panels of sunshine illuminated the waters of loneliness ,
motes of dancing fantasies frolicked amidst beams of gold ,
set within wreath's of hope ,
a glance and a brief moment ,
was all it took ....

caskading droplets of denial fell like the rain ,
rainbows of emotion sparkling above the calm waters of desire ,
dancing above the waves of the conundrum ,
ripples of emotion spreading from a single droplet ,
the waters calmed ...

towering ferns of possibility waxed gently within the current ,
shimmering vortex's of swirling shadows ,
a flash from scales oft dulled and derided ,
the play begins .

it begins ...
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 147 (view)
 
What are you thinking right now ? part 2
Posted: 9/28/2006 9:28:34 PM
im thinking :-

tomorrow is friday ..

the next day is paintball ,

then

well , the weekend should rock !

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 765 (view)
 
Crush list 2006
Posted: 9/28/2006 7:25:35 PM
what amuses me , is im getting nervous about revealing my crushes 24 hours from now lol .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How Many Messages Does It Take?
Posted: 9/28/2006 7:18:12 PM
in the end , it only takes one message ...

give her time .
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
how does huggin make u feel
Posted: 9/28/2006 7:12:18 PM
hugging that special person from behind while both hands of hers are occupied .....

*drools over his keyboard*

hugs rock , what Roxy said ..

they make me warm and fuzzy ...

when its first date time , ill take a hug please , im too much of a wuss to go for a kiss on the first ... well , unless in pished .

hugs rock , they say things a kiss cant , in ways a kiss cant , you can get "warm and fuzzy" into a hug , where with a kiss , it comes across as "i have to do this" on the cheek ..

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Is It Just Me?
Posted: 9/28/2006 6:11:16 PM
come on Roxy , i just know theres a cast of about the size of the one on braveheart after you !

gah , now im all missing cuddles again ! *wields a chair and whip in Roxy's direction just in case , to keep her away*

down girl !

it may be the crush thread , it may be the smell of Autumn , erm , fall , maybe its just providence winking at people who shes missed before ..

whatever , Kudos to you cuddling peeps , im heading back to "the Rock" , I beleive I left my ...
*Acme never-empty-supplies-all-you-need-for-a-party-except-for-other-fishies-cooler* on the top , it likely misses me
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
HONESTY.........
Posted: 9/28/2006 3:43:22 PM
lying is a deal breaker for me ,

well , unless its lying down and partying like the funky chicken on a long weekend lol , in which case , oh , i guess the lack of that one is a dealbreaker too :wink:

ste
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
The Euphoric stage of new relationship!
Posted: 9/28/2006 3:16:05 PM
the butterflies

the excitement

the endless supply of awesome sex



ste
 scouse39b1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Viagra
Posted: 9/28/2006 3:12:22 PM
lol , I need the anti-sex-drive pill



at least while im still single
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
men and viagra?
Posted: 9/28/2006 1:53:27 PM
well said Moonkist

now , me , i need some of the opposite of Viagra
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Kissing 101
Posted: 9/26/2006 6:20:27 PM
as the verse says .. softly softly ...

for a nice first kiss ..

standing close , intimate but not invasive .
gently brush her lips , close together , eyes open , stare deep in her eyes .
ok , now close em , its all about the feelings in your lips , forget the 2nd head we have for a minute , it not important right now .
feel her lips on yours , how soft , gentle and wonderful ,
feel as she shows what a good date she had , feel how she kisses ,
she will show you how she likes to be kissed if you are willing to learn .
explore her lips , they are after all one of your favorite things about her ,
do not rush , this isnt a race , its a joining , you dont get a prize for shoving you tongue down her throat first .

heres where the kiss can go several ways ....

alternate 1

pull away , a gentle squeeze to the waist with the hand , LOTS of eye contact . Then tell her whatever ( im not giving ALL the secrets away lol )


alternate 2

the kiss lingers ,
tease her lips a little , a little nibble ( gently ! ) ,
gently cup the side of her face with ONE ! hand , thumb before the ear , fingers gently stroking the skin where her hair heads up around her ear .
the other , lay on her waist , dont grab or pull , just a prescence there , and yes waist , not a*** .
pull away a little , open your eyes and look deep in hers , smile ! this IS fun and hot !
ok , enough looking , close the eyes again .
make her "chase your lips" with hers , pull away a little and then back in ,
gently lick her lips , your not cleaning a plate dammit .. GENTLY , just the tip of your tongue

mmm , i miss kisses

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 722 (view)
 
Crush list 2006
Posted: 9/26/2006 5:48:25 PM
wang is the one half of wang chung , he sang that song ages ago ...

everybody have fun tonight

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 99 (view)
 
POF FEST October 14 Party,Party,Party - Edelweiss Kitchener/Waterloo,Cambridge,Guelph, Brantford,
Posted: 9/26/2006 3:09:22 AM
do we need to get tickets before hand ?

someone said aye , someone said nay ..
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What are you thinking right now ? part 2
Posted: 9/26/2006 2:37:20 AM
im thinking its almost not worth me going back to sleep now and that if my body would of co-operated more , I could have had an extra hour and a half sleep.

 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Have you ever, been to a POF event, that you didn't like ?
Posted: 9/25/2006 8:03:20 PM
*peers around suspiciously*

nope , not me , really , I had fun , I just left early because , erm , I needed to get up for work , yeah , thats it .

*scurries out the door*
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Confess your crush list
Posted: 9/25/2006 6:54:06 PM
no fair D-belle !

that was a retalitory crush lol

ste
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
You've got mail
Posted: 9/25/2006 6:36:24 PM
I wouldnt be here if i didnt think it could happen
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
what are the top 3 things that drive you nutz?
Posted: 9/25/2006 6:17:54 PM
people who are sexist / racist / age . ie intolerant of other people

people who swear or smoke around their kids ARRRGGGHHH !

people who consider themselves princes/princess's ie above everyone else ... GET A LIFE !

ok , now i need deep breaths to calm down again ....
 scouse39B1
Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
cooking for one - motivation
Posted: 9/25/2006 4:59:11 PM
I love cooking , decided id kick back with a couple of beers and a glass of wine and spoil myself with something nice for a change - chicken and peppers in white wine sauce on the stove ..

the issue i have , is I find it way , way easier to eat out even though the food isnt as good unless im cooking for someone else also ( which doesnt look like it may happen for a while lol )

how do others motivate themselves to eat healthy and still cook for one ?

( side note , i cook full sized meals and freeze them instead of cooking for one , easier for me )

ste
 
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