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 Author Thread: OK Ladies lets do THIS !!! & Guys This Isnt For All JUST SUM!!
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
OK Ladies lets do THIS !!! & Guys This Isnt For All JUST SUM!!
Posted: 12/25/2005 9:23:30 PM
If you already know how big his penis is, slept with him, and let him eat you out then his lies apparently got him where he wanted to go
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 23 (view)
 
at what point would your partner's numbers be too high?
Posted: 12/25/2005 9:17:49 PM
We all judge each other whether we would like to or not... Its built in to us. Its how we make decisions. Maybe trying not to hold something against someone is lightening this but not totally removing the judgement from your mind. Im sure there is a number that could scare anybody but if i loved her enough it wouldnt matter. I think whats most important is that you are safe and tested. Not just the number...
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Demanding profiles
Posted: 12/25/2005 9:13:36 PM
I agree with previous posters... Its about competition. There are simply more guys who bother to check out dating websites than girls. When u have such an unbalanced situation the results are obvious. I'm not too worried about it at them moment though considering that my love life is fine, but I do like the forums and sometimes meet cool people from here... If you really want to talk to a cutie then send her a message and let her ignore or delete it if she doesnt like it.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 21 (view)
 
at what point would your partner's numbers be too high?
Posted: 12/25/2005 8:58:09 PM
I dont think there is a too high... but i am nervous just thinking about the last post ^^^ i cant imagine having slept with that many. Dont you people masturbate!?
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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how can so many women not have a license to drive?
Posted: 12/25/2005 8:36:03 PM
Yea that was a little confusing...

I have seen this though quite a few times. I cant imagine life without driving but apparently people manage it. Ladies, what do you think? Is it just laziness or maybe simple lack of need.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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What about the penis enlargement products, pumps, pills, and so on, do they work?
Posted: 12/20/2005 6:41:28 PM
I dont think working out your****is gonna do it man lol. Still i hear that penis pumps can damage blood vessels but that they work. Actually since the women can control the size of their sexual organ (somewhat) kegal exercises can improve the feel of your man. Maybe rescue that lil sucker i havent actually tried anything though... The first time i get a "is it in yet?" ill be at the porn store
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Dating without sex?
Posted: 12/20/2005 6:36:39 PM

^^^And surgical procedures. A small amount of forethought will eliminate the procreative bit.


lol yea you are right but it sounded funny to me
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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DATE RAPE
Posted: 12/20/2005 6:16:10 PM
First off i want to agree with previous posters about how terrible the crime is. I cant imagine being that desperate for sex but i know for a fact that it happens. I was at a happy hour with some colleagues of mine and one of my MALE friends got the glass that i think was intended for one of the girls. We didnt know until he came to work saying that he had passed out everywhere around his house but had only drank 2 beers. Im so glad it wasnt one of the girls because they are very good friends.

BUT... I also feel a deep hatred for ****ed up whores who think its ok to twist a situation to their advantage. I can imagine this becoming "payback" to a guy who might have had concentual sex. Do you think a rape kit knows the difference between rough sex and rape?

I hope i never date a woman who is that messed up. Guys: Just get a ****in' porno if she turns you down.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Dating without sex?
Posted: 12/20/2005 5:53:59 PM
I think there is a valid reason to wait but.... ooo look at her i just forgot it

Seriously though, its good to wait a little even if just to build tension. Also, reproducing like rabbits will get you stuck in the projects.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Do men ever...
Posted: 12/19/2005 7:30:24 PM

any guy here sayin they have romantic fantasies is lying, maybe to impress the female readers. male fantasies involve sexy women doing unthinkable sexual acts. there isnt a single man on earth who masturbates to images of walking hand in hand along the beach with a woman he loves

I completely agree with him on that point. At least for me romantic things and sexual things are usually seperate. Sometimes when you love someone alot they can combine but that takes time for guys. I think with women its so much more tied to the heart.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Sharing Intimate Fantacies with your Lover
Posted: 12/19/2005 7:25:14 PM
I think this is a wonderful thing... If you have been good lovers. I wouldn't suggest telling someone you hardly know your deepest secret thoughts of course but with someone you love thats a different story. I would keep the super-sick thoughts (if you have them) to yourself though. No need to make her sick
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 11/17/2005 8:06:40 AM
Horizon

A red phantom star parts with a day's cumulative fantasies,

Pale arms spread like rotting twigs to consume its sweet strawberry tart,

Delicate purple fingertips stretch into pink bloated lucidities,

Light is withering with a dark plague that blackens a healthy heart,

Sweetly swirling tresses whip around her in a winter whisk,

And her long brown-green plaid dress gently wraps around white slim stockings,

A quiet whisper’s rasping lost in a tightly frigid fist,

Moonlight guides the lonely echos of steps that have grown tired of solemn walking,

But still again tomorrow we will dream together again...
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 10/23/2005 9:41:52 PM
A darker side (for halloween of course )

Cracked flesh of stone is gray and lifeless in the autumn sunset,

Nondescript eyes still pierce stereotypical viewpoints,

It eternally drinks heaven's tears as below a priest mumbles an epithet,

Years of frozen hope have weathered its ancient joints,

Vision grows misty through the hazy midnight fogs,

A ferryman's lamplight distant in the infinite darkness,

Although some would speak of its grotesquely ugly visage,

And horrified melancholy features mark its demon likeness,

Spring forth its fearsome pain unto your deepest thoughts,

The rippling reflection has been yourself not hallucination,

Dark pools of desire stain the atrocities unjustly wrought,

A blackened phoenix grins in sickening anticipation,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Do men change there mind somewhere along the way? Or are they lying from the start?
Posted: 10/19/2005 8:37:39 PM
Its not true that all men want is sex and it always seems like i have to prove thats not me. Im getting to the point where i want a serious relationship in my life. Hopefully soon...:(
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Do men change there mind somewhere along the way? Or are they lying from the start?
Posted: 10/17/2005 5:36:22 PM
If something like that happens to me usually i changed my mind. Making up elaborate lies is too hard on my brain lol. Also, im a terrible liar because i like to be honest and i get weirded out when im not.

Sometimes the flame just dies and i think premature sex can cause that (even though as a perv i hate to admit it)
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 297 (view)
 
Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 10/17/2005 5:32:55 PM

VVVVVVVVV AFRICAN AMERICAN????????? and one damn sexy geek I might add.
HAHA i couldnt resist that little joke considering that im kinda pale from my geeky endeavours.
BTW can i be your geeky student? Maybe i could flunk a test and have to do some extra credit (saw that in a porn once lol)
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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condoms - yes,..no and why?
Posted: 10/17/2005 4:52:55 PM
What if we share a crack pipe? Just kidding sorry i've followed the thread and its depressing me. I think its all the talk about illness and death.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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The funny ways people advertise
Posted: 10/17/2005 4:49:08 PM
If you list yourself as single then expect the msgs to come through. This site really is designed for singles but as long as it isnt flooded with takens i dont see a problem with them being here to post some thoughts. Its nice to talk to people who are still single though. Reminds me that im not alone in the world.

I would probaby flip on someone who msg'd me back saying they were married and they were single. Thats really mean i think to lead guys on just because you need a confidence boost.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 10/17/2005 4:39:21 PM
^^ its because they are all about themselves
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 10/17/2005 4:36:49 PM
I know exactly why geekdom doesnt lead to dates: Because we dont go out and get them. Its all about presenting yourself out there and (to any geeks instant dismay) letting yourself get rejected. Maybe im just speaking for myself here though. Ok back to reading sci-fi, dreaming of wonder girls, and plowing through computer code
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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condoms - yes,..no and why?
Posted: 10/16/2005 5:58:10 PM
Wow this has turned into quite a battlefield. I think i should wear a condom just to post here You should be worrying about other illnesses like herpes from oral not HIV.

Seriously though, the topic is condoms usage specifically and i would say that the answer is an easy YES YES YES! Anybody who thinks otherwise will regret it in the end.

 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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condoms - yes,..no and why?
Posted: 10/15/2005 3:48:11 PM
her point about protecting those who you have sex with is DEAD ON. You need to protect not only yourself but the person you are supposed to be "making love" to. The hypocracy of anybody who thinks that its just about them is beyond belief. Condoms are for promiscuous people so that we can enjoy our sexuality without harming others. I think that self-centered pricks who think that sex is all about them should be castrated. Also, women need to take a stand and say "NO GLOVE NO LOVE!". Now after you are in a more perminent relationship, both are tested, and risks logically weighed (not in the heat of passion) then reasonable adults can consent to the risks.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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how often do you masturbate?
Posted: 10/12/2005 8:34:58 PM
You know i was told by someone that 2 times a day is "hyper-sexual".. I 've been asking all my friends since (without telling them how much i do it first) and the typical answer is once a day. Im not that much more of a weirdo lol!
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Should sex be about what feels good.. or love?
Posted: 10/12/2005 8:23:16 PM
It should be about the love. When you satisfy someone you care deeply for and are intamate on this level, the feelings compounded with the raw animal act make for a passionate and fufilling experience. You finish and look in her eyes, feel her love, and embrace her bare body against yours.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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When can a guy say he's hung?
Posted: 10/12/2005 8:14:32 PM
Some people will say anything to put themselves on a pedestool even if nobody else beleives them. Girls, guys are waiting for you to ask them to prove it! lol

Simple answer: Let it speak for itself and keep your mouth busy other places.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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How many of you POF's know what you taste like????
Posted: 10/12/2005 8:11:22 PM
You are seriously gonna tell me that people on here werent curious enough to test it!? I cant imagine that being honest but i suppose its possible. and yes i did; i dont think hygene has much a role in a mans but it didnt make me wanna hurl so thats good. I'll stick with pussay but dammit i was CURIOUS
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Why do stunning women go for geeks
Posted: 10/12/2005 8:05:45 PM
not with true geeks :-B

Tell me you get hott over pocket protectors, coke-bottle glasses, and a huge upper overbite lol!
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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How do you know if your partners STD free?
Posted: 10/12/2005 7:51:11 PM
The simple answer is you never know... Have fun sleeping around
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Should prostitution be legal?
Posted: 10/10/2005 4:31:38 AM
Heres how they could regulate this a little better and erase some of the bad elements:

1. No street soliciting only phone or maybe in-person requests (just like a regualr buisness). This reduces the street element to this profession. They can require each person to register for safety purposes. Confidentiality should be garunteed with the exception of physcal abuse to the employee

2. Each prostitute should be a given a series of monthly checks for STD'S and drug addictions. (covers the health aspects)

3. Legally treat this as a typical buisness and require taxes, wages, tips to be claimed.


I've never paid for sex myself (unless u consider dinner+movie as payment), but if you want to it should be legal.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 50 (view)
 
What Is Absolutly Off Limits???
Posted: 10/7/2005 3:31:46 AM
:) hey i was just trying to stay on-topic lol! another to add to my list is any toys bigger than me! haha
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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What Is Absolutly Off Limits???
Posted: 10/6/2005 10:07:30 PM
apparenty your thread was waaaay off limits LOL!
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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What Is Absolutly Off Limits???
Posted: 10/6/2005 10:03:22 PM
off limits for me is the standard family, too young, and diseased stuffs. Also, i cant handle needles, cutting, or extreme bondage (tied till its purple)... I've seen/done some feaky things but i just wanna stay in the relm of pleasure plz
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Whats the best way to ask your g/f for a blowjob
Posted: 10/6/2005 9:57:21 PM
lets trade oral favors :P
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 10/6/2005 9:40:59 PM
Hmm i noticed my thread is a bit melancholy... more positive poems:P

The comforting maple’s shade is a cool placid embrace,
Soft rose pedals tickle your reddened nose,
The thorn’s abrasions are pleasure against a milky face,
Another dewy grass blade between bare toes,
Distant plumes are lined with sunset’s pink hues,
A speckle of golden pollen to coax a dainty sneeze,
Crickets sing and chirp as the birds silence gives them cues,
The quietly innocent shudder in a sobering breeze,
Another solemn night among the purple flowing hills serenading Orion,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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I will always be there for you (To my baby)
Posted: 10/6/2005 9:18:47 PM
very sweet im jealous of baby lol
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 10/6/2005 9:08:37 PM
Her softest touch is a precious star,
A faint memory becomes so vivid,
Love in her eyes and delicate arms,
And youth flows with her living,
I adore the motions so precise,
Perfect in their innocent grace,
Passionate interest in her face,
Wonder internally as she fights,
Dark streets light a solemn path,
Wandering dreams bleed its flowers,
Finding strength in a nervous laugh,
But before her scorn its shadow cowers,
A second’s fleeting hope for your affection,
Mellow strength is a so softly warming embrace,
With bittersweet love and life feelings are laced,
Yellow sunlight to cure the cloud’s infection,
With sweet but heavy feet we can still dance,
If a dreamer could have this wonderful chance,
No matter her knowing decision how harshly spoken,
Take comfort that a friendship should never be so broken,
With wax melting across fingertips from your candle,
Holding still and ignoring the stinging pain,
A deep breath and this thing can be handled,
And a soul not tainted nor stained,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 10/6/2005 7:21:13 AM
blurred perspective is encased in a dull fuzz,
the conflagration chars lashes into curly ashes,
ringing voices drone like a fly's wings buzz,
delusion becomes sanity in millisecond flashes,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 9/20/2005 6:16:44 PM
Soar through conciousness in momentary brushes, warming the frozen web that it touches, its a pinwheel fluttering with colors, with sweaty palms my long sighs shudder,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Men don't seem to believe.....that's it's not all about the O!
Posted: 8/21/2005 6:25:54 AM

there was this one guy that i was seeing that never called me back after i answered truthfully that i had never orgasmed when we had sex


It sounds to me like you faked it and he felt lied to... Im willing to bet that this was just one of the problems with the relationship. In all honesty though guys do feel less if you dont have the big release with them. Each woman is so different (sure there are places and things you can know in general but this only takes you so far) that she needs to help you learn her pleasures.. also the guy has to be willing to learn. The blame is always split 50/50. Just my theory on this...
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Big men, tiny women
Posted: 8/20/2005 6:36:31 AM

I'm not Shallow Hal, I don't need a hypno-spell from Tony Robbins to make me appreciate inner beauty.


What a way with words!

To answer the original question i would say that more guys like smaller women and so they are more in demand.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Men don't seem to believe.....that's it's not all about the O!
Posted: 8/20/2005 6:27:52 AM
The first few times you have sex with someone are the times i think it is most difficult for the women. She needs to get used to you and comfortable and also you need to learn her body's signals. I really dont get upset when a woman says "enough!" but i do love to have sex for a long long time (multiple "occasions" in a row). When a woman fakes an orgasm she completely throws off the learning of her body. Most women are exceptionally good at this and so you really need to talk to them so that you have a mutual sexual relationship; not just one sided. The "o" may not be the most important part (closeness, excitement, adreneline, sexual temptation) but as i guy i kinda think of it as an important milestone in your mutual sexual growth. I dunno i might be dilllusional too :P
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Do Women have High Standards on Dating Sites?
Posted: 8/19/2005 5:19:46 PM
I usually try and make a comment relating to something written in their profile (so yes actually put something interesting in there) and i do get responses most of the time.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Do Women have High Standards on Dating Sites?
Posted: 8/19/2005 5:04:07 PM
I think we got a lil off topic here... I know the women that i want have high standards; especially on a dating site.

I do agree with the reverse-biased nature that our society is taking. Mass media has driven us to believe stupid statistics and insaine proclamations of discrimination in our corporations and educational systems. I know that in the city i live in the minorities get extra help while poor asswipes like me get nothing..

Whew address all that off-topic stuff.

I personally love it when a woman can take a little bit of the initiative but really thats always been the mans role for the most part. Some guys are scared off by aggressive women but I like it. Shows some spunk lol
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Public nudity....
Posted: 8/3/2005 6:27:38 PM
ha i actually want it to be legal so i can go nakid and it not be weird :) full body tanning without paying for it lol (no nude beaches here)
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Are you intimidated by pretty people?
Posted: 8/2/2005 7:33:24 PM
Being perfectly honest i would say yes. It's unfortunate but sometimes you assume that they have an attitude because of the number of guys who "probably" hit on them. I know its popular to say otherwise but i definately feel like i have much less of a chance with extremely hott women (and probably do). :P
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Public nudity....
Posted: 8/2/2005 7:27:33 PM
The argument isn’t whether nudity is wrong, it’s about a time and place for being nude, and in the public eye isn’t one of them. Particularly if it’s going to be in the general populace, one group of people’s ideologies shouldn’t supersede another’s.
In saying that the freedom to be publicly nude is wrong you have asserted your ideology and moralism as well as your religion. There is not time or place. I was saying that the freedom comes from freedom of ones own body. Your body is only wrong in the eyes of evironmentally conditional views not objective. Your nude body is just that: natural. I dont think that in a free country this should be illegal due to others conditional points of view. I do realize, however, that a societies views has to be based upon, in the end, a logical set of mass-accepted concepts, but this should be an exception considering that it deals with the natural body. Most would consider me wrong but i sincerely beleive in this view.
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Public nudity....
Posted: 7/22/2005 7:46:07 PM
I think it should be a right to be publicly nude (yes i realize the nasties would be out there too). Maybe its just me but i dont feel that the human body is "wrong". Nudity is only related to sex in our minds because of the conditioning of us as children. I dunno i think theres just something appealing about being free to walk around in the hot open air, wind touching every part of you, not a care in the world...
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 6/7/2005 5:30:25 PM
eyes lazily follow the silver hands on a distant clock,
my body broken lies on this crimson-striped mossy rock,
upon dense green the salty heat will stain,
scarred flesh throbs with reddening pain,
skies gray, lonesome and sometimes angry as my soul,
tears cool wounds for the years from me you stole,

Again in this loop i seem forever pinned,
by my past, my loves, my choices,
swaying trees weep into the summer wind,
but their lullyby is stale without voices,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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Youth's Spiraling Decay
Posted: 6/4/2005 6:59:25 PM
so peaceful my gasp of cool night air,
my head rolls on my shoulders hips swaying,
its stops tilted upwards so at the stars i might stare,
the startling sound of a neighbors dog baying,

skin like a baby's, silverly smooth in the street light,
Im touched in my soul with each breath,
Im living this every moment in its fullness tonight,
soon ill touch the touch of my little death,
 loki9988
Joined: 6/27/2004
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For Fun!!!! Poetry Contest #19576399564359705
Posted: 6/2/2005 5:43:12 PM
Words Unspoken

An innocent night outside self-deception,
Just whimsical glances through red-tinted smoke,
Bright taunting eyes laugh with a glance,
Blissful dreams grasp the smallest chance,
Nervous lips quiver on a glass of rum and coke,
Visions of silky hair and passionate conception,

Softly we kiss a dull brown suppressor of reservation,
Fuse shyness with strength through contamination,
A casual tone to the lioness's rapacious surveyance,
Tight smooth contours sway and turn with sexy dance,

But through crowds your sight is broken,
Scanning left, searching right, and then you confess,
Your words will remain forever unspoken,
Lost whispers, her delicate ears they'll never caress,
 
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