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Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 192 (view)

What is sexy about FAT??? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:13:21 AM
Well maybe it comes as a personal observation, or which i think its the more logical answer I have no luck with women lol. The women who tend to have a few extra pounds on her are more open to sexuality compared to the really model type chicks. The only model type chicks u usually find to meet all the desires a man wishes is in most cases; porn. As well it has always been my understanding/logic that in terms of sexuality if a man dont like what the model chick has to offer. She's got the looks to get it from other sources so its either put up or shut up. While the girls with a few extra pounds go the distance to please their man because they want to be found as wonderful and a keeper on all lvls. Perhaps i lack maturity to understand this one but thought id state my opinion

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:08:37 AM
For myself personally. I love porn because i dont believe in having sex unless in a commited relationship and its always on hand to meet my needs. Maybe stupid to some extent but id rather not have the one night stand and just get off to watching porn.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Venting - but would love some advice to ground me Posted: 8/17/2009 1:51:19 PM
Seems like a very delicate situation you have on your mind. Well of course whatever advice comes out of this forum you know in the end the choice is yours and yours alone. From the point of view of your gf i can certaintly see where she is coming from. To see she is even willing to give them another chance (or probably just saying that to make you happy) she seems pretty nice. You have to understand in time with all relationships there are just these little things which come up where your either understanding and willing to compromise or its just something in the long run you can't seem to deal with. From the point of view of yourself, i can see that your perhaps getting annoyed with how dramatic your gf perhaps is viewing the situation. But of course this is something you choose to deal with because its your gf afterall. Overall i guess you know she may feel very upset that you in some form or another are not realizing that perhaps yes your best friend said something mean to her and that you would even think that having them around at this time is an option to you. Again it just seems like she is trying to compromise to make you happy but of course she is still upset and not willing to talk, of course bad communication line going on but at least you have the patience to want to make the means to talk to her about it. All i guess i can, it seems like you've been friends with these people for a very long time and i guess having a gf who values them the same way is probably important so yeah. Try to give some space and bring up the conversation and perhaps youll have to find a different means of dealing with it perhaps simply not allowing them to stay over if this girl means so much to you. Guessing people you call your best friends would be willing to understand or they wont. Best of luck to you :)

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Old Fashioned. Posted: 8/17/2009 1:34:49 PM
It's a personal preference really. I use to think along those lines but then slowly as i grew up more i realized that you what if i marry someone out of love or whatever and wait for the sex part but im sadly disappointed. Both parties can work to a certain extent but if your not sexually compatible you just aren't. So then now i think differently and i dont think i would wait till marriage anymore and if it happens it happens but i want to make sure im compatible and not only by theory either but actually know when its done that person is the person i can be with.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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The marrying type? Posted: 8/16/2009 5:03:01 PM
Yeah ill probably say the marrying type is the type that has the qualities you want. Life is a journey once you've been with someone long enough or know someone well enough to know they have the qualities you want for life..probably best to put a ring on the finger and call it that.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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I think Girls have it a lot easier than Guys when it comes to Love, Dating, Relationships, etc. Posted: 8/16/2009 4:56:21 PM
well id love to meet these girls who chat up men and ask them out i think i deserve it lol. I do believe girls do have it a bit easier just cause of the ratio i guess on this site (that was awhile back someone said it anyways) Also i dont know of men who got the ladies literally lined up to pick and choose form so id still say women have it easier as they will be approached most of the time first and offers will be readily available compared to men but perhaps its just me.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Getting a girl with no relationship experience to open up. Posted: 8/16/2009 4:49:00 PM
Whatever your preferences are in a relationship your likes/dislikes. Im more than sure they exist somewhere. If you feel that she doesn't do the things you want, know what before you give her the wrong impression all together let her go before 6 months in you realize the same thing but you wanted to stick it out.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Do you believe a man of today, still understands the true meaning of romance? Posted: 8/16/2009 4:43:38 PM
It wouldn't even matter if we all were romantic or not. Do you know how many guys front to be romantic and deep down are good for nothing anyways? We are taken the same even if we have wonderful profiles cause you got the girls who go...well he was this and that and then he was a complete jerk so i believe romance isn't there. This concept has made me develop the 3 month rule. In the first 3 months all peoples do best with the first impression, they can be the prince charming of your dreams, once they wooe your heart and got you things begin to diminish thats why its really hard i believe to find true people of this logic. This applies both to men and women as im not sexcist either. As well you got to understand not all the guys who deep down got all the romance and passion and view relationships and their S/O as they everything on the best looking dudes out there. But we all have our standards and so they shape our ways of finding, dating around and eventually hurting. I know there are people out there who have all the qualities we seek in people just lack of patience which is a normal human quality makes it is what it is.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Should I stay with him? Posted: 8/16/2009 4:39:24 PM
Seems to me perhaps a communication problem for 1. If you haven't already brought this up with him, you've waited a good long time and have allowed him to think the behavior for whatever reason is acceptable. In the end i think its what you want and your happy with. Im more that sure a lot of people will lean to the logical and think that this dude is not worth your time and of course if your a wonderful person you deserve better so...yeah do whatever makes you happy.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Where are the love-help articles for men?! Posted: 8/16/2009 4:36:17 PM
For the most part who knows maybe those things work or not. I have never really read anything in that such and i have aspirations to do so. Ill continue to be lonely until i figure it out myself what i lack or dont understand that finds me without something im content with.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Need some advice please (no sarcasm or rude replies please) Posted: 8/16/2009 4:29:32 PM
yeah im guessing your just not truly over your ex yet. Probably the little which made you and him go for however long you have and the people you have met/dated just dont have those key elements which spark your attention. Either you can just hope and pray for whatever he had you find those qualities again or you let go completely and just try to understand there is no one like him and you have to be optismistic of the future. I kinda have the very same problem as you and while ive talked to a few great women since my ex whatever love i had truly in my heart is kinda gone for the time being thus why nothing has happened with any of the people ive met more than a kiss. All that stuff has emotional ties but i guess i must remain optimistic and hope someone great comes my way in time. Best of luck to you :)

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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what would you rather have, peace or passion? Posted: 8/7/2009 12:03:05 PM
yeah i dont think i would settle for anything less than both. Need peace but a lot of passion, makes for a good relationship i think.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Closing your eyes when kissing, making love. Posted: 8/7/2009 12:02:02 PM
Longest time i never really opened my eyes during kissing. But last few times i take a peek to see what the girl is doing but yeah i can't make eye contact while kissing :(

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Sucks in bed and making out but is a good guy Posted: 8/6/2009 5:26:58 PM
well like most people said probably not the wisest choice in places to turn for help but at the same time some great people on these forums who have their share of experiences. In the end it comes down to your peferred taste. If your happy go through and deal with it and see whats of it or as some said keep him as a friend. Make the choice which is best for you when its all said and done. I feel the same way i guess despite not having the best experience in the bedroom but when it gets to that point ill know for sure. Best of luck with your situation :)

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Making out in a theather Posted: 8/6/2009 4:33:34 PM
well even i got a chance to do it once! Well only got to rub her and a little her me but doable. Sex might be overdoing it unless you picked a movie which had no one hehe.

eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/6/2009 4:26:43 PM
whether or not the ladies of the upcoming generation can cook or not, id probably say best learn to take care of things yourself anyways. But of course id agree i would love someone who can cook or at least want to learn to cook, because being in the kitchen can be a great experience just becareful not to piss her off, she might surprise you at how well she can use the knife rofl :P

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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what do you think he is? Posted: 7/22/2009 9:31:10 PM
well in your own story pretty much seems that was something he wanted and something you didn't give. Considering you never discussed it this i guess was his solution. My opinion anyways.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 7/21/2009 11:04:42 AM
Yeah sure i do..i hate her guts :) Jokes aside..agreed she is an ex for a reason but because of her i matured and learned to view life very differently, understood the joys of having something and certain things confined in a relationship. Also learned never to settle for less and if you do its because you want to not cause you have to :) Other than that all bad things sorry :(

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Can somebody help? Posted: 7/21/2009 10:59:15 AM
take it out as your weeding out the bad ones. Everyone has the right to their own preferences and whatever you wish to seek and find out of this site remain patient or take the chance or something you see has potential. You've just run into the bad ones so far who are different stages of their life or pof career. There are some guys who are not rush rush etc and are looking for a slow pace to create something wonderful. Best of luck :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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why do you really think you have to say you dont want a cheater??? Posted: 7/21/2009 10:38:08 AM
Its a phase i guess. You can tell by certain details in a persons profiles. Those ones to be honest i dont give much attention to. Those are the ones who are just easy to prey of some of the people here. Someone who is in good mindset and has their had together and been there done that phase is far beyond that kind of stuff to put in their profile to be honest. But this is what makes us human and individual. To some extent or other we are all seeking the same thing just have different ways of approaching it and different way of getting there :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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No Way Out Posted: 7/21/2009 10:24:39 AM
At the sake of not stepping on toes your post can be taken two completely different ways. Sorry for myself the way i view it is probably the negative of the two and thinking your holding on cause you can't do better. While i guess people can compare this to a job, this is in my opinion is not the same thing at all. Your using the dude for self interests, do some research and look on stabalizing yourself and get out asap, using anyone regardless of situations make you no better than him, so regardless of what he is doing and im more than sure if those 2 are getting some im more than sure they are aware he's with you, you are just going to open up something probably at the end of the day he isn't going to care about. So either like some people said you take it for what it is or if you indeed made 4 different threads and have no answer, your trolling extremely and should be spending more time on figuring how you as a individual can stand on your own 2 feet and do what you need to do what makes you happy. People all over the world are in difficult spots, and im confident in saying yours isn't that all that bad. Go read the thread about the lady asking for advice about her family breaking around her over the loss of her son and come tell me how you think suffering a little to put YOUR life back together and then finding a great man is so much worse? If your main concern was shelter and not having anything atm, i guess call your blessings you still got the shelter for what it is. Me personally id rather go find a shelter to live in to feel like anyone can walk all over me...and ive done and dont regret it. So please do something rather than getting perhaps like hundreds of the same answers in 4 different threads, thank you.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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What would you do? Posted: 7/21/2009 10:03:52 AM
While this is a big situation and only the WIFE can make the final decision, i offer my opinion. First and foremost im very sorry for the loss of the son, im sure everyone is in agreement with that. As well for the situation which it has led the wife to. Now in regards to the husband. The general thing would be that by this term of the marriage (24 years), they would of been though a lot of rough stuff in their relationship and path and overcame them all. I dont think that husband was really at the time looking out for the best interest of the family moreso the well being of himself in the situation. To see if he did in fact find a new wife, it is indeed the wifes best interest to let that individual be and thats it. Coming from a slighty broken home myself at the end of the day the 2 parents can go on but the kids remain and the kids and they are the linking connection between the family. It was the wife's best decision to stand by her kid with the intention of fixing her home because at the end of the day, the husband could indeed get remarried etc but you can't divorce the kid that was carried in her tummy for 9 months or whatever. All families should come under the understanding to some major extent that when you do have children they have to come before the needs of the couple to a huger extent until they are grown up graduated and done their own thing, at least this is what I believe is key in being a good parent (probably cause im a middle class individual) If its up to the husband to find out whats right or wrong. Its something they should both sit down and hammer out and reassure each other whats going to happen, if the love is there the love will prevail, thats their child he is talking about and if he would just believe that she should up and leave her just to satisify his insecurities thats b/s. See but this is a one sided view on the situation because we dont know whats going on in terms of is it just jealousy or has the family had a lot of problems been occuring between husband and wife leading to his belief that she is using this as a scapegoat to run away. That being said love is love, you love someone allow them to do what they need to do and be themselves, if they run, cheat and stuff it then becomes YOUR decision whether you want them back or not or believe you deserve better and YOU will accept the responsibilities for taking that person back. Thats all i have to say, take this as an OPINION, not a SOLUTION to the situation. That and best of luck :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Why does love become so complicated as we age? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:43:34 PM
as the person below the op stats its not a bad thing in a sense. As we grow older we learn about ourselves more, our wants and needs and desires out of a partner. Those guards and walls are more so our expectations and perhaps yes at times its good to lower some of them but at the same time they define the people we are. I know when i was a few years younger the thoughts of holding a relationship and maintaining it were too complicated due to immaturity. Upon reflecting i realized a lot about myself and i have a lot more guards up but at the same time limiting myself from another bad experience. Sometimes what we believe is young true lovers are just two people who are fixated with each other and thats all it is, as time goes on barely do they make it because reality kicks in and it isn't what it is. That being said i haven't seen many relationships of when i was younger last they always fall apart and end with heartbreak because it was built upon just love and not communication and a deep friendship (just my opinion of course).

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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What is real love...and have you ever had it? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:39:57 PM
i agree with you op. However todays relationship people believe its love in the first 3 months and honestly i think thats just the sudden rush of someone new and the closeness your sharing. I truly believe after 3 months you do see the true side of a individual and their reactions to how everyday life is. That being said perhaps ive felt real love before. Considering now i dont have it but after much maturing and thinking about the past i realized what love i had and all the mistakes i went on to lose it so perhaps it was real. True on the other hand properly not so cudos to not using the word true. If this is your definition of love i salute you to your understanding just allow temption not to sway you from it and im sure in time you will find that and nothing but that. I love should stem from a great friendship because if you can't be a great friend with your partner whats the point?

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Smuggly waiting for a relationship to fail Posted: 7/14/2009 10:48:48 AM
This subject to some extent can be viewed in two different ways. While i see what the majority is saying ill share on the side. As long as that individual isn't wishing or wedging for your relationship to fail what is wrong with it? Lets say for instance this person was that best friend that girl always use to run to when she had all her guy troubles. Relationship after relationship he was there for her and maybe he had the qualities she needed and maybe he really loved her and wanted to be with her. If he truly loved that person should he not be patient and wait it out to see if there is a chance it could ever be, before playing the field and "go about in his business in a sense" i have 2 examples perhaps of this where i seen this view. 1 would be my sister where her bf of like 4 years now has liked her since they were in junior school. He always was there for her after a few break ups and finally later on id say maybe a good 5-6 years later he finally manned up and told her how he felt and never had anyone previously and during that time. Another is recently has a friend who loves her, she has gone out with another dude for 3 years, that relationship has failed and he has tried being a friend but his frustration is kicking in to the extent that it is hard to love someone you can never really be with. To go about your business in a sense and really deeply liking someone is a hard thing, specially if your a pretty good read and know that relationship is going to fail. As long as he isn't wedging to fail relationship i dont know. Maybe the problem is your failing at the partners you pick and haven't seen the worth in people who truly care about (directed to the someone and not the OP) My view and i see it like that more than thinking that person is a jerk.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Have 50's era men become obsolete? Posted: 7/14/2009 10:41:50 AM
a lot of them still exists...some of them dont have all their stuff together yet sigh

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Emotionally Unavailable = Scared Posted: 7/14/2009 10:36:42 AM
I agree. Usually a lot of people aren't available right away. Some profiles i will read "just got out of a relationship and looking to get back on the scene". I dont have very much hope in this profiles cause unless your really strong, there has to be lingering feelings and your possibly just looking for others to talk to in a sense. That being said and of course its my opinion (above). Its human nature to be this way you never know you just maybe that one person the other encounters that changes their aspect or enlightens them in some sense and allows them to learn to love again or become emotionally available. Just dont give up and dont worry all the love you have will one day find someone worthy of it, best of luck :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Fear of Love? Posted: 6/30/2009 10:03:52 AM
More or less based on my past experiences i feel the same way at times and its a helpless feelings but you have to learn to relax and go with the flow..easier said than done of course.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Please answer this question. Posted: 6/30/2009 10:02:20 AM
yeah more than likely there are just other medians for people your age in order to find a partner of that preference. Perhaps searching around for another suitable site..maybe you find some bi ones on here but not sure if youll find lesbians your age. Best of luck in your search!

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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going down on a guy Posted: 6/29/2009 9:27:38 PM
at the end of the day..different strokes for different folks. Communication is the key.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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This jerk told me to get lost because I didn't reply right away Posted: 6/29/2009 9:26:43 PM
well i know before i use to be a little worried when people didn't reply right away when i sent a message when i see the "read" status, but then i realized everyone does things in their own time. Yes at times i may feel you know what you took like a week to reply or something must means whatever your chasing in some sense didn't work out and i was your other option. But at the same time i feel you know what if you start acting like that right from the beginning who knows what could of came from being nice right? That being said he was rude but you didn't show you were any better by calling him a *sshole. So your both in fault but get over it, so is life and human behavior not the end of the world in my opinion, there are far most things to worry and think about in life :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Deodorant, perfume and cologne: Do we really need 'em? Posted: 6/25/2009 3:12:34 PM
I dont know if i really hate my body odour but i wear cologne and stuff now. I guess it has had more people turn their eyes towards me not to mention dressing up a bit more but i guess it gets the job done. For some it can really help with self confidence while others it can mask their self confidence...trippy :P

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 6/25/2009 3:10:39 PM
I think not, her past is her past and its nothing she can change or take back right. If your really interested in this girl let it all go and start afresh now. Be grateful she took the time share this experience with you and thats that really. Anyways all the best.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Ladies and the few extra pound guys. Posted: 6/25/2009 3:09:05 PM
well i guess to some extent the same can be said of the actual status of relationships as well. I dont think my look or size has changed any since ive been on this site. The minute i changed my status from long term to friends i noticed i was getting more responses from others. I dont know if it has something to do with the mind but i guess it makes sense that to even wonder about having a long term relationship, one should be friends first. But none the less whatever your case maybe i say be true to what you are and put your details as is at least when you know someone is going to message you they fully well know what you are exactly via profile and pics..if not they messaged you when they were doped up haha. All the best.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Why R they so Critical? Posted: 6/2/2009 10:48:05 AM
my response might a bit long so i do apologize about it Well i dont think there is anything wrong with what you find attractive in a guy. I mean i think before the physical aspect your looking for a thinker and stuff and i believe in the long run a guy with a huge heart and a great mind will always be a better lover to his partner than the one with looks..just my personal opinion..to each their own of course. You can view his comment on both sides of the spectrum i believe. At one side you think to yourself this guy is a real jerk and couldn't just appreciate it my work for what it is and compliment you accordingly. This in itself could possibly mean this guy was really honest with you and let you knew how he felt even if no one else in that class was willing to give you the same constructive critism. I know that at times a partner needs to know when to be supportive and use the right words giving the situation..but honesty and communication should prevail when its all said and done. On the other side you can think to yourself if he agreed with everyone in the class that he was just sugarcoating and being like everyone else and at times a thinker may feel...did this dude really mean it or did he say it because of everyone else? Sometimes its hard being a thinker because you tend to overthink everything in life and at times you just miss you on the finer things and the things which really bring the smile to your face and heart you know. See the easy way out of that predicament would of been "hunnie your painting is awesome, maybe a little more orange here point and it would be as perfect as you). That way he would of covered both bases but at the same given you an honest opinion...but only a real brainer can think like that muahahah. Ive been through my share of bs with girls and stuff..now finally i got someone who walked into my life who truly makes me feel like a somebody. Honest and blunt yet loving etc etc. So whatever picture you have in your head of your dream guy..i wouldn't say give up on it. Do not put up too many boundaries though in your mind because sometimes knocking some of them down is what is stopping you from finding out that real knock out you know? All the best and please keep up posted! ps. i only read the first post sorry :(

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Get rid of new Puppy or Else... Posted: 6/2/2009 10:36:45 AM
Never let a woman get in the way of the things you love and enjoy. A animal is no less of a living breathing thing as us humans. If they can't share or understand your love and passion for the puppy..as someone said let her leave your better off. There will be someone who understands, appreciates and is there with you every step of the way the things you love and enjoy. Never think otherwise and compromise that feeling..this is what i believe :)

Eibu1985

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Would I be considered old fashioned? Posted: 5/17/2009 10:00:25 PM
yep i believe in the same logic as well. Sex is great but rather have some feelings develop behind it. When your horny your horny..just watch porn thats why its there duh -_-

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Is this dating site to find love or sex????????? Posted: 5/17/2009 5:19:43 PM
dating with sex leading to a ltr eventually and i think ive found it, so i got my fingers crossed!

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts? Posted: 5/17/2009 5:16:21 PM
Im a boobies guy because i dont know ive never been super interested in the booty..however the girl ive met now has a wonderful one so who knows views may change in time :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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no sex = no dating? Posted: 5/17/2009 5:13:11 PM
There are some guys out there who will share your views and agree to the same. When i get into a good conversation and i feel that something can happen i do question the sexual issue because for me personally i can understand where your coming from but i know i dont want to wait till marriage, i want it before during etc etc. So everyone has their preferences so i guess hold to them or wait until the right guy makes you feel otherwise, happy hunting :)

Eibu1985

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What Changes in the male mind after sex Posted: 5/16/2009 9:18:30 PM
nope not all men are like. I want some passion and cuddling and it will come when it will come.

Eibu1985

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I need some dating help Posted: 5/16/2009 7:53:41 AM
Myself personally as me and my best friend were talking about this actually last night. With the experiences we've been through (much like your own can count partners on one hand), use the net and being able to talk to our advantage. For him, he will take a long dragged out approach in getting to know the person and seeing if its worth it to date the person. This logic in my view, seems to tend to lead you down more disappointment because after a long period of time if the person doesn't show interest or you just find one thing that irks you, all that time gone :( Myself on the other hand, usually in potential dates that i think may go somewhere (only ever met like 2 anyways) Once a certain amount of talking has been reached, probably a week or so, i check the compatibility and start ask the questions about dating and stuff (usually much sooner once the icrbreaking is done). I lay out my view on relationships etc and if they continue to talk they talk, if not thats it and cut strings. I know what i want, i know what im willing to settle for and im not going to take awhile and try things out even if i find one thing i dont like. So to each their own. The lifestyle of today indeed is this casual dating thing and sometimes it leads to sex and sometimes it doesn't. Be patient, keep browsing and talk a little then see where it goes into a date. Make sure as well you dont have too many limitations on your side, some things you will have to be optimistic and you may be surprised of the outcome. Happy hunting :)

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

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Acknowledging when you've had enough Posted: 5/3/2009 5:18:15 PM
well you know whats good for yourself right? Perhaps its just a phase and when a good girl comes around youll say different. We all have our ups and down which puts us in that position (Im only 23 and ive felt like that) but its just a lesson in life. I also learned maybe yes i dont really want a relationship but for what ive learned and been through there is no reason i should stop trying to put myself out there and sharing what i feel with others (kinda like this), as you never know who you might touch with your words. Just got to remain optimistic of your future. Better days are coming

Eibu1985

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To yield a return, an investment is needed Posted: 5/3/2009 4:44:49 PM
she didn't solve any problem, she just brought to the surface "common sense" which most people on here who browse forums to some extent have anyways.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 152 (view)

What motivates you to look for a relationship? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:40:56 PM
As ive never had luck so far, ive taken probably a couple of friends away to another median which was decent. I know i can never effectively be content with just a virtual relationship cause as i get older i do wish to engage in more social activities outside the computer screen. Im still hoping, wishing and looking though

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

I just dont understand females of any age Posted: 5/3/2009 4:35:24 PM
indeed brush it off, better to fail then to end up with fail. Without really knowing her she was already on your lap and kissing you, if it isn't you its the guy at the next place...you are failing about much bud. Stuff happiness there are plenty more girls in the world, things take time i was at your point at one time to the point i stopped caring and now things get better, some days i get to meet a great woman, other days i dont..meh.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 32 (view)

Do you hesitate to contact someone with zero roses left? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:30:46 PM
not something i probably would of thought about until this just moment as i just learned a few days ago about these gift things...gives me something more to think about upon sending a message..thanks

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

Is it possible to 'tame' a man? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:29:32 PM
probably wont have to tame him. But in time perhaps he will change himself, wouldn't hold your breath though, it works both ways good people change to bad as well sigh

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 4 (view)

Do we go into relationships, knowing that it will end? Posted: 5/1/2009 5:50:23 PM
I wont start a relationship if there is any reason that they will end. I do want a life lasting relationship, thus why im still single.

Eibu1985

Joined: 1/18/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

Why Must It Always Be the Man Who Make First Contact? Posted: 5/1/2009 5:49:22 PM
well honestly my experience all the time there are two types of girls in terms of my messages. Mind you i do put in good effort when it comes messages NOW as i have grown and matured. You either get the read/deleted or the ones who will respond really good back. Im old fashioned as well and will message the girl but based on that first response if she is a one liner type, thats about it because im not interested in people who can take the time to make a meaningful relationship of any kind. Just be patient if indeed you've only been on here for 10 days, you will know how to communicate and just dont lower your stands for a response, its not worth it.

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