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Help!!
Posted: 3/3/2009 8:08:16 AM | | I've found men on a whole will not tell you what is bothering them if it has to do with their work or family they shut down. The more you try to obtain information the worse you'll make it. I think your taking this too personal it may have nothing to do with you at all. If when he's with you he's fine and loving that tells me your his safe place and if continue to keep digging you won't be the safe place anylonger. You'll become part of the stress he's feeling. Let it go if he is not responsive just tell him to call you when he feels up to talking and give him his space. If and when he wants to tell you what's wrong he will don't try to pry it out. You love him then love him unconditionally which means don't try to change or impose he has the right to his privacy and his own life, just as you do. A good relationship is coming together in the middle of your lives and sharing it. Best wishes I hope this helped. | | | |
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