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estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 80 (view)

Dating a dad of an undiciplined child Posted: 8/22/2009 2:18:41 PM
You might want to end it cause the situation wont ever change and you dont want to be around when this kid hits the teenage years cause it will get worse

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 41 (view)

i think i'm done. should i stay? Posted: 8/22/2009 2:00:45 PM
You get snarky responses cause your like every other newbie whining about not finding imediate love within the first few weeks and threatning to leave as if anyone here cared . If your done then get to steppin and you dont have to announce it and whine looking for a pat on the back. If not then use the forums for advice on how to make it a better experiance such as leave out saying they had more interest than you, thats irrelevant information and makes you come off as bitter. Definatley change your user name not that Im saying theres anyting wrong but try one thats less controversial and not be so defensive about what it means to you. Last thing quit looking for that so called spark it dosent exsist cause look at how many divorces between people who say they felt a spark when they met, instead try getting to know someone over a period of time, if your looking for a spark thats just another way of saying your looking for love at first sight.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 295 (view)

why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 8/18/2009 2:27:25 PM
Just be glad he eliminated himself so early on i knlw i would never date someone that had a problem like they just hated dogs my god come on. If theres a health issue (allergys) or some kind of fobia I can understand. Its been my experiance that people who have pets seem more pleasant to be around theyre more laid back down to earth kind of people rather than people who dont seem more arrogant, irratable and have this holyer than thou attitude, not all but most.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 11 (view)

The General Lee... on a Date... Posted: 8/13/2009 4:27:41 PM
Thanks for clearing up what the General Lee is cause here in the US we wouldnt know that (geez) I think it would be awsome to be picked up in a fun car who wouldnt like it?

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 64 (view)

The Dangers of Faceboof!!! Posted: 8/12/2009 10:40:34 PM
Obviously hes hiding something otherwise why not?

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

Need advice for my sister.... Posted: 8/3/2009 9:46:18 PM
Probably because he wants to keep his nice house cause if it dont work out she gets half of everything. These days marriage is nothing more than a binding contract.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

The Sweetest/Cutest 6 yr old refuses to not sleep with her Mommy (me) Posted: 8/2/2009 2:07:29 PM
Your the best person to decide what best for your child, I wouldnt listen to these so called experts sayin Ive raised this many kids and blah blah blah, that doesnt make them an expert on your child. Listen to your motherly instincts and Im sure you will make the right decisions

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 273 (view)

Why are single moms so open to having additional children by another man? Posted: 8/2/2009 1:57:25 PM
What differance does it make to you maybe you need to worry bout you and quit looking down your nose at what some women have done, if it was a good idea great! if not oh well who cares its none of your business

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 145 (view)

Does this drive all men nuts? Posted: 8/2/2009 1:42:00 PM
You say hes a good boy friend yet your on a dating site with a profile that reads like your looking for someone.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 44 (view)

Help.....i need advice about my ex Posted: 8/2/2009 1:07:39 PM
This girl is poison you need to put some distance between yall. You are not in love with this person your whipped and whipped hard. You will find someone better but not if your still pinning over this loser

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 25 (view)

First Date Posted: 7/30/2009 4:42:18 PM
You made a bad decision to spend 300 bucks on a date with someone you havnt even met. Chalk it up to a 300 dollar life lesson and move on.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 51 (view)

was i being played for a fool? Posted: 7/30/2009 2:03:36 PM
Use your gut feeling if it looks like crap and it smells like crap its crap

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 47 (view)

Career: Poker Player Posted: 7/24/2009 2:07:56 PM
Hes a pro untill he loses then hes just unemployed and will use any money he can get to be a pro again including yours , run from this guy. Gamblers also like to exagerate thier winnings and down play losses. I met a woman that said she made a 100,000 last year yet hardly had any furnature in her house.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

Phone number/texting on the first or second message? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:57:49 PM
what are you complaining about.... My god people ** that they cant get a response and then ** about getting a phone number, besides wasnt there a time before the internet that people exchanged numbers upon the first meeting. I prefer to get to talking on the phone as opposed to endless emailing.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

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having fun with scam come-ons Posted: 7/17/2009 11:41:30 PM
I have when I go t bored but Check out this website these are the pros at gettin back at the scammers. www.419eater.com

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 995 (view)

Why do stunning women go for geeks Posted: 7/14/2009 4:24:52 PM
Where do you see this? Where I am stunning women only date pretty boys plain and simple

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 57 (view)

What do you make of this? Posted: 7/14/2009 4:21:59 PM
Sounds like a drug problem to me

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 138 (view)

Are pay dating sites worth it? Posted: 7/14/2009 4:16:56 PM
Stay away from pay sites all they want is your money if they find you a mate then you close your account they cant get money

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

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texting during a first date Posted: 7/14/2009 4:14:57 PM
You shouldnt have to remind someone of thier manners . One qick text to say Im ok to thier loved ones is fine but constantly is inexcusible and you did the right thing and no it wasnt harsh she selfishly wasted your entire evening and time is money so paying the bill is the least she can do for being so inconsiderate.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 47 (view)

A story I thought I'd share Posted: 7/14/2009 4:09:23 PM
I wouldnt mind them bringing a friend for a first meet if it makes them feel safe but at least give a heads up so I can bring a friend to tey to reduce the awkwardness but never bring your kids especialy if you feel the situation requires bringing a friend for protection.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 72 (view)

Said Hello hun and was accuesed of being forward and blocked ! Posted: 7/14/2009 4:02:22 PM
If someone gets upset over being called hun is way to anal to be with anyway. Life is to short for some one like that be glad you found out quick. Isnt it great though how people elininate themselves?

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

Hi 5 network runined my marriage! Posted: 7/12/2009 2:41:59 PM
Sites like space, book ect. are nothing but trouble I remember watching my nieces fighting over guys on there and who is whos number 1 friend and blah blah blah. When I had my space I got tired of explaining to women I met who each and everyone of my female frinds were. Its just best to stay off theses sites all together cause its too easy for someone to get the wrong idea and cost you a relationship

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 44 (view)

Shattered heart Posted: 7/12/2009 1:58:29 PM
How can you be so in love with such a sorry sob I feel somewhat sorry for you but a lot of your pain is self inflicted, you knew he was in love with her but you went into it anyway. You need to gain the strength and do you and your kids a favor and move on , it will never work with him no matter what and you have to realize that. You will find someone better than him and when you do watch him start calling more and sking who this new guy is but you tell him its none of his dam business. It will get better but your gonna have to make it happen.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 109 (view)

Would you ever consider? Posted: 7/12/2009 1:08:05 PM
I dated a wonderful woman that was in a wheel chair and it was great she was very self efficient in fact the only time she needed assistance was to go from the chair to bed or in the bath and back again but everything else she was able to do for herself. We went hunting and fishing , boating and just about anything we wanted. Theres not a lot a person in a chair cant do so I would definiately date someone in a chair

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 255 (view)

Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/12/2009 12:59:03 PM
All that means is that they married the wrong person .

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 66 (view)

My fiance continually leaves me High and Dry Posted: 7/12/2009 12:56:27 PM
Do not marry this guy dump his lazy ass and find someone better.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

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What to do when a woman is publicly and drunkenly getting handsy? Posted: 7/12/2009 12:54:22 PM
Why dont you just admit you took her home and nailed her. No man turns down guaranteed sex. Guys like you crack me up

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 70 (view)

Explain.Good in Bed Posted: 7/12/2009 12:40:45 AM
Good in bed?means you get me off before you get off, you make me feel sexy and desirable and the most wonderful woman in the world, and I do the same for you. Beth Yes this is what I always thought just wish I had more opportunity to prove it.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 227 (view)

Penis Names Posted: 7/12/2009 12:37:35 AM
I gotta remeber that

estes501

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Msg: 152 (view)

Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/12/2009 12:27:59 AM
Its too easy to find someone else that dosnt find it repulsive I understand you dont like it but a lot of women do.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 274 (view)

Why do so few women seek only sex?? Posted: 7/12/2009 12:22:57 AM
Thier out there you just looking on the wrong site this is a dating site not a sex site so if your looking for a sex hook up go to the many sex sites out there and you will find one.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 1027 (view)

Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 7/12/2009 12:00:26 AM
Just how would you prove you were tricked. Our courts are over flowing now . Every couple that broke up would be claiming they were tricked just to get back at them for dumping them.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

why does a guy just stop calling after a couple of months??? Posted: 7/11/2009 11:54:53 PM
He moved on to someone else it happens I know it has to me I just figure they lose intersest for whatever reason and move on. Dont sweat it your an attractive person that can do better than him anyway and in a week or so you wont even remember his name.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 26 (view)

Don't Come Here Cos People Know Me?????????? Posted: 7/11/2009 11:52:11 PM
Trust your instincts. If it looks like BS and it smells like BS guess what? Its BS.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

Drugs?! Posted: 7/11/2009 2:37:48 PM
I dont agree with that people who drink are worse than people who smoke. How many people have been killed by drunk driving , just because it illeagal dosnt mean its as bad as its thought to be. Alcohol was illeagal at one time and yes under definition pot is a drug but so is alcohol, nicotine, and caffiene.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 34 (view)

Whats up with that? REALLY? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:05:29 PM
the family hes refering to is his wife and kids and he not that close to his family means he wished he wasnt married with kids

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 88 (view)

Anyone ever try Singlesnet.com ? Posted: 6/29/2009 1:57:05 PM
Atually I have better luck on there. I quit going to that one when someone I was talking to knew of a way to see if I was sending messages and no she didnt have my password nor did she put a key logger in my computer but she knew everytime i did send a message. She didnt know what was written or who it was sent to she just knew I sent one

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

Women with Harleys Posted: 6/29/2009 1:52:43 PM
I dated a woman that had a sportster and it didnt bother me a bit it was a lot of fun to ride, dang I miss that gal!!!

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 21 (view)

HOW TO CUT IT SHORT??? Posted: 6/29/2009 1:42:19 PM
Why not just tell them you want to cut it short because your not as attractive to me as you were in your photos its being honest that you want to dump them soley on looks now if they were 10 yr old pics thats dishonest but so is making up an excuse to cut the date short.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

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POF babysitter Posted: 6/21/2009 11:47:12 PM
Omg i cant believe she would leave her child with a stranger like that, maybe you shoulda called CPS and told them she abanded him on you. It also seems fishy she got the call so soon into the date seems to me she had it planned.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 89 (view)

What's your deal breaker? (re profiles first glance) Posted: 6/18/2009 2:19:12 PM
Im amazed at how long the lists are for dealbreakers and Im talking about the ones with silly stuff on thier list like they have kids or profile pic isnt perfect or typos in their profile, its no wonder people complain so much on here about how hard it is to meet someone theres too many silly hangups. My dealbreaker is people too busy to date, I see a lot of profiles where they say they work two jobs and go to school and go on to say thier very busy and dont have much time yet thier looking for longterm.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 40 (view)

When is it cheating? Posted: 6/17/2009 11:25:21 PM
Landra said it best if you have to hide it its cheating.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 174 (view)

Are men more attracted to women that play hard to get? Posted: 6/17/2009 11:10:27 PM
Playing hard to get is another dating "game" and games are not a good thing, it would be better if everyone was honest and went for what they want without the games.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 606 (view)

does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 6/17/2009 10:59:40 PM
Nope not at all, its the non smokers who drink and drive and come down on people who smoke that turn me off

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

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Cell Phone Addiction Posted: 6/17/2009 10:46:48 PM
Just think that you were able to eliminate this person sooner than later. I had a date like that, all she did was text during dinner and barely said two words to me so I got up after eating went to my car, left then texted her that" I dont think this is going to work so good luck to you."

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 37 (view)

do you trust a negative testimonial about a guy you met Posted: 6/11/2009 12:07:33 PM
Its probably true hes a guy isnt he? Its what guys do on here not all but most, I know Im a guy and I hear them talk . Go out with him and see what happens but dont mention the other testimonial. That way you can add your own if he does the same thing with you.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 23 (view)

What u guys are really looking for in a girl? Posted: 6/10/2009 8:41:27 PM
I look for women who dont ask me "what exaxctly are you looking for". The funny thing is the ones who ask this never have an answer themselves. Sorry but I think its one of the dumbest things to ask somebody, makes metting more like an interview.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 33 (view)

Random compliments not a good thing? Posted: 6/10/2009 8:36:56 PM
Some people just suck thats it . I complimented a woman at a fastfood place waiting in line and she was so happy about it she forgot what she was going to order.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 252 (view)

Should she have paid for her share of meal ? Posted: 6/10/2009 8:17:24 PM
There are women who will do that all is good till thier out the door then its " i dont see us goining out" then they walk away with thier tummys full and get back online to shop for tomorrows dinner. Use your gut instinct if it tells you things arent going well then just put out your share and leave her to pay hers. If she truly likes you she wont mind paying.

estes501

Joined: 1/20/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

If this were your friend what would YOU do? Posted: 3/8/2009 9:13:16 PM
You cant help those who wont help themselves

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