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adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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is it ok to keep ur options open Posted: 5/11/2006 10:17:07 PM
I am sure you already know it's not him in your future but you keep him around for a fall back person. One sided relationships don't work and your friend should save some embarassment and move on.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Why misrepresent yourself? Posted: 5/11/2006 10:11:07 PM
Insucure thats it nothing else, these people think no one would want them for who they relly are. The truth always shines through.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Back to the ex! Posted: 5/11/2006 9:49:24 PM
Sadly most are insucure after a break up and cant be alone. You have to pay attention to how much contact there is with the ex, the ones that are still close to their ex are more prone to go back. Ex's always seem to want what they cant have and interfer in new relationships.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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when it doesn't work out...... Posted: 3/14/2006 8:34:11 PM
The problem with talking online to a person to long takes alot of personality out of meeting someone, you dont see their reaction to the conversation. Everything needs to be up front, you have to be honest about your feelings. It would be great if people quit playing head games when they left junior high. Dont keep people in your life that make you uncomfortable, it will limit your life.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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The Reason Posted: 3/1/2006 10:27:55 PM
Why is it that people always blame their childhood for their behavior? I grew up with alcoholic and abusive parents. I have never hit a women and not an alcoholic, treat my kids with respect and love them very much. Abusive people will blame everything but themselves, self confidence makes and breaks people. Funny they always seem to be with someone?

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Whats the deal with girls and thier own forms of communication Posted: 3/1/2006 9:08:30 PM
I dont see what the problem is you know what makes us happy, sex. We hang out with our buddies to have fun. Women are very complex and men get bored easily. We don't care about little details of a general conversation. I have to say that european women are easier to be with, they care about us as much as themself, north american women are very needy and care only about themselves. Now dont freak out ladies your not all like this only 90%,lol. I only have a short time here till I move to Greece, gentlemen I strongly suggest if you travel overseas avoid all north american women and you will meet some incredible ladies. Why do you think I am leaving. Heres a little example, if I drive my dakota truck down whyte ave, nothing. If I drive my porsche it's a totally different story with phone numbers, the only thing I changed was the vehicle. Same guy, same looks and same attitude, ladies you tell me? I can ride a moped and meet all types of women in different countries, try that here.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Question to all the guys out there......... Posted: 1/28/2006 7:14:18 PM
Thats a great question. I dont think there was anyway of saving my marriage, people change and we both wanted different lifestyles. I loved her very much but would rather take my chances meeting someone with similar interest. Don't be in a rush to fill the void, enjoy your life with the people around you then that certain person will enter your life when the time is right. Happy hunting.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Good Kissing = Good Sex? Posted: 1/25/2006 12:51:19 AM
Its all in the tounge. Strong tounges used the right way means I may never get my head out from between her legs. If your in your thirties and still suck in bed maybe you should ask some questions.

adventurest1

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single father frustrated at lack of insincerity on these sites Posted: 1/25/2006 12:41:48 AM
Dont take it to heart, thats human nature. Do you find it any better in the bar? When the right one comes along the sparks will fly, everyone is in too big of a hurry to fill a void. When you find happiness and selfconfidence in yourself is when the right person will enter your life. If you had confidence you never would have posted this topic. Men hit on women, women reject men, eventually the right 2 meets, it is a numbers game, dont give up. Sorry dude just being honest.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Dating someone because they look good on you. Posted: 12/26/2005 12:16:00 AM
Did we marry the same women,lol. Vanity is a fact of life, I know I won't date a women that is below a certain standard, but have met lots of great women that I would not date but I have become friends with. I don't want to be mean but I also know what I want to wake up to in the morning, there are tons of great looking women out there that are very smart in every aspect in life and mine will come along again sometime. In the mean time I am enjoying meeting wonderful people. And yes I know I am not attractive to all women so please do not take offense to my comment, beauty is a package and looks are part of it.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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What have you learned from your failed relationships? Posted: 12/26/2005 12:02:01 AM
I loved my wife of 13 years, but also realized that in the last 2 years we were growing apart rapidly. We met and married young have 2 great kids. I have learned that people change way too much in their 20's and early 30's to totally understand what they really want in life. I would not change a thing if I re-lived it over knowing the out come, people touch people in certain ways that make us the person we are today, and going through a joyfull or a painfull experience only strengthens and teaches us new lessons in life. I will admit it was hard for me to get over her leaving to be with someone that gave her a 10 000 diamond ring before she moved out, and then the choice of driving a vette or denali, felt like a giant slap in the face after providing for my family for that many years and she never had to work. I am so much happier now after letting it all go. I am not the jealous type, I can make my own money and I travel a fair amount with my kids. I have to say I am defensive towards money when it comes to women, I am very generous but seem to attract the diggers, but have come to realize that I have found happiness with myself, my kids and my friends(both sexes) the sex thing is great but too much of a distraction when it's with someone you don't really want to be with. Life is too short to live it for someone else, when there is someone out there that wants to live it with you.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Soooooooooo curious......... Posted: 12/25/2005 11:24:15 PM
point taken. I grew up in white suberia, middle class, very few different races. I like most of my friends had a certain cultural up bringing, as do people from around the world, with total differences in all aspects of life. I would have to stick to my first statement that black women kick ass in bed and most other areas in life then most other races. Just my point of view, I like people for who they are, not their colour, my closets friends are not even white.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Soooooooooo curious......... Posted: 12/25/2005 10:11:58 PM
I have dated a few black women and have always had a great time with them, not because they are black but great people. *holes and **es have no colour. I do have to say that a black women is far better between the sheets then any other race I have slept with, wow.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Why is this Cop legally stalking Me! Posted: 12/25/2005 10:06:40 PM
I have dated and become friends with women that were married or seeing a cop. There are some good cops out there but none that I have heard about in the dating world, they use their power to the full extent and are very well protected in the boys club. Be carefull and hire a lawyer.

adventurest1

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Is this the new trend for approaching women? Posted: 12/25/2005 9:56:40 PM
Lack of self confidense and if there is no response it's your fault not their's. This way they will never have to face the real loser that peers back at them every morning in the mirror. There are still alot of great people in this world male and female, why cant we just get along,lol.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Why do so many guys... Posted: 12/25/2005 9:45:33 PM
Women can be blamed for this, My ex is a very good looking lady, she turned heads all the time. I had more action from women when she went for a drink or the washroom, then I do going out with buddies. They want what they can't have, now they can have but don't want????? It had nothing to do with me it was all a female thing, done with the plastic type anyhow, I enjoy a women with self confidence that dose not need to be validated by every guy in the bar.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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seems that every one is so angry Posted: 12/25/2005 9:35:59 PM
It's not just here, people are becoming increasingly rude and defensive. I find more people dissatisfied with their lives, partners, etc... Society says we should all be fit and living the glamorous life. Some try but are in so much debt they don't enjoy life too much anymore. I could never focus when I was married but now have a clear path in life. Heading to Europe where people are far more relaxed and live life for family and loved ones instead of having the big house or 80 000 car. North America is trying to live the MTV life.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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What have you learned about dating this year? Posted: 12/25/2005 9:25:27 PM
Got off topic about sweetie's comment. I learned that I am happier with my kids and friends then trying to fill the void of a good women. When it's right it happens, no effort required, everything falls into place.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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What have you learned about dating this year? Posted: 12/25/2005 9:18:55 PM
(That being a blonde is a curse in life..............) Something called hair dye, looking at your profession you would miss the attention, neg or pos. My ex said the same thing, she would dye her hair dark and lose all the attention, and blonde she was again? Don't complain about something you would miss.......

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 12/25/2005 12:38:55 PM
One can only find true happiness in themselves. Too many always try finding it in someone else. Men want the little hottie and women want to know they are taken care of $$, the north american way. Taking my money to Greece to travel across Europe,lol, no wonder I'm single and happy, hahahaha. No one to **** at me for having fun.

adventurest1

Joined: 12/19/2005

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Am I doing the right thing? Posted: 12/24/2005 11:13:33 PM
Break ups suck. Was married 13 years she found a bigger wallet, I kept looking for happiness in others. When you find happiness in yourself is when that special person enters your life. Quit distracting yourself by looking to others for your happiness. If you really want him back just ignore him and move on, he will be on your doorstep when you say good bye. Good luck in your life and believe in carma, what one does to others always comes back 10 fold better or worse.

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