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Thick_Curvy_Cutie

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 39 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/27/2009 1:32:14 PM
Ok DichoTommy and starrynu, I read what you said and it did took me to realize what you said is true. So, I took out that sentence and reconfigure my restrictions. change my name and title that I am much happier with. regarding my profile, I personally not completely happy with. I feel something is missing and just cant figure it out as to what!! Its soo frustrating!! If anyone else can help it would be appreciated as long its is NOT ABOUT MY TATTOO'S!!! Honestly, thank you for your time and consideration.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/13/2009 11:47:19 PM
I am becoming completely fed up with this whole tattoo topic. Obviously if you don't like it, then I am not the women for you. It just that simple. I am not going to waste my time on you nor are you going to waste your time on me. You are not my target just like I am not your target market. PLEASE stop dragging this topic anymore, I am not asking your opinion of them or I should even consider getting one. JUST MOVE ON!!! This is not why I am here. I am here to get a review of my profile. What I should change to show my self off wonderfully. If your whole critique is slamming on my body art, then you aren't here to help me, just bring me down and I am sick of it.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 34 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/13/2009 11:26:10 AM
Why? That is my full body picture and it how I look like. Its accurately represent my body. LIke I mention before, I am a fat chick, can't hide nor do I care to. Not interested in a man who doesn't like fat chick, waste of freaking time.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 32 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/12/2009 11:28:24 PM
Ok, Gone To The Beach 09 currently limited my I's and I'ms as much as I could. As for reading other women profile, honestly, it didn't help. If it did I wouldnt be here asking for help. thank you though.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 29 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/11/2009 9:47:27 PM
I never understood why it wasn't highlight...well talk about a no duh!! Thanks cupids brother, I will do that.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/11/2009 7:48:07 AM
OfficerLMFAO not going to change it

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 25 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/10/2009 11:10:45 PM
Before, I get into this, I want to give a HUGE THANKS to mayoroftempe, your opinions were mine completely!! I couldn't have said better myself. I have tattoos, and guess what, I had them done because I wanted to. I am not ashamed of them, in fact I LOVED THEM!! I love what they mean and represent to me. I am not going to hide it from anyone, what for? Why do I need to hide who I am? This whole topic of covering up my tat is not going to happen EVER!! I am not going degrade myself by making false advertisement of who and what I am. If I am going to hide them they I wouldn't have gotten them in the first place. Since I did and love them, baby they are going to be part of who I am and will be showen off. Its part of me and I am not embarrassed of myself. Obviously, if a man doesn't like a fat chick with tattoos then I am not his type. Why would I want to waste my and his time? Why is everyone so wrapped on the people we can't have, that is HUGE WASTE OF TIME! I am not looking for Brad Pitt, I am looking for Seth Rogan.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 16 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/7/2009 10:25:49 PM
Thank you Blonderose and mayoroftempe, your two suggestion hopefully improved my chances of what I am looking for. GQSunset, I did delete that photo you mention and change the kids things. I just read a few other women profile, who aren't Mom who do want kids, and it just seem DESPERATE!! I don't want to lump in that catagory. I am well aware that a) I am a fat chick and B) I have tattoos. So that comment of not being everyone cup of tea, well that is pretty much no duh. I don't care about the one who don't care for me, that is a huge waste of time. My concern is to the ones who are interested in me yet me not being approachable or showing myself off glowingly.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 11 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/7/2009 3:31:39 PM
Thanks for the advice and I will add more in what I am looking for. But honestly, I have my restrictions for a reason, getting to know a much older/younger man does not interest me at all, I enjoy men my own age. I am here for someone to date, not just make friends with, and so I don't understand why would I take out the milage part. Please explain.

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Need advice Posted: 10/4/2009 4:18:38 PM
Personally, I enjoyed your profile it gives a hint of who you are & encourage to know more about you. Just give it some time. The only real thing I didn't like is your default picture at all. Something about it just not flattering however the other photos you have are soo much better! I like the one of you & your kid, ohh soo cute! Good luck

And What If. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 10/4/2009 4:10:43 PM
Any more suggestions? In regards of both profile & photos?

thick_curvy_beauty

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 375 (view)

do you look like your pictures? Posted: 8/12/2009 12:35:20 AM
I have gotten the phrase I look just like my photo or better, which I tell you its a relief. Honestly, being a fat chick who will never be thin no matter how HARD I tried, I don't want no drama of a guy thinking or believing I lied to him. This one dude thought I was a lot more lighter than I actually was, and I can feel his disgusted of me so strongly, it was the worst. No, I want to show how I look like as much as I can to avoid that horrible tension and feeling.

thick_curvy_beauty

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 68 (view)

Good Looking, Nice Credentials - Why No Connection? Posted: 8/12/2009 12:31:38 AM
Because it doesn't matter how great looking or how fantastic their credentails may be its all about CHEMESTRY. Not everyone clicks or feels the same for one another, or even looking for the same thing. Its Chemestry and timing, I think.

thick_curvy_beauty

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 725 (view)

Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 8/12/2009 12:10:18 AM
the only thing I can say, which I am sure its been repeated before, either sleeping alone or sleeping with my dog that loves me unconditionaly, I would much rather feel loved than alone. That is why I do it.

Thick_Curvy_Beauty

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 26 (view)

how many of you on this site Posted: 6/27/2009 10:39:45 PM
I am STD Free, get it done annually along with my Pap. However, if when I do enter into a new relationship, and it will become physical, I want both uf to get tested. I lived this long being careful and want to continue to be careful.

Thick_Curvy_Beauty

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 37 (view)

What are you inclined to do? Posted: 6/27/2009 5:37:34 PM
Slam that door shut and move on. Go after what you really want and able to have, instead of going back and fully knowing there isn't going to happen with that person.

Thick_Curvy_Beauty

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 212 (view)

Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 6/27/2009 5:36:11 PM
There are plenty of great single guys out there but being bitter is not going attract them. I know there is a lot of crappy men out there, internet and real world however there also some really great men there too. Just keep on trying and be positive and you will find what you are looking for.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 19 (view)

Grey Hair: Distinguished, or EX-tinguished? Posted: 6/25/2009 11:14:22 PM
Gray hair can be very sexy look. Check out Jon Steward, Anderson Cooper, George Clooney, even Steve Martin (he was premature gray too!). I say keep it, not only is it sexy its also unique!!

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 84 (view)

Adults using text speak on their PCs Posted: 6/23/2009 11:22:22 PM
I can not stand text speak when I get an email, it just a turn off. It just shows a lack of effort to even write a decent email. Yes, text is great for shorthand writing, but that is basicly if you are the phone or writing notes for class or work not for actuall communication with another person!! I have deleted or stated I am not interested on people based on that. Even though they may be wonderful person, they just not that wonderful FOR ME.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

Do you prefer hints or just to be told straight up? Posted: 6/19/2009 7:51:13 AM
Tell me Straight up. It lets me know where I stand without any excuse or any girly thoughts that may come across my mind. I respect that much more and like I said I know where I stand.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 8 (view)

So why do people who dont want anyone doing drugs or smoking showing up on my matches? Posted: 6/1/2009 12:44:29 AM
I work as Pharmacy and seeing some patient being addicted to painkiller or other type of meds (remember this is legal meds) is really off putting. They have lied, cheated, scamp and argue with me about this. Now this is regarding legal drugs and I cant even believe how it would be with illegal ones. No, I have put up with this because I love my job and its part of my job yet there is no way I will deal with this personally. No one would be worth that kind of heart and mental anguish.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 8 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 5/31/2009 11:07:10 PM
Ohh thank you and I did take your suggestions to heart. I deleted some pictures that showed too much. By the way, I check out your profile and you seem like a lovely person. I guess we are just going to dry spell and hopefully it will end soon.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 6 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 5/31/2009 11:58:28 AM
Ok change my profile and shorten it a bit...this dry spell of no emails is getting on my nerves.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 4 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 5/28/2009 11:22:15 PM
any more suggestion?????

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 3 (view)

Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 5/26/2009 12:31:40 AM
Yea I am aware that some men don't like it, thankfully there are those who do. Thank for the complimate and I did try to add, so what about now?

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Many check my profile yet no Response Posted: 5/25/2009 8:47:45 PM
I've seen that a lot of men check out my profile, and yet no response. So, what is up now? Is it to vague or too much detail? Not enough personality? What? It bother's me. So your thoughts please. Thank you in advance.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 19 (view)

Could use some help/advice please Posted: 5/6/2009 10:21:43 PM
You are one pretty lady but your photo you posted doesn't give you justice. Not only do you give the the same exact pose every single time!! The fact that you don't smile, even if its closed lip would be better than a dead pan look. Show the warm fun person you are instead of what you are presenting. That is my personal opinion. Wish you the best of luck though.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 48 (view)

Tattoos and Chivalry?? Posted: 5/5/2009 11:46:46 PM
Your tattoo's have nothing to do with chivalry. That statement was a put down just based on that person particular taste and preference. Both men and women have chivalry dwindle into nothingness. If anyone gets hostile over opening the door needs to get a life! To get upset over that is just too much!!! Honestly, I love it when someone opening the door for me, it makes me feel like such a lady!!! I feel soo pretty and happy. Besides, I have open doors to women and MEN alike, I see nothing wrong with it. I enjoy doing too because I get a kick out of seeing that women or man smile over it...that just rocks!!!!

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 51 (view)

Tattoo's and Peircing's on guys and gals Posted: 5/5/2009 11:37:11 PM
My personal opinion on this, is that I have seen men and women covered with tattoo's and I thought they were the sexiest thing alive!!! Too me, I find it attractive to no end. However, peircing I am not a fan of at all. I don't know it just not my thing but that is just me.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 162 (view)

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man - by Steve Harvey Posted: 5/5/2009 11:15:05 PM
I am currently reading his book and I have to admit it made me rethink about a lot of things. Not just about relationship in and of themself but me as a women and the standards I want to have for myself and for my partner. Not matter what anyone else states, I can only speak for msyelf. I change my ways and its for the better. I recommend this book and I have to my co-workers.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Don't just read my post....HELP ME in my Revise Profile!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/27/2009 12:01:10 AM
hmmm...I didn't see that until now and I will change about all the I's as best as I can. Thanks, This is becoming a redounded topic about this photo. I want this drop once an for all. First, yes I did ask for critque however, that doesn't mean I have to agree with the critique. I am my own person with my own mind, if I don't agree with it then guess what? I won't change it. Critique is based on personal opinion based on their own preference. However, some opionions I totally see and get and other I don't see it. I have every right to agree or disregard an a person OPINION. After all its only an opinion not fact!! Secondly, I do have tattoo's its something I cannot hide or ashame of. If someone is interested in me, then they should know right away. Some men like it other don't at least they know at first glance. No point in hiding it! I prefer to be honest and upfront. Now, can this be drop, already? Bottome line is, I am not going to take that picture down and that is that.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Don't just read my post....HELP ME in my Revise Profile!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/26/2009 10:11:08 PM
No insult taken and thanks for both of your suggestion will change

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 425 (view)

Any bbw hypocrites? Posted: 4/26/2009 8:13:09 PM
Bigger guy is attractive as long as its proportion. Sorry big gut and chicken legs, I don't fine it attractive yet even distrubuted big guy, totally fine by me!!! Believe me, I love my big men, I am an equal oppurtunist.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Don't just read my post....HELP ME in my Revise Profile!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/26/2009 7:01:22 PM
I read your suggestions except for one, I am not going to delete my leg tattoo photo. I get many complimates on the legs and the tattoo, so those shoes and my legs there is nothing wrong. I took that as an insult.

Yes This Is Me. . .

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Don't just read my post....HELP ME in my Revise Profile!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/26/2009 5:06:23 PM
Any more suggestions?

Ohhh My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Don't just read my post....HELP ME in my Revise Profile!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/6/2009 7:33:20 PM
I will consider your opinion and reconsider some of it but not all of it. Thanks

Ohhh My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

watchmen--yes, the movie Posted: 4/5/2009 11:45:24 PM
I soooo agree with you.

Ohhh My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Don't just read my post....HELP ME in my Revise Profile!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/5/2009 11:33:24 PM
Ok, I am seeking for a long term relationship, but I want to make absolutely sure I don't scare men off. I re read my profile and I think its good. However, I want to know from another point of view to make sure. Please, let me know what you think or any way to make it better. Your 2 cents are totally welcome and very much appreciated.

Ohhh My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Revised My Profile Posted: 4/5/2009 8:54:22 PM
Ok, I am seeking for a long term relationship, but I want to make absolutely sure I don't scare men off. Please, let me know what you think or any way to make it better. Your 2 cents are totally welcome and very much appreciated. Thanks in advance!!

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 86 (view)

The Dumbest Thing You've Ever Done For Love... Posted: 3/23/2009 8:27:39 PM
I believe any music fiend has done this, made a CD of all the favorite love songs (country, jazz, R&B, rock, blues, whatever) mix of the one you love. I also explain why that particuler song was pick and why they remind me of him. Then I would write a notebook, which all these qoutes, either my personal or from another source, and reminded him how much I love, appreciate, respected, or never give up. Hmmm, then I went to hospital and stayed with him the whole night until they had to kick me out. I even talked to his doctor to make sure he would be well taken care off. LOL which was funny because after while they called me Mrs. So So, it took me awhile to realize they ment me!! I went with him to take his ailing father to the ER. Took his kids to the MD office. Babysat his kids...the stuff I've done is endless. That is why my screen name is, My Foolish Heart.

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

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First Cyber Impressions Posted: 3/23/2009 8:20:19 PM
I think how a person write it in how it flows and how the words are use, to me, indicate how that person thinks and might speak. So, I do read in it as much as the photo itself. Honestly, if the photo and email match the more interested I will be of that person. If only the email sounds good then I will give them a chance but it going to be harder. Make sense???

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 387 (view)

WHY DID YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP END? Posted: 3/23/2009 8:16:49 PM
My last relationship the thing that was missing was him freely admiting he love me. He never said it the whole time we were together. He blurted it out one time totally unexpectatly yet he tried to cover it up. Let me tell you nothing hurt more than being denied love by the person at the time you love. He finally admit it when we broke everything off but at the time we were just friends and nothing would come of it. Now, if I guy can't even admit he even likes me then I am moving on. I would never hurt that badly again.

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 126 (view)

How do you tell a someon you don't find them attractive? Posted: 2/25/2009 9:01:08 PM
What I say is, Thanks for the lovely complimate and taking the time to write me but I am not interested. Best luck to you and good luck > Its direct and to the point. If they were kind enough to show interest, I would be real jerk to ignore it. I appreciate but just not that interested in them.

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 337 (view)

Adults living at home with Mom and Dad Posted: 2/19/2009 10:50:39 PM
I live at home, and no my parents aren't disable or in dire need of anything. I need their help. Even though I really enjoy my job, I barely can affored to support myself. I make less than 17,000 a year. My parents help me simply because by living with them, I don't have to pay rent. Yet I do pay for everything else, all my personal bills, which are medical, doctor, hospital, dental, gas, auto, insurance, credit card, school, I pay that on my own. I appreciate their help tremendously. Also, in latin culture is not that unusual to live with parents until one gets married. So, if some dude doesn't want to date me because I live at home, then so be it. I have more important things to do, like trying to get an education to get a higher paying career!!

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 117 (view)

Should I Be Upset (Thoughtless about Valentine's Day)? Posted: 2/17/2009 10:30:17 AM
I have to ask you something even more important, can you deal dating a man with children? If you are considering this an insult, then you really need to re-evaluate dating him. I dated a man with 2 kids for about a year and a half. It was an experiece. Simply being single and with no kids and having a relationship were there are kids involve is difficult yet was very beautiful in its own way. I got to love a man and really enjoy his kids, however it was very difficult. His kids will come first and foremost and you have to deal with it. There will be times, he will not have time for you because his children need or want him or the other way around. He also miss his babies and rather spend time with them than with you. Can you handle that?? There is also the fact that you will might have to go to his little league game, see the ex wife or even babysit them. There will even be times, that you will have to go to the doctors and spend time and money. Can you see yourself doing do that? ARe you willing to do that? If not, that is ok you are just being honest with yourself and him. Well, that is my 2cents in this whole thing.

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 120 (view)

Is it possible to fall in love with someone before meeting them in person? Posted: 2/16/2009 11:15:22 PM
Never fallen in love by just email...but I have fallen in lust HARD!! I knew it was lost because I just wanted to stare at them didn't care what they had to say...some men just look damn good or have a great picture!! LOL

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 352 (view)

Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met Posted: 2/8/2009 9:09:14 PM
Honestly, I never had this happen to me. I've been really lucky, I guess since I am honest with them they been honest with me. I don't want to mislead/lie to people so I have no fake pictures. Fortunatly for me, I am photogenic and I look exactly how I am pictured.

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

Msg: 57 (view)

What was so great about Elvis Presley Posted: 2/8/2009 8:53:40 PM
His voice, first and foremost!! Seriously, he may haven't been the greatest singer of all time, however, when he sang a love song or gospal song, he knew how to use his voice. His soul was in it, completely and utterly. His passion for great or tragedy was always music, that is why he is King!! Long live the KING!! LOVLE HIM!!!

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

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Lux Interior R.I.P. Posted: 2/8/2009 8:43:40 PM
That completely sucks, I was lucky enough to see them play a few times. He was made for the stage, his presence, the performace and the songs, it was a great show. He will be sourly miss. Betty Page, 103.1 gets drop and now this...2009 is not a year for legends and music!!!

My Foolish Heart

Joined: 1/24/2009

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review plz Posted: 2/8/2009 8:21:36 PM
Change your heading and the first line of your profile. Its NEGATIVE!! Seriously, that is complete turn off and I will pass you by in a heart beat!! If you leave that out and just start with my name is Rick.... Ok on your 2cd bullet, just end it you don't want to play games. Don't over explain, we all know what you mean and all been though it. On the 4th bullet, explain what is a REAL relationship is to you. WHat does that mean to you? You already explain what it doesn't mean, but tell me what does it signify. On the 5th bullet, just leave out shallow, it just seems too demanding and pompous!! Secoundly, leave out why you don't date women from different races. Just say, I strongly prefer to date within my own race, no offense to anyone else. Completely change your first date, especially the first sentence and the entire thing. Say something, On a first date I would like to have a quite dinner where we can be comfortable with one another and have great dialoge. My conclusion, from headline to beginging and ending your profile it's negative. You need to show some postive things as to what makes you fantastic and why any women should pay attention to you. PS your yahoo and myspace info is not allowed on POF

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