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 Author Thread: Breaking in on dice
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Breaking in on dice
Posted: 11/20/2009 3:53:18 PM

If this ever makes it into print, IF this becomes a screenplay, they can give it some kind of bullsh1t Hollywood treatment, starring Micky Rourke and I will drown the sorrows of my betrayed vision by counting the money I hope I get.
- thats funny pro, I sent this link to a producer......you would be lucky to get Rourke, the heads would probably use Clooney........send this book back up top.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
how do you get promoted
Posted: 11/20/2009 10:01:49 AM
Oh I did forget an old one.....get really good at golf, play with the bigs, I've seen this work for a couple of people
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
how do you get promoted
Posted: 11/19/2009 3:56:47 PM
You are way off base....never kissed ass in my life, I just do everything they ask with accuracy and never bring any drama to work, yup, keep your mouth shut, but voice your opinion to show your intelligence, or a way things can be more efficient.
I made a career of getting promoted, by recognizing opportunities....oh John is leaving, can I apply for that position? Its about getting along with people but never kissing ass, nobody wants a jackhole either.
Final word, sometimes you have to promote yourself out the door....want more money, find it elsewhere, and negotiate good money the day you sign on, never wait for that crappy raise once a year, do it upfront so you don't get frustrated....good luck.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
2nd chance... yes or no
Posted: 11/18/2009 3:37:44 PM
Its your call....do you have chemistry with him like no other? He did something totally irresponsible, you need to verify he has his shit together before you take him back, sweet talk won't be enough. On the other hand, we make mistakes, have time to think, and see how stupid we were, yes some people deserve a second chance, relationship skills are not taught in school, it sometimes takes failure to grow up.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
He ran away...
Posted: 11/18/2009 2:44:11 PM
I can't believe everyone missed it....he left at 3:30am while you were sleeping....it was your snoring!
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Blast from the past - Ex's
Posted: 11/18/2009 9:53:16 AM

Will the ex always win ? Is the past foundation with all it's cracks stronger that the potential of the fresh new relationship in front of them ?
- its an unfortunate situation for the new person....sometimes the dating scene will show you what you had with the ex, maybe one or both parties were not mature enough to solve the problems. In any case, I say forget all the rules set forth and follow your heart, love is worth fighting for.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Wanted : A Chemistry drug !
Posted: 11/12/2009 2:59:41 PM
As usual, subject analyzed to death......if you've ever had it, you know what it feels like, you're brain might not even be able to comprehend it....yes it can happen at any age....in fact we used to laugh and question, what the hell is going on here? And lets qualify that, not just sex, but doing anything together...I feel lucky to have experienced it in my life.

even though someone stated that physical attraction and chemistry aren't the same thing, doesn't physical attraction have something to do with chemistry? I mean, you can't really have chemistry with someone you're not physically attracted to, right?
- wrong, sorta....I could date the hottest models and not feel a thing, the person I found this chemistry with wasn't even my "type"....it was mindblowing how she became more beautiful on successive dates, it was a life changing experience.....its also something you can become cracked out on if you lose it..........
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 92 (view)
 
I don't want to be interviewed
Posted: 11/10/2009 12:53:34 PM
Is it really that difficult? I go to sports bars all the time and just shoot the shit with anybody....same thing for a pof date, if questions come up its cool, but both sides should avoid the grill, its not cool, and its not like a real conversation, you already know their profile.
Best date: With a European woman, convo just flowed, I was just really interested in the places she lived, we closed the place.
Worst date: She sat down next to me at a singles event, grilled me like a police officer, then projectile vomited her food back on her plate, and gooooed on her leg, finished my martini and got the hell out there!
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Open mic night...
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:30:33 AM
Wow, you should definitely cut him loose, why the hell would anybody love a guy with a small penis or a grower, you go girl!
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Sex versus love
Posted: 11/3/2009 11:19:54 AM
What if you're in love with sex?
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Why Plenty of Fish?
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:41:20 AM
I'm also on match...horrible success rate and keep seeing my exes in the search function which makes me feel worse. I've had a couple of dates from this site, but no sparko. The only benefit I can think of, are the forums, I've learned so much about how women think, and the stupid mistakes I've made, learned from....but at the expense of the relationship....great, I've improved myself now where's my next chance?... Almost like being rich with no health....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween)
Posted: 11/1/2009 1:40:04 AM
just got in from a great party, had a wild dance partner who was dragging me around by my tie, I was dressed as a cop...met a solid business conection to boot...no tv plus getting out=
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 352 (view)
 
why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs?
Posted: 10/28/2009 11:25:21 AM
I don't know if anyone mentioned this, and I think dogs are cool....but its a complete drag when you're trying to have sex and the dog is having a shitfit for attention, give me a break...
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What is/was your dream?
Posted: 10/26/2009 4:31:34 PM
Was my dream? Rockstar!....then fell into a 30 year career in electronic engineering and horrible 15 year marriage....what is my dream? Just one more shot at love, and a new self sustaining career where I don't have the paranoia of being layed off all the time......yeah I know, I have work to do, at least one is obtainable.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Are Relationships like poker??
Posted: 10/21/2009 12:53:51 PM
If she's the one, you have a pair of aces....go all in.
If she's marginal, make a small bet, but get the hell out if her flop isn't good.
If she has warning signs, muck the relationship and move on.
If she is out of your league, bluff big! Of course bluffing will eventually bust you out...
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 530 (view)
 
What is a Real Man?
Posted: 10/14/2009 11:22:18 AM
A real man will be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13 a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

While never forgetting:

* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes


A real woman:

1. Shows up naked! !
2. Brings food....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Men and Women spending time with their exclusive Friends
Posted: 10/14/2009 11:02:24 AM
I would think its healthy as long as she gets the majority of what time you have.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 191 (view)
 
When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 10/10/2009 7:22:54 AM
I cry every day in my car, like De Niro in "Analyze This".....I lost "the one" and can't get her back...there is no end for my tears.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Single... does it equal weird?
Posted: 10/9/2009 9:37:13 AM

It certainly does. To be able to live day after day among women and without having one to pester up close and personal is a truly deranging experience. I passed weird a long ways back and have become so convoluted and strange in my approach to frustration that the shock of intimacy would probably fry all of my circuits and render me daft. The adaptation has thoroughly estranged me from normalcy.
I have just recinded the nobel peace prize from Obama and given it to Farceur......yes, the shock of intimacy did fry my circuits, especially after losing it and being dumped back into the pond......
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What happens when you don't let go
Posted: 10/8/2009 4:51:12 PM
The person that is the least emotional in the relationship, controls it......thats not you....break off all contact and gain control for yourself, good luck to you.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 351 (view)
 
Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/8/2009 4:18:25 PM
oh my gawd yes...the sex with my ex.....my ex and the sex.....there is no sex without the ex.......ruined for life.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 37 (view)
 
3 days no cigarettes is driving me NUTS!
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:47:07 AM
Day 17 for me, I'm not going back this time. I have different reasons this time....now that I'm free again, I don't want to turn off prospective dates by being a smoker. Getting my health back seems the sexy thing to do also. I was at a social function, and when I told people I quit, many people, who just stopped themselves, gave me a high five, it was sweet, and made me feel part of something again.
The ultimate test was Sat night, went drinking and dancing at the club, and nope, didn't have one and didn't want to bum one, it feels right this time...good luck to everyone.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 87 (view)
 
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:51:40 AM
Sandra Bernhard or Bea Arthur should do.......
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
I can act like a man - You make me feel like a man
Posted: 9/30/2009 4:20:07 PM
Exactly OP.....I can't believe some of the things I've done, and how far I would go for that special woman, she really inspired me to be the man I can be....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 85 (view)
 
How did you lose your first love?
Posted: 9/30/2009 3:42:14 PM
Been with alot of women, but didn't meet my first true love until the ripe old age of 50. We were both coming out of divorce, so it was complicated. She went psycho on me and I didn't know how to deal with it, we broke up, got together then broke up again. Currently I'm trying to see her again (I know violation of pof rule 76-A) but I think I've lost her.......I have nothing but regret for the mistakes I made, and just feel damaged, I know its cliche or negative, but I doubt I'll ever find anything like that again....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 122 (view)
 
I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me.
Posted: 9/28/2009 1:14:06 PM
Marvelous! So everybody is gloriously happy being single.......so why are you on this dating site, to not find an LTR?
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What You've given up for a good F*CK.......
Posted: 9/24/2009 9:10:04 AM
my sanity! She was a bit psycho, sometimes a scary dual personality.....but in bed we were on fire.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is our friendship over?
Posted: 9/17/2009 10:18:42 AM
Is he blind? Anyway you did your part as a mature person, and communicated, if he can't be clear on it then let it go. If you are really good friends, it should take more than that to lose a friendship....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 110 (view)
 
do women from different countries act differently
Posted: 9/17/2009 9:08:37 AM
I experienced that same thing! My first time in Sydney, I was at a bar, and 4 babes picked up their table, slammed it into our table, sat down and started telling dirty jokes....it was awesome, and yes kinda shocking
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Does the opinion of others ....
Posted: 9/16/2009 3:02:53 PM
I use humans and all media sources including pof to digest information and make decisions....I've actually learned some relevant things here at pof....except for the self sucking thread...
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How important ....
Posted: 9/16/2009 2:59:03 PM
I hate when it turns into a formality and is the last word to disengage a conversation....I'll trade the word for a power hug or kiss anyday....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
confussed
Posted: 9/16/2009 2:00:06 PM
could be worse, what if he broke it off on facebook, ouch, tell a friend
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 140 (view)
 
what do women want in bed???????????
Posted: 9/16/2009 8:48:33 AM

Can't speak for all women but I know what I want:

I want a man who is very masculine but knows how to be gentle and sweet. One who knows the art of making love (lots of hugging, caressing, sweet lingering kisses, wrapping his whole body around me, looking at me deeply in my eyes.

On the other hand this same guy can become quite aggressive, at times pulling my hair, putting me in position for the doggy style, flipping me over and giving it to me hard and deep, grabbing my legs and putting them over his shoulders for the deepest penetration.

This same guy who is normally very calm and quiet (just my type) will talk dirty to me as he is giving it to me with everything he's got! He is a mixture of tender, loving, aggressive and explicitly vocal...... yeah that's how I like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

- glad to know I'm doing it right! Love the standing power mish.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
tatoos and midlife crisis
Posted: 9/16/2009 8:37:33 AM
Heya 2fun! Angel wing on the shoulderblade would be beautiful, I say do it, just turn on some Jeff Beck and get cut. As far as midlife crisis, all I have to say is life is short, and nothing should stop us from having fun, being stupid and experiencing new things....the shoulderblade is an absolutley sexy spot I might add.....tattoos might be stupid, childish, in vogue etc....the way I see it, its commitment and blind faith to do something freaky, just like getting into a relationship....DO IT
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Do you agree with this?
Posted: 9/16/2009 8:29:12 AM
Disagree, it makes them look intelligent and assertive......someone contacted me the other day, we had wonderful convo and will surely meet in the future....I think its hot when a woman initiates, its so rare in this life....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What is with all the cats?
Posted: 9/15/2009 4:01:02 PM
Your on a dating site asking why we like pssy?..wow.......................CATS RULE!
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
In Search of Dudes' Opinions
Posted: 9/14/2009 2:52:26 PM
OP I would never talk to her about it....sex is a really natural creative endeavor between two people, just let it roll.....if the relationship is mature, then one might want to talk about preferences and such. I'll never forget, when I was young I saw a porno, and the guy asked if she gave head, she said "not if you have to ask".....I never forgot that, and can't even imagine bringing that up on a date....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
3 Inches of Blood
Posted: 9/14/2009 2:26:19 PM
I keep hearing these guys on the radio, and think where did this singer get that voice, what a hoot and quality band, they rock....I can listen to mr filth all day, lovely stuff...
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
The L word
Posted: 9/11/2009 4:31:58 PM
I would assume women would go first more often, being more emotional and all. In my last relationship I said it first and often, and I really meant it, but she never believed it, thought it was just a line......
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
E Cigarettes
Posted: 9/11/2009 4:21:38 PM
Heya Sal, I was in a bar a few weeks ago, and a woman was puffing away at one of these....I thought it was silly, like a toy, but then I think people with phones stuck to their ear are kooky. Anyway when it comes to cigs, shit or get off the pot, either quit or smoke the real ones, always a great excuse to circulate to the patio.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Favorite pastimes?
Posted: 9/11/2009 3:56:27 PM
now: mountainbiking, poker tournements, mixing music, swimming, drink
then: surfing, playing in bands,playing guitar,writing music, mountainbiking, frisbee golf, smoke dope
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
My boyfriend feels he hasnt slept with enough women.
Posted: 9/11/2009 11:22:30 AM

Over and over , i keep reading "ALL MEN CHEAT ! I'm just curious , with whom ?
- Cry of the Sheeple!!!.....maybe all men cheat on idiots who generalize.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
My boyfriend feels he hasnt slept with enough women.
Posted: 9/11/2009 11:07:56 AM
Its a classic problem OP, do both of you spend time in a solid relationship while your bodies, mind and eyes tempt you to sample other flavours.....or split up try the menu and wonder about the one who got away, the two of you have choices, commit or split.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
standing in line
Posted: 9/11/2009 9:16:01 AM
When appropriate I do this too, anytime humanity puts down the cellphone and rears its head I'm happy
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
I am having a few issues with my girlfriend
Posted: 9/10/2009 2:41:57 PM

~OP~ If you aren't comfortable talking honestly and openly with her about sex, why no earth are you comfortable being naked with her? That's seems rather paradoxical to me.
- c'mon Green thats easy, he's 23! Anybody can hump around, but mature convo at that age? They don't know how to yet.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
I am having a few issues with my girlfriend
Posted: 9/10/2009 2:26:14 PM
I would read her the riot act. Dude she's either your friend/mate or not. Since you're both young, she's obviously not taking your relationship seriously, she can flirt and go elsewhere, and is throwing it in your face.....talking about you intimate relations with other guys is a massive violation, I would boot her to the curb for that alone.....ask her which is it going to be, good luck to you.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Sex as a Tool
Posted: 9/9/2009 3:50:45 PM
Lets break this down

I just thought it was interesting because in another thread today or anyday... a woman complained about a guy disappearing after they had sex on the first date... and just about every poster told her she 'gave it up too fast'.
- Sometimes people might have a long relationship after a first night romp, sometimes it might be a one timer, and the guy just used her.....its a dicey thing for women I'm sure, but women have to evaluate the risk of this happening, guys are going to take what you give.


They pretty much held the man blameless which surprises me. No wonder women don't trust men.
- well I agree, women hold the key as to where its going to go sexually. What does trust have to do with it, did she proclaim "I'll have sex with you on this first date, but that means we're a couple ok?"...if he said yes to that and then one bang dumped her, that would be a violation of trust....if she wants to enjoy sex on the first date, it doesn't imply any hold on the guy, just two people getting physical....if she gets all butthurt about the guy using her, she was stupid, or just didn't think about the outcome properly......but then again, when two people get all horny who's thinking anyway.....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Sex as a Tool
Posted: 9/9/2009 3:26:41 PM
What you say is simply not true. If you read these threads day in day out, you might start to believe this crap.

Sex is still being viewed these days in an antiquated fashion as something you 'give up to' someone rather than an experience two people share.
- simply wrong, its something many people share in the real world, and you know what? In the real world the laundry list is much shorter than profiles here would lead you to think......relax!
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Same dreams
Posted: 9/9/2009 10:20:02 AM
Tell me more wazhiz.....Way too frequently, I dream I'm driving and I can't get my damn foot on the brake because I'm sleeping, I turn the wheel to avoid hitting stuff ....I never crash, but wake up slightly freaked out....
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
do women from different countries act differently
Posted: 9/9/2009 9:41:48 AM

to being looked after by girlfriend/wife.
- does this mean I can have a girlfriend and a wife? Plus I can purchase Gypsy daughters? Wow euros rock, screw the evil U.S.
Seriously, my nephew has a girlfriend from czech, and she is totally different from american girls her age, totally sweet, at one with her body, and just very open to new people, no trips, just a normal nice person truly beautiful on the inside....smokes alot, no suprise there.....
Met a girl from New Zealand and many from England, as an observation, they seem more friendly and less damaged than U.S women, I know I'm generalizing, but I'm so tired of the "look the other way you have to chase me then impress me" bs, I know I'm a man and its my duty to catch a fish, but Euro's seem like heaven.... so I'd have to say yes, women from different countries do act differently....
 
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