some odious turds need to be flushed out of sight. people like you weaken our country. we have too many wasted zoned out mindless zombies walking around bottom feeding off our economy. you are like a lead weight around a drowning man.

you mr. dope smoker are a joke. without a punchline. you sicken me and most other right thinking Americans.

if there's nothing wrong with it then i assume you want your baby, your children, your teenagers and your surgeon smoking it while he's doing open heart surgery on you.

Fool.

Well one day I was leaning back and didn't think I was going to come hard and watching one of my favorite fetish pornos.... well a really hot scene came up and I accidentally gave myself a facial and tasted my own brew, I immediately stopped orgasming as soon as it hit my face. My whole body said "thats it fun is over, no more".

Just take the responses you get or don't post a thread.

This coming fromthe guy who said he'd have sex with a 16 year old as long as she's hot and doesn't talk.

I would expect them to WANT a intellectual conversation, and appreciate a smart girl!

The main thing is that men often fall quicker than the woman.

men see a bikini on the beach, they are halfway there, halfway in love

What is 3 - 6 dates when you can have all the sex you want forever, possibly the next 50 years

Only works of course if the woman doesn't figure out you're playing her. Manipulation is a dangerous game.

As to who leads who into a room, well in my personal experience that tends to vary. No 2 experiences are ever the same. As to when it happens, it happens when WE BOTH WANT IT TO, not on any sort of arbitrary timetable set by anyone.

Ah, but that's the point. Most women don't have a "specific amount of time" after which they will "give it up". And they are completely turned off by a man who has a specific amount of time by which they must "give it up"; particularly if that's a ridiculously short time frame, like 1-2 dates.

And they don't assume there are no other good options. They assume that if the guy feels like his other options are better ones/more suited to him, then he will pursue those rather than her.

The only kind of sex you're having after 1-2 dates is the purely physical kind. And for many that's of little or no interest.

As for 'risking turning off the guy,' it's a risk I'm happy to take. There's no way on earth I'm having sex simply to keep the guy around. If we haven't had sex and the guy is sick of waiting (or conversely, I am), then it's almost certain that this is not the guy for me and/or I'm not the woman for him.

It's not as if the men I've had a relationship with (and therefore a sexual relationship with) have had to wait some ridiculous amount of time. Plus of course it's not like you go from zero to sex on one hit (at least I don't). There will have been physical/sexual contact leading up to 'the deed,' leaving little doubt what we are probably working towards.

he tried to leave years ago and this lady says that she will get him for allimony if he leaves her

Men who complain about the friend zone just want to get to laid.

It's one of those things that usually works better in theory than in reality, at least over any length of time

So how do long distance relationships work then?
We're talking a 'friend' here not a fcuk buddy either so theoretically, you are supposed to do more than just climb on and get off....

Actually, I don't have a big sense of "morals"...
And you know, I agree people have to work through issues too... and life is too short to waste it doing so... The best way to deal with having fallen off the horse is to get back on and keep riding....

"we need to talk."

Personally I think that's a dumb excuse...
If you can make agreements to have a FWB, you can make them to have a relationship...
Hell, sex takes an evening just like a date does... unless you're just being used for a 15 minute cum dump then you can make time for other things besides sex...