met a man online 14 months ago. He was there for me thru a rough time, and i was there for him during problems. {we have spent alot of time together} I care deeply for him but he doesn't want a serious relationship. I know i can't love him because it's hurting me. But how do i walk away from someone who has been there for me during the worse time of my life?

There are a lot of cowards, game players and attention seekers out there. Unfortunately, you don't know what this guy's intent was when he met you, often its as one poster commented about talking to a woman because he was bored. Don't know why anyone would do this, but a lot of men do. Also, most don't want anything beyond a little fun regardless of what they claim, don't take it personal.

Sorry. I guess I should ask--is it just me? I like this guy, and really think he likes me too. But my question is is this normal for a guy to be hot and cold like this? Or is this way of saying he is not really that interested?

Jesus. Go get laid.
If she wants to stay a virgin while she's getting her masters that's her choice, but you should go get fekked. Now.
Purity doesn't HAVE to be your choice too.

I'm really just getting frustrated and sad. Time after time it's either the girl never gives blowjobs or she only wants to have sex in the dark. I'm sorry but there's no way I'm going to be in a long term relationship with a girl like that.
I'd blow my brains out before I went my whole life without getting a blowjob or never seeing a girls naked body in the light again.

Use him the right way without hurting him if possible.

What would you do if you had a goodlooking 19 yr old (almost 20) guy chasing you around...for at least 6mos. Would you say... STAY AWAY FROM ME, or take him for a test drive. After he tells you one day at work that he's "THIS close to raping you cuz you're driving him crazy" even though you know he won't he gets awful brazen. It's exciting but you know he's got so much to learn about it....

The long haired woman probably will respond if the guy is loaded with money. Some women are just high maintenance.

I see profiles types, with "those with baggage, need not apply" If you have no baggage what so ever, you must have died years ago.

He is the only person who would be able to answer that question. (odds are he's moved on)
Here's a question for you though.
This persons behavior is very troublesome to you. His actions are clearly questionable in your book. This is not how the person you would like to find and be involved with would treat you.
So why ask why ? Why not see his early departure as a blessing?
Just let it go and move forward.
I wouldn't call or accept any calls. I'd walk away and stay away from people who threat me this way. They are not worth the effort of the space the are renting in my head.

people are too picky on internet dating websites

It happened when I was 19, a guy I met a guy in my College library took to his dorm and turned me around having pulled pants down. I figured he wanted to eat me doggystyle, when he stuck his tongue up my anus...

7 years later and more than 30 partners of all shades; half of whom have performed analingus on me, has me thinking its perhaps the new cunnilingus and 10 years time it will be part of foreplay.

PS: I return the favour.

Your thoughts.

I've been dating a wonderful man for 3 months, and last week his son was tragically killed in an auto accident. I just don't know the best way to help him now. I was there for the service and the days leading up to it, but now I just don't know what to say or do. I know that many relationships don't survive tragedies like this, and I want to tell him it is ok if just can't see me anymore, but I don't want him to think that I am trying to break it off. I just want him to take care of himself, whatever he needs, more of me, less of me, or none at all, is ok, although I adore him and would miss him terribly I understand if I am just too much a part of the grief and guilt and he wants a fresh start. I know he has grief and guilt for spending time with me and not with his son, who suffered from anxiety and was having trouble sleeping in the days leading up to the accident (and he fell asleep behind the wheel, hence the guilt). Has anyone been through anything similar? Any advice would be much appreciated!