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cheeky 73

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**Men I Need Your Honest Opinion(Please&Thank You:) Posted: 8/7/2009 1:51:41 PM
hey just take things slow sorry to hear of your loss as i have two children and wouldnt know how to cope if i lost any of them ,good luck and if the guy cant handle you trying to cope with your loss then he is a jerk cheeky x

cheeky 73

Joined: 1/31/2009

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Why don't guys answer messages Posted: 8/3/2009 12:02:21 PM
its the same with the females on here i reply to most of my emails even if im not interested i am honest but polite with it! it doesnt hurt to reply but it does seem too much effort for some people cheeky x

cheeky 73

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Guys would you enjoy this? Posted: 7/29/2009 12:55:24 PM
hi i have got my plane ticket sorted so be with you soon cheeky x

cheeky 73

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 7/17/2009 12:50:14 PM
i tend to read profiles but mainly with pictures as you can tell alot about someone ie;dress sense and if they smile or a happy person its nice to see who your emailing aswell

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:43:34 AM
bubbais51 just read your post what a crazy woman i just hope you have a guard dog as i can see her camping outside your house lol

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:37:42 AM
hi bubbais51 im getting wise to these games as i was married for 10 years and been single for 16 months so im kind of rusty in the dating scene my tools still work and hope to get them maintained soon if you know what i mean lol at least she brought you chicken over and you didnt have to spend any money on her lol

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:33:13 AM
builderforfun you have to swim through the sharks first to get to the the salmon lol thanks for being honest its nice to get honest advice enjoy fishing

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:30:00 AM
thanks bubbais51 you cant keep the cheeky one down for long maybe i wear my heart on my sleave but im not one of these blokes who hurts woman as they say what goes around comes around i suppose i will have to search through the pebbles of this pond to find a diamond lmao cheeky xx

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:24:20 AM
afashionlady your a funny lady no i dont talk like that in real life i wont go into that frienship zone as she came across as selfish at times and friendship is a two way thing and i wont be a backup plan im not that stupid ,she only met him last saturday and seems to be soppy with him she was like that with me to start with but they do say a person shows there true colours within 6 months so im better of out of it, i expect an wedding invite in six months time lol thanks for being honest cheeky x

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:18:33 AM
bubbais51 i understand what your saying i dont want to be the one who she runs to everytime things go wrong and will not be a backup plan. i realise i will meet someone who wont be selfish and i wont be stupid just cheeky anyway she has now deleted her acount now thanks cheeky xx

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:13:08 AM
silent steel i see where your coming from i have been speaking to her for atleast 5 months now she text me to say she cant stop thinking about him she only met him last saturday i did hope we could be friends but it works both ways its her loss and someone elses gain thanx fort being honest

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 11:10:06 AM
hi thanks for the advice i have now deleted her number and off my favorites and got a nasty text saying she wont be contacting me againi have now seen her true colours i wish that bloke all the luck lol

cheeky 73

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what age do we have to stop being so fussy Posted: 7/17/2009 5:02:05 AM
i think looks are a good thing but you need a personality i go for personality but there has to be a physical atrraction aswell

cheeky 73

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he never aks questions about my life Posted: 7/17/2009 4:56:05 AM
hey you need to communicate and be honest with eachother as lifes too short

cheeky 73

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what should i do next?? Posted: 7/17/2009 4:53:52 AM
hi i met someone on here a few months ago and things were going well ie:texting eamails etc and we exchanged mobile numbers and we did meet for coffee we got on well and i asked if she wanted to meet up maybe a date and she seemed fine but it seemed we were busy to arrange something and this week she text me to say she met someone last weekend and she really likes him and has been out on a date with him already im fine with this but abit disapointed as we never got a chance to meet up she wants to be friends and im fine with this as i like her alot but now i get texts telling me how he makes her happy and laugh i do nt really need to hear this at the moment as i still like her i have had oppertunities in the past to go on dates but rufused as i thought she liked me and didnt want to complicate things not sure if we stay friends i will always be hoping she might change her mind or do i cut all ties with her and see what happens need some honest advice please

cheeky 73

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Question for woman about dating after a break up Posted: 6/29/2009 3:48:29 AM
maybe you should cut all ties with this lady as having an ex in the background wont do you any facours when you meet someone else !

cheeky 73

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Do guys like single moms? Posted: 6/28/2009 1:38:56 PM
hi i can see why you feel this way as your prides hurt but we all have some sort of baggage it shouldnt matter as if the guys is into you then he should accept any amout of children you have its nice to see some honest females on her good luck hope you find what your looking for cheeky x

cheeky 73

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Why won't Women Date Nice Romantic Overweight Gentlemen Posted: 6/28/2009 1:33:03 PM
i can see where your coming from but maybe your reading into things too much ,are you contacting people older /same age or younger as that might affect interest in you there are a few shallow people on here who will look at your pic and not your profile them sort of people will never be happy or content you should never judge a book by its cover hang in there im sure someone will take the time to read your profile and see that your a genuine person as there are alot of players good luck and have fun

cheeky 73

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/28/2009 1:26:34 PM
i dont think it matters whether you have long or short it all depend if yourprofile i have had quite a few women email me and they are all different in their own ways fat/ thin black /white they all have their qualities i dont really mind whether its long or short as long as they have hair and dont look like a q-ball lol

cheeky 73

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Hugging.... Posted: 6/26/2009 10:55:27 AM
hey why not start hugging other girls and see how she likes it,if she cared for you she would consider your feelings first whether right or wrong,i dont see much of a problem hugging people she konws but strangers is a bit wrong maybe she is letting people know she is available ,if your not 100% happy maybe you should find someone who you will feel more comfortable with

cheeky 73

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Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 6/21/2009 7:57:15 AM
very true lol us men get all the stick women use that thing betwwen their l;egs as a bargaining tool

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/21/2009 5:37:51 AM
i do understand what your saying i just didnt want to come across as desperate i suppose you dont ask you dont get oh well you live and then thanks for the advice cheeky xx

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/21/2009 5:36:20 AM
thank its her loss plenty more fish as they say lol cheeky xx

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:43:50 AM
i have text her that , so i will leave it up to her i just wish some women would be honest sometimes as us blokes get enough stick for it thanks for comments cheeky x

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:41:51 AM
no i dont phone her at work as im busy too im not a crazy stalker lol

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:25:54 AM
no seperated 18 months so maybe she is in a comfort zone i do try and phone her but she works in a bank all day so she has her phone on silent and forgets to turn it back on at night i wouldnt as for her home number as she has kid no im not married divorced 17 months ago after 10 years so im new to this i appreciate the feed back cheeky xx

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:17:11 AM
may be he is married , i kept in contact via text but what does a woman mean by your sweet ? as i thought it meant she digged me as you would put it cheeky x

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:13:08 AM
i did keep in contact her by text ie have a good day or morning , i did ask her if she wasnt intersted then let me know all she said that i was sweet (so what does that mean?) , i would play games i would have been honest with her or anyone else , i have had other offers but none are my type and i have been honest thanks for your comment cheek x

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:07:53 AM
thats what i thought but she had a bad experience on here before and text the bloke that she didnt want to speak to him again so why didnt she text me aswell i can handle rejection like anyone else i would be honest she got upset 2 months ago because my mate said she was a player , she told me she thought i was sweet i wish she would just be honest thank for being honest cheeky xx

cheeky 73

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trying to get a date after meeting? Posted: 6/20/2009 8:51:41 AM
i recently met someone on here 3 months ago we got on really well online exchanged mobile numbers and met 3 weeks ago for coffee we talked had a laugh she kept brushing againstt me a few times so i thought she was interested ,after that i gave it a few days then asked if she wanted to meet up for a date she seemed ok at first ,then it seemed that i was doing all the texting and phoning ,when i emailed her explaining that i would like to see her again as you cant really get to know someone after the first meeting but if she isnt interested i would understand,but she seems too busy to reply to my texts and doesnt return my missed calls i know we are all busy but i can make time to text or email , i did get a text saying that i think too deeply and make assumptions that are too hasty, i thought that friendships and and reltionships were a two way thing so what am i doing wrong ?

cheeky 73

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why am I so angry? Posted: 4/26/2009 9:56:04 AM
i feel your angry as you feel you failed your children but you havent i was in the similar situation and now im happier she was the one who gave up and will have to live with that try and accept that she has someone and he wont be there for long as he is only young try and get out more and meet people i can promise you she will play all sorts of games with you if she can see that your hurt she is the loser not you good luck mate and hopefully you will find happiness

cheeky 73

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I dont know what to do, Please help.. Posted: 4/26/2009 9:46:54 AM
my ex ended our marriage after 10 years and i was hurt for a long time but now im glad it happened now than in 10 years time ,to be fair to her atleast she was honest and these things happen for a reason ,show her that you can be happier without her and you will never know you might meet someone better for you but with alot of women they seem to think the grass is greener and end up regretting it when they have seen you moving on and being happy so try and move on with your life as you only get one chance so make the most of it good lick

cheeky 73

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Sex on 2nd date - now what, exclusivity? Posted: 4/7/2009 9:24:09 AM
your funny for an older person i bet you wouldnt say no if it was offered to you on a plate

cheeky 73

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Sex on 2nd date - now what, exclusivity? Posted: 4/7/2009 9:21:07 AM
looks are not always important as we are not all perfect you should have got to know her properly first as you wouldnt like it if someone put on here the same about you om not criticising but if you never clicked the first time then why spend a whole weekend you could have become good friends if you were honest mate hope you find what your looking for

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