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 Author Thread: Who Still Likes to Play Like a Kid?
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Who Still Likes to Play Like a Kid?
Posted: 8/15/2009 9:02:41 PM
Count me in as being a kid like at times. If you would of been over the other night you could of joined my grandkids, daughter and me playing "Mother May I", "Green Light, Red Light", then "Duck, Duck, Goose" just the other night. Hmmm, wondering if I am regressing back into my childhood, the grandkids always include me in the backyard baseball games, caught laying in the grass having girl talk with the granddaughters and grandson is always playing board games with me and saying he likes to "hang with me." My son not to long ago told someone his own age do not start a food fight at the table because mom is here and she will join in and have fun. Oh my! Maybe I have had the little kid inside me all along. Good it will keep me young.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Putting the Cart before the horse
Posted: 8/7/2009 8:14:19 PM
MisDeed
I have had a few contact me and wanting the same thing, email private, phone numbers, etc. I tell them that I want to get to know them on here first by email before I go that far. Win my trust. They usually block me. I am like you I want to be cautious also. If they really want to get to know me for me and build a relationship, be patient. No one is trying to play head games, playing hard to get, I want to know if that person is for me and do we have something in common by way of conversation before we make the first meeting. So, I guess I can be added as one of those women he referrs to.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 775 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 6/17/2009 7:16:41 PM
Hello

6th generation Texan that moved away for awhile to Florida then Wisconsin. Home is Texas and that is where my heart is. Lost my husband, home, and job so moved back to start all over again. I go between Palestine and Katy looking for a job and visit family. Nice to meet all of ya'll. Happy fishing
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 1572 (view)
 
This Week In Baseball
Posted: 6/17/2009 1:36:31 PM
"WTF is going on the Blue Jays?!?!? "

I am asking the same question also. I have Hill, Scutaro and Lind, gosh they were good in the beginning and now they are cold.

Any suggestions if I should keep them or trade/drop them? I am actually surprised with Toronto's team, they are good this year. Have to give them the credit. My fav team is Brewers and I got stuck with super JJ and Cameron, they are not doing good this year.

What is ya'lls outlook on Tronto's streak right now and for the future?
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 1563 (view)
 
This Week In Baseball
Posted: 6/16/2009 8:00:34 PM
If everyone IS doing the juice then what is wrong with my guys on fantasy baseball? I don't believe my guys are on roids for they are stinking really bad right now with some bad negative numbers. So, I don't believe they are all on the roids. Take J.J. Hardy that got on my late draft and he is stinking something awful and they say he is/was the best at shortstop! LOL! Try not to judge ALL players by a few bad ego builder players. Baseball is still the great all time sport as well as NFL in my books. Good reading on here. Go Astros, Rangers and Brewers!
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 154 (view)
 
What do women over 50 find desirable and undesirable in a man's profile?
Posted: 6/9/2009 8:55:38 PM
ROFL I have tears in my eyes reading these posts. I was having a dull day until I found this post. I have enjoyed reading the posts and insight of each person. But, I found myself looking at his profile and I like to look at what is the interest. With this gent's profile and saw one of his interst is "human behavior" and I think he is doing that to all of us. Using our reactions to gain insight to our behavior. So all thoughts on what to suggest for his profile I will keep to myself. Thank you for good reading and good insight.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
How Do You See Yourself In Your Dreams
Posted: 6/2/2009 10:34:05 PM
I have had flying dreams also and dreams of those that passed away with some real strange messages sometimes. In most of my dreams there is always a little girl beside me everywhere I go in the dreams since I was 15. I can describe her as around 6 or 7 yrs old with long thick black hair, wavy, with the prettiest blue eyes and she never speaks. She has such an angelic face and she always makes me feel safe. Odd. I have also dreamed of heaven several time and yes I also seen some of the most beautiful flowers, fruit trees, rivers, and landscape that is so, so beautiful. I hate the tornado dreams I always get caught up in one or wake up tired from running from it. Have I seen myself, yes, when I was teenager I saw myself in a dream when I was older and married. I have seen myself at the same age that I was dreaming or around the late 20's dressed one time in the 40's style and once in the Victorian time.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
relationships and being widowed
Posted: 5/30/2009 3:33:58 PM
I wonder if she is just lonely and looking for someone to fill the void of lonliness? That is not an uncommon feeling for a widow/widower several months after a death of a spouse. After being married to someone and they die, the lonliness is almost unbearable after being with someone everyday and now you are alone. Speaking as a widow myself I felt the lonliness and hating the feeling during the first few months. I didn't give in to it because I didn't care what my family thought, I cared about me and how I felt, I wasn't ready to be with someone else. I have discovered that it is part of a grieving process. It is not an uncommon feeling to want to find someone new and fill the gap. Be careful and be gentle so you will not get hurt. If she is ready for a new relationship she needs to be upfront with everyone, good or bad results. Just My Opinion. Good luck.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Are you afraid of widow(er )s???
Posted: 5/29/2009 8:13:24 PM
I am a widow also and I am not afraid to date a widower, a divorcee or a never married man. What I am afraid to date is a heel, a cheater, a batterer, a scam artist or a liar! I guess it wouldn't matter what their title is as long as they are single and they have dealt with their grief (widow and divorcees) and closed the book of the old life and start a new book with a new chapter of their life. Wow, so many people have had bad experiences with people who are afraid to feel free to love again and not feel like they are cheating on the one that is gone. In my case I have lived through 2 husbands and dealt differently through both. The first was 28 years and lost the battle to cancer, the second 4 years and was never sick & died suddenly due to a heart attack (clot from plaque). The first husband should of ended up in divorce and would have if he lived longer. But, he wanted me to stay and not die alone, he changed at the end and we became very good friends. The second hubby I was deeply in love with. But, he taught me something as being a divorcee, you can never give up on love even if you do not want it to end. We talked about being divorced and being a widow, we did not elabarote on the spouses, so he asked me if anything ever happened to him to please look for love again and believe in love, he said I had a lot of love to give and he said he never felt compared. I think people forget that when one dies it doesn't mean both partners died, one is still alive. Same as divorce as one decides to leave and the other is left to pick up the pieces and move on, it is a form of death/seperation. I know I was a child of divorce and both my kids have been through divorce, there is a grieving process as well.
Before that the first year we were married (2nd) he was a divorcee several times and I had to let him know that I was not going to pay for his ex/s wife with kids sins. I was being compared to her and I let him know real fast that I was not her. Things went good after that we got to know each other for who we were and not who we had been. So, it can go both ways in any situation or title that we are labeled under. It all depends on the person.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
When to move on...
Posted: 5/29/2009 4:02:14 PM
Does a person stay in a caring, loving relationship when your not sexually compatible? When getting older is this really an issue or is it even more important to have that physical closeness?

Any opinions?

Here is my opinion and just an opinion. The person is in a caring, loving relationship and that is something I would take in to consideration first. That means the other person is caring for them and loving them, so I see that as a postitive. But, not sexually compatible can be a problem for the bonding of intimacy, which is needed in relationships. Does age have an issue, yes it can, but normaly it doesn't. It all depends with what little description of "Getting Older" that you are referring to means at this point. I do know that when people go through change of life, whether it be man or woman, it will change their desires. Some have low desire and some will have a greater desire for sex. That is an issue that should be brought out and discussed between both parties and how to handle it. Maybe the fire needs to be rekindled in a different way than before. Maybe just talking about it and reliving with what brought the two together will light a new fire in them for each other. Bonding between two adults is more than just sex, it is making love, feeling love as the two become one in the intimacy as well as enjoying one another. Maybe one feels that they are not pleasing to the other and need to feel comfortable with relating what they want during the desires.

Health can effect this part as well but is not the whole thing, holding hands, touching, pleasing in different ways most people don't that is healthy, but it keeps the "I feel beautiful, sexy, and wanted by you" feeling still going. There is a lot of factors including that maybe the friend is bored. Some men loose the erection and some women lose the desire due to dryness that can be painful. If there is love in this relationship they will explore all the posibilities before calling it quits or cheating. Maybe and hopefully they will not cheat and be honest with the other.
That is my opinion.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
MOTOR INSURANCE CLAIM FORM STATEMENTS
Posted: 5/23/2009 9:43:40 PM
ROFL,,,thank you for sharing these are funny!
My favorite one is:
I pulled away from the side of the road, glanced at my mother-in-law, and headed into the embankment.
 simplyme2
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 1233 (view)
 
Anyone from Texas HERE ??? If so introduce yourself
Posted: 5/23/2009 7:25:01 PM
Hi, I am here in Katy and sometimes visiting family in Palestine, just moved back from the top north of the map. Hey ya'll!
 
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