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aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 15 (view)

is it normal Posted: 10/1/2006 6:42:31 PM
he knows im on here Perhaps you should just add that bit of info to your profile. You're looking for Long Term, and so far you've stated that you "not into games". I see a contradiction. On the other hand anyone can look at the last 25 threads you've participated in and glean that for themselves..........

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Some animals find and stay with their mates until one dies. Posted: 10/1/2006 6:33:40 PM
Are the male and female intended to remain together to protect their young? If so, to what point--until the young can fend for themselves? Interesting note. Human infants are considerably more fragile than any of their animal counterparts. This by itself would suggest that monogamy is the norm for our species. A female bereft of what our civilization provides would be hard pressed to provide for a newborn in the wild by herself. I know I felt an instant bonding with my children the moment they were born. Next thought. If monogamy is not the norm then why jealousy? What purpose would that emotion serve? Women seem to feel it just as strongly as men.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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can he be for real ? Posted: 9/28/2006 5:40:41 PM
No risk, no reward. Just go with it and smile. You may be pleasantly suprised.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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I am crazy Posted: 9/28/2006 5:35:22 PM
and deep hate, wish terrible things OK... This is the only part that creeps me out a bit........ Other than that, it sounds great! Go with it. Just don't hurt anybody.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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She is still surfing dating sites.. what am I to think? Posted: 9/28/2006 1:41:09 PM
Maybe she talks to friends on those sites, or maybe she knows you're still here and that makes her have the same doubts you have. Just do it by example. Take your profile and change your status to "not single/not looking". I'm seeing a wonderful woman that I'm really into. I hid my profile, put a disclaimer up, and changed my status on this site because I'm not looking. I have made a few friends here and check out the forums. I'll likely just delete this profile in another month or so if things keep going they way they are going. :)

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Reply To #1 Posted: 9/25/2006 3:06:52 PM
Anyone who thinks being divorced is a wonderful thing should not be giving advice on any form of a romantic relationship. Tsk tsk. Context please……. I shall forego commenting on your age….. ;) Do you honestly believe anyone goes into marriage expecting or wanting divorce to result? Until the ability to read minds and foretell the future exists blaming the participants is hardly fair or constructive. Until you’ve actually experienced a long-term relationship such as marriage……. I can’t help but question your ability to give constructive advice on any form of romantic relationship…….

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Men what have you learned from past realtionships? Posted: 9/25/2006 2:47:17 PM
Find someone who wants to be me. Not someone who needs what they think I can give them.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Reply To #1 Posted: 9/25/2006 2:43:44 PM
Guys are more leary of divorced women because that's a red flag indicating that they didn't take their marriage vows seriously. LMAO. Being naïve at it’s finest! Hmm… Throw in a bit of sexism as well…….. Never underestimate the value of life experience……. A divorced woman KNOWS what she wants. Considering how common divorce actually is, it’s good to know you’re not the “test run”. Getting back to the topic of the thread, my own biggest concern would be being “2nd best” to a memory.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Would you tell? Posted: 9/22/2006 4:41:44 PM
Tell one of them you think the other is boinking a couple others as well.......... Or perhaps they have a disease that hasn't flared up for awhile?....... Leave them thinking about whether or not continuing would be safe.........Just have fun messing with their minds.......

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Do men want to see full body pictures? Posted: 9/22/2006 3:44:19 PM
I have noticed men seem to post more full shots then women here, I just don't know if it really matters One of the first things I learned about Internet Dating was that a 5'4" woman with an average build outweights me by more than 50lbs. Full body shot was obviously not provided by her prior to meeting.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Could you forgive a multiple cheater? Posted: 9/22/2006 1:44:38 PM
Why shouldn't I advertise for being single! She been gone for three months! Because you’re not single. You’re in limbo and trying to make a decision. Please refer to the number of threads regarding “separated”. Lot of broken-hearted people out there that got involved with someone who went right back to their ex. This thread illustrates the problem of getting involved with seperated people.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Could you forgive a multiple cheater? Posted: 9/22/2006 1:19:43 PM
Dude, 1) Don’t advertise yourself as single on a dating site. It’s incredibly unfair to the people here trying to make a connection with someone who has their affairs in order. 2) I wouldn’t have taken her back the first time. Once a cheater, always a cheater. 3) Leaving the kids = child desertion. This is much bigger than cheating.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Some animals find and stay with their mates until one dies. Posted: 9/22/2006 8:10:27 AM
Some animals find and stay with their mates until one dies. Approximately 3% of species are monogamous, including humans and a few other primates. If you want the full story then do a google search using the words “voles in love”. An article originally published in The Economist. The prairie vole has been extensively studied. They bond for life. Scientists have been able to both make them bond through experiments, and prevent the bonding. It’s a very good read and gives some good indicators on why some humans can remain faithful while others do not. It explains why “once a cheater, always a cheater” can become a common theme for some people. They don’t have the receptors needed for the bonding process to maintain relationships.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Fitness / Weight Question: Posted: 9/21/2006 3:23:41 PM
atkins for about 2 months lost about 40 pounds. the diet is hard but its the quickest weight loss you will ever see. I did that too. Very true. Incredibly rapid weight loss, but it’s not sustainable as a lifestyle. Switch to something sustainable after you’ve lost what you needed to get a jumpstart. Very, very important….. WATER…. Drink a lot of water. They kid you not when they recommend 8 glasses a day. Always drink a glass of water before you eat and never let yourself become thirsty. Thirsty=dehydrated=body going into conservation mode instead of fat burning mode. Eat natural, unprepared foods. That means the green grocer and butcher sections. The stuff in the aisles is crap. Avoid the aisles and baked goods.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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What to do? Posted: 9/20/2006 5:21:58 PM
What are you trying to convey through your pictures? It's Ok. She put a message restriction in her profile that she doesn't want messages from anyone looking for intimate encounters............

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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What to do? Posted: 9/20/2006 5:04:30 PM
I’ve concluded this must simply be part of the POF experience. The number of “single” people asking for advice with their “relationship”. Yep. I saw it on the Internet. like for instance he hada dream other day that i cheated on him and he flipped out on me Thought you were new at first……. Then I noticed you’ve been living on this site since 2003……….. He on here too? Maybe it wasn't a dream. He just read your profile.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Something Completely Unexpected Posted: 9/20/2006 4:46:35 PM
I am curious if any of you who have ever had an aversion to dating big women (read: fat) have, at some point, been bowled over by the personality and/or looks of a big woman unexpectedly, and they completely won you over despite your personal preference for thin women. Yes. She ran her own DJ business and had a really amazing singing voice. Very beautiful singer. The relationship lasted almost 6 months. In the end our personalities were just not compatible, but I still remember how her talent wowed me.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Why cant men stick with one woman at a time and quit lieing about it Posted: 9/19/2006 10:52:41 AM
I don't think they're hanging out on the dating sites. Hey! I resent that. I've made it very clear with my profile that I'm not looking. I've never been comfortable with the idea of multiple partners. To each there own, but I've never been into it.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Perfect guy....except.... Posted: 9/18/2006 3:28:05 PM
Don't know...... Could simply be the dog is a house dog. Boo Boo has problems with cling-ons. The guy simply doesn't want those cling-ons on the carpet or furniture. As to taking the dog with him on a date...... Not too sure about that one. Some people are really into animals and treat them like people. (Although taking an extra out on a date is just wrong.) It's a little foreign to me since I grew up on farms and think they're really only good for food, but to each their own.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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how is a single dad to compete withthe manitude of men with no children? Posted: 9/18/2006 1:46:31 PM
I search for single dads first... I don't know about the rest of the pond. I think this statement should sum it up for you. There ARE women out there that find it attractive. That’s what you’re looking for. They see a guy who takes responsibility and knows how to give love to others. In today’s “me first” society that is increasingly hard to find. Think about it. Anyone that would associate children with the word baggage is NOT looking for someone to care about. If convenience is their main criteria when meeting people then they have nothing to give. I wouldn’t worry about them passing you by. They’re not a good catch anyways.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Too much sexual chemistry? Posted: 9/17/2006 6:52:27 PM
I did a bit of reading on the condom issue. We kept trying, but every time I put one on things just went limp. I found out that it could be something as simple as smell or the lubricant that was used with it. I’m going to try several brands and types to figure out what will work. I’m pretty sure I don’t have any allergies to latex, but perhaps I should check that as well. Are there non-latex condoms available if latex itself is the problem? We made the unprotected mistake once and we've agreed not to let it happen again. I know that I sound pretty stupid, but I’m really not that experienced with dating. This whole rollercoaster has been going pretty fast and I’m just not used to it. She doesn’t even have as much experience as I do.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Too much sexual chemistry? Posted: 9/16/2006 8:54:57 PM
Thanks for the realty check people. Suddenly starting to feel a little more grounded now (as well as foolish). I needed that scolding......... I do tend to be pretty naive at times......

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Too much sexual chemistry? Posted: 9/16/2006 8:40:43 PM
I’ve been seeing this woman for a few weeks that I’m really into. We’ve really only been together 3 times though. The last was overnight at her place. It started off fine with some MSN and a few emails back and forth. We had a lot of fun sending jokes back and forth and learning a bit about each other. Somehow it became incredibly sexual when we hit the phone. The first date was great and we spent the day at the Royal Ontario Museum together. We kept leaning close together, almost touching. I held her hand a bit when we left and kissed a bit in the parking garage. We finished the day having dinner together before I had to get home before the babysitter left. Definitely one of the best first dates I’ve ever had. We made plans to see a movie the next weekend and she invited me over to her place. Somehow we ended up renting a movie instead of going out. One thing just led to another and we didn’t finish seeing the movie. After that every conversation we had somehow came back to sex. We had trouble talking about anything else. She hadn’t been sexually active for quite awhile. When she was at the doctors she decided to get a prescription for BC pills because I just can’t seem to use a condom. Our 3rd date was overnight at her place. We didn’t really get much sleep. We seem to have the most amazing sexual chemistry I’ve ever experienced. Things got to the point where we had unprotected sex where I pulled out at the end. The BC really won’t be reliable until after her next cycle. We scared ourselves that we let things get that far. We’re both a bit freaked out now that we have trouble controlling our urges and we just seem to get each other so hot. It honestly doesn’t take very much. Just a few words back and forth in emails. Even hearing each others’ voices over the phone gets us going. When we first started talking we were really enjoying getting to know each other and simply talking about things we enjoy doing. Now we are both worried about things going too fast, or sex becoming all we really have in common. I know we both want more than just amazing sex. And we’re both worried about things going to fast and getting hurt. Should we be careful not to date more than once a week? Or is that part of the problem? If we start seeing each other twice a week, would that relieve the sexual tension, or would seeing each other too often be moving too fast? Yeah, I know the whole thing just sounds strange. But I really like this woman a lot. I know she’s a keeper, but I don’t want to go too fast either. So far, after talking we're thinking we should avoid the overnights for now.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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WHAT did I do?? Posted: 9/10/2006 11:52:22 AM
It could simply be timing. It’s common to explore your options with several people at once. It could be he found he really clicked with someone he was already seeing and closed his profile to see where that would go. I’ve had this happen several times. Sometimes they let you know, sometimes they don’t. Someone in the queue just got him before you really had your chance. It was not classy of him to leave you hanging, but considering you were still at the chatting stage he must not have realized you would be hurt by him disappearing. It’s one of the problems with Internet Dating. You really have no idea how many people he’s chatting with, or where you really stand until meeting. Throw the line back in and see what comes next. Don’t get your heart set on one person until you’ve met. BTW: What it all comes down to is YOU DID NOTHING WRONG, and it was not a reflection of your own value. Just unlucky timing.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Brampton Raxx Monthly Party Sept. 9/06 Posted: 9/6/2006 4:25:04 PM
Ok. OK. PAPD told me you guys were pretty cool, so I'm going to come down.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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MEET AND GREET.........RAXX........SEPT 7th...ALL WELCOME! Posted: 9/6/2006 4:17:52 PM
Ok. Rhonda told me you guys are pretty cool, so I'm going to try and make it out there Saturday. :) This would be my first POF party besides the speed dating. Sounds fun.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Why is that the most atractive woman have the least intelegence? Posted: 9/2/2006 7:29:53 PM
Why is that the most atractive woman have the least intelegence? The stereotypes never cease. It’s funny how people are always trying to offset one attribute with another based on the concept that everyone is equal. There are actually a lot of people out there that DO have it all. That is not to say they are better people, but they do have better genetics. I would suspect the correlation between the two would actually be the reverse. Beauty is a sign of good genes. Intelligence is as well. It is not surprising to see that they do go together. Much of the time an attractive women will downplay her intelligence because it’s expected of her. BTW: Atractive is spelled attractive and intelegence is spelled intelligence.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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MSN Messenger: Where friendships go to die. Posted: 9/2/2006 6:38:32 PM
Being too nice and gaving too many compliment qhile being a true gentlement is even worst then asking for dirty pics from her. Being too nice sounds needy and insecure and some women will think that you are desperate and will just run away! You hit the nail on the head. I’ve made that mistake way too many times. Being too polite is boring. Just did it again recently and got put in the “friend zone” from which there is no escape. Oh well. Practice makes perfect. Doesn’t hurt to have a new friend either. Rule of thumb. Move to the phone and set up a meeting. Never go more than 2 weeks before meeting. There are some people that are addicted to the attention they get. Despite all the attention and illusion of “successful” Internet dating, they find themselves still single after a year and 100 people on their MSN contacts. I know I’ve fallen into that trap myself and I’m sick of it. Turned off MSN for the better part of a year once. If someone is serious about finding somebody they will turn off the computer and use the phone. Have some pride and stick to the 2 week rule. If they just want to stay on MSN they're playing games and it's a waste of time.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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profile testomonials Posted: 9/1/2006 10:28:52 AM
Wrote my first testimonial today for one of the sweeties I've met off this site. Hopefully this works out well and takes out some of the guessing.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Support for stepchildren... Posted: 8/31/2006 10:59:54 AM
"Q. WHO IS CONSIDERED A PARENT FOR THE PURPOSES OF PAYING SUPPORT? A. You do not have to have been married to the other parent to seek child support. They have been your common law or same-sex partner. You may apply for support from a parent who is not the biological father/mother of the child. However, the person you are seeking support from must have acted in the place of a parent. For example, you may seek support from an adoptive parent, stepparent, or same-sex partner. As a result, MORE THAN ONE PARENT MAY HAVE THE LEGAL DUTY TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR THE SAME CHILD. For example, A BIOLOGICAL PARENT AS WELL AS A STEPPARENT may be required to pay support." (emphasis mine) Now that I'm totally creeped out.......... I wonder if pre-nups can cover anything like this or if it falls out of the range because it's children. Stories like this just make it harder and harder for people to trust each other. The government is telling everyone not to love another's children because you WILL become responsible for them if their own parent doesn't feel up to it. Common sense isn't very common.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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What's with the one line answers? Posted: 8/31/2006 8:02:36 AM
short responses.. tend to mean lack of interest. Yep. Move on. Nothing to see here. She's trying to blow you off without making a scene. I vote for have the men do everything and keep me interested! Naw. You don’t want that. That’s called being a doormat. If you’re just looking for entertainment, go see a movie. Men are people too. That attitude should have gone out of style with the teenage years.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Single Dads......How well do you cook for the kids? Posted: 8/31/2006 6:48:49 AM
I’m all set here. I have a chest freeze, a microwave, and lots of Tupperware containers. I almost always cook in batches. This week prime rib is on sale, so I’m going to do a roast that will make a lot of stews for the freezer. I’ve gotten pretty fond of stir fries, and they really don’t take long to prepare. I grill batches of chicken breast and put them in the freezer so I can microwave them to go with the stir fries. Works great and tastes far better than anything that could be ordered in. I've done the home made pizzas a few times as well. Get whole wheat pitas and make your own mini pizzas.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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sex buddies Posted: 8/30/2006 4:56:36 PM
i met this nice guy then his friend starts flirting with me.. and i realised i liked his friend so we broke it off.. LMAO. Return of the “nice guy” thread with a whole new angle. Today it’s the girl saying she blew off the nice guy so she could go after the bad boy. Now that she appears to have the bad boy she wants to change him into the nice guy. Now she’s confused………. She’s not the only one.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Usernames... Posted: 8/28/2006 6:53:49 AM
Hmm.. When I first signed up on an Internet Dating site, I read the instructions on picking a screen name. What jumped out at me was “Do not give out your real name or personal information. Maintain your privacy.” My screen name is literal interpretation of that suggestion.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Excepting Posted: 8/28/2006 6:46:21 AM
when us females will except their's? Don’t know about that so much. I’ve generally found that women without kids of their own are more accepting of my kids than single moms. I don’t prejudge, or limit myself, but…… it’s been an interesting pattern that I did not expect.......

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Do I say goodbye, or fight to take them with me? Posted: 8/25/2006 9:32:08 AM
If the job actually pays that much then why not just have to ex move too. She’s on welfare, so she’s not tied to a career right now. Considering where she is in life right now, she might be open to new places and opportunities herself. She can get another place in the city you’re moving to, you can cover the daycare costs, and she can get on with her own life and independence. I know what it's like having the kids 24/7. I'm sure she wouldn't mind being able to continue sharing the time and responsibilities of the kids. Just a thought. Everyone would win that way.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Guys who won't give home # or address after a month of exclusive dating Posted: 8/22/2006 5:17:06 PM
Kinda sounds like he's married. What he said. Why are you putting up with this? Just walk away and don't look back.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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HELP QUICK!! Posted: 8/22/2006 5:13:12 PM
Kids are great. They make our lives so much more exciting. I am so fortunate my kids aren't as bad as my brother and I were. I painted the car when I was 3 or 4. I was also quite the wanderer, and freaked my family out by staying out overnight when I was 3. They found me in the chicken coop the next morning. My brother simply set the house on fire. Small wonder my mom got her tubes tied right after my little sister was born. I'm told she had to put me on Ritalin when I was 2 to slow me down.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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a bunch of houdini's out there Posted: 8/21/2006 1:09:52 PM
Well. As soon as you can explain to me why some women do it, I think we'll all have an answer.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Having sex with the same person all your life? Posted: 8/20/2006 7:31:18 PM
One of the things he told me was that he couldn't see himself having sex (at this time in his life) with the same person exclusively for the rest of his days. (He maintains with me that while with her, he has been faithful). Sure beats having sex with yourself for the rest of your life. Everyone cheats. Some get caught, some don't. If anyone sez they never cheated it is because they were never given the chance to cheat. Eek. Reminds me of the old saying. “There is no one more afraid of being robbed than a thief.” There is always the assumption that because we think a certain way, everyone must think that way. I have no interest in cheating. It’s dishonourable. Being caught is irrelevant. I like being able to sleep at night knowing I have my integrity intact.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Post-modernism Posted: 8/20/2006 5:34:55 PM
Does'nt make a difference if you are religious or not, the moral standards that people hold today were based on religious principals as inteperted by human beings. Depends on what psychology you might subscribe to. Personally I think Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs is fairly accurate. It is human nature to be benevolent to each other, provided there is no scarcity of resources to create competition.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Post-modernism Posted: 8/20/2006 3:12:45 PM
Is there any flat-out, definitive truth that speaks to relational issues? I think that is where compatibility would come into play. People have very different ideas of what they want/need in a relationship. If those views of what creates an ideal relationship are radically different the relationship will fail.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Confessions from a former telephone actress.. Posted: 8/20/2006 5:53:34 AM
I think most guys would br thrilled about it. You had a unique job. I think it is good for a laugh to see what the guys say. She doesn't have any mail restrictions. I'm just going to send her my phone number! OP: I wouldn't worry about it. You can't please all the people all the time, and I'm sure there are few ultra-conservatives that might be put off by it. But there are also a lot of men out there that would be excited about it. There's enough threads going around about how women don't know how to please a man, and it sounds like you've done your research.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Have you ever had a passionate kiss that rendered you unable to walk? Posted: 8/19/2006 8:47:53 PM
Wow. This has got me remembering things. There has only been one woman whose kiss I will never forget. It was a goodnight kiss while she was leaving our first date. I felt light as a feather afterwards and could not stop smiling. More like walking on air. While it was not my first kiss it felt like it was. I felt amazed and connected to everything around me. That is something I am really hoping to find again. Perhaps even here.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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would you share your toothbrush?? Posted: 8/19/2006 8:21:00 PM
As long as you don't suspect she's cheating on you............... That would be nasty........Wouldn't be just her fluids then........

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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What is the purpose of the photo voting feature? Posted: 8/19/2006 8:16:02 PM
I would say it does serve one practical purpose that I do use via another site. It tells me which photos are more attractive to the people viewing them. If the photo has a bad rating, I don't use it in my profile. If one of my photos has a better rating than the others, then it becomes my main photo.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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I think is About Time Women Chose Men and show Interest Posted: 8/19/2006 7:55:43 PM
MOST women still think it's butch, slutty, or just plain wrong to make the first move. Actually, that would be a failing of society. There are just as many men out there who hold a similar attitude. Small wonder it leaves many women nervous about challenging roles and traditions. You know what though? It’s not society that determines why men are expected to make the first move. It’s because of what men and women find attractive. Men want physical attraction first, while women want confidence. So when a man makes the first move, he can choose only women that he finds physically attractive. That makes him happy. By waiting for a man to make the first move, women can identify which men have the desired trait of confidence. That makes her happy. Seems like a workable system to me. The exception comes down to one basic truth that I’ve seen quoted before. Love discriminates against the shy and the ugly. In the end, it’s much easier for men. We can LEARN to overcome shyness and be confident. Women get the short end of the stick in the dating world. Bear in mind, that this works best in the Real World, and does not translate well to online dating.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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best ways to get even with your ex Posted: 8/19/2006 4:18:33 PM
Eek! Wanting to get even with your ex implies that you still care about him. Red flag! Red flag! Red flag! You haven’t moved on. I left mine years ago, and to be perfectly honest I never even think about her. I couldn't care less what she does, or doesn't do with her life.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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For Bigger Men: What would motivate you to go to the gym? Posted: 8/18/2006 9:25:30 PM
All I want is better daycare hours. I prefer to go to the gym early in the morning. Preferably from 7am to 8am. The daycare is only open when the gym is the busiest, and I hate going to the gym when it’s too busy and I have to wait in line for the equipment.

aliasincognito

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Your opinion: 'I haven't met the right person yet. Posted: 8/15/2006 5:00:40 AM
In a manner of speaking; HE blindsided ME. I did not know that he thought of me as "the one" until he said this. He has also never married Not neccessarily "the one", but by adding the word "yet" you made him feel he was out of the running and you were perhaps thinking of a break-up.

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