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 Author Thread: Caster Semenya's gender is more complexk??? WHAT??
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Caster Semenya's gender is more complexk??? WHAT??
Posted: 8/22/2009 5:34:09 PM
Complicated? Bullsh!t. It's a simple DNA test, if it's XX, it's female, if it's XY, it's male. Simple, one test, not this PC crap. I don't care what it THINKS it is, if it's XY, it's a MAN, period.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Ok, I'll take part in this too.
Posted: 4/23/2009 7:47:45 PM
Thanks! So far no real luck though.....
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Ok, I'll take part in this too.
Posted: 4/23/2009 11:47:43 AM
Ladies, please have a look at my profile and don't hesitate to give feedback, both positive and negative.
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Thanks!
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Why Not Admit You're Just Looking for Sex?
Posted: 4/21/2009 11:17:23 AM
An "Intimate Encounter" is the LAST thing I'm looking for, unless it's within a solid, monagamous relationship. I've always been drawn more to emotional attatchments vs. strictly sexual. And, honestly, I'd rahter NOT have a simple sexual encounter because it simply leaves me wanting the emotional side of it. So, maybe I'm the unusual male in this regard, but that's how I've always been.....
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Describe your first time
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:46:42 PM
When I was 14 and J was 13 (in '78), we met here in Niwot CO and fell madly in love. I'd had G/F's before that, but had never felt like this with anyone else. Her parents hated me because I was a rebel, but we continued to see each other in spite of that. We broke up a few times over those years, but always got back together. I the spring of '80 my idiot father decided to move us to the middle of nowhere in the SoCal desert. There was some time before we left, and J and I got together when we ditched school (she lived next to our H/S) and we ALMOST went thru with it when things got steamy in her parents camper. We went inside for a bit after that, and then were going to go back out there where I felt it would have happened, when her **** older sister came home and caught us in the house together. That was the end of that, and I went off to CA within the next few days. We wrote and called each other a lot, and I ended up saving up as much money as I could, and in the summer of '81 (at 17) I ended up taking a Greyhound bus from SoCal to stay with her while her parents were on vacation in Alaska. Our reunion was such a magic moment, it was unreal. She ran across the yard when I rode up on the back of a friend’s M/C and jumped into my arms. Then, later that night, with candles lit (I still have trouble with that Staind song), we went to consummate our union. At the moment of truth, she suddenly and violently pushed me away, and went over to the window, sobbing hysterically. I had heard girls sometimes acted strange when they lost their virginity, but this floored me. I instinctively knew something else was wrong, that this couldn’t be a normal reaction, but didn’t know what could be wrong. I consoled her as best I could, and she calmed down and wanted to do it. But when we finally did, she was stiff and basically stared at the ceiling. She didn’t bleed at all, and there was no pain, only…..this disassociation. We were both virgins, and didn’t know anything, but I felt in my soul something was wrong, though she said she was just scared. I was so fearful I’d somehow hurt her. It was the most amazing feeling for me, and I never thought anything could feel so good. We didn’t have any protection so I had to be very careful and withdraw before the finish. It got better with each day, and she felt more comfortable with it every time. Then, her brother’s **** G/F found me in the house after J had gone to school, and I had to leave in a hurry. I was heartbroken, because she said then after her parents were told that she couldn’t see me anymore. I spent a few more days here, trying to decide what to do, and she called me and said she would be able to sneak out and see me one last time before I went home. Her parents were still gone, and she told her brothers G/F she was taking a blanket outside and was going outside to watch the sunset. I showed up after the sun went down and we were together one last time under the stars. After we finished, and laid together curled up for a few hours afterwards, the evil G/F called outside for her, and J told her that she’d be in in a few minutes. After one last hug and kiss, I had to watch her turn and walk away from me…….and I didn’t see her for 21 years after that………
So, my first time was both amazingly wonderful, and horribly sad, because I loved her so much, and then lost her. I also know now that the reason she reacted the way she did was because she’d been repeatedly molested as a young child (5-ish) as she confessed this to me a few years ago. I was the only one she ever told of that.
I think that because of this and the feelings I felt for her, I’ve always had to have an emotional connection to someone before I can have sex with them, and that I have scars of my own from the scars she had from her rape, as it’s affected the way I am with every women I’ve ever been with.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 459 (view)
 
Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met
Posted: 4/3/2009 1:41:07 PM
Exactly. Run fast, and far....
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 214 (view)
 
Is a 9 year age difference too much?
Posted: 4/3/2009 1:39:55 PM
That is such an individual question........only YOU can answer that.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
What is sexy to YOU when meeting a woman for the first time?
Posted: 4/3/2009 1:39:10 PM
That she smiles with her EYES as well as her mouth.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 212 (view)
 
after 40 it is really hard to find a date
Posted: 4/3/2009 1:37:33 PM
I think so, at least it seems that way. Kids, career, etc.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 137 (view)
 
When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where?
Posted: 4/3/2009 12:34:06 PM
My second X always got EXTREMELY wet. When she was about 8mo pregnant, I was playing with her clit and this HUGE gush came out of her "V", NOT her urethura. I'm sure of that as I had a birds eye seat. It seemed from everything to be just extra watery lubrication. It left a giant wet spot about 9" in dia. I think she did the same thing on a smaller scale one time soon after while having sex, but we never managed to have it happen again though we tried. She said it was a very intense orgasm, more so than even her usual intense ones. I think it had something to do with her pregnancy and all the increased blood flow.

Then, a recent G/F had a similar thing happen a couple times. This was while having sex with her on her back and me sideways so I could stimulate her manually. She got tremendously wet and left a large spot about 6" in dia. It only happened a couple times, but I think it was the same thing. I think it'd be interesting to be with someone who did it regularly.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 201 (view)
 
after 40 it is really hard to find a date
Posted: 4/2/2009 10:02:18 AM
I've found it difficult. I think as we age we get set in our ways, and are less able to adapt and change for and with a mate. I think a lot of people pass over perfectly elligable people based on some little flaw that could easily be overlooked or changed, thinking we can get and deserve "better".

From a guy's perspective, we ARE more visual creatures, and I personally don't discriminate based strictly on age, but will admit that I tend to like women younger than I simply because I'm more physically attracted to them. Also from a guys perspective, I see a lot of women who are very interested in financial security and specifically list a salary for their mate.

I think dating is a women's game in general, and this internet dating thing is even more so. The women my age that have taken good care of themselves seem to get so many e-mails they can cherry-pick between dozens of guys. Makes us feel like a contestant on "The Bachelorette".
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 250 (view)
 
are you really happy being single?
Posted: 4/2/2009 9:09:17 AM
No. It has always been my dream to find someone to love and be loved by. I'm not co-dependant, but I have always been happier sharing life with someone else.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 1068 (view)
 
??????
Posted: 3/29/2009 12:45:36 PM
Easy:
True affection. an act of kindness to me, self-sacrifice.

Those are my true turn-ons because they can be done anywhere, anytime, in whatever company.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 1067 (view)
 
??????
Posted: 3/29/2009 12:45:18 PM
Easy:
True affection. an act of kindness to me, self-sacrifice.

Those are my true turn-ons because they can be done anywhere, anytime, in whatever company.
 IL_LEONE_64
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Best sex ever, can it cause problems?
Posted: 3/29/2009 12:42:00 PM
Well, here is my problem:

The best sex I ever had (and it was the same for her) was with the girl who I loved the most since I was 14 (long story).....unfortunately she turned out to be the worst nightmare of my life. The love I had for her and the physical oneness we shared caused me to overlook the fact that she was a totally self-absorbed nutjob with no regard for MY and my children's feelings and needs. So, yeah, it can cause MAJOR problems.

I'm looking with open eyes and an open heart for the whole package now.
 
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