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harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 121 (view)

Troopergate... Posted: 9/22/2008 12:26:04 AM
I think its interesting that the actual person that got fired was a man that has a restraining order put on him by his ex wife. If you do a little reseach you'll find out that Monagan has a restraining order for breaking and entering his ex wives home, he's beaten her, pulled a gun on her and threatened to drown her. I can see why this man wouldn't fire a man that admittedly tasered his 11 year old son. He probibly doesn't see it as a problem. But thats ok because it gives us ample oppertunity to bash a republican cough cough democrat

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 97 (view)

was kurt kobain very clever? Posted: 9/22/2008 12:11:58 AM
Not only was Kurt great writer he was aslo a fantastic guitar player. Now I think your letting your nostalgia get in the way of reality. He was an alright musician that was in the right place at the right time. It happens alot.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 286 (view)

Palin Bombshell about to be exposed? Posted: 9/7/2008 9:26:57 PM
I just find it interesting how some had an abject hatred for her the second she was announced (without even knowing her). I can just imagine how her critics feel now that McCain/Palin have a 10% lead from the latest poll. http://www.pollster.com/blogs/us_mccain_54_obama_44_usatoday.php?loc=interstitialskip I can almost quote some of your responses. It will be a paraphrase of, "well there has to be some reason why they are ahead because our side is the natural course anything else is unnatural and of course a mistake or should writen off in some way."

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 103 (view)

Palin Bombshell about to be exposed? Posted: 9/4/2008 10:53:46 PM
With all of this brought out in just the first couple weeks the left is really tipping thier hand and showing how scared they are that she's better then them. They can't attack her apples to apples on running things so they have to go below the belt. The media is going to keep digging themselves into losing it for Obama. Some may disagree but watch this is going to backfire on the left.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 27 (view)

How do I get out of fwb zone? Posted: 9/1/2008 8:53:19 PM
Listen OP. All his other booty calls have dried up. The other woman have grown tired of his selfish behavior. To this man your just there to serve him. Whenever and however he needs. Kind of kills the friends part of FWB. You want a mature man that has a high sex drive like you. Go get him stop wasting your time with this user.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

Men who are cut off from their feelings Posted: 9/1/2008 8:45:00 PM
Are you completely serious OP? Wait I should slow down I'm starting to show the emotion of irritation. This is so steriotypical its almost bordering on sexist. Its the old "men are heartless" claim. Look heres some FACTS. Men have different brains than women. Literally in size, shape and chemical make up. So with that being said men and women think differently. You can't expect a man to think like a woman. And its nieve to think he should. The opposite is also true.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Sarah Palin's 17 year old pregnant daughter! Posted: 9/1/2008 2:15:54 PM
No one should use this positively or negatively IMO. Palin is Pro Life. They have what seems to be a strong family unit. If anything that child is just another blessing to the family. We're all here because our parents had xes. I don't know about you but I don't have any regrets about being born. O I agree with this whole heartedly. We should consentrate on the issues and keep family out of this. And definately not try to tie anyone to any issues. If I wanted to be tactless and do that I could just as easily. But I won't because its not about personal family things. I know I'm going to get a million responses jumping saying "but it is part of the issue." Show some class and professionalism.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 380 (view)

Sleeping naked Posted: 9/1/2008 12:24:08 PM
Boxers alone. Naked with partner unless that partner has a child. they tend to barge in the room.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners.. Posted: 9/1/2008 12:18:49 PM
I still think cheaters see something in that other person that they like, but can't find it in their mate. I think for men, it has more to do with sex, but it seems that women cheaters are lacking the emotional attachment maybe. Did you read the same psychological study I did? Because they found the same results you just theorised. Thats the exact reason men and women cheat. As far as the idea of that person being attracted to cheaters. Your missing the point. All people chose traits in thier mates. These can be physical, emotional or psychological. Alot of the time they don't do this conciously. But they still do it. For instance, cheating. A cheater is usually a self centered person. A taker and someone that is never satisfied. Those are traits that promote a cheating mindset.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 121 (view)

Oral and swallowing Posted: 9/1/2008 12:05:25 PM
Personally, I don't understand why anyone would try to force or manipulate their partner into doing something that they are not comfortable with for whatever reason. What we have to remember is that we are only getting half of the story. It may very well be a symtom of a larger issue in the marriage, as stated eliquantly above. And it may be a mountain made out of a mole hill, as the saying goes. But to quote another saying, there are always three sides to every story: yours, mine and the truth. That doesn't mean anyone is lying it means that we all have our own perspectives and when we see something from all agles it makes the truth of the situation alot more clear. I think cheerleading for either side isn't the correct response. And I don't buy into either sides arguements. Niether the "she just should" or the "he should be greatful for anything".

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 164 (view)

so many men just don't know how to do it! Posted: 8/31/2008 6:57:43 PM
The thing that some women don't understand is that alot are very different. Very different in what they like, what turns them on and what they will do.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 89 (view)

Oral and swallowing Posted: 8/31/2008 5:21:23 PM
Another suggestion my brother told me his SO didn't like the taste so she would deep throat when he was about to pop. So she couldn't taste it. She figured you taste it twice if you spit. Once when he pops and once when you put it on your tongue to spit.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

If you meet someone who claims to have been cheated on by thier last few partners.. Posted: 8/31/2008 2:18:15 PM
Well irreguardless to anything we all develope patterns. Consiously we call them our type. But we also have wittingly or unwittingly a type. They need to go back and examine what some of the common factors were of these people. Then go about finding someone that doesn't have that charactoristic.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies? Posted: 8/31/2008 2:05:25 PM
Ok so here are some issues I'd be conserned with. Is she still playing with any of those common aquaintances? Does/did she have an STD from any of them? Does she have any kids from them? Were/are any of them romantic and not just sex? Does she have a history of cheating? If she answered yes to questions 1 and 5 thats a deal breaker. If she answered yes to questions 2, 3, and 4 that is a maybe on if she's a keeper depending on a few things. 2. If she still has an STD then of course I wouldn't be with her. If she had it cured then and she's clean then I would let it slide. 3. Is the father in the sceen and if so is he an agitator. IE obsessive, a deadbeat or on again off again. 4. If she loved any of them does she still. If she still does I wouldn't persue her. And of course no's for all 5 are a great thing.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Virgin Girlfriend Posted: 8/31/2008 1:51:59 PM
My chief advice is make love don't just have sex. Yes there is a difference. Take it slow be gentle. Lots of foreplay and oral. Don't go too fast, hard or deep.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 78 (view)

Oral and swallowing Posted: 8/31/2008 1:20:35 PM
Heres what you do. Let him give you a facial or finish on your chest. Just be really kinky so it doesn't break his rythum. When you know he's about to pop pull it out and finish him off manually. You just totally redirected the whole issue. And that was a peaceful medium for both of you.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 275 (view)

HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 8/31/2008 1:13:04 PM
The best thing is when you give the "alert" and she keeps going and doesn't even pause or give you that uh huh sound.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Do men select women that are… Posted: 8/31/2008 1:00:03 PM
I have had both. The kind the family loves ( a family friend and I started dating we knew each other for almost 20 years). I've also dated women my family didn't care for. While I would like my family to get along with my partner its irrelevent. At the end of the day its me and her as a couple. I have to live with the decision I made to be with her not them.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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what did my ex-fuck buddy want?? Posted: 8/31/2008 12:41:52 PM
After reading this I had an epiphany. You weren't the a F buddy you were a woman on the side. It makes perfect sence. Think about it why else would he be so comfortable openly lying to you and trying to get some. He's done it before only this time you called him on it. Then he tells you he might marry her in the same conversation he tried to nail you. The guy is a cheater. The only reason why he approached you is because your an easy mark.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 216 (view)

Are strong independant women a turn off? Posted: 8/31/2008 1:16:55 AM
girls that self-identify as such, and tout their strength and independence? go away. Its the "anything you can do I can do better." Listen most men don't care. If you can great but stop browbeating. And thats what the second group I was refering to does. Its unattractive and unpleasent to be around.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 213 (view)

Are strong independent women a turn off? Posted: 8/30/2008 4:12:42 PM
Ok let me help you so you can see it from a male perspective. Strong independent woman: yes Abrasive compeditive angry woman: no Often times women see this as one group but really they are two. Often the second group is blatently sexist. Who wants to be part of a persons life when they arn't wanted or liked.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 70 (view)

How you deal with catty women? Posted: 8/30/2008 11:00:27 AM
First off, I think you honestly made a mistake by putting this in the "ask a guy" section. But I'm always up for a challenge in lending some advice. Finding genuine people to be friends (or more) with is a struggle in this day and age. All I have to say is that you can't have too big of a heart. It helps to be a little standoffish and observe people. Also, I haven't seen this amongst men as much as women, but you can pick out catty women real easy. They are the ones that are nice to a person to thier face but constent s**t talking behind thier back. Even though they arn't talking about you, that you know of, ditch them. They have no real loyalty.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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The Obama Administration... Posted: 8/28/2008 11:09:33 PM
He's a good speaker. I don't agree with his opinions on certain things but he is a good speaker. And Denver was totally silent durring the speach. I know because I had to run an eron for my sick niece. The streets were empty.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Will the media affect the 2008 Presidency? How? Posted: 8/28/2008 11:06:43 PM
A while ago a census was taken. It was before the explosion of the internet blogosphere, talk radio and the dreaded Fox News. Well a non bias group examined the print media (newspapers and news magazines), major networks news departments and cable news. They found 90% were registered Democrats. Now with that being said its completely impossible not to interject your opinion into matters of the news. So anyone that says the media can't effect the presidental race doesn't remember Florida being called early. I think the 24 hour news media does help us get a better look at the candidates. But they do take it too far. I actually saw reporters from the cable news channels following McCain into a Starbucks when he was on vacation. I don't care where they go or what they do on thier off time. I just want to know thier stances on the issues.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 290 (view)

Illegal Immigration and The Upcoming Election: What Impact will it have Posted: 8/28/2008 10:38:27 PM
Niether party will really do anything. Democratic party doesn't want to disrupt the latino vote. They are trying to lock it in like the African American vote. Republicans won't do anything that will disrupt the latino vote. They don't want to lose them to the Democrats like they lost the African American vote.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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are you sure we should vote for a change? Posted: 8/28/2008 10:21:42 PM
"Change" has always been an old school political catchphrase. It doesn't matter the party or the year. They will always focus on the negative. Like economy even though it grew last quarter by 3.3% when economists were expecting 1.6%. Its oldschool politics to play this game of making the sitting politician responsible for everything that has gone wrong when they have been in office. Both parties do it and no matter how "new school" some politicians fashion themselves they fall into it.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 110 (view)

How big is it? Posted: 8/28/2008 6:37:13 PM
Well there could be an alternative answer. Some men don't care. Besides like its been said before if he does it for you then its like the third bear in goldylocks, "just right".

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

Why do some older guys dye the hair and facial hair black? Posted: 8/28/2008 10:56:06 AM
Its comprible to women getting a face lift, using antiaging cream, a pushup bra, slimming pants, or high heals. They want to look younger and more attractive.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 54 (view)

why does success not work the same for both genders? Posted: 8/28/2008 10:39:31 AM
Its not the Olympics. Its just how attraction works. Women look for the alpha male. And men look for someone sexually appealing. Thats it in a nutshell.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Guys please help me get him to realize this. Posted: 8/28/2008 10:33:53 AM
Or how about the popular saying: Run like you stole something.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 284 (view)

What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 8/27/2008 8:09:01 PM
Consentual with a female partner. lol

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 198 (view)

The Challenge is on...Men's opinions are needed! Posted: 8/27/2008 7:50:49 PM
1. Is there anyone out there who is interested in just being a friend. 2. Do men think that when a woman states "friends" due you interpret that as casual sex 3. While we're at it, do you think that men and women can be friends without any sexual connection. Thanks in advance for your opinions....even if they disagree with mine! 1. No, but I will warn you that alot of men are on here due to the fact that many women what to be thier "friend". The way alot of men from here that I know interpret it as: lets start out as friends and if you meet all my requirements and if the mood strikes me we can take it further. This is a dating website. If you want a friend there are other "spaces" for that. Where men can see your "face". lol 2. No 3. No, do a google search on the ladder theory.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Question from a friend Posted: 8/25/2008 2:10:12 PM
Like many have said: Just because he's on here doesn't mean he likes your "friend" any less. He may be just chatting with "friends" he's established on here just like you and her. Personally with the sidenotes of communication she seems to be a little insecure. (God I hate that word.) But its true. What does she think that he's going to run off on her? Or does she just need the constant affermation that he's there for her? Your friend needs to step back and take a breather.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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How you let a platonic male friend in dog house Posted: 8/25/2008 1:50:42 PM
I had a male friend that would do that all the time. He'd make plans with me then cut them the second a female came calling. That is until I started to call him on his s**t and turn him down when he wanted to do something. After a few of those, "no thanks I guess you don't have plans with anyone and I'm your plan b." After a few of those conversations he finally started to get it.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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THE TRUTH is in the middle... Posted: 8/25/2008 1:30:24 PM
Its not about party. Its about ideas and getting them done. Thats why George Washington was so apposed to political parties forming.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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What's the #1 ISSUE? Posted: 8/25/2008 1:14:36 PM
I'm not a one issue person but what I look for is who repersents my viewpoints the most. And I vote party over pricipal. I believe the Republican party and I agree in alot of matters, not all, but alot. For this campaign the biggest issues for me are: Nat'l Security. The economy. Energy consumption, production and sales. IMO we need to stop oil investing and also open up drilling in our own country. Also, experience is a definate plus, even Hilary acknowledged that. Those are just a few of my issues why I like McCain.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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Women that back out when they are challenged Posted: 8/25/2008 12:34:50 AM
Ok ladies maybe I can rephrase his question so that it makes more sence. Why do alot of women feel the need to be catered to without giving anything in return? Case in point: Everyone knows conciously or subconciously that Valentines Day is a female holiday. If you don't think so ask yourself, "how many commercials are there directed at women to romance men durring that period?"

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

Guys Help Me Understand The I Just Want to be Friends, But... Posted: 8/25/2008 12:27:43 AM
He was horny but doesn't want to date you.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 55 (view)

political prisoner camp in Denver for the DNC...Gitmo on the Platte. Posted: 8/25/2008 12:12:10 AM
I hate to tell you that MY state Colorado is Democrat owned. They are the ones calling the shots on where the demonstrators can be. And I can tell you that even with protestors, that are in more than just that one area, already starting to be unruly that police will have a tough job. We have groups like Recreate '68. They have several times threatened a riot. The statements that thier leader has made are very indirect threats. Ok case in point of unruly protestors: Protestors today, even before the event had walked into a major street and tried to stop traffic. There are so many changes to our city to accomidate protestors. But that doesn't mean that we are going to comprimise our security or the welfare of the people that live and work in that area of town.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 78 (view)

Guys??? Need to know! Was I played?? Posted: 8/24/2008 11:51:44 PM
I have to say I don't think he is a player. I think he cut off communication because he felt you were giving him one of those "its not you its me" responses. And any guy knows when a woman says something like that she really means "it is you but I'm trying to be nice."

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 15 (view)

How Does It Make You Feel When A Woman Can't Accept A Compliment? Posted: 8/24/2008 11:32:11 PM
A big percentage of females have alot lower self esteem then men in my opinion. What do I do when a woman can't except a compliment. I sit her down look her dead in the eyes and tell her don't ever talk about herself like that. Because the world beats us down enough we don't have to add to it.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

Guys please help me get him to realize this. Posted: 8/24/2008 11:16:58 PM
You are selfish on so many levels. You want help in him ruining any chance he might start a family with the love of his life later because you don't like birthcontrol. I'm just shaking my head in amazement. And I hate to tell you but I have a friend thats 40+ with 2 divorces under his belt and he has found the woman truely of his dreams. And I say that knowing full well one of his exwives is my sister. His current SO is younger and they have lived together for 4 years. So the "dream girl/wife doesn't exist" statement is wrong.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 55 (view)

Are you being played?! Posted: 8/24/2008 11:09:30 PM
Well Gretchen, the way men spot female players is by applying the same benchmarks. 1) No matter the conversation your completely 100% right. It could be dog poop shovelling. lol 2) Avoidance of honesty. 3) Lack of openness. Your always on the answering end of questions. It isn't a conversation but rather an interview. ( The player does this to take mental notes.) Case in point: Boy: Do you like animals? Girl: I'm a sucker for animals. Then suprisingly he takes you on a trip to the zoo. They are studying you. Not to find out what you like or what you don't but as a means to an end. They really don't have your best interests at heart in this reguard they are just trying to tug at your heartstrings.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 328 (view)

Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 8/22/2008 4:32:44 PM
There are other factors that contribute to getting a STD. Who is more likely to have a STD? A) A person who had 10 sexual partners. But always used protection OR B) A person who had 5 sexual partners. But never used protection. I would choose person B. Yes I know it is still possible to get a STD when condoms are used. But the odds are MUCH lower. A) A person who had 10 sexual partners. But doesn't use any illegal drugs OR B) A person who had 5 sexual partners. But has shared drug needles. Why not, C) A person who had 5 sexual partners. But always uses protection. and C) A person who had 5 sexual partners. But doesn't use any illegal drugs.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

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What if your bf dosnt do what you want? Posted: 8/22/2008 1:08:52 PM
Ok you can't make someone like something they don't. He might gradually grow to tolerate it and do it for you. But he won't like it. You wouldn't believe how many men have this problem with women. My suggestion is 69. That is the best suggestion I can give. And if your not for going down how can you really expect him to want to return the favor. And also give him verbal instructions. If he refuses in that you have the choice to stay with him or not.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

More experiences Posted: 8/22/2008 12:58:41 PM
Just because a person has very few partners in no way suggests lack of experience. And just because he hasn't partisipated in threesomes doesn't make him vanilla. (BTW why is vanilla getting a bad rap I personally like the taste) I have done threesomes a few times and its not as fun to me as the one on one experience. I have also been with people that had far less partners than me and was pleasently suprised at thier talent. Skill is not marked by how many people you've been with but the effort you put into the practice. Case in point the bronze metalist for this years mens 200 meter dash had only competed in 4 races before that race. On the issue of honesty: I'm guessing you two shared "war stories" you know: "how many partners have you had,""what have you done?" I'm guessing he answered first. You were so shocked and didn't want to seem like a bad person so you lied. Now you feel guilty about lieing and at the same time still don't want to feel like a bad person.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 162 (view)

do men want LT relationships with Bi-women? Posted: 8/20/2008 3:46:56 PM
Yes, but they have to be faithful. That means no cheating with a woman or a man. And yes if she does have sex or kiss a woman while dating a man thats cheating.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

Why doesn't he GET IT? Posted: 8/20/2008 3:41:56 PM
Your in his friendszone. I'm sorry to tell. It sucks I know. Move on to another. Because in truth there isn't "the one". There is only the "ones you've loved."

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

I've always wondered ... why do men lie about having sex with a girl? Posted: 8/20/2008 3:35:37 PM
Like the American Pie movies state. With young people you have to go by the rule of three. For boys you divide thier number by three. For girls you multiply thier number by three.

harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

I've always wondered ... why do men lie about having sex with a girl? Posted: 8/20/2008 3:29:48 PM
Young men do it because of ego issues, immaturity and he wants attention from other men. Older men don't really talk about who they have had sex with. Frankly, we could care less. I'm going to give you a case in point. two different perspectives. both men have been dating a woman for a little while and had sex with her. While hanging out with a friend they tell them. Young guy conversation: guy 1: i just nailed x. man she was so hot. (and he goes on and on) guy 2: (listens intently hanging on every word maybe living vicariously through his friends accomplishments. asking for details and such.) Older guy: guy 1: you know i've been seeing x well me and her finally did it. guy 2: good, but you still owe me $20 on that football game bet.

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