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toakreon

Joined: 12/26/2005

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sex & love in the office of work place Posted: 2/13/2007 1:17:43 AM
Great idea, but you have to move the PC before throwing the girl on her back on the desk ... Toak

toakreon

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women & bras Posted: 6/27/2006 5:41:56 AM
I do the clip and turn and then the place and lift. Interessting to see if any guys can actually visualize what that looks like. I would like to assure Sweatpea that I cannot visualize this AT ALL ... and therefore require Miss Pea to send me a sequence of detailed photographs of her performing the process so that I can properly understand the technique ... Toak

toakreon

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pocket pussies and dildoes Posted: 6/27/2006 5:33:23 AM
There are disposible pocket pussies ... Sealed can, complete with small tube of lube. Use once, put the top back on, throw away. £4.99 somewhere (can't remember where I saw them) That'd be about $8 US. Damn sight cheaper than taking a girl to dinner, though I have to admit in inferior substitute. Toak

toakreon

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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me? Posted: 6/19/2006 10:34:11 AM
i want him to do it in a sort of out of anger way , like i want to get him annoyed or angry with me. Tell him, and tell him you want to role-play it agressive and angry. Don't try and "short cuircuit" understanding and communication by just pissing him off. The chances oif him reacting the way you want if he doesn't KNOW the way you want him to react are just about zero. Toak/John

toakreon

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The V Card Posted: 6/19/2006 10:29:24 AM
Heck ... I'm a lecherous old git and I certainly would (if she was cute). OK, perhaps I shouldn't, but I wouldn't say no (other things being "right") - and I strongly suspect you would get the same answer from most sexually active men, assuming they were honest. Toak/John

toakreon

Joined: 12/26/2005

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short hair vs long hair Posted: 6/19/2006 10:27:20 AM
It's a matter of personal taste, I think. For me, I prefer long hair. This doesn't mean I find a gorgeous girl who's short haired un-gorgeous, but I feel long hair adds something. Mind you, there are men who have the opposite preference. Toak/John

toakreon

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How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex?? Posted: 6/19/2006 10:24:46 AM
It all boils down to talking, and knowing the person you're with. If you're in doubt then you don't know the other person well enough for it to be an "established relationship" anyway. Toak/John

toakreon

Joined: 12/26/2005

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What is an acceptable amount of years above and below your age to date? Posted: 6/19/2006 10:21:49 AM
As long as the person you're dating is a consenting adult above the legal age of consent where you happen to live there is NO PROBLEM in my eyes. Toak/John

toakreon

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sex and cell phones... Posted: 6/6/2006 9:32:17 AM
Not only is this man INCREDIBLY rude and thoughtless, but also (looking at Skin's profile) incredibly STUPID. Sheesh! Get a girl like that "on the go" and then answer the phone? What a plonker. Toak

toakreon

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Should Porn be shared or viewed alone? Posted: 5/29/2006 2:53:18 PM
It should be shared if you have someone cute to share it with - and not if you don't ... :0) Toak

toakreon

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How can you tell if he likes you Posted: 5/29/2006 2:35:36 PM
My guess is he doesn't want to make a move unless he's sure, and you don't want to make a move until you're sure, and each of you is waiting for the other. If neither of you actually gets your finger out and goes for it, you'll BOTH be waiting in vain. If you want to know if he likes you ASK HIM! Sheesh! Toak

toakreon

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Loners - what gives ? Posted: 5/29/2006 2:29:38 PM
Hey - if he's genuinely happy not having relationships then good luck to the man. Let him live his life as best suits him. It is not for us to judge the man unless he starts hurting people. Toak

toakreon

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On what date is it ok to be intimate without fear of oh he is never going to call again'? Posted: 5/29/2006 2:24:29 PM
This has to be your decision, I'm afraid. No-one else can make it for you, nor should they as they won't know the individual circumstances. Just be yourself, don't drink too much wine and think ... :0) Oh, and good luck back on the dating game. Toak

toakreon

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Deepthroat---------how do they handle it? Posted: 5/29/2006 1:45:50 PM
Deepthroat---------how do they handle it? I suspect a LOT of the girls that "handle" deepthroat do so through the EXCELLENT motivation they get from a huge pay check for their porn film-making work. Deepthroat is very much a male fantasy, and as such is a very "saleable commodity" in the porn industry. Girls who can cope know they're going to make lots of money and that's one hell of a reason for trying very hard to cope. I suspect some other girls find the "domination/submission" overtones of being taken to the edge of the gag reflex (or sometimes beyond) thrilling. This is all bound up with DS and SM style sexuality, which is a "head game". I suspect some others do it to please their male loves, because they genuinely want to do what thrills their lover. I suspect it's actually a very small proportions that truly and genuinely enjoy the actual sensation for themselves - though I'd be interested to hear if any female respondees do. Toak

toakreon

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 5/29/2006 1:32:45 PM
Could I say "no" to sex? Yes I could, yes I have, doubtless yes I will in the future (or, at least, I hope I'll have a few opportunities to do so!). If I did not find the girl attractive then saying "yes" wouldn't even cross my mind. Just as I hope if she didn't find me attractive she'd react the same way. If I had doubts about her sexual health - either through her history, or because she seemed evasive about it - then I'd say "no". If a girl I had little knowledge of refused to agree to the use of a condom I'd certainly say "no", even if she happened to look like Keira Knightly. If I was in a relationship, then I'd say "no" to a different girl. I don't cheat. There are many circumstances in which I'd say no - BUT ... ... If I felt she was "safe, sane and concensual", if I fancied her, if I was free, if we took the right precautions, then all the REASONS for "no" are beginning to disappear. Under those circumstances I'd probably say "yes" - not because I "couldn't say no", but because I'd have no reason to do so. Toak

toakreon

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The art of removing her bra Posted: 5/29/2006 4:26:44 AM
Sharp pair of scissors or a sharp knife does the trick. Bras are cheap to replace. Toak

toakreon

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Saran Wrap..You'll never look at it the same again! Posted: 5/29/2006 3:56:04 AM
Saran wrap bondage is very comon and well practiced in BDSM circles. Toak

toakreon

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do women like being shaved by their man? Posted: 5/26/2006 9:27:13 AM
OoooooAhhhhh, my lovely!!! (Toak gets out and strops an antique, cut-throat razor) Ready for a shave?? Toak

toakreon

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Golf on a first date? Posted: 5/25/2006 6:28:56 AM
Golf on a first date seems a great idea. The only problem is introducing the idea. You can hardly wander up to the girl and say, "Hi! Would you like to play a round?" Toak

toakreon

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Have you learned anything from watching porn? Posted: 2/28/2006 10:07:03 AM
The only thing I've learned, really, is that porn is generally made by the most sexually unimaginative people you could hope to find. There's no imagination, no fantasy, NOTHING. Toak

toakreon

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Doing it Blindfolded.. Posted: 2/28/2006 10:04:40 AM
Blindfold play is one of God's Gifts to the randy - it really is. It enhances sensation of the other senses to a remarkable degree and also introduces a delicious sense of "vulnerability" while still avoiding being "edge play" (even for the kinkily inexperienced). As an introduction to "going beyond the vanilla" it can hardly be beaten - but if try this, go further. There's a lot of fun to be had. Just play safe. Toak

toakreon

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why do people who ask for your opinion get mad when you give it Posted: 2/25/2006 8:34:19 AM
There is the concept of an "inflatable advisor" ... A mannequin that you take out of the closet and inflate with a foot-pump, and that just nods sagely as you say what you want to say. Some people ask real people questions, when all they want REALLY is an inflatable advisor that says nothing - but quietly nods in agreement. Toak

toakreon

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when licra should be illegal Posted: 2/24/2006 9:37:23 AM
Damn ... Disappointed now. "Licra" was sounding good ... :0) Toak

toakreon

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Shy About Sharing My Porn Posted: 2/23/2006 12:05:53 PM
for example the last one i got that i really like. starts out as a sleep fantasy thing, than it turns into bondage, than rape. bout 40 mins long, if anybody has seen it, dont tell me how it ends, lol, i have never made it through the whole thing. Naaaaaah, Becky. That seems very reasonable to me, m'dear. :0) Toak

toakreon

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What defines kinky? Posted: 2/23/2006 11:43:02 AM
"Kinky" is no more and no less than "sexuality which is significantly different from the accepted norms of society". Just as "immoral" is just "actions that break the normal mores of society". It's society itself that defines what is kinky and what is immoral. Take the case of ancient Rome. Were the Romans "immoral" because a vast proportion of their population enjoyed the spectacle of gladiators fighting to the death in the amphitheatre? Certainly if you try to apply the social mores of the modern world the answer has to be "yes". But you CANNOT apply modern mores to an ancient society in which they had no place. You can only apply to ancient Rome the mores that are appropriate to that society. Judge Rome by the standards that applied TO THAT SOCIETY. Morallity and kinkyness are purely definitions of what most people feel appropriate. Toak

toakreon

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Pathetic Dirty Talkers...... Posted: 2/18/2006 6:41:05 AM
Well, one girl started talking to me in Hungarian. I didn't actually know it was Hungarian at the time, I had to ask her. This concerned me somewhat because she was American, and I'm British, and we happened to be in France - so Hungarian seemed strangely out of place. Especially when I asked her what she had said, and she told me she ws reciting the words of a traditional Hungarian folk song. Em ... What? Toak

toakreon

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Halifax on Friday Nights?? Posted: 2/18/2006 5:59:29 AM
Well, there is the "Standard of Freedom" pub ... 2 New Lane, Halifax, Yest Yorkshire HX3 0TE. Oh, hang on ... you're talking about Halifax NOVA SCOTIA, aren't you? Silly me. Toak

toakreon

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Would you date an ex-con??? Posted: 2/18/2006 5:18:15 AM
Well, for myself, if she had been behind bars for poisoning her ex (ie "late") boyfriends I might be a touch concerned. However if she'd been done for being an ultra high-class hooker then I might ask that she has an STD check - but assuming that came back OK ... LOL!!! Toak

toakreon

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Valentines Day Sex Posted: 2/14/2006 12:34:39 PM
If I wanted it, I could get it SIGH - you're damn right you could, Sweety - you're YUMMY. Toak

toakreon

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Valentines Day Sex Posted: 2/14/2006 12:11:09 PM
Nope, none for me Now if only Sweety was in Surrey (England) rather than Canada, I'd happily correct her most unfortunate lack of valantine's day sex. Purely out of a desire to stop her feeling sad and deprived, you understand. Toak

toakreon

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How do you suggest a more experimental sex life? Posted: 2/13/2006 10:16:20 AM
How about ... Hey Babes ... How about giving Bondage, Discipline and Sado-Masochism a try? Toak

toakreon

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¿ Best Type Of HandCuffs ? Posted: 2/13/2006 1:57:05 AM
Handcuffs. Most modern handcuff designs are formed of steel sheets rivited together. These are INTENSLY uncomfortable if you struggle against them, causing intense bruising. Of this style there are those attached together by a short chain, and others that are hinged together in the middle. The hinged ones are more restrictive, but the ones with the chain more versatile and (slightly) more comfortable in use. Personally I prefer the more "old fashioned" style "derby" pattern handcuffs - also, sometimes, called "screw pillar" cuffs because of the way they work. These can be found on sites like Ebay, or some specialized handcuff sites (yes, there are such things). I would recommend Hiatt-Thompson model 104 adjustible derbys. There are also Hiatt-Thompson model 115 non-adjustible derbys but these are a "one size only" cuff and are designed for large-writes men, so put them on a girl and she'll slip them over her wrists. If you want something huge, go for Clejuso model 15 heaviweights. Toak

toakreon

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How Many Lovers? Posted: 2/11/2006 6:57:54 AM
It isn't a matter of numbers, it's a matter of how the person relates to those he/she has had sex with. There are people of both sexes that may have had a fair number of lovers but still think of those lovers with intelligence, honesty and proper care. They will never be sluts/loose (etc) however many lovers thay have. Alternately there are those whose first encounter was full of dismissive shallowness who manage slut-hood from number 1. Toak

toakreon

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The art of removing her bra Posted: 2/6/2006 5:38:13 AM
I always find a sharp pair of scissors very effective. Toak

toakreon

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Sex or the Superbowl? Posted: 2/5/2006 10:27:05 AM
Ok guys...what's in gonna be? Some silly football game or something alot rougher? (baseball fans can skip this one) with more tackles, more huddles, and TWO balls in play!? Not to mention an awsome tight end, a backfield in constant motion, and a WIDE receiver!?! plus a halftime show that puts Janet Jackson to shame...but if you'd rather watch Television....WELL? Well, seeing as I'm British and could write my entire knowledge of US-style football on the back of a very small saccharine tablet, I would prefer the sex. Particularly with a serious cutie like little Lynn ... Toak

toakreon

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Hyperdating - 10 a week. Seriously?? Posted: 2/5/2006 6:22:05 AM
Ten a week? I'm lucky to get one in ten MONTHS online! Sheesh! Toak

toakreon

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sex on the first date???are we still 1950's orientated Posted: 2/5/2006 6:19:29 AM
Sex on first date sometimes happens. Are we still 1950s oriented? No. Maybe you'll strick lucky second time round, but if she didn't want you to spend the night with her, why did she ask you to stay? Or did you "drop the hint" that you wanted to, and she felt "obliged"? Toak

toakreon

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Long Term Relationships & sex Posted: 2/4/2006 8:23:00 AM
Be honest ... There is nothing incompatable with wanting a long-term relationship and having a massive libido. A decent man will be DELIGHTED to have a girlfriend with those qualities, and the word "ho" will never cross his mind. Toak

toakreon

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Do you have hotter sex when there are no strings??? Posted: 2/2/2006 2:46:46 AM
They're different. The "new girl" provides the thrill of the unknown. New experiences and "pleasant surprises" (well - you HOPE they're pleasant!). The established lover provided understanding and an approach to sex that is more personal and directed. Both can be wonderful, but whichever is "better" is hard to say. It might be that "best" is a mixture of both in proportion - which might be why people stray. Toak

toakreon

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what do you look for in a fling? Posted: 1/28/2006 6:45:58 AM
Well ... if the aim is sex, pure and simple, then you look for someone who's sexy. Toak

toakreon

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what do u want! Posted: 1/28/2006 6:41:20 AM
Aaaaaaaargh!!!!! Not ANOTHER "bad boy/good boy" thread! Toak

toakreon

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Lying about number of sex partners Posted: 1/28/2006 1:57:30 AM
Personally I've not "kept a record". I know a rough number, but if someone asked me to be precise, I just couldn't. Yes, I know this implies that the odd girl I've been with was "forgettable" - but I suspect I've also proved forgettable to some of them. Toak

toakreon

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different types Posted: 1/24/2006 6:50:42 PM
by definition a fetish is a sexual obsession with a non sexual element (ie vinyl, leather, paddles) thigh highs would be correct but the others are merely obsessions. Yet the definition is not clear-cut. Take belly buttons. Can you say for certain whetner they are asexual (and therefore fetish) or sexual (and therefore obsessive) ... and, to be honest, does anyone really care? Toak

toakreon

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florida honies Posted: 1/24/2006 6:47:48 PM
Is there actually a QUESTION here? A point to discuss? Or is this just a whine that you can't get laid? Toak

toakreon

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American Men / Canadian Men / British Men--girls--thoughts? Posted: 1/23/2006 5:39:37 PM
Americans Canadians Brits SOB! Toak (a Brit)

toakreon

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Do people get upset when the person they are having sex with don't orgasm? Posted: 1/23/2006 1:41:10 PM
I get MORE upset when the person who's having sex with the person I'm having sex with doesn't orgasm - 'cause that's ME! Toak

toakreon

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after a hard days work wut do want sex or sleep? tha saga cont... Posted: 1/22/2006 11:52:00 AM
Sheesh - silly question, surely! It depends on how ruddy tired I am! Toak

toakreon

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don't know how they do it Posted: 1/22/2006 8:03:53 AM
I was thinking I'd write a profound and insiteful response to this post - but couldn't think of anything. So, folks - could you just assume that I have? That way I can get the kudos without needing the inspiration ... GRIN Toak

toakreon

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Pictures, Do You Mind? Posted: 1/22/2006 7:55:49 AM
I would be SERIOUSLY pissed off. I used to be a professional glamour/portrait/fashion portfolio photographer some years ago. If she wanted someone ELSE to take them I'd consider it a slur on my camera skills ... Toak

toakreon

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Banter and Wit a turn on? Posted: 1/20/2006 2:20:47 PM
Ha!!!! Many times I've been told I'm a shining wit ... oh ... hang on, I might have misheard ... perhaps they said "whining shit" Toak

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