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Joined: 12/26/2005

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Can you tell by their voice? Posted: 10/1/2006 12:22:05 AM
heyitsdoug, I understood exactly. If I do much on line chatting or exchanging email for any length of time I begin visualizing or hearing them. It is somewhat like reading a book I see the person, animation and imagine their voice.. About half matched their photos.....not good or bad , just observation. If I have a phone conversation I do the same thing and the same thing happens or I decline meeting them due to their voice, use of words etc. Its best when put all together, voice , looks , animation, the way they move their mouth, hands , walk..choice of words.. laughter , smiles.. humor , demenor...etc.. well .....it becomes real... So I concluded with this. Normally we meet first. Try to keep it as normal as possible. Don't assume and leave the imagination for other things.

Joined: 12/26/2005

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Could you go back out with your ex? Posted: 9/30/2006 11:36:10 PM
No. Done is Done. Sometimes the spark is the last thing to go and sometimes it never does. " or so he said"...... Trust starts from day one.. and grows ... because there is no reason to doubt. Once lost, it is difficult to find again ..and no relationship can survive without it. We follow our hearts .....and trust them to make the right decision..based on?? Feelings or experience, or both.

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Why can't I get a date Posted: 3/4/2006 9:28:50 PM
I deleted my photo once for a month to see if it really made a difference. I recieved 1/4 or less emails. I would say that out of 20, only 3 didn't ask for a pic. and of thoes 20 about 15 had a photo posted. In my oponion its an act of respect to send an email with a photo attached. Or at least have one available when asked. If they don't reply after the photo is sent.. then move on.. I didn't see anything wrong with your profile. I agree with the grammer.. however, I never do spell check and its never affected my inbox... if it did.. ??? Then he wasn't my type. Depends on what your looking for. I do know educated men who are posting profiles and sending emails with misspelled words or leaveing out words. .. etc.. It has nothing to do with my replying to them or not. I don't know what type of emails your sending but sometimes less is more. I would rather read a short, cute, interesting, funny or respectful email then a letter telling me what they can offer a life history or a sexual comment. Relating to thier profile... good idea. So ....hope you could use some of this...Good luck to you. Keep your eyes open at the real market.. she could be behind the counter.

Joined: 12/26/2005

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Are you really open minded......here's a dilemma need some advice Posted: 2/21/2006 6:31:04 PM
naturelover70, Expressing ourselves in print often changes the apearence of them. Part of what the forums are for. Many of us even surprise ourselves. I think you knew how you felt all along. But now you have a better understanding of the flipside .. and your more able to express your thoughts and feelings. Good luck to you!

Joined: 12/26/2005

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A concept I don't understand yet.... Posted: 2/9/2006 6:36:11 PM
"Please, just the facts ma'am." A lot of the time I think men relate to this better. Quick asessment of the situation.. and start looking for a solution. I don't know what type of problems your having. But I do think your question is a good one. How much should we allow or how much should we accept from an online friend? I think only thoes involved can decide that.

Joined: 12/26/2005

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Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 2/4/2006 11:09:27 PM
I have been in this position twice.. However, I like them, but I still couldn't do it. The single rich men I know are either paranoid, desperate, living a second childhood or stuck on themselfs. Honestly... I would just as soon he say I have a good job and I'm a hard worker and leave it at that. If I were a single rich woman I wouldn't tell anyone. I do know someone who married for money.. they are seperated and she is doing QUITE well. I'd much rather have something in my heart to take with me when I go.

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my bf went to the strip bar Posted: 2/4/2006 10:07:36 PM
Is it a moral issue with you or a jealous one?

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Are you really open minded......here's a dilemma need some advice Posted: 1/30/2006 11:21:47 PM
To me an open relationship means....we have a romantic or passionate attachment, and even if were living together... there is nothing binding us. In otherwords..... I'm seriously not serious. But you'l do till I find something that I can get serious about. It could be you .. but I haven't made my mind up yet.. Lets see.. I'l go with paul to the lake, while he takes kate to the movies, I'l go with Joey to the movies while he takes Ann to the lake. And then we'l come home to each other and hmmmm......think about them? Share our day? Yes.. the decision is yours.. what do you want from your relationship?

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KNOW WHAT YOUR PARTNER'S NEED ARE AND STRIVE TO FULFILL THEM Posted: 1/30/2006 10:41:09 PM
[For two people to be happy together, they have to feel their needs are being met.] [When you learn your partner's needs ...you must strive to fulfill them. I personally have sexual needs, emotionally need that I need to be fulfilled.] "Strive" is a strange word to use here, but there is truth in it. In a relationship we all do this. It can be as simple as .. " Great pie honey.. really , don't cry about the burnt crust. Hey, you think Betty Crocker never burnt anything." The question is how many burnt crusts are you willing to eat graciously? "Willing", is the key word here. Fulfiling the others needs is one way we express our love. As is compassion, giving up something you want for somethig someone else needs. Every relationship comes with compromises and shortcomings. We have to decide what we can or cannot accept and can or cannot do without. This would be why we chat or date and get to know someone before we start a relationship. Then were not surprised when we find them standing on the bed with studded collars and leather whips. [Simply holding your love in your heart is not enough] His love was like a fountain that held the promise of water, but left me thirsty.

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Pride for love? Posted: 1/30/2006 9:09:25 PM
Good question nycdoctor. Competition - I'm competitive so if it is physical indurance.. I would give it my all, without embarrasing him of course. Conversation - More things are lost from arguing then gained. (Would that be competitive conversation?) I prefer gentle persuasion.. givin thru analogies or questions. I have a better chance of changing his opinion. However, it is possible he could change mine. Either way we both would have a better understanding of the others opinions. Sometimes.. you have to weigh the importance of your opinion. Does it really matter either way. Or let him know you at least in part, agree. But it should always be done with respect, so neither is afraid to go there again.

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Looking For Friendship First??? Posted: 1/22/2006 6:03:49 PM
WHAT? YOU MEAN THERES PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO DON'T LIKE SEX????????

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how do you get revenge on someone you loved Posted: 12/28/2005 5:58:11 PM
Lovely_Lori, There are so many of us who have been there done that. I too am one. It was not an easy road to forgiving him.. I learned much about the person inside of me and what was important. He took, almost everything.. But you know what? He realizes now... that he left the most valuable thing behind.... Me. If I have revenge.. it is knowing that he was foolish enough to take out the trash and leave the treasure for someone more deserving.

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