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sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 102 (view)

Racism in the dating world Posted: 10/24/2009 8:06:35 AM
"white men: loves all women except black, but is more drawn to asian women due to their so-called submissive nature." Wow, Someone had better send a memo to my ex-husband and my current BF because they are both WM and they both liked BW. One even liked BW enough to marry me and he did not like submissive woman at all. Stereotypes are just that sterotypes. I only come to read/post on the forums Thank goodness I am not on here to look for a mate.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 196 (view)

Why is there so little dating between white men and black women? Posted: 7/11/2009 9:32:27 AM
this is to jajoinla ur profile sounds like u r defeated urself, u r very beautiful u know that but like i said here in dallas black women dont date white men only african women seem to, i try to talk to black american women all the time the dark ones too but all they say is no white men allowed I am a Black American woman from Dallas, Texas and I date WM. My ex-husband was White and my current Boyfriend is White also. Where are you meeting the BW that will not date you? I see BW with WM all of the time.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 68 (view)

Does this make me racist? Posted: 6/25/2009 5:02:02 PM
No , you are not a racist. If you have never dated outside of your race before then you might be a little apprehensive. I am a BW and the first time I went out with a WM I was a little uncomfortable but then the more we got to know each other the more comfortable I became , and now, believe it or not, the only men that I date or seem to attract are WM. I suggest that you go out with him and get to know him for who he is not for the color of his skin.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 104 (view)

Why is there so little dating between white men and black women? Posted: 5/31/2009 1:31:38 PM
I am a BW and I have never had a problem dating WM and I live in the South of all places. I have seen many Dark Skinned BW with WM as a matter of fact the majority of the cases where I have seen a BW with a WM the woman was dark. I am not sure where you are from but maybe you need to work on yourself because men of all races love a women who loves herself. I can tell by the title of your post that don't get out much because there are BW/WM couples everywhere.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

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do ppl marry/date out of their race b/c they can;t find someone of thier own race Posted: 12/27/2008 11:18:43 AM
This is a very silly post. I date outside my race because I want to not because I have to. I feel that I actually have more in common with men outside of my race than my own.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 117 (view)

rejected by your own race/culture Posted: 12/27/2008 11:07:54 AM
I am a BW and only date outside my race because I am just not attracted to BM. I am noticing more BW that don't date or marry within our race anymore. For me it started in High School. I noticed how nice and mannerable the White guys were they always treated me with respect. When I went to college I had more opportunities to date White guys because there were not a lot of Black guys on campus and I had a chance to interact with them more. I also find WM more attractive.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 752 (view)

Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/28/2007 12:55:30 PM
I think that tall men probably prefer women that are shorter than they are. My BF is 6'4 and I am 5'4 and he has told me that he does not like to date tall women because he likes petite women. From some of the post it does appear that there are guys out there that do not have a problem dating tall women and I am sure that you will find the man of your dreams.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 402 (view)

Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 8/28/2007 8:30:59 AM
No, It is never ok.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 201 (view)

How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 8/7/2007 9:01:10 AM
I think some white guys/asian men/black women don't like it sometimes if they're finding it hard to get a partner. Personally, the culture is more important than the race. If someone has drastically different ideas then it could be a problem. For example, I don't agree with abortion. Here's an interesting link: 'Could Mr. Right Be White?' More Black Women Follow Stars' Lead, Consider 'Dating Out'. I am a BW and I have been dating out for 20 years. I personally think that its about time that BW are finally opening their options and a lot of it has to do with history. I remember when I went to college (I graduated from a predominately White school) my Grandmother told me not to bring any White boys home. Well, I didn't listen to her. I love my Grandmother but I felt that her way of thinking was deep rooted in the past. I was more concerned about compatability even back then. I do feel that WM, Asian men and BW feel that they need to be more loyal to their race than their counterparts. I know that most BW are conditioned to believe that the WM is the enemy and I have some Asian friends that had confided in me about this issue also that Asian men are responsible for their parents and that their parents have a huge influence over them. Also most WM are in leadership positions and they are expected to behave and act a certain way. I see way less stress and expections being placed on WW, AW and BM when it comes to dating out.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Accepting a compliment. Posted: 7/20/2007 2:55:18 PM
I receive compliments quite often and sometimes it is hard for me to accept the compliments that I receive. I think that it is because of the way I was brought up. My Grandmother use to tell us that beauty is vain and that you can't rely on it. So when I get complimented on my looks I feel very self conscience about it. I know I'm strange but that's the way I feel.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 191 (view)

How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 7/20/2007 2:41:26 PM
I do not condemn those who do date interracially. That is their right, their decision, just as mine is mine. I have many friends of the African-American race who I am very close to. We have very different philosophies on some issues, but our friendship survives because we do not debate them. That is called respect. Snazzyangel, you are indeed a very classy lady. I wish you well in your search. I know that you will find a wonderful man because of the type of woman you are.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 90 (view)

Desperate Black Men Posted: 7/20/2007 11:03:05 AM
magnanimous one, It is the BM like you that are rare finds, the good guys that unfortunately are lumped in the same category with the rest. As a BW I know what is like to be stereotyped right off the bat, and that is the danger of stereotypes because they hurt everyone. Any woman that is fortunate enough to meet you and get to know you will quickly know that you are a keeper. I wish you the best in your search and regardless of what race the woman is that you are with I know that you will treat her with the respect and dignity that she deserves. I think Aretha said it best all we want is a little RESPECT. Have a great day and God Bless

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 87 (view)

Desperate Black Men Posted: 7/20/2007 10:10:12 AM
I was talking to a friend of mine lastnight about this and I told her, I really feel that as a whole black women don't make could choices in the black men they choose and then think that we are the problem. I find it funny that there are so many good black men in this country, but yet people tend to portray us in a negative light. Also, I catch a lot of hell from black women by the testimonials I've recieved from white women on the site, but truth be told i've never dated a white woman. They are just friends I've met from forums, but because of stereotypes i get berated. Well, I'm sorry that you are having to go through this but the fact remains the same. I just love it when BM try to paint BW as the problem and that it is our fault that these men are making these statements. I have not met these men most of them come online and berate BW to make themselves look and feel better about themselves. If you don't do it then I am not talking about you but many of your fellow counterparts do and it is really disgusting. I don't deal with any man regardless of race that disrepects me. BM are doing a great job in their rap music, which by the way I don't listen to and several BW that I know don't listen to it either, but we are accused of wanting a thug, well swettie I have never wanted a thug and most women Black or White want a man that can and will be a man. I applaud the poster for posting this forum because what he saying is true to a large extent and he is just expressing his disgust with people automatically assuming that just because he is a BM that he will take anything as long as it has White skin and for most BM that is not the case but because so many BM do he is put in the same category and that is just not fair.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 189 (view)

How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 7/20/2007 9:28:31 AM
I personally will not date outside my race (White). My choice, my right. I actually am not the least bit attracted by men of other races. And that is your right. The only problem I have is with people that have a problem with others who don't care what colour or race another person is. My current BF is White and I am Black and last week we experienced some ignorant people that made a point to express their opinion about our relationship. We just laughed it off because our relationship is just that our relationship and since we are both independent self sufficient people we could care less what they think.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 84 (view)

Desperate Black Men Posted: 7/20/2007 9:17:25 AM
Desperate Black Men Message: i just haven't ran across a black man with a good enough attitude towards black women What type of attitude do black men you've encountered had towards black women. Just curious, I've never heard that as a reason before from a black woman, but I usually hear black men say that about black women. Me, I just date who whoever will have me. :) I am a BW and I hear this all of the time from other BW. BM are very disrespectful towards BW. This is why you have heard this from BM and not BW because BM are always putting BW down to elevate themselves and to try to justify their reasons for dating outside of the race. I mostly date WM and men of other races because a lot of what the orginal poster states is true. A lot of BM will run over an attractive BW to get to a big WW. I have seen this many times.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 119 (view)

since when does no reply equal racist? Posted: 7/2/2007 12:41:18 PM
At first I was not going to post but then I said what the heck why not. I am a BW and I have dated everything but a BM for over 20 years. I specifically indicate in my profile that I am interested in IR dating/relationships I also state that I am into just about every type of music but rap music and heavy metal. If a BM is into Bon Jovi and likes to swim and go camping then we could diffinately go out. Sometimes it's not about race its about what you enjoy doing and I just seem to find more WM that share a lot of the same interest that I share. This lady might be racist or she might not be. I normally just come here to post, and I know I should update my profile because I have a been dating a wonderful man for over 1 year now. But back to the poster. Some people just don't respond to everyone that sends them a message and that is their right. Some might think that its rude but this is a dating site and you have the right to respond or not to respond to people that send you an e-mail. I am by nature a very polite person and if someone takes the time to send me a message I will normally respond back to them thanking them and letting them know that I am currently involved with someone but not everyone is like me, and remember she is only one person and there are several woman that seem to be interested in BM for one reason or the other, so why don't you just ignore her and date and seek out the woman that want to date you , and please don't let this person ruin your day because its just not worth it.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 123 (view)

How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 6/20/2007 5:29:15 PM
Why is everyone so consumed with what other people are doing? I could care less who is dating who as long as they are not trying to date my man. I have been involved in IR relationships for over 20 years and I really don't understand why people don't just learn how to mind their own business. This is America and Loving Vs. Virginia a WM and a BW made it possible for those who choose to be involved in an IR relationships to do so. So get a life people IR dating/marriage is as old as time and when you die it will still be going on. So just find youself someone of a different race or your own race and be happy because you only go through life once and you might as well spend it with the one you love.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

modeling??? Posted: 10/28/2006 12:23:36 PM
I was a model for a while and this is a scam.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 83 (view)

Where are all the Pisces Woman? Posted: 10/28/2006 12:01:35 PM
I think they say that we Pisces women are best with our counterpart Pisces men? I have not yet met a Pisces man and I really think it would be something worth checking out. I am a pisces and my BF is a pisces also we get alone great. Maybe you should check it out. My Birthday is on the 12th and his BD is on the 14th and we celebrate our birthdays together. We just throw one big party.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 107 (view)

Does your Horoscope sign really matter? Posted: 10/28/2006 11:58:15 AM
PLEASE TAKE A LOOK AT EVERY PISCES,......THEY DON'T WORK... Well, I don't think that Horoscopes matter. I am a Pisces and my ex-husband was a gemini and according to the stars we were suppose to be the perfect match. Well-notice I said ex-husband I have even dated other guys that were gemini and I did not get along with them either. I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man that is also a pisces and we get along just great but according to the stars we are not suppose to be together. So if I were you I would'nt rely on the Horoscope to determine who my mate would be, because you will be sorely disappointed.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 71 (view)

Where are all the Pisces Woman? Posted: 10/23/2006 5:38:50 PM
So when is everyones birthday? Mines the 12th Wow my birthday is the 12th also.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 42 (view)

Where are all the Pisces Woman? Posted: 10/21/2006 7:46:29 AM
I am a Pisces also and I have always wondered why I never had female friends as a matter of fact I have 1 female friend and we have been friends since college. I also tend to have more male friends as well. I have also been told that I was very sexy by most of the men that I dated and my current BF tells me that all of the time. I guess its just a wonderful attribute that Pisces women have. Well I am diffinately not going to complain about it

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

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black or white?what is the price of my happiness? Posted: 10/21/2006 7:35:58 AM
I am a BW and I have been involved with WM for over 20 years. My ex-husband was White and my current BF is White. I am really surprised that you having so many problems with your family and friends because IR dating is more common now than it was when I started dating White guys. I am from the South so it really posed more problems for me to date IR but I am a very strong willed person and I truly think that it takes that type of personality to date or marry someone that society says that you should not be with and believe me I have had no regrets. If you truly love this guy you need to let him know because you are going to be miserable if you date or marry someone because your family or friends want you to. I know because I tried to date a Black guy once to make my friends happy and it was the worst relationship I have ever been in because I was dating him for the wrong reasons. You have to go with your heart. I wish you the very best because I know what its like, but believe me they will come around especially when they see that you are happy, and that you are determined to do what makes you happy.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

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Re: Interracial dating Posted: 9/26/2006 10:48:13 AM
trying to find african american woman that like white guys. are there any Yes, there are several Bw that like White guys and several are on this very site. I am already taken by the way but I know of others that would be interested.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 74 (view)

how many ladies have dolls and stuff toys in their room Posted: 8/25/2006 10:26:56 AM
I collect dolls and I have them all over the place. I even named some of them. I love dolls. I am going to have a display room built in my home to show case my dolls.

sugarb01

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Msg: 74 (view)

Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why? Posted: 8/22/2006 4:05:49 PM
No I have not dated any black women because I am not attracted. Simple and to the point. Who's next? Sweetie, I had the opportunity to look at your profile and actually as a BW I say THANK YOU for not being attracted to us because lets just say that most BW would'nt be attracted to you either.

sugarb01

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Interracial dating- more interesting or boring Posted: 8/21/2006 2:26:47 PM
ok im white and my new boyfriend (which is amazing) is arbic. hes from morocco. it doesnt seem to bother us. but people on the streets and the clubs look at us funny. and some of my friends say i shouldnt be dating a sand n!ger and or a terrrorest. why do people have to be so crule if it doesnt both us why should other people be offended? people on the street always look at me in disgust. GROW UP PEOPLE!!! LOVE IS BLIND. is it not? LOVE MIGHT BE BLIND BUT UNFORTUNATELY PEOPLE ARE NOT. If you are happy in your relationship then you that is all that matters. I wish you the best and if he is a good man and he's good to you then that is what is important.

sugarb01

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Msg: 64 (view)

Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why? Posted: 8/21/2006 1:13:37 PM
Trust me, there is no chip on my shoulder. I came in to back up the OP as some were trying to make her out to be the problem. Fortunately, I now meet some men who are open to dating Black women but not a ton and on here, let me see. I have had 2 dates from on here. I went to the Guiness Book of World Records event....zero, zip, nada. One of the dates on here and the guy said something about not feeling any chemistry. How one can expect to feel instant chemistry over coffee after 20 minutes is beyond me? HIS loss Let me ask you a question are you looking for quanity or quality? Also chemistry is very important. I went out with a WM prior to dating my current BF and he liked me, he was nice but he was just not my type. Now the man I am currently with I met him and wow the rest is history so yes a person can tell in 20 minutes or less rather there is chemistry or not.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why? Posted: 8/21/2006 1:07:24 PM
In your profile, you describe your race as Other Ethnicity with Black Hair, NOT African American so I don't really think that you are in a position to comment on how much response women who describe themselves as "African American" on this site are or are not receiving. I am not really African AMERICAN either but there is no other descriptor for a Black people who aren't American so that is what I have used up until now. Well, Almond I clearly state that I am African American and I still get a lot of hits and I don't have hair down my back either. As a matter of fact there are a lot of natural sisters with dark skin that date WM. I was on website and the light skinned BW were actually upset because in their opinion WM only wanted dark skinned Sistas. I am so sorry that you are having problems finding a mate but if you just sit down and think about it for a minute. Several BW have responded to your post and we are all in relationships and don't have a problem getting dates or being in LTR with WM or any man for that matter. Have you ever thought that maybe its you. I am not trying to be mean but from your post you have a victim, woe is me mentality. Fact: There are many White men who will not even consider dating or marrying a Black woman. And there are many BW that would never consider dating a WM so whats your point. If you think that it is okay for people to rule people out strictly based on race, nothing else, you are entitled to your opinion. Clearly there are some of us who disagree and we have a right to be heard too. People have the right to rule out people if they want to its called a preference. I know several BW that would not date a WM even if he was the last man on earth. I can't tell you how many times I have been asked by some of my own relatives How could I date a WM when they raped our ancestors and my response to them is that not all WM even owned slaves and there were several that fought for Civil rights so am I suppose to hold something against a entire race of men for what some did. That would be ignorant on my part because I would not want someone to make a negative assumption about me just because I am African American because stereotypes are just that stereotypes. I can assure you that I am not loud, I have never been on welfare, I am not fat, I don't like rap music and I don't eat fried chicken either. My advice to you is as follows: 1. Get rid of the victim mentality its very unattractive. 2. Smile more, men will normally approach a woman that smiles. 3. Stop letting others speak into your life. Confidence is very attractive. 4. Learn how to Love yourself for who you are and who God created you to be.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 44 (view)

Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why? Posted: 8/18/2006 9:40:12 AM
^^^I think you have hit the nail on the head onegreatm8. I have since read some of the other posts by almondcookie and I'm affraid that the angry, negative attitude and aggresive manner of putting herself forward has put an unfavorable foot forward. I would think that many men reading almondcookies posts would be put off by the negative vibe. Confidence and pride in ones self brings about more positive interactions with the people you truely desire. Regardless of colour!! This is not a race problem, this is an attitude problem Low self-esteem is very unattractive.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why? Posted: 8/18/2006 9:25:00 AM
I have been following a few discussions started by Asian men and Black women. There seems to be a pattern. Since the media rarely depicts us as attractive and desireable, a lot of us end up feeling invisible when it comes to dating Speak for yourself girlfriend. I am a BW and I have never felt that way about myself. Sweetie you have lost your confidence and you have allowed others to define you as a person and that is very unattractive to men. Men like confident women no matter what race they are. I have been involved in IR relationships for over 20 years. My ex-husband was White and the man that I am currently dating is White and when I go places I still get hit on so my advice to you is to love yourself and stop letting others speak into your life and lower your self esteem.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 42 (view)

Have any of you guys dated black women and if not why? Posted: 8/18/2006 8:55:49 AM
find this site pretty interesting especially the instant communicator.As a black woman, I am curious about interracial dating in Toronto,and the frequency with which it happens out here.I don't see much of it betweeen black females and other ethnic groups I am a BW and I have been involved in IR relationships for actually over 20 years because my first real Boyfriend was a White guy and believe me this was during a time when IR relationships were not the wave that it is now. I am sorry but I just don't get it. I am so tired of the woe is me attitude that you are expressing. I mean if you like White guys have you tried to contact one on this site? Girl you have to go for what you want. Are you sitting around waiting on a Prince to come on a White horse and sweep you off your feet? or do you get out and try to mingle. Do you have confidence in yourself? I mean no one is going to be interested in you if you don't love yourself. My cousin is overweight and average looking but when we use to go out do you think that bothered her. She could get some of the best looking men because of her personality and everyone loved her. She was the life of the party and our skinny little butts would be on the sidelines

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 59 (view)

Racism Is Still Alive Posted: 8/11/2006 8:00:34 AM
Different when you out and out insult someone for their race, but a joke is just a joke. Yeah unless the joke is on you.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 158 (view)

Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women? Posted: 7/6/2006 7:29:28 AM
Flavia*~ Besides, beauty is subjective.I mean I think Brad Pitt is ugly, but more than half the world thinks he is handsome.So go figure........ I totally agree with you but you know that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I have actually seen actors that were very handsome but they just don't get the media press that Brad Pitt does. I also feel that Tom Cruise is another man that is over hyped by the media but again that is my opinion.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 127 (view)

interracial couples Posted: 6/21/2006 2:20:04 PM
SpanishJoe, You have a right to your preference. I am a BW and I honestly don't find Mexicans to be very attractive either. Now most Pureto Ricans are very handsome but that is just my opinion.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Stereotypes and the open mind Posted: 6/20/2006 8:08:32 AM
As a BW I can diffinately say that Unfortunatley Stereotyping is still very much alive and well.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 99 (view)

interracial couples Posted: 6/20/2006 7:48:23 AM
CocoPuff, I have to agree with you on one thing. I have noticed that most Mexicans tend to be racist against Blacks but I have also noticed that Hispanics from other areas don't seem to have that view. One of my best friends is from Puerto Rico and my cousin made the mistake of calling him a Mexican and he got so angrey he stated that in the Latino culture Mexicans are considered to be the lowest on the food chain and to call a Hispanic a Mexican would be just as insulting as calling a Black person the N word. I have noticed that when a particular race of people have endured racism and have been treated badly by others they try to gain power by victimizing someone else because it gives them a sense of power. Unfortunately this is the type of world we live in so are all Hispanics prejudice against Blacks No they are not because I have to many friends that are Hispanic and my Sister-in-law is one of them.

sugarb01

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Msg: 11 (view)

MEN THAT LOVE OTHER MEN WHILE THEY ARE MARRIED Posted: 5/16/2006 2:52:05 PM
sick, sick,sick

sugarb01

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Msg: 608 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/11/2006 2:58:37 PM
I have met guys online with pictures and they were looked nothing like the pictures they posted and I have met guys with no picture and they were hot. So posting a picture does not mean that the person is going to look anything like the picture they posted.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

When you get it from black and white men Posted: 5/7/2006 10:02:34 AM
Unique, I am a BW and the last guy that I dated (WM) told my brother that he acted more Black than I did. I get teased all of the time but I have never been told that I was not Black enough. I know what acting ghetto means and I am far from ghetto. I graduated from a private college that was less than 1% Black and most of friends were White so I guess its just the environment that you are brought up in.

sugarb01

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Interracial dating- more interesting or boring Posted: 5/4/2006 2:24:16 PM
IR dating is diffinately more interesting. I am a BW and most of the guys that I date are White. I enjoy dating outside of my race its more exciting.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

Re: Interracial dating Posted: 5/4/2006 1:59:45 PM
I know several BW that are attracted to WM and some that only date WM. I am a BW and the only guys that ask me out are normally White guys.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

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Re: Interracial dating Posted: 5/4/2006 1:58:02 PM
I know several BW that are attracted to WM and some that only date WM. I am a BW and the only guys that ask me out are normally White guys.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

your actually attractive, stable and your single?... there must be something wrong with you ? Posted: 3/7/2006 6:47:47 PM
I get this all of the time, but a young guy around 27 thought that I was around his age and asked me out. I guess I should have gone out with him because he was kinda cute but I feel like he was just too young. I am 42 and when I do get asked out it is always by really young guys. Guys my own age rarely ask me out and it does upset me because I really want to be in a stable relationship.

sugarb01

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Msg: 38 (view)

You've truly made my night, and I thank you ! Posted: 2/12/2006 10:52:08 AM
Unfrotunately I have been meeting the needy guys. I can't stand men who are needy it makes me sick to my stomach.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

interracial dating Posted: 1/19/2006 4:25:17 PM
You are a very handsome man and if you are interested in dating a BW just go up to one that you are interested in and ask her out just like you would ask out any woman. I am a BW and I have dated WM and men of other ethnicities for several years, as a matter of fact my family would be shocked if I brought a BM home. Most of the guys just came up to me and started a conversation and before I knew it they were asking me questions like what was I doing this weekend.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 106 (view)

Do people really read profiles or just look at the pics.. ?? Posted: 1/17/2006 11:34:49 AM
Well, The answer to this question in my opinion is no. That is one of many reasons why I don't have a picture posted.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Ever met someone PRETTIER than their pics? Posted: 1/1/2006 1:05:39 PM
I feel that I just don't take great pictures and that is one of the reasons why I don't have one online. I feel that I look much better in person. I met a guy once online and he had read my profile and wanted to meet me. He requested that I send him a picture and I told him that I did not have one online, well of course he persisted and I sent him one and when we met he passed right by and did not recognize me. I called out his name and I told him who I was and he just stood there staring at me like he had seen a ghost or something. He later told me that my pictures don't do me justice and he could not believe how beautiful I was.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 190 (view)

My Weight and My Boyfriend Posted: 12/28/2005 4:43:53 PM
Please dump him because he is a loser. I am a size 5 and by anyones standard that is rather small so why did my ex-husband tell me that I was too big. Because he was a control freak and that is one of the many reasons why he is my ex-husband. Dump him now and Dump him gfast.

sugarb01

Joined: 12/26/2005

Msg: 50 (view)

Would you date a recovering alcoholic? Posted: 12/28/2005 4:37:07 PM
No, Please run away as fast as you can. My ex-husband was a recovering alcoholic and I will never date or marry anyone that is a recovering alcoholic ever again.

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