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The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Guys...I need your help....please. Posted: 3/25/2009 8:40:35 PM
his messages are pretty aggresive. no its not innocent flirting, he is shooting for sex, that simple. instead of beating around the bush ill just say it strait up so theres no confusion hun.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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How do you report men who extort money Posted: 3/20/2009 5:08:54 AM
yes some can fall victum here, try meeting people with no acents ;) no not really thats not fair, lol, but ther are things you can check out like sex affenders website and such, just punch in the name and vwalaa... well atleast for that catigory anyhow. im sure there are other ways of looking. Hell, with the web you can type a name of a criminal from 97 in and it will prong up full stories, lol. aside from that just have safe meetings, until you compleatly trust them, always have your own ride out, awlays. pepperspray isnt a bad idea but some are immune. Safest bet is public places with your own ride until you compleatly trust them, that way your safe which is what really matters hun.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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You are out to dinner and ooops..... Posted: 3/20/2009 4:59:42 AM
well the night isnt about being all dressed up persay, and depending on how bad it is as long as she laughs first and harder that i do im in the clear but if it meses up that shes wearing and takes offence to the event, which is understandable, then we would be leaving and she can change. At this time i would just cook dinner and while shes changing maybe go out and get a movie for after dinner. depends on how she feels about it all.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Considering Private Military School for my Son Posted: 3/19/2009 11:43:03 PM
WOW very long, and sorry i have not read it all but from what i got, your son has no respect, or little respect tward you and what not... no insult ment at all but i can say that bad kids werent born bad, not saying he is bad. but a dog learns that if the owner doenst punsih the dog that the dog can do what it wishes. everything about a child, besides disabilities even the minor ones, comes back to parenting hun. I've never seen stern but not too strick of parents have a crack head kid. thats an example. As much as the child says they dont wanna be around there parents, spending time with them and as a parent MAKING TIME can make all the difference to them, i know it did me. Now military school isnt a bad idea but even me not being compleatly mature and not having a child of my own i can say that if it was my child i would feel crushed to give my child away to a military school. In the end though its your decision. Plus he is 12... hell he's "changing" and what he soaks up these next few years molds him in a major way, and as a mother and only parent its your responcability to over see how he molds and changes. but honestly no 12 year old wants any responcability. they want friends and free time and no chores... those are the simple things though. i had major!!! ADHD to the point to where I underwent neuro-feedback sessions(called brain training basicly). i no longer need any medication. and for his social skills, its easier to have them when there in a place for a time... plus once again he is 12, social skills are just re starting to emerge. but i see many places where you over see him and all and get him involved in church and whatnot but i dont see where you take time to be with him and play and whatnot. in the end its your decision

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Why make simple dating so complicated? Posted: 3/19/2009 11:08:10 PM
Dating is simple, it really is. What makes it difficult are the people who play games. So its not that this is hard its that as a population we make it far far harder on ourselves than is required. Like me, i play no games, no lies, no cheating, no standing girls up. And its still hard for me cause even though i dont play games pretty much everyone else in this world does. "Finding a true good person is like trying to find a perfect tree in a forest. To find one you must cut your way through the usless crazy pshyco ****es" lol. I can talk about this for hours honestly, i made a massive project in a sociology class in college just about this exact situation. Anymore questions or if you like more specific answer feel free to hit me up on my page.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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pretty girl = no respectable guy? Posted: 3/15/2009 4:17:14 PM
its not hopeless, women just need to stop training men to be douch bags to be honest. sorry to be so blunt but ive answered this question countless times... im a nice guy to a good and not overbearing degree. and im a good guy too. gues how many women actually go for good nicce guys... not many at all. Now dont get that confused with the famious profile cliches on every womans profile like: looking for a good man, wants a nice guy, where are all the good men? so you see... since so many, not all, women play games of saying one thing and wanting another men have figured out that 9 times out of 10 a gilr/lady/woman will pich a "***hole" over a good guy anyday. WOMEN YOU HAVE BEEN FIGURED OUT. you go for guys that are bad so guys change to be bad... If you women, as a group, want nice and good men gues what you have to date only good nice men, and thats what men will start to become. quite easy concept really, hunter will persue its prey and adapt to what makes it easier to capture or kill its prey. IE if you stop dating bad guys and date good men guess what the men will change into... Like i said before im sorry to be so blunt, really i am, but ive explained this many times. you reap what you sew. you dating bad men, planting the seeds of bad men, only crops of bad men will grow. and yes my analogies are not the best but hopefully they get the point across.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Always wondered... Posted: 3/14/2009 4:44:41 PM
there are many male strip joints, most are not for women only though... usually they are more for gay men. men are nore in touch with their sexuality where as women are usually more in touch with emotions. its all about money though, men are not afriad to go to a strip club or be embarased about it where wemon tend to feel embarased about it therefor they go less and spend less. money makes the world go round sadly.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Is POF contributing to mass depression, lowered expectations? Posted: 3/13/2009 9:50:00 AM
well if your consistantly getting short convos, maybe your boring then, not to sound mean. but yes most people here do have verry high expictations that are prety much beyond all possibility. Everyone is lookin up so everyone trips, lol. Thats why most people dont find anyone is 300 men are all drooling over the one"perfect" chick(note the quotes, she prob aint all that, lol) and the women for the most part keep hoping for jonny depp to get on and message them (yeah its an exageration but im shootin for a point lol). And another problem are the men that cut and paste 30 new messages a day which floods the ladies inboxes, limits would solve that issue and would be quite easy but many things can be changed.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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why does the profile say long term and thatys not what they are really looking for? Posted: 3/13/2009 7:36:59 AM
well its quite posible the guys are taking the multiply audition type dating. like why would a theatre hold auditions for a playfor only one person to audition? they wouldnt so he will date a few people a few times and chhose the one he likes the best. for what ever he chooses are his standards no matter how weird the choice may seem. and no i dont know of anyone that is going to devote themselves to one person after a single date... well not since highschool, lol. Get to know people real well before saying your taken.no offence but it kinda comes across as needy to me when you talk about having some take themselves off the market after a single date.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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good friend has horrible BF Posted: 3/13/2009 5:30:30 AM
Raider- the cheating on her is not confermed but mental abuse, eh somewhat, like if i didnt like her at allmore than friends, i woulsstill please asking this so take the fact that we dated once out of this cause its making the responces based on me. Im needing to know ho to get someone to realize how crappy someone is. thats it.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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should I go Posted: 3/13/2009 3:29:07 AM
well i think you have a clean sweep across the board hun, lol. nope nope nope, thear clear of dark allys as well lol. But in all seriousness public first, im a guy that is cool with meetin people but rule numero uno- public always first, nothing bad can happen there: you have your own way out, several witnesses, no locked doors lol. just keep it safe. hope for the best, prepare for the worst :D

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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good friend has horrible BF Posted: 3/13/2009 3:21:42 AM
ah, wrong sweetheart, im here casue im trying to seak answers that i dont have to help her. As stated before i dont care if she dates someone else, just someone that treats her well, im here as her friend. Maybe you cant see past dating to be a friend but thats why im here, so i can help her out. i would appriciate(like many others) that if someone, not just you, wont contribute to the convo and help lead toward an answer for thr thread starter then just dont say anything at all. Its obnoxious to see posters get on gere, espicially on the ask a girl/guy forums where we are limited to amount of posts, and just flat out waste space and interrupt the ability to solve an issue cause someone does not have a shut up filter built in. Im asking an nice as i can to all posters, if your on a limited responce forum please dont write posts if they really dont contribute please. If you wish to bother me or anyone else juse email me instead of wasting everyones time, including yours. Anywho back to subject please :D

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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good friend has horrible BF Posted: 3/13/2009 3:04:19 AM
lorelei540- where to start, i suppose from the top of your message... the i stress agian, i guess if ya didnt catch the first part i should make it easier for ya, (and i stress the word "again"). and directly no, she will not ask me to help her move on, lol, but she does ask "what should i do". in light of that i have brought up, a few of the several times she has called about him, the possisability of ending it and she doesnt deny it or get fussy. She is smart enough to know thats the best route but always goes back to him... Im not drawn to unavailable women, im drawn to attractive women, both physically and emotionally. And I met her when she was single and we dated breifly I suppose i have to change my question to make it extreamly specific for ya. How can i get her to not go back to him and why do women go back to bad men? or How can you get a woman to see how badly a BF is to her? And im not looking for personal attacks and am baffeled at how often posters will rant about the thread starter rather then contributing what so ever, ive seen this on countless threads from many posters.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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good friend has horrible BF Posted: 3/13/2009 2:05:11 AM
Ok, i get a call almost once a week from a real good friend of mine about how her BF has done something crappy agian, and i stress again. i talk to her more often and i can make her feel better to an extent but never all the way. She says he is usually sweet and nice, ive never seen it, but i know he makes good money and all but i cant see her dating him for that. If you want more back story i can give just ask and ill post it. My question is even though i would not mund dating her i would just like her to date someone that she is happy with period, how can i get/help her move on to someone else? i mean they have broken up but she keeps going back. Its like the traditional/stereotypical girl/woman thing where they keep dating guys that are just flat out douche bags, there really isnt a nice word for it. and a bonus question... why do women stay with horrible guys? and before i et the whole hey not all women... thing. Yes not everyone is the same i know its a general guestion though. Help appricated

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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is he being honest? Posted: 3/11/2009 2:45:48 AM
hgmm well personally saying i love you is something i se as a bit strong to be saying at 2 months what an internet booty call girl on the side... wait did i really just type that? oops. not really. now really check into it before doing anything but it sounds like he's runnin for a twofer. but check it all out and see if what he says checks out, cheaters usually suck at lieing (i know, i seem to attract them). now there is some internet joking typing that if you read it you cant get it as a joke like the people in the convo can so thats where pieceing it all together BEFORE accusing him.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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I'm a little at a loss here. Posted: 3/11/2009 1:23:58 AM
depending on how it is with your classes, theres nothing wrong with askin a girl to lunch or coffee between classes, just dont get all cheesy with how you ask it. Really its quite simple "hey, you wanna get some lunch before next class starts?" dont limit the places to eat by picking one though, and before she says no cause shes broke or shes not wanting to spend anything offer to pay. Its not that much for a semi- quick lunch, and besides schoolwork she has nothing to loose by going. Art of asking a girl out thats anyway somewhat interested... Take out all the reasons for her to say no, easy. well somewhat easy, lol. and if she still says no then shes shy, actually busy, or not into you.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Does it make me a bad person? Posted: 3/11/2009 12:01:00 AM
no if a guy cant take care of himself then that just is way lazy... im in the weather alot and mine are always smooth and well nice, its not hard at all. Its like guys that cant listen to wemon speak, it really takes very limitedand real little effort. But i wouldnt kiss a girl much if she was bad chapped, not to be shallow, but yeah that rteally doesnt make for any good kissing at all.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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should i let my income stop me from looking? Posted: 3/10/2009 11:56:35 PM
although financial issues are the leading cause of deivorce dont let it stop you. Honestly if someone dont wanna date you cause your income is low, or your car isnt nice enough or whatever there little reason, that just shows why you wouldnot have liked dating them anyhow. So yeah keep lookin, i mean hey i love expencive dates alot but you get to know a person alot better just catchin lunch or eventually staying in and watching a movie.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Am I overreacting? Posted: 3/10/2009 11:52:05 PM
Well honestly think about it... it might be someone trying to hook him up thats a friend, never know. Or maybe its someone that you used to know thats changed. None the less you have your own ride and if its a party just keep an eye on your drink and youll be fine. If you go to this party, he will either be the one that dont mingle with you that keeps glamcing at you or he will aproach pretty early on. Remember your at a party not like he is gonna grab you and drag you away without someone noticing, lol. Just be ready to leave if worst comes to worst... That aside, if you go or not, relax, he cant hurt you through a computer and he prob got it from someone you know enouth to have your email, so they gotta trust him to some degree. To answer your question.. yeah maybe just a bit. Little overreacting.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Largeness Posted: 3/10/2009 12:12:05 AM
cool cool true cool cool true wow, trailgirl gettin strait to the point, lol

The Siege

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Largeness Posted: 3/9/2009 11:10:27 PM
Im tring to put it as nice as i can... What do the ladies thinkthe difference is between the different types? Ive seen both guys and gals put misleading body types and sometimes downright way wrong body types, it just seems to be a bit less honest with the ladies. soo looking for opinions on what makes certin body types on both men and women

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Just a GUY THING the Y Chromosome Posted: 3/9/2009 9:13:28 PM
Ok i got one Why do wemon feel the need to act different when there around friends or even just out in public in general? i have many questions but i just picked this on. and yes i know its not just a woman thing, but it does seem to be more prominate. (note: my spelling sucks, lol) Also, why do women have to use makeup? espicially when they have just flat out gorgeous looks with out it. I like women for who they are, not how much make up they feel thay need to look pretty.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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How do I respond to Hey..? Posted: 3/9/2009 10:27:03 AM
well ive posted something simular and opposite on the ask a girl forum. it asked why women/ladies/girls wouldnt respond to in depth messages, and why they would respond to the "hey your pretty cute, whats up?" messages. for 2 weeks i tried just the good in depth mesages talking about myslif just a bit and mentioning there profile and intrests that are simular. i got 2 replies in those 2 weeks. last week was the first week i went back to the "I tarzan you jane" mesages and im getting atleast 3 replies a day. if something works for conversation we arent going to try the less useful way of contact.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Angry lesbians hitting on my chick buddies Posted: 3/7/2009 12:27:37 PM
If a guy contacts you dont take it in an annoying way, take it as a complement. I'm not gay or bi but if a guy hits on me ill chat with him but let him know im strait. Its a complement, same should go for the women, say your starit but thank you.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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what is a funny light hearted response toooo Posted: 3/7/2009 12:13:18 PM
besides deacons idea of a nun uniform, lol, I'm not really sure there is a real way with out being blunt to say that. Easiest thing is to take it as a joke and swap subjects, so as not to stay on sex. To be honest though even though most people would ever react if i was talkin to a lady and they just asked "do you mind if we not talk about sex?" i would take no offence to it. Its nice having someone thats honest and forward with me.

The Siege

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Do all men think women are suppose to have sex on the first date Posted: 3/6/2009 7:02:05 PM
No not all men will even have sex on the first date... and if you dont want sex on first then dont date the same kind of guys. That simple

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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alrighty then, you think its cool to stop writing real messages now? Posted: 3/5/2009 9:43:17 PM
I Cornelius - yeah its not that i havent gotten anything its just the messages showing that i cared enough to show that i read there profile and them still found them interesting are getting far less hits then the plain messages. Ive dated 2 women from here and one we didnt click which is ok and the other we did but she is too busy and whatnot so im still looking for someone that can be stable. I speek far better in person than through text so once i get someone thats cool with phone convo's they all take off and like me alot from there. I'm, hopin your right about upcomin new people though.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Should I show I care so soon? Posted: 3/5/2009 8:24:57 PM
there are 2 sides and options you got and you know your options, be compleatly honest and care like you feel or hold back. I kinda have a simular issue, not that im clingy, but i get attached rather easily so I get what you mean. The easiest way i have to solve the issue with this when dealing with myself is simple.... You need to be compleatly honest with the woman/girl/ladie and but keep your mind in it so you dont get run over by a woman that will take advantage of it. My only true real long relationship ended with my ex cheating on me... why? cause i didnt keep my mind in it to keep what i feel in check? ya got what i mean? If you want specifics hit me up and ill let ya know. it took me a while to get it all in check but its not hard once you know how.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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alrighty then, you think its cool to stop writing real messages now? Posted: 3/5/2009 8:06:53 PM
its funny, when i first got on here in the fall for the first time with basically the same profile, although some has changed, i got a resposd from about 1 in 5 first contact messages i sent out. Now I have been sending real messages for first messages talking about there intrests on there profile and im not gettin any bites. So, is it ok for me to go back to the lame first contact messages? I know ladies here on the forums hate them but it seem that if I bring up there profile they get scared and stay reserved as if i wasnt supposed to know thats on the profile, lol. I'm pretty much out of people to contact for the distance i want to drive, so should i keep with real messages or go to the plain lame ones that tend to get more responces? Thanks ladies

The Siege

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Would you date a nerd? Posted: 3/5/2009 1:23:26 AM
dang!!! so many ldies that would date nerds... why cant you live near me!! lol. most of the girls in GA are extreamly shallow, not sure why but when ive dated a few ladies that just moved to my state they had souls, lol. im being harsh but reallyit would be nice to find a girl around here that doenst mind a guy with some intelligence, arrogant with it would be a bit much. kinda annoying watching so many nice girls date morons, oh well not my choice, lol. but really yall ladies are great!

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Women why lie? Posted: 3/5/2009 12:12:30 AM
laziness, it makes it easy to lie. Im honest but think of it from a viewpoint that if you give them enough rope they will hang themselves with it k... If you wanna do something and its not good to do and your significant other finds out what can you do to flip the table? lie!! lol. really just yell and say your telling the truth and angrly ask why they dont believe you to make it seem as if your right. that sinario (spellin i know) probably sounds fulmiliar to many men here... For weak people they lie to be lazy cause its easier to lie than stand up and be honest. I fell bad for them cause either there going to end up with noone at all or someone that is worthless and caves in under there lies. its a sad ending but funny cause you can see it commin from a mile away and its not just women it just seems to be more prominate feature, but there are plenty of men that do the same. All I ask for in a person im dating is honesty alittle cuteness, little active and can hold a decent convorsation. very simple but trust and honesty wins me far quicker then any sex, any boobs, any sexy figure. (Note those are a great plus though!! lol)

The Siege

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What constitutes showing him you're definitely interested? Posted: 3/4/2009 11:51:51 PM
well it might sound like a far and horribly grueling task thats oh so painful... ask him out. why is it so hard for women to ask a man out? you afraid of being hurt, rejected? Try being a guy, happens all the time. If he likes you he'll probably say yes, if not move on, you gotta remember after this guy you got another 3 billion to choose from, ya got good odds sweetheart. If your Bi then you got great odds you got 7 or 8 billion to choose from then, lol. Just be honest with yourself and him and dont over thiink it and ask him out.

The Siege

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Guys and Body Image Posted: 3/4/2009 9:21:18 PM
some guys do that but not all, i mean take this site for example about women, most wont talk to a guy if he isnt atleast a7 if not more on there physical likeing scale. i notice women tend to base more off of looks more then men do now days. but to your question some men do some dont. well most do, there are some guys here that want to know a person for them, typically though there not your physical dream man to be honest.

The Siege

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Some question Posted: 3/4/2009 7:15:52 PM
some people just dont reply much, dont make any since on a dating site but yeah. Keep tryin though, youll find someone :D

The Siege

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Why do guys get so angry Posted: 3/4/2009 7:09:36 PM
if someone is gonna act like that just have nothing to do with them, atleast your actually talking with people though :D Many women dont ever really talk with anyone... on a dating site... sounds like its defeating the purpose to me, lol. None the less your fine hun, just keep tryin cause theres a reason there on dating sites, they cant handel rejection. your good, so keep doin your thing and if it gets bad to the point to where you really have an issue with them dont be afraid to report them.

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Is there such thing as to soon Posted: 3/4/2009 12:10:43 AM
im with rebel on this one, although alot of ladies out there seem intimidated to go out and meet someone they have never met before. I mean its nothing to be scared of unless you meeting behind an abandonded warehouse in which case that was dumb to agree to meet there. Other than that people online need to lighten up a touch i believe, what can go bad meetin someone in a public coffee house around people with your own ride home? That covers your bases incase there a crazy, lol, so cover your bases and meet some new people, hell call it networking if you wish. just make sure you got your own ride and have fun, is it any different meeting someone you met for 5 minutes and you gave your number to?

The Siege

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Military Dating Posted: 3/3/2009 8:34:45 PM
NP hun hope more agree with me

The Siege

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Military Dating Posted: 3/3/2009 8:28:20 PM
its no turn off, unless there reaally that so shy, like a woman that has confidence is great. i dont have any issues with dating a woman in uniform. it can be a turn on if the guy isnt weak minded. i like a woman that can take care of themself. good luck in the military :D

The Siege

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Longterm/Dating Posted: 3/3/2009 6:56:20 PM
lookout chillpill is makin superwords! lol Last time me and a few friends made super words we made the super STDs like siphalisaharalifilaids (siphalis/a/harm/a/lifil/aids) or gounasiphaherpilaids (gouna/sipha/herp/il/aids) Im aware my spellind is horrid but i figured yall would enjoy a laugh at my bordoms expence, lol. Dont fret about the spelling yopu know what they mean but yeah i guess we can use that super acromym. i just will have an issure remembering it ha ha.

The Siege

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Why do women stop responding to me when I ask them out on dates? Posted: 3/3/2009 11:51:47 AM
it happens to everyone thats on here, and the irony is this is ment as a DATING site, lol. i cant see hte harm in meeting someone i have talked to for a while in a safe open populated setting, whats gonna happen? right? I have met people i was not interested in just as friends on here. but dont let it bother ya, just remember its there loss man. you put your effort in and thats anyone can ask of you, so keep it up youll find some that wanna date, promise.

The Siege

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Longterm/Dating Posted: 3/3/2009 11:25:02 AM
Love ya ladies, ha ha, thanks for the opinions i really appricate it :D Thanks for the insight though really. more opinions are great too ladies, more the marrier. haha

The Siege

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Longterm/Dating Posted: 3/3/2009 12:49:04 AM
Its been asked simular before but never quite answered my question... Does listing that a man is liiking to date or looking for longterm ever decide if you will talk with them? and depending on your answer which way are you personally more enclined to talk with a guy? I honestly am hoping for longterm but i know ya gotta date before you get there. so im hopin once again for your ladies personal opinions, nothing generic please, lol.

The Siege

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Online dating etiquette Posted: 3/2/2009 10:49:57 PM
i would rather have a polite respond, i know you get flooded with mail im sure, but its still nice, and maybe if your not interested dating wise it never hurts to have another friend. When i get mail from ladies im not atracted to ill let them know nicly but i dont mind having a nice covversation. Hell, ive made more friends here than dates, lol. Ive dated 2 from here and made like 4 friends, nothin to complain about, lol. Plus you never know you might grow to like someone you never thought you would even give a second look, plus im sure it would be nice to have a normal convo on here without the guy pressuring for a meet or date, lol.

The Siege

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His just not interested? Posted: 3/2/2009 7:43:42 PM
Its kinda hard to say without knowing the guy. maybe he is just shy and the alchol let him loosen up enough to say what he wouldnt say sober, not sure. One thing i have noticed though, even though i have less experience than most is, if someone gets a little alchol in there system they tend to be a bit more honest and outward about themselves.

The Siege

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Second chance?? Yes or no? Posted: 3/2/2009 1:00:37 AM
there are a few good guys like us out there, and i feel that noone should settle for anyone that treats someone like he did you. find somneone that truly likes you and wants you around. no need for a guy, or girl for that matter, that feels ashamed with you or only wants to see you in privite or only on there terms. a relationship is a two way street but he wants both lanes going his way and thats not right to you at all. you can do better so smile and keep on movin hun

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Need help from Capricorn boys? Posted: 3/2/2009 12:10:24 AM
ask him, Im Jan 20 boy, dont know what that makes me, lol. im somewhat shy and to want to ask someone out i like knowing that they like me somewhat for sure. it would make me feel special if a cute girl came with interest in me and asked me out though, if that helps hun. Foot note... I have wondered this, people that believe in the signs... do you people think that everyone of every fasit of life from every year is the same personality just cause they are born in the same period of time? i dont understand that concept (not bashing i promise)

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

Msg: 6 (view)

Why do some girls post only isometric view pics? Posted: 3/2/2009 12:04:08 AM
misleading 101, bigger girls that dont wanna show it know that overhead shots make the boobs cover the, extra, below. everyone wants to seem better looking that they are, which is not good in the long run cause once you meet someone there not gonna be 11 feet tall lol. there gonna see them for them, so why not just be honest and show a direct forward shot? no more weird angles to cover up the plunper cheeks or whatnot, you need to be liked for you so if you hide who you are doesnt that defeat the purpose of lookin for someone to like you for you? I mean if i got eyes to look into why do i need to see a bunch of cleavage lol?

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

Msg: 10 (view)

How often do you start the conversation? Posted: 2/26/2009 12:57:18 AM
ive had a girls that i dated from here show me her inbox and she gets about 30 messages a day and only replies to about 5 and never starts any of her own, and i have a few friends that i turned to this site and they never start the conversation, ever. Between this acount and the one from before i have had 4 women send me messages to start with and most seeking friends.... Somethin to think about would be possibly limiting the number of people a person can message in a week or maybe limiting the number of begining messages a person is allowed to send. so many women get bombarded with tons of messages a day from guys whosend the same message to 40 new ladies a day and it causes a jam in there inbox to the point to where if they read every message and actually look around and message a guy they wanna start a conversation with they would have to be on for easily over an hour at a time, daily. get the male message whores to stop and maybe ladies have some real time to actually look and get to know someone instead of rummaging through flak messages, lol. Am i right though or what?

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

Msg: 6 (view)

what to do now? Posted: 2/24/2009 10:09:05 AM
leavemebe: i do live outside my computer, lol. and i love meeting new people, its fun :D and cowboy yeah ill get to makin some new pics and ill check on the rewrite and see what i come up with. and ya can mail order women, but they dont speak english often i hear, ha ha no but really thanks and ill get workin on it

The Siege

Joined: 2/4/2009

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Ladies take a look? Posted: 2/24/2009 10:04:17 AM
hmm possibly less emphesis on narrowing down your choices?? instead of listing you mastch you want, leave it a little more open or people not compleatly matching your description of what your asking for may shy away right? oh and a pic or two too.

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