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julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 17 (view)

I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH Posted: 11/18/2009 8:58:02 AM
So you have been seeing this guy since September? and asks if he still loves me?. .....If someone asked ME that after five minutes I would not answer either!!! You don't know this guy so why are you beating yourself up over him? Leave the guy alone.....IF he wants you in his life then he will let you know.....stop chasing him. This appears to be a one sided relationship.....stop stressing and go about your daily routine.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

Im In need of some advice badly , Posted: 10/13/2009 8:36:27 AM
He's not your husband. He's not obligated to discuss his purchases or finances with you. .....So why does this guy feel the need to discuss his personal details with his friends and not the person he is intimate with? This man has made arrangements with his lover and is now going back on those arrangements because he has listened to his friends and turned a deaf ear towards his intimate partner. Personally I would opt OUT of this relationship.....he doesn't care about you...he only cares about himself.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 84 (view)

Single... does it equal weird? Posted: 10/13/2009 8:19:52 AM
I always thought people that were single for a long period of time were a little "out there". .....My ex husband always wanted the 'little farm' away from suburbia and avoiding competion with 'the ''''jones's next door"". So here we are 25 years on..... he's competing with the neighbours...Has a 4 wheel drive sitting in the garage which he can't afford to run, and nobody want's to buy it because of the cost of fuel. Me? I have my chicken's and grow my own vegies. I also drive a 1.3ltr car. Wierd? No SMART? Yes.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Jilted the day of your wedding, fired, kicked out your house and left with the final bill. Posted: 10/13/2009 7:47:50 AM
Something tells me there is more to this than meets the eye. Ms Wang is coming across as totally angelic......and the prospective groom.....a villian. Who goes from wanting to elope to planning a $150,000 wedding? Ms Wang could have avoided this situation.....she chose not to.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 16 (view)

are you ready to be in love again? Posted: 9/2/2009 8:55:17 AM
No I am not ready to be in love again. I have been there done that, tried to make it happen again and got hurt, so I'll take a rain cheque on that one. Not everyone needs to have someone by their side.....I am one of those people. IF it happens, then well and good but if not? No harm done.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 67 (view)

How many of you actually have dates for the weekends? Posted: 8/29/2009 6:06:03 AM
After a very stressful week I was hanging out for Friday! The plan was to chill alone.....But oh no, the ex arrives unannonced all hyped up and full of life. He stayed for about half an hour talking crap (Rugby stuff) before I hinted for him to leave. Only then did I get to chill!!!

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Micheal Jackson's death a homicide Posted: 8/29/2009 5:56:11 AM
Michael Jackson's death was a homicide caused primarily by the powerful anesthetic propofol and another sedative, the coroner announced Friday .....Was this the same coroner who conducted the first autopsy and announced his death was 'accidental' or did this coroner get under the table dollars from the family if he could find someone to blame as they cannot accept their son's tragic death? Do you think Jackson himself contributed to his own death? .....Ask Elvis.....Same horse different jockey

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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In the Name of the Father Posted: 8/21/2009 8:53:57 PM
Your daughter was born with her birth name and should keep the name she was born with. I think it is very selfish of the mother to change the child's name because it suits the mother and, is a change for convience it seems. What would happen IF the new marriage doesn't last? What would your child's name be then? they have encouraged my little girl to call the new fella "daddy".... .....That is just sooooo WRONG!!! Is your ex that selfish that she is prepared to confuse your little girl? Your ex needs a good kick back to reality. She doesn't need to make these changes.....unless it's to impress this new bloke, which would put her in the 'weak' sucked in category. YES fight to keep your child's last name.....She was born with YOUR blood not his!!!

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 127 (view)

If he didn't like it, would you want him to eat it anyway? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:53:25 AM
^^^^^You will have to send me your recipe! I think that forcing someone to eat something is wrong! My dad made me sit and eat my carrots. Thank heavens we had a greedy dog!!! I still hate carrots till this day. Now for the 'tripe recipe' please.....

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 16 (view)

Could you give up that which is most special to you? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:48:15 AM
OP Your post is a mixed grill.....Why are you living your life without your cat? I have many cats cats during my life span. I have two now and love them dearly, but am aware that they are not invincible. I have spent thousands of $ on my cats and dog's over the years to give them an extesion on life, but I know that one day they will leave me as the other's before have done. Would I give up my animals for a person to spend the rest of my life with? No never. Would I run into a burning house to try to save them? Yes I would. If they are in pain and suffering.....Yes I would stop their suffering even if I had to do the deed myself. Could you sacrifice your most treasured thing, your own life, to save that of a stranger who has yet to live their own (ie: a child)? .....Of course I would put my own life on the line to save a child.....I would do it to save my animals as well. We are in this world together and man is no greater than a furry friend.....sadly man thinks he is!

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Did you keep your wedding photos? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:31:02 AM
No. My wedding photo's were torn into little pieces and left next to the clothing with mysterious cigarrette burn holes in the clothing of the 'baby sitter'. Gosh! I was soooo clumsy back then. Guess she shouldn't have left her clothes in MY drawer whilst I was away.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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If he didn't like it, would you want him to eat it anyway? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:24:38 AM
If I was going to have someone over for dinner, then I think it would be common sense to ask beforehand what they like and dislike. What about allergies? Peanuts? Seafood? I once made a tripe soup.....Not the main course, but I made it anyway (It's a special recipe handed down from my Polish mother), and I love the stuff. I offered it to my man of the moment and he accepted the invitation to try it. He went for 'seconds' and took me by surprise!!! He said he would not normally go near tripe, but a soup was intriguing and he thought he would try it. If someone was to ask me over for dinner I would tell them my dislikes.....No snails...I don't do snails, nor do I eat duck (I had a pet duck), I don't do Turkey, nor rabbit, nor kangaroo, or Yak testicles.....I eat COW .....but not whilst it's still 'mooing'.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Is this enough to ditch her? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:09:38 AM
Wanting to remain a virgin until marriage is fine.....IF your partner is in the same boat. It is quite clear that you are not a virgin as you have a child/children and, so have experienced sex and the urges it brings. Your g/f is very naive and not to mention SELFISH! Four years should be long enough to determine whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with a person, which makes me wonder how marriage can possibly affect her career goals? Are you two living together?.....Please say No and give me a reason as to why marriage would affect her career.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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why does he keeps talking about past relatinships? Posted: 8/19/2009 7:59:53 AM
Looks like this guy has built a brick wall around himself.....A Jack Hammer is not going to work unless you hit him over the head with it. He IS comparing you to his long lost love whether he realizes it or not. IF he cannot get his act together and move forward then it's time to let him go. Noboby wants to take second place with an 'invisible' ex. The ex is way past her 'use by date' and the sooner he realizes this then the sooner he can find happiness.....With or without you.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 48 (view)

Does a Fully Coherent You, Have the Rite to chose How/When to Die ? Posted: 8/15/2009 9:05:46 AM
You will never understand what I'm going through until you live in my skin. .....Very wise words indeed. ALL of my clients are dying sooner than the average person. My 95 year old lady if full of life (Suffers from old age).....My 33 year old (Suffers from MS) and knows what lies ahead. I can visibly see what each of my clients goes through each day, but I cannot imagine their thoughts. Sure they occassionally tell me what they are thinking and how they are feeling however I cannot go deep inside their thoughts.....It's not allowed as they belong to the system and NOT to those who assist with personal care. The times I wish I could just sit and talk and it's when I feel like this I feel that my clients need reassurance. People get to know their own 'Line' and when it's time to cross that line. This man in question may have felt that life was not worth living At the time of his deep depression but everyone is entitled to change their mind....Unfortunately the media is now involved.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

Does a Fully Coherent You, Have the Rite to chose How/When to Die ? Posted: 8/15/2009 7:56:00 AM
It appears that this man in question is having a change of heart.....Could it be that he has realized that death is final or has the past few days put him in a good frame of mind with the attention and not feelings of depression? This is a very difficult case to deal with. My care aide best friend has actually met this man.....Not dealt with him personally, but has spoken to him and found him to be a 'happy' person with a lot to live for. This has confused me somewhat. It casts my mind back to when a friend of mine's brother was dying and his medication was going to stop on a Sunday.....At his own request. Sunday came along and he brought his family together however, he was in a good frame of mind and said he wanted to live after all......On the following Tuesday he died...A very restless death with his family by his side. His sister told me he was screaming and fighting and his eyes were full of fear. I don't know IF his medication was actually stopped, but can only assume it wasn't. Is it the fear of death that consumes the man in question?

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Drunken Violence Posted: 8/14/2009 9:23:25 AM
A person can 'get away' with harsh penalties if they tell the Judge that they were drunk on the night in question. It seems that the Judges think it's a good excuse to avoid giving harsh penalties. Case one.....I hit them because they pissed me off.....NO I wasn't drinking (Penalty...1 year suspended sentence). Case two.....I hit them because I was drunk and didn't know what i was doing (Penalty...Counselling) ???

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Does a Fully Coherent You, Have the Rite to chose How/When to Die ? Posted: 8/14/2009 9:11:03 AM
Wow! Did anyone see the smile on this guy's face after he won his case? Good on him however, I would have chosen no food but kept the water side of things.....something he does not want. I guess it's just me. Does this mean his medication will also cease?.....he needs water to swallow pills. I think it's going to be a painful death for this man and I only hope he is strong enough to face the next few days. Perhaps he feels it is worth his suffering for a future of a painless eternity. He has my best wishes and I sincerely hope he dies with the dignity he deserves.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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people going missing? Posted: 8/14/2009 8:57:49 AM
^^^^^Just goes to show that our beaches are unpredictable, just as the bush is. Taken at such a young age and so tragically.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/14/2009 8:53:18 AM
My question is... why don't you just tell a guy you like him in a nice way, .....Because that guy will do one of two things.....Carry on thinking he's the ants pants OR assume he's gonna get lucky (If ya know what I mean) Body language is something that can be readable.....Hair playing, turning towards the person you are interested in, eye contact. touching etc.....Ifyou cannot read the signs then you must be pretty naive.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Why do some men think we'll believe anything? Posted: 8/14/2009 8:36:02 AM
Some people will tell you what they think you want to hear.....Take an obese person.....Some character at some point in time would have told that obese person that they are incredibly sexy knowing that the obese person does nothing for them.....however it makes the obese person feel good to hear those words, so they will begin to have faith in this liar and gain their trust. Needy is a good word to describe a person who will believe anything just to get the attention they thrive.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Does facial hair on men over 45 make them look older or younger? Posted: 8/13/2009 7:47:50 AM
I am not normally attracted to 'hairy' men however, some men look great with a bit of growth. The only thing that turns me off with hairy faces is food getting stuck in the growth.....Give me the 3 day growth and I'm happy!

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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using my computer to check out women Posted: 8/13/2009 7:34:17 AM
Well I found this from a previous thread you began recently OP say the guy asks for a commitment, but because you have not been going out with anyonefor very long time you are not ready to make that commitment. So because yu have not agreed to a relationship, but are not seeing anyone else, the guy continues to date...What to do? .....Does this not answer your question? You can't have your cake and eat it too sweety.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

Tomato Stealing dog.. Posted: 8/13/2009 7:23:49 AM
My dog use to eat red hot chillies. The vet suggested I buy some and tie them to the plants the dog was eating. I did and she got a taste for them! My kitten eats watermelon and I must accept the fact that she is not normal.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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OK I really dont get this Posted: 8/13/2009 7:18:35 AM
Couple days later when I saw her online, I sent a quick email to say hi. No reply. .....Oh bloody hell! Are you kidding me? Is she suppose to drop what she was doing and say 'Hi' back to you? This is online dating. Welcome. There are 999,999.1 more women out there so go fetch.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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When attractive women get compliments from ugly men .... Posted: 8/13/2009 7:14:07 AM
Ugly to one person is not ugly to ALL people. The emails that pi*s me off are usually sent by some frustrated young guy who has the impression that I'm an old fart who may require servicing or some old fart who thinks the same thing. I am yet to meet a guy around my own age who has the same connection. People who live their lives judging people by the way they look are shallow. It's the content of the message and not the context that counts.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Help Posted: 8/13/2009 7:07:12 AM
Went on a first date last week .....A lot can happen in a week. Geez anything could have happened.....A death in the family, issues at her work, an ex giving her a hard time, a sick child. So she bails on your next 'pencilled in' date? OK accept it. If she has your contact details then wait for her to contact you and if she doesn't then she's not interested or has more important issues happening in her life. Always keep in mind that some people are 'too' nice to hit you with facts and would rather take the easy way out.....You cannot change that.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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is ths too fast Posted: 8/13/2009 6:26:30 AM
Geez I just read your history OP and it's not very good I'm afraid. You seem to have this pattern happening.....firstly you say you have never had a one night stand and don't intend too.....You wait till he text's and calls a million times first, then you invite him over and sleep with him, then whine about what ever happened to him. Times that by 3 cause that's how many times you have done this. As you now have Not Single/Not Looking I can only assume that one guy came back for seconds.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Boyfriend did something bad in his past..29 years later..forgive? Posted: 8/13/2009 6:07:48 AM
I find your post rather confusing OP. You say in a previous thread that you have a 3 year old son and now you say you have a daughter? Your only 20!!! You jump from a'rumour' about your b/f to 'issues' with your b/f then back again. Simply for the fact. He did do it. .....And your proof of this is????? It doesn't seem as if you trust your b/f nor do you have faith in him, now I must question if you do in fact love the guy? Consider your children or child whatever you decide you have and focus on them or he/she as they should be your priority NOT some disfunctional romance.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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When are you most happiest? Posted: 8/13/2009 5:55:49 AM
I'm estatic when I find a pea pod I have grown with big plump peas in it! Unfortunately they are only growing at one every couple of days. Seriously I am at my happiest when all of my children are together with me. As they now lead separate lives it's seldom that we are all together at the same time. I also get sad/happy when a long suffering patient has finally passed on and is no longer in pain.

julietjuliet

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How to win a woman's heart back after you messed up? Posted: 8/12/2009 9:06:34 AM
5 months of dating is nowhere long enough to make a decision on having children. I think you moved too fast with the wanting a child thing and have scared the hell out of her. When I first met my ex fiance he wanted children. I was 32 with 3 children and he was 23 with no children. It took me a few years to change my mind and realize that I did want a child with him....Maybe even two children. Unfortunately he cheated before our future was sealed, but the point I am making is TIME.....Don't rush!!! As for getting her back into your life.....Take her out for dinner and explain yourself. When dinner is over...leave the ball in HER court. IF she wants to contact you then she will, but trying to force her into anything is a bad thing and will only hurt you more.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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When should I bring up a medical issue. Posted: 8/12/2009 8:55:59 AM
When you say 'mildly'..... Do you mean Type one (Insulin dependant)? or Type two.....Controlled? If you are Type one then you must definately notify people you are regularly in contact with. These people will 'learn' how to read the signs to lower or raise your sugar.....if they don't know the signs then you could die. If you are Type two, then join the club with the other 60% of the population who don't even know they are diabetic. Watching your diet and exercising is a good thing and I do not see any cause for alarm with Type two.

julietjuliet

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If You Were PM What Would You Change Posted: 8/12/2009 8:40:04 AM
Sandy Freckle Make it happen..., that all pet owners have to license their animals...., and so make the owner directly accountable/responsible for their pets actions (if possible). .....I recently told my brother (Who is a Ranger) that my new kitty has been registered with her microchip. He said why did I bother? Then he told me that the council does not provide the micro chipping scanning device to Rangers.....So if they pick up an animal it gets treated as any other animal.....micro chipped or not! AS PM I would microchip ALL politicians.

julietjuliet

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Msg: 27 (view)

Does a Fully Coherent You, Have the Rite to chose How/When to Die ? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:28:59 AM
Why is the word 'Dignity' abused? Why are some people left on life support machines for years, yet other's can have their's disconnected as soon as a family member gives the green light? I hope the courts can see through this man's eyes and grant him his right to die with DIGNITY.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Older men, younger women, and death Posted: 8/11/2009 6:28:11 AM
Firstly OP you do not look 18 however you do have the sarcasm of an 18 year old. Secondly I think your women outliving men theory is a little far fetched. What is more important to you? Quality of life or quantity of life? Sorry to disappoint you but, as a woman in her late 40's one of the reason's I don't date is because MOST men my age or 10 years older are after 'flings'. Being a man you ARE generalising because it's what YOU observe as a MAN. Put the shoe on the other foot.....add a dress and some eye shadow then go make your observations! Doesn't it make sense to spend time with the one you love and not with the one who will see you through your old age because it's convenient?

julietjuliet

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FINDING OUT SECRETS Posted: 8/11/2009 6:13:41 AM
dardika is right..... you can not accidently find out someones password. You were prying and it was wrong. .....Do you go through his cell phone as well? he said once we were serious he would take his profile off of here..or say that he was no longer interested in dating, and I said I would do the same. Well I did and he didn't. .....Your a liar! LOOK at your 'join date'! Oh before you tell another white lie don't try the old.....but I left and joined agiain. I have been here for five years lady and everytime I rejoin it shows the date I joined. How can you say it was by accident you discovered his password? Did your fingers automatically type in his user name as well or was that also an accident? I too share a computer but I don't spy even though I know the other person's ID.....Only he actually told me his ID details.

julietjuliet

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How much should a man chase you to show he is interested? Posted: 8/9/2009 8:47:52 AM
Chasing is for pre schoolers.....run and catch me and you can pull on my piggy tails!!! Oh geez if chasing is the name of the game at MY age then I give up! It's all in the eyes.....

julietjuliet

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What going on with this guy? Posted: 8/9/2009 8:20:23 AM
He asked 'is that a bootie call' as it was three am i didn't think to say no no it's just a friend which technically speaking it was. "I just said yes actually it was " his response was ' well tell him you already have one' i didn't respond to this but i did later You firstly admit that you are susceptible to 3am 'booty calls', THEN the guy you are sleeping next to admits that you are HIS booty call for the evening.....What does that tell you? It tell's me that you come across as a very busy lady within the 'booty call' industry.....He feels he is just another........

julietjuliet

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Does she need a girlfriend? Posted: 8/9/2009 8:02:47 AM
This is the very same issue that I had with a now ex. I work with people who are dying. When I lose a client I'm naturally upset after getting so close to them.....They are my babies. Whenever I told "Mr I only care about what goes on in my life"...he would stare at the wall and his eyes would wonder all over the place.....He did not give a rat's are about how I was feeling. Yet when he had an issue he would constantly ask.....Are you listening? Do you know what I am saying? I would be looking into his eyes when he told me of his pain and anguish!!! He was telling me once that his dying brother was coming out of hospital for the day.....I thought it was wonderful until he told me the next day that they got his brother rotten drunk. Then he told me that his brother had a turn for the worse. HELLO! Fuk me what did bozo expect? I doubt he even listened to medical staff and his brothers medication stature upon his day release. IN his mind he was getting his brother plastered.....nothing else mattered. Sadly his brother did pass on.....A few days after this night. I don't care much for idle chit chat however, I do care about the frame of mind that a friend or lover has been in that day.

julietjuliet

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My car was stolen Posted: 8/8/2009 7:17:00 PM
After living with the hope that my old car would be stolen I finally gave up. (If I didn't alarm my car then insurance would not be paid, so it was alaways alarmed). On two occassions someone had attempted to steal my car, but unfortunately the alarm went off!!! I gave up and bought myself a brand new GETZ and I love it and it's alarm!!!

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

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Work for It Posted: 8/8/2009 8:22:18 AM
Let me tell you Mr bwana, sex is the furtherest thing from my mind when it comes to meeting guys. Oh don't get me wrong, I can go off like the flares on the Titanic just before she sank. I do believe that within the first few moments of meeting a person it is possible to tell if you will possibly end up sleeping with them however, quite often as the night draws to an end a person can safely make up their mind. A person that get's all hung up on their ex is a sure TURN OFF.....So the chase is over. men really hang out together and say to each other, ....Any guy who discusses MY private life....Misses the lifeboat and sinks.

julietjuliet

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Msg: 13 (view)

I have a question for you... Posted: 8/8/2009 8:08:24 AM
It seems to me that a FWB is a person with whom you ONLY have benefits with, right? ...zzzzz..... WRONG! If it was a Benefits with thing then it would be called a B. You seemed to miss the friends with part. (FW) Knowing that there is NO chance the scenario will escalade to dating or seeing each other (since you have other partners with who you have the exact same dynamic with) on a deeper level, what would you call this? ....I would call this CHEATING.

julietjuliet

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*police misconduct, POLICE MISCONDUCT, police misconduct* Posted: 8/8/2009 6:59:25 AM
If you own a firearm (as everyone should) why not just defend yourself??? .....What a bloody insane comment to make. Can you imagine what the repercussions would be IF EVERYONE could legally own a firearm? I have a 22 year old son who says he will be staying at his g/f's then decides to come home in the early hours of the morning. What should I do when I open the door? Shoot him? There are corrupt cops, corrupt polititions, corrupt social workers, corrupt teachers, corrupt carers, corrupt Plenty of Fish people.....sheesh I could write a bloody novel. Who can anybody Really trust?

julietjuliet

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Msg: 32 (view)

He thinks co-worker is pretty. Does he deserve to lose job? Posted: 8/8/2009 6:49:39 AM
Let's say that a man thinks a woman is pretty and he tells her so but other than that, he does not hit on her, ask her out or make any sexual comments towards her. .....It depends on HOW the guy made this comment as someone else pointed out. IF he was rubbing his ball bag at the time then it can only be assumed that he was being physically offensive at the time of comment. My girlfriends tell me I am pretty.....Does that mean that they are hitting on me? I personally think that there is more to this story than meets the eye. Why would a person 'fire' another if it was her word against his anyway? Were there any witnesses?

julietjuliet

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people going missing? Posted: 8/8/2009 6:36:10 AM
My girlfriend who had lived most of her life in Western Australia disappeared for a week or so near Kalgoorlie. She managed to call her sister before her cell ran out of charge and a search began. The authorities found her 100 metres from her vehicle.....Dead under a tree. In my opinion ANY funds made from 'selling' a story should be paid towards the cost of the search parties. NO profit should be made from these events UNTIL the tax payers money has been paid in full. The story of the irish backpacker made my blood boil.....especially after the father of this guy was having a sad after not receiving any money from his son's 'story'. The father himself said that it cost thousands of dollars to find his son.....So give the bloody money back to Australia and go sell the story in Ireland.

julietjuliet

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Msg: 16 (view)

Have you ever taken your frustrations out on your partners musical gear and why ? Posted: 8/8/2009 6:19:44 AM
This is not about musical gear, This is about hurting someone by using the things they love the most. My ex husband forced me to throw away two only pictures of my late boyfriend to PROVE that I loved him and not my late boyfriend. Being naive I did.....and he left me anyway!!! That was 20 odd years ago. I would NEVER ever do anything like that again as it had hurt me tremendously. Thankfully I did get a picture from my late b/f's dad about 15 years ago which I have close to my bedside. Music is a wonderful thing and enjoyed by many however there are more important things than music and it should not be the "Be all end all". Did your uncle ever try to involve his wife with his passion? Did your uncle try to become involved with his wife's passion? Did your uncle even ask his wife if she HAD a passion?

julietjuliet

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If You Were PM What Would You Change Posted: 8/8/2009 6:06:28 AM
ME? PM? Really? OK Then lets get the ball rolling. 1. Fix the bloody hospitals...If the Aussies keep upping their demands then bring in nurses and other medical staff from other counties..... 2. STOP giving those damn teachers ridiculous pay rises. 3. Raise the drinking age to 21. 4. Don't have "P" platers on the roads after 10pm and before 6am on weekends. 5. Don't make it improper to hug a hurting child if that child is not yours. 6. Bring back Golliwogs and make Gumby and his horse the latest craze.....gosh they were so much cheaper to buy! 7. Violent assaults should receive a mandatory prison sentence......Why do only Police officers get covered by this?....What about the elderly and everyone else out there? 8. Abolish ' life imprisonment' and replace it with the 'death penalty'. 9. Respect a person's dignity and welcome euthanasia. 10. Raise the animal abuse penalties and enforce them.....I have yet to hear of someone receiving the maximum fine for animal cruelty. Yours sincerely......The PMS

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

**Men I Need Your Honest Opinion(Please&Thank You:) Posted: 8/7/2009 9:45:48 AM
I don't care how many dead children you have. If you want it you got it. .....This is EXACTLY what I am talking about in my post. Pieces of crap just like this lumberjack tosser{Msg 15). He's probably some youngen who spends his time drinking and seeking out vulnerable women. Chances are that HE will end up being that lonely old fart sitting at the end of the local bar in a few years time.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 26 (view)

**Men I Need Your Honest Opinion(Please&Thank You:) Posted: 8/7/2009 9:35:32 AM
OP.....I am so sorry for your loss and cannot imagine the pain you have and are enduring. I must say however that a couple of your pic's do not reflect the REAL you and some guy's may take advantage of your situation......Two 'sultry' pic's in particular. What you need right now is a friend. It is up to YOU to weed out the undesirables and focus on guy's that genuinely care about your emotions and state of mind. 7 months is not a long time and the pain is still raw. You need to 'heal' before you even consider a romantic liason. You are gulible right now and guy's can sniff this out, so don't give them the bait.....tone your profile pic's down a little. Just remember that every person you meet has more than likely endured heartache in some shape or form.....You are not alone.

julietjuliet

Joined: 2/5/2009

Msg: 9 (view)

What does it mean to give and take Posted: 8/7/2009 9:17:37 AM
There is nothing worse than a person waiting by the phone and when it doesn't ring they get all melodramatic, then when it does ring out of the blue they again get all melodramatic. Perhaps you should have asked her what she meant.....As soon as she uttered those words instead of wondering after the fact. Oh and by the way...Just a tip..... IF you have a pic or two of yourself with another woman on your profile, then I think you should 'introduce' the other woman as it could put potentials off.

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