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helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 35 (view)

Death of a 24 yr Marriage Posted: 8/5/2008 9:24:22 AM
I am in the same boat you are in. My marriage fizzled out many years ago. We are so different and got married for the wrong reasons. ( I wasn't pregnant) As time went on, I was the one making the money, taking care of 3 kids, running then to sports and activities and other things. We did everything his younger sister did, except build a new house and I had an extra child. I got tired of being second fiddle to his sister. I could use all the support anyone can give me. I am seperated and in a few weeks, I will be moving to a different town and will be hard to do things with my kids. One of my kids is in the middle and it is really hard on me. My marriage was hard on me the whole way. We should have divorced after 5 years but I couldn't do that to my kids. Now my youngest one has finally graduated from high school and I am moving on with my life. I have met many people here and they have supported me. Hang in there, time heals but it is slow.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 5 (view)

I found my soul mate Posted: 6/12/2008 4:24:07 PM
I found my soul mate on here a few years ago. SAD TO SAY, HE WAS MARRIED!!!

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

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he left her at a gas station Posted: 5/17/2008 11:29:03 AM
you were a real sweetheart and your mother raised you the right way. I am glad you were there for her and didn't take advantage of her. Thank you for being a gentle man.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 175 (view)

Been married for 20 years, feel empty. Posted: 5/17/2008 11:18:56 AM
I have been married for over 24 years and have known my "husband" for over 28 years. I met him when I was 17 and I am now 46. Too many of my years wasted. We still live together in the same house, but we have been separated for over 3 years. We sleep in separate beds also. For my youngest son, I have stayed here for him but he graduates next week and I am hoping to go on with my life. This will be the year of many changes for me. I have been depressed for many years. But I have found the strength from my family and friends. I have many internet friends that also support me. One of my changes was getting my own checking account, he spends money like water and is over drawn. I am hoping to find another place to live, move and make more money to support my family and my self more. Find the courage to start my divorce. Biggest thing is to find a man that will RESPECT me, take care of me and help with my kids but won't tell then what to do. I may still be "legally" married, but I do date and I have found some men that are truly a gentle man. I have been hurt so much by men in the past and I don't like to be taken for grated for sex. I am totally honest when I meet a person and I want them to know my whole story. I might not tell every thing, but it is nice to find a new friend. Good luck and contact me if you want to know the rest of the story.....

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 977 (view)

Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/17/2008 7:54:14 AM
Some women are blessed with larger breasts and some aren't. I think a guy should find a woman for their personality and respect. Not for the breasts. I don't judge a guy by just looks alone. I go for the personality and if they have the same interests as I have.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

Women are (understandably) out for the best lookers too Posted: 3/25/2008 1:22:00 PM
As for me, I go more for the personality as I read the profile. As long as I chat with the guy and see what he is really like, Looks doesn't matter to me.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 192 (view)

Dont give in to the sex girls Posted: 1/15/2008 10:27:12 AM
Guys, you just don't know how USED we women feel after having sex with you and then we don't hear from you. Like many of us women, I have been hurt way to much and I am really tired of it. So, I have learned in the past, If you want sex with me, move on, I am not interested only if you are interested in have a relationship that means something special.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

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Separated, But Dating... Good or Bad? Posted: 7/14/2007 10:47:46 AM
Hi, I have been seperated from my so called husband for 30 months now. During this time, I have dated and it has made me feel good about myself again. As for getting back with him the so called husband, if I had the money, I would have left him after 5 years of marriage and not 23 years of hell. Finding new men has helped me a lot and they are the ones that keep me sane no matter if they live near me or thousands of miles and I may never meet them. My internet male friends have helped me through a lot over the years so God Bless my internet friends!!!!!

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 85 (view)

I miss him Posted: 3/13/2007 1:59:56 PM
I feel deeply in love with a married man from this site. I haven't seen him in 8 months. Then I decided to see him. I did a few weeks ago and I still don't know what is going on. I miss him like crazy and the days hurt me more and more.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

SWEETEST MOST ROMANTIC THING HES/SHES EVER DONE Posted: 2/9/2007 12:19:32 PM
One of the sweetest things was meeting a guy that I met in this site. He came to meet me on my birthday and we fell in love first site. He is my soul mate but because we are married to different people, we are not together. We were able to have a whole weekend together and it is one that I keep in my mind and heart at all times. The weekend that we were together, he gave me a necklace that I will always keep next to my heart. I haven't seen him in person since last June but I am counting that days that I will be seeing him in the near future.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 134 (view)

would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 1/19/2007 9:47:07 AM
Hey, I am a woman and I date married men and I love every minute of it!!!!! I may be seperated from my blank of a husband but I am having the time of my life. Some of us maybe seperated or divorced but we have feelings too.....

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 353 (view)

are all the guys on here looking for sex? Posted: 1/10/2007 8:32:41 AM
I find out that the decent men out there are all married. Yes, all the men I chat with all want sex. I am not looking for a one night stand or one that brags about it all the time. I get tired of the ones that talk sex, it turns me off big time.

helpmeflirt

Joined: 12/27/2005

Msg: 35 (view)

The love of my life- I miss him so much. Posted: 1/10/2007 8:27:12 AM
Hi, I know how you are feeling as it is the same with me. I met a man here last Jan. We met about 10 days later on my birthday. It was love at first site. We could look into each others eyes and we just knew. I saw him many times after that. The only sad thing about me is, we are both married to different spouses. I know that we are soul mates and it is so hard for me. He is the sweetest man in the world and I love him. I haven't seen him since June and I don't hear from him that much. He loves his kids and they are still small. I have never asked him to leave his family for me. That is his decision. I think of him everyday and I hug my pillows so much. We live an hour away and I go to his town for shopping. It has been really hard for me to do that when I know where he lives and have been in his house. I know it is really hard. I tell myself and others that I take one day at a time. I am giving him his space and I do cry at night and hug my stuffed animals wondering what he is thinking also. Just give him some space to think things over. How far apart do you live? Have you ever been together in person? I am not sure if you have met him in person but it is so much harder when 2 people have met, fallen in love and have made love many times over and over. If there is anything I can help you with, please let me know. Good luck and hang in there. I know I am and I am not giving up on a married man that I know really loves me back.

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