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flappo77

Joined: 2/6/2009

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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 10/29/2009 11:26:57 PM
girls their age DON'T MAKE ANY SENSE. they are too hard to understand and perhaps a mature women will make more sense to them.. b

flappo77

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Let me have it... how's mine. Posted: 10/29/2009 5:15:19 PM
How crappy is my profile. So far very few responses and most seem to be to be nice, quick, not interested types of responses. I'm actually not depressed about this probably because i can talk to women in person. however, none that i meet interest me as much as those on this site whom seem to be serious. b

flappo77

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She doesn't wish to be seen in public with me.. Posted: 10/28/2009 8:01:05 PM
No, to me it sounds like some sort of mental issue. Perhaps she has anxiety in public if there are more than two people. It is not too uncommon and the fact that she feels comfy with you in private is a point for that. Ask her if she has any type of social anxiety issues. f

flappo77

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Am 2 years separated and scared of that first step Posted: 10/28/2009 6:24:12 PM
ONE GOOD ADVICE... the more you like the guy... the more likely several other women will as well. that's life.

flappo77

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Kiss from an ex - what does it mean??? Posted: 10/28/2009 6:19:41 PM
Jeez. You want him and he wants to be friends....

flappo77

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Can men and women still get to know each other as friends Posted: 10/25/2009 11:32:02 PM
I say it's very, very rare for that to be successful. If a man is attracted to the woman than it is unlikely. I'd say the same goes visa versa. If a girl says I just want to be friends most guys will probably act like they're cool with that. If a guy says the same thing to a girl... girls tend to get VERY pissed off. No offense but we're much more reasonable in that dept.

flappo77

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Do women think you can get any guy? Posted: 10/25/2009 7:58:40 PM
Uhmmm women are extremely emotional AND for the most part they all chase the same guys. Alpha males as they call them. There was a study when i went to college that stated that for every guy having sex in a given period, there are seven women. It's genetic, they go after the alpha male as the primate species have that in common. And everything I've read so far in the forums supports that. They compete for the same men while men pretty much go for as many women as possible. Besides, bro you look like you are an alpha so no worries.

flappo77

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add four lines Posted: 7/13/2009 12:08:09 AM
He says,"The road then must be taken that's harsh and cold, where the frightful king of chains does in limbo hold, men of sloth, comfort, and defeatists pushed in the ground neck deep, His armor turns flesh into clay and from neck to feet!"

flappo77

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What constitutes a creapy guy? Posted: 7/9/2009 1:04:27 AM
Well, No one called me creepy. And for Raiderfan18 & Tenacious Forumite... I assure you I can find something very creepy in each of your profiles. But I'll keep that to myself unless, of course, you want me to come forth. Doubt you can handle that. As for everyone else, thanks for your insight. Good eve.

flappo77

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What constitutes a creapy guy? Posted: 7/7/2009 6:55:59 AM
Now I'm not asking about the obvious: old man that stares at you all the time, young guy with the hoodie that doesn't want you to see his face, guys with black trench coats, really heavy set guys with overactive sweat glands, really ghetto guys, hitch hikers, guys with 40 piercings, guys ALWAYS wearing bow ties, alcoholics, guys that cross highways on foot, etc. I'm talking about guys that are considered young, 20's-40's, handsome, dress ok, employed, and seem intelligent.

flappo77

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Through Posted: 7/7/2009 3:15:54 AM
Born in a hospital in '77 The first of many I found at eleven When life was easy and all was well Whilst heaven's on earth and no sign of hell Then the days grew and school was over Wealth was far off and nearby was hunger A young man's crime was to be known As a careless being despite being grown And came a quarter of a century so very soon With better understanding of the earth and moon Tech savvy, young, and debonair Of the future to rule one must prepare At about this time I caught the site Of the most exquisite creature shone by light My heart and mind were stirred so suddenly That all else in existence was Her background and blurry In the early fall of Twenty and Ten In a chapel of one hundred women and ninety men I placed a ring on the hand of my queen The perfect diamond that she hadn't seen I thirty three and she thirty four Were together now off to make more Life was as good as it could be A honeymoon spent on the open sea By the first of Jan in Twenty Twenty Four kids, aged eight, six, and three The reason that just three age numbers appear Because the six-year-olds are twins and very dear And life was good though the world had changed Times were harsher and many deranged The economy was not what it used to be Serfdom and slavery reappeared as human tragedy When the oldest son finished his school He want to jail after winning a duel I begged and pleaded to get him out of jail Life in prison without the possibility of bail The next two finished in June of '31 And went of to the same college and said bye to everyone They were very good in school and sports Never a problem at home and never with the courts The last kid was a daughter and her name Emily Joined the army and soon started a family Her husband was a little too old for my personal liking But that feeling subsided after our trip hiking In Feb of '38 at the age of sixty one We had our first grand kid and her name was Dawn We had nine more before the kids were through A beautiful family tree which their grandmother drew During the summer of Twenty Fifty One I retired finally my body tired and done My wife turned Seventy Five at about that time But aged to perfection and feeling at her prime But life is hard for us old timers then Technology's strange as is the speech of men Social Security a thing of the past Forgotten for good never meant to last Then Age eighty comes and then eighty five Amazes me daily that this long I survived Four kids, Ten grand kids, and Two great grand kids have come Visiting but their names keep fading to my mind that's numb Then Twenty Hundred and Sixty Three My first son is finally free Thirty four years in the prison past For a crime of his youth long past at last He finds a job at his little sister's business His aged mind isn't sharp which makes him a bit restless At last in time he adjusts to this situation As my comes to a with a spiritual graduation And the world moves on the family multiplies The wife passes years later with a hundred and two years in her eyes The family circle had long been complete It restores itself something that's so neat.

flappo77

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Need guys point of view to figure this one out Posted: 7/7/2009 1:48:58 AM
Simple. He's not a one woman man. Another thing, I would not be too surprised if he cheated on you several times in that time and did a good job keeping it. He does care about one thing, that you do not try finding someone else, this, not because he cares for you completely but rather because he sees you as his own. If he can I'm sure he'll want to get a third female and do the same thing to all three of you. If he says he loves you and plans to marry you, it is a lie straight outta hell and he'll do what he has to see to keep your guard down. He might have never loved you; just needed u. I'm pretty sure you'll end up not heeding any of the advice here anyways so gluck.

flappo77

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Please help!........... Posted: 7/7/2009 1:38:46 AM
Well, the problem is honesty. A writer once wrote "take everything and burn it all but leave me just one thing, the truth." I notice flirtation & dating make a vicious couple. No one wants to hurt anyone's feelings from a date, by saying "thanks but I don't think this is going to work." Not because they like you and feel bad, but because they don't want to deal with your reaction or for you to dislike them. Its relatively common nowadays. In the '90s it seems that you got a pretty good idea of how things went versus today. Now what do you do? Keep going, keep on dating, and keep trying; only don't try to change who you are. capiche.

flappo77

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Do guys really like....? Posted: 7/7/2009 1:31:32 AM
Everyone is different. But yes, most guys do want sex.. it's sorta important..but certainly not everything. First off the sexy librarian thing,,,, would be considered derogatory to women by most feminists; the stripper goes without saying. The problem with nice guys, most women aren't looking for them unless they're hot. Lets face it,,, if women just liked guys because they were nice then MTV and BET would have been outta business long ago. hehe.

flappo77

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Do women not like to be dominant?? Posted: 7/7/2009 1:25:17 AM
I like a dominant woman myself. However, not all women are as submissive as you might think. I notice a lot of younger women, under 25, seem to be having their way with a lot of guys. However, that might also be the reason why lots of young, successful guys lose their attraction for younger women. Not sure. In any case I think MOST women want a strong male as a mate. Not necessarily a dominant or aggressive man, but someone strong. Now whether this is related to our perspective if it seeming as though they seek dominance or overlordship is probably a better approach at this question.

flappo77

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A question for you serious-minded men... Posted: 7/6/2009 12:16:39 AM
A woman with classic intelligence is a big turn on! By classic intelligence I mean she is more intelligent than the substance she reads. She formulates her own theories and conclusions, she can read people, and wears a business dress.. ouch. One that carries a great conversation, knows good wine, knows how to shut me up at times lol... The biggest crush I have ever had was on a nutritionist. She was 10 years older, amazing to look at, very, very intelligent, and had a gigantic amount knowledge. I was always in awe of her and she know it lol. Didn't have a chance tho, especially since she only liked older guys. So intimidating might be a yes.... but i'm far more intimidated by a 23 year old playa bitcx only looking to play games... why? because she'll reject my intelligence lol.

flappo77

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I don't know what to think of my friends... Posted: 7/5/2009 11:50:28 PM
No offense but it is getting harder and harder to find a virgin aged 12-20, for both sexes. Yes, sex should be done with someone whom means something special to you; but lets face it, girls your age will probably think that is a joke, which means you'll likely be a loner for a very long time. Despite how negatively many readers might be viewing my post, I KNOW you have thought this same thing and this is why you're on here venting. You have no option, for the sake of keeping your standards, but to keep searching long and wide until you find the girl you're looking for. It might take a good while and much frustration, and possibly you might even come out empty handed, friend. But don't give up. Otherwise, there will be fewer of you left. B

flappo77

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Someone stop me..PLEASE Posted: 7/5/2009 11:39:42 PM
I will stop you by voting to delete this thread! why? This is a valid question. Going back to the post. I looked at your profile poster. You look attractive but your words do not seem to coincide well with how you're coming off on your post. You said you're easy going. Perhaps you need to change your profile a tad bit to show a more serious tone. This might help. Otherwise you will keep receiving flirts from guys that aren't as serious as you'd like for them to be. Another thing, worrying doesn't help any situation. EVER!

flappo77

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Astrology Posted: 7/5/2009 11:20:23 PM
2012 cometh Honestly, I do believe in Astrology, ESP, re-incarnation, prophets & psychics. Yet, I also believe in Physics, Chemistry, Biology, & Math. The greatest achievement of the natural sciences, as any of the top 10 of each field will tell you, is the uncertainty principle. There are at an infinitesimal level very, very fast particles on whom the natural forces governed by Physics are constantly acting. At this very small level you can see what might be called near perfect randomness being enacted by trillions of these particles and waves. Our best scientists use really good guesses based on the highest mathematics being programmed into the most powerful supercomputers. In the end they try to predict an outcome to a perfectly random set of situations based on observing and using hundreds, if not thousands of equations, each of which applies to only a small part of the scenario being observed. This, my friends, is not too dissimilar to astrology and its roots. The obvious differences are that one is light speed and miniature, the other is far slower yet gigantic. Free will itself might be the ancients' uncertainty to which they applied their principles. So yes, do not dismiss astrology so quickly. What do you have to lose?

flappo77

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Where are the decent men that are looking for more than just sex.... Posted: 7/5/2009 10:05:22 PM
Well, there are lots of men on plenty of fish NOT looking for sex. Just as there are lots of women on here that aren't looking for a Brad Pitt. These men will tell you that the problem is women in person versus women online. It seems women that they come across in person tend to be looser than the ones they meet on here. But also, the loose women still reject them. I've read them saying that a million times on here. Personally, I'm on here looking for something serious. Remember, just ignore those fools and delete them. But also on the flip side, what if no one messaged you at all.. ;)

flappo77

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Pathetic age for virgin? Posted: 6/8/2009 4:55:30 AM
Lol, sensitivity has some thing to do with it in most cases where a guy is over 30 and virgin. Before you come at me I didn't say that that is the ONLY reason. It seems that there are a lot of guys out there that are under 30 years of age, sensitive, and having a very difficult time getting dates because they're not "bad boys". Sure, don't get me wrong, lotsa nice guys get lucky and land a nice gal here and there too. But the bad boys don't seem having a difficult time being chased down by LOTS of women. Not too many chasing the nice guys. Of course SOME women turn around and bash men because they couldn't figure out why the bad boy the chased down wasn't such a true gentleman. Anyways, ahhhhh.... gotta go to work.

flappo77

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He is 32 and lives at home? Posted: 6/8/2009 3:26:49 AM
Honestly, I can't bullxshit you on this one. The guy isn't a loser he's just extremely lazy and probably can find many reasons to justify his laziness. Most people like this might get small spurts of enthusiasm to change their lives; but that dies down after a little while and they are back to zero. Most likely you will end up taking care of this guy... you will be the provider. If you think a guy like this is either: A-what you're looking for; if you want to be a mommy or want a lazy dominant man around. B-the best that you can do for yourself; in other words this is it, all the attractive guys turn out to be cheats/liars, other guys tend to be too stuffy, or still others tend to not be fun and relaxed as this guy. and you don't mind supporting him for the thrill of having him around. Then I say go for it knowing what you're getting yourself into. Then one day go to his parents home and punch them in the face. lol.

flappo77

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So is love a choice? Posted: 6/8/2009 3:14:00 AM
love is a choice. but like isn't. it is easy to love/like someone when things are really going great, relatively average, or a tad on the rough side. but can you love the person if they are in critical condition, if their looks have been damaged, if they were fired and you might have to loan them some cash? think of the worst case scenario... will you be there for them?

flappo77

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I know guys don't like to talk on the phone, but....texting??! Posted: 6/8/2009 3:07:56 AM
maybe it's easier for him to communicate his true feelings via texting. texting often eliminates the awkwardness of conversations for people that are a bit shy.

flappo77

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Megan B. Posted: 6/5/2009 1:21:06 PM
lol i did drink last night

flappo77

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Megan B. Posted: 6/5/2009 4:16:25 AM
i saw her first when I was just fourteen, friends of friends knew that of her I was keen, a large group of us once went on a trip, to the hills and woods of Penn near a strip, a clearance where we set up camp, then got high and drunk by wood fire and lamp, i massaged her feet and looked and beheld, she was asleep and and still my hands felt, her warmth in contrast to the air which was cold, then kissed her feet by this I knew I was sold, i passed out and awoke noon the next day, pretended that nothing happened and went away; At sixteen again I saw her at a show, 1993 at a concert by the Counting Crows, it rained on us and there she was, drenched and wild with a mighty buzz, her shirt was wet and her chest was nice, the breasts of a goddess were a lesser prize, her hair was dripping of rain, thin, and wet, she pulled it back and our eyes then met, i moved in for a kiss still awkward and young, she obliged me and added a twist of the tongue, her sister then pulled her aside and with a mere whisper, she blotted any hope that my intent would ever prosper; then soon afterwords her family left, to Oklahoma of all places-- emotional theft, for many years thereafter I heard of her not, I thought of her often she was so smart and hot; then on Decemember 31st of 1999, on the eve of the millennium I stood in a line, at Times Square in New York with several friends, then out of nowhere her older sister Kelly sends, a greeting to us from through the crowd, hugs and kisses and words spoken loud, then after a while I asked what became of Megan, and she looked at me as though she'd seen satan, "she's married now with two lovely children, Joey and Mike were the names they were given, and her husband Ryan is a football player, while she herself teaches school and sings in the choir"; Well that was that and I brought in the new age, with a bit of sadness for hope left its cage, my sweetheart from my youth was now completely gone, how funny life is when meaning and love are given a throne, and each servant comes in and worships this ruler, and rarely exits the room receiving its lover. --by me...

flappo77

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Should I just F**k him or try to date him? Posted: 6/5/2009 2:48:18 AM
I have to agree with the person who posted just ahead of me... you should know a guy for a little while before having sex. He might be married, have std's, or maybe he's a sociopath. you need to be careful.

flappo77

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smell of semen...why do they smell the way they do? Posted: 6/5/2009 2:41:54 AM
uhm.... as far as I know if it smells like bleach you need to call a doctor PRONTO. it should not have a smell or if it does it should sorta resemble oatmeal... just remember that next time you're eating oatmeal. lol

flappo77

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When eating pu$$y Posted: 6/5/2009 2:39:24 AM
ideally i would love to meet a woman that loves being pleased for hours on end. without any reciprocation for me. why? guess i'm a "pleaser".

flappo77

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Do men really like submissive women? Posted: 6/5/2009 2:35:21 AM
I sort of like a dominant woman. Dont get me wrong, I'm not looking for a dominatrix, but someone that likes being pampered... since i sorta like doing things like giving massages, and doing things for her to please her. But high maintenance women are unattractive.

flappo77

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Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus? Posted: 6/5/2009 2:12:23 AM
I've been performing that for a long time... but i have an oral fetish so between cunnilingus, analingus, and foot worship time i probably spend a good 2-3 hours of 'pleasing' my partner. of course the woman has to be into prolonged oral as well. b

flappo77

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Pathetic age for virgin? Posted: 6/5/2009 1:07:32 AM
14? i don't buy the crap about women wanting sensitive guys... so tell the truth and give an age number, not some obscure explanation. Why am I asking this.. lol I'm 32 and grew up around Baltimore... uhhhh i'm no virgin. just wondering.

flappo77

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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral Posted: 6/5/2009 12:51:09 AM
Not to sound too nasty... but french kissing the anus and giving it a wet tongue bath and then, eeeeeasing into it with your wet finger while you move back to pleasuring her vagina with your mouth might be better. Sometimes asking and slightly insisting might might help as well.

flappo77

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 3/15/2009 11:51:46 PM
its a sad, sad thing. i've tried it at a time when i wasn't able to date at all. in the end the best solution is just to rough it out and cry if you have to. but let it leave your system completely before trying to move on with life.

flappo77

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ears anyone? Posted: 3/11/2009 8:39:03 AM
LOL I have a thing for ears... not in a sexual way, mind you.... but there is something comforting about rubbing someone's ear. Even when my kids were little and would snuggle up to me, I'd rub their ear and we'd both fall asleep. I really couldn't tell ya why as I have no idea. I know as a kid I had a stuffed animal that had silky ears and I'd always "fondle" the ear when I drifted off to sleep so maybe that has something to do with it? what about them is the draw tho? I'm quite curious. I am not asking in the sex forum because this isn't sexual. Indeed it might be something women are more likely to do than men it seems to me.

flappo77

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ears anyone? Posted: 3/10/2009 11:28:58 PM
Do any ladies get a kick out of rubbing/fondling ears? if so why? because they're soft, warm, sort of unusual looking,...? Please explain. Personally i have very generous ears..if ya get my drift. met a gal that couldn't get enough of them for whatever reason. thought i would ask to see if there were others out there with similar mini-fetishes. anyways, hope to hear from yas.

flappo77

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if he doesn't orgasm Posted: 2/26/2009 10:54:40 AM
Maybe this is what he's looking for. He's obviously attracted to you and is probably willing to make sure you are as satisfied as possible. If you are contemplating leaving him because he's not peaking, even with all that he's ultimately doing for you, I believe that will end up being much more of a selfish move on your part. If you like him and he likes you and he's happy, and you're being pleased....it's really not a bad deal!

flappo77

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BIG FEET on women Posted: 2/26/2009 10:45:42 AM
I share the foot fetish thing.... love em. but i can't say i love movies to the point where they influence me that much. f

flappo77

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submissive guy in the bedroom. Posted: 2/25/2009 10:32:36 PM
mr.serpent ** shit shit shit shit shit **...

flappo77

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Sleeping with your hand on partner's privates (or vice versa) Posted: 2/25/2009 9:40:19 PM
I find it odd. but as long as you enjoy it keep it up ... uhm i mean have fun with it.... hold on rephrase.... do whatever makes you happy because it's what you guys enjoy.

flappo77

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Body vs. Looks Posted: 2/24/2009 2:25:33 PM
It's never one or the other. I can wait for both or walk and choose neither. Why would anyone date someone they weren't into? lol you do realize answering is an option.... this just a fun curiosity not an actual situation. we all know that in real life you have options so stating the obvious, frankly, is sorta blah!

flappo77

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Body vs. Looks Posted: 2/24/2009 12:36:09 PM
Ok ladies, just wondering which you prefer... a guy with the most amazing, chiseled, toned, body, but a but a really ugly face? Or a man with really great looks and hair and not fat but flabby and soft... lets say the second guy can hide a golf ball in his tummy fold. Remember, it's one or the other.

flappo77

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Is it normal to be sexually excited the majority of the day? Posted: 2/23/2009 6:37:29 PM
do porn and change your name to Guy de Porneaux. Seriously, it means you're very healthy but at the same time it might take a toll. Do you find yourself stalking anyone or hitting on a woman that you very well know is not interested? If not and you can control it I say have fun with it... the release will certainly be fun for you. b

flappo77

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Hot = Bad in Bed? Posted: 2/23/2009 5:17:36 PM
The men who truly believe this, should keep right on believing it. Since they’re likely to be rejected or dumped by the hot women anyway (I’m thinking they probably have been many times already), it would save time and trouble for everyone involved. a picture's worth a thousand words... but no pic on profile lol do the math.

flappo77

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why stop there?? Posted: 2/23/2009 3:49:47 PM
hey dcon, you said 5 hours of giving head and then you had to stop 'cause she had to pee? (heh heh) why stop then?? just tickle her behind the gee and milk that tasty piss into your mouth. the women i've done this with have told me afterwards they had wonderfully explosive orgasms, triggered by them hearing me slurping down their water. also, doing so has resulted in me getting as rock-hard as i did when i was 17. I believe that's called a golden muff dive. Look, I've gone 6 1/2 hours with a woman that literally had no other plans but receiving because that is the only way she climaxed. She was greedy but openminded, so she was cool. All I'll say is I'm hoping you're joking because golden muff dives generally tend to be done in the shower because it gets messy. I love this subject but I also know that you're treading waters that might be a turn off to women. f

flappo77

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Why do MEN love BITCHES ? Posted: 2/23/2009 1:21:16 PM
FORGET THESE FOOLS THAT ARE ANSWERING YOUR POSTS AND THIS IS THE FINAL ANSWER. The reason men like '**es' isn't because they're smart and confident, it isn't because they're attractive, it isn't because they're fun....why? Because not all 'es' are smart. Because not all 'es' are void of insecurities, aka false confidence. Because not all 'es' are attractive. Because not all 'es' are fun. Many 'es' are ignorant, insecure, unattractive, and full of drama. Does this mean I hate 'es'-- NO. Lol, I'm just Mr. Honesty shooting himself in the foot. Why then?? It's because they fit the profile of being a sexual object!!! That's it.** It's that simple, and no matter what any guy tells you... it all boils down to that.

flappo77

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Teased for liking bbw's Posted: 2/23/2009 1:12:34 PM
Because people need to tease other people because it helps them forget their own pathetic, miserable lives. Do what you want to do and lose the 'friends'...

flappo77

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A guy I am with wants me to spend the night Posted: 2/23/2009 1:07:27 PM
I agree with thunderscribe.... you sound like a 16 year old. If you want to see him go for it if you don't then, uhhhmmmmm don't. If you live under your parents' roof and there are some restrictions then live by those but not to the point where they decide who you date!!!!

flappo77

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BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 2/23/2009 12:22:35 PM
Well, its always worth a try. CBT is something that you probably wouldn't want to try. CBT means c0ck and ball torture. and it has nothing to do with roosters playing b-ball.

flappo77

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Do guys feel intimidated by a strong, independent woman? Posted: 2/22/2009 11:28:15 PM
Lol. Why not? Take the average guy... for every 10 women he asks out he might get 1 date. Then he has to go on multiple dates to get the one. This math will inevitably affect his attitude, confidence, and shape his game. So if he sees a corporate exec, hot biker chick, or astronaut he's going to automatically categorize them with the 9/10 that will reject him. Is it fear of rejection...sure is it male insecurity issues... why not. Can you blame him? No, because at least he's being honest with himself. Still, your question is very broad and you might want to tell us your story to get a better idearrrrrr of what you mean.

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