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 Author Thread: Here is my theory on why I am the ONLY one he has ever been faithful to
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Here is my theory on why I am the ONLY one he has ever been faithful to
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:59:56 AM
He cheated on you my dear whether you want to believe it or not.

Do you really expect him to come out and admit it? Of course he's gonna lie about it, he's a f**king cheater!!!!
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Wouldn't it be great...
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:57:33 AM
Wouldn't it be great if... 'we could end women's suffrage and put them all back in the kitchen with a baby in the gut where they belong...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Girlfriend's Ex Won't Leave Her Alone - Need Advice!
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:55:47 AM
I wouldn't let some ex cause me to go out of my way to get a new cell number.

If I was in your shoes I would tell the little pr|ck to back off or you are gonna kick his a$$. It's best to do it in person for effect and as an added bonus you can get the enjoyment of dominating another human being. Not to mention seeing the fear in your enemy's face that you put there can be quite rewarding.

Violence is not the best answer but it does get results...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 95 (view)
 
A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:50:18 AM
If a chick doesn't toss a leg (or at least get on her knees) by the third date, I'm gone...

Period, end of story...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
2 weeks into a great new relationship and you win the lottery, now what?
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:44:52 AM
Two weeks in to a relationship and I win some serious cash I'm kicking that beeehotch to the curb and heading to Thailand...

I figure I'll dump a nut in a buncha women, father some kids and then bail before they find me...

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Washington state importing convicted criminals
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:38:58 AM
It's a free country my dear, the state doesn't "allow" anyone to enter it's borders. The constitution does...

Not only that but you need not have such a shallow mind and think that all convicted "criminals" are bad people. There are A LOT of good people locked up in prison who shouldn't be.

Everyone deserves a second chance. Or are you one of those people who think we should lock everyone up who breaks the law and throw away the key? Oh wait, at least until someone you know or care about screws up then we should be lenient on them right?

Maybe if it happened to someone you cared about, you might give a crap instead of being a shallow-minded idiot.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 52 (view)
 
North end Singles
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:34:17 AM
Walks? Races? Softball? Pffft!!!

How about hottub parties and orgys? That would peak my interest...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Is there anyone out there that would date shorter men
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:32:47 AM
A lot of women also view their man as a fashion accessory like a handbag or jewelry. Generally they don't want anything to do with you if you don't look good standing next to each other at a party with her peers or in public.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Understanding how a guy thinks -- questions
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:26:04 AM
The fact of the matter is that he's tired of banging you when he can have a variety of a$$ at his disposal.

However, there are aspects of the relationship with you he desires like support, friendship, companionship etc. which he obviously can't get from these other women he's banging.

When it comes to sex with women, men want variety in their lives. Why drive the same old jalopy when you can have a new one in the garage every week?

Hope this helps...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
How far is too far for a relationship?
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:21:01 AM
For me it depends on how hot of a piece of a$$ she is. If she's smokin' and is willing to toss a leg for me to top off the night and reward me for my commute then I'll drive an hour just to get some pu$$y.

Good luck...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
A divorce order to allow kids to move from country??
Posted: 10/20/2009 9:16:48 AM
Technically, no judge should (or would) allow a woman to move her kids out of the country when the other parent is staying.

However, if the judge is a woman you can't count on them to be fair and rational in divorce and custody issues. Women are genetically predispositioned to be hyper-emotional and irrational and the system more than often backs them up just because they have vaginas between their legs and not franks and beans.

Until state legislators pull their head out of their a$$e$ there will never be any fairness in the court system for men when it involves child custody.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 270 (view)
 
Can you keep her happy without spending money?
Posted: 4/3/2009 11:33:25 AM

Wow.....I am gone a few weeks and the idiocy grew exponentially.

Apparently, I am a sugar daddy wanna be.
Sheesh, and here I thought I was merely a sensible boy, who lives within his means, plans for pitfalls, and refuses to expect a woman to support me. (This is also referred to as being a MAN.)

Sheesh,
Again. This isn't a RIGHT or WRONG issue! You simply can not expect a woman who requires a certain lifestyle to lower her standards for you!
Either step up to the plate as a man, and make the necessary changes, OR FIND A WOMAN WHO LIKE RAMEN NOODLES EVERY NIGHT!

Game.
Set.
Match.

p.s.

To the girl who called me a sugar daddy. (You aren't worth the effort to quote.)
Don't be hating on me because my BMW be shinin'


Dude don't let the almighty dollar take the place of your undersized penis.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Help me communicate how special she is to me
Posted: 3/23/2009 9:52:58 AM

Update:
Looks like it's over. She's backing out of seeking professional help, and I won't date her anymore without it. Just too much irrationality for my nerdy little brain to handle. Thank you all for your support & ideas.


Amen!
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
How to forget
Posted: 3/22/2009 2:00:54 PM
Go get yourself a nasty little whore who will toss a leg for you on demand. Nothing better than knocking fir to help you get over the ex.

Just don't fall in love with her. Use her for a piece of a$$ and that's it. Concentrate on your children, career etc and don't waste your time on another dream-killer until you are ready.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Could you live with clone of yourself?
Posted: 3/22/2009 1:22:26 PM
I personally don't like selfish and rude a$$holes who think the world revolves around them so the answer is an emphatic NO!
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Help me communicate how special she is to me
Posted: 3/22/2009 1:14:11 PM
Get rid of her. She's a needy attention whore. If your love and dedication isn't enough, nothing ever will be.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Dropping your number to women
Posted: 2/18/2009 11:20:28 PM
I don't drop the digits in the first email but I certainly don't do the email thing for more than a week or so before I try to move things into phone conversations or a meeting.

The majority of women I meet online don't give a s**t about wasting a guy's time so I cut them off in the first week if I haven't talked to them on the phone or met them in a coffee shop or neighborhood pub. You can spend a month sending emails back and forth sharing info about each other that can be handled in a 15 minute phone or face-to-face conversation so don't expect me to waste my time on a bunch of typing.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 45 (view)
 
The last turkey in the shop question
Posted: 2/18/2009 11:08:11 PM
New people are coming online daily. Keep the profile up and keep rockin' it if you are still single and looking.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 274 (view)
 
Welfare ?
Posted: 2/18/2009 11:01:13 PM
The welfare system is exploited by many, but not all. S**t happens and sometimes people need to get help from a system they funded with their tax dollars. Sometimes people have their primary breadwinner get into an accident and die and all of a sudden a housewife with no career is left to fend for herself and her children. I've known some people in these sorts of situations and they took advantage of the help and got an education and fixed their situation to where they don't need gov't assistance any more.

I'm tired of people calling it "sponging" when it's far from that for many people. Go kick rocks and stop judging things you know nothing about.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Men that have been single for a long time are looking for mostly intimate encounters!
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:51:53 PM
Not many things can make guys run away faster than women who think they got us figured out like we're a school of fish darting in the same direction in perfect unison... *sigh*
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 64 (view)
 
who should do the calling?
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:37:51 PM
I'm all about gender equality, for the most part.

Call him and if he doesn't call back consider it his loss and move on.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Intentional Relationships
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:33:12 PM
You are moving way too fast. You have only known him a few weeks, you should not be introducing each other to your children until you have been dating a few months at the VERY LEAST. 6 times in a few weeks? WHOA NELLY!!!

Slow it down a bit g/f geezus...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 39 (view)
 
What do I owe this girl?
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:25:41 PM
Just don't contact her anymore. She might contact you and THEN you can tell her you are "meh." If she doesn't contact you then no harm, no foul...

You only went out twice, big deal. You don't owe each other s**t at this point.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 107 (view)
 
What is the best way to handle it if a date passes gas?
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:20:25 PM
Oh just laugh it off next time. S**t happens sometimes. Literally...
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 210 (view)
 
Anyone Ever Been To One of Those BBW Parties?
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:17:12 PM
A friend of mine tried to go to one of these gatherings and he was stopped at the door by his town's Fire Marshall. The FM told him "you can't go in there, the facility is at it's capacity. Any more people would be unsafe in the event of a fire."

My buddy said to the FM "but I only see a few people in there."

The FM said. "Exactly..."

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Dating someone who still signs on to POF
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:03:15 PM
Don't stop fishing until you've caught your limit! Meaning don't stop looking until you are sure that you BOTH want to be exclusive to each other. "Interested" doesn't mean exclusive, he just wants to get to know you better. Keep your options open like he is.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
on the verge of a broken heart
Posted: 2/18/2009 8:29:38 PM
Get rid of her plain and simple.

If the shoe was on the other foot and you were talking with an old flame she'd shit a brick. Dump her and move on!
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Am i being too stubborn???
Posted: 2/18/2009 8:22:22 PM
I would go get professional help instead of asking strangers on the internet for advice. Not that you can't get good advice here, it's just that your situation is quite complex considering that your pops could pass away in less than a year and you have a child to also think about.

You don't have to be f'd up in the head to get counseling. It's like going to the dentist except it's a check-up for your brain. Just make sure you get a therapist that will challenge you and tell you things about yourself you don't want to hear. Don't get one that will stroke your ego, feed you cookies and milk and just sit there staring at you while you ramble on about your problems. Those kind can be good for some people but in your situation I believe you need to be engaged in your sessions instead of just talking into someone's ear.

Best of luck to you and your family.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Clear intent and experience
Posted: 2/18/2009 8:14:41 PM
I don't go looking for relationships with women, only for friendships. I feel that a relationship will blossom from the friendship if it's meant to be and we click in that way. If not, I still got a friend in them no matter what and I like that school of thought.

I don't pray to God because he's not real. I heard over and over and over that hurricane Katrina was part of "God's plan" and I'm thinking if he is real then I would like him to leave me out of his plans and I'd like to make my own plans tyvm.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
What if you know the guy wants something different to you?
Posted: 2/18/2009 8:06:58 PM
Don't compromise when it comes to what you want in a relationship otherwise when it ends you will feel like a dumbass. And yes, it WILL end.

Stay true to yourself, let him know what you want. If he doesn't want that then leave him and move on. There are POF out there so no sense wasting your time on someone like that.

Good luck.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Do I ask him to reconsider or just let it go?
Posted: 2/18/2009 7:54:23 PM
It's not like he's gonna be tapping anything over there so if you really want him, write him all the time, email him, send him care packages and photos and let him know you are waiting for him to come home. Make sure he knows that before he deploys.

When he comes back he'll realize that not every military wife/gf is a cheating whore like his was and you'll be well on your way to breaking down any walls he might have up over it.

Good luck.
 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Hygiene and intimacy (sexual)
Posted: 2/18/2009 7:42:35 PM
Showering before you bump fuzzies isn't necessary really. Guys just gotta make sure the beav is up to snuff before you go winking at it.

I just do the smell test in a subtle way without letting my partner know. I put a finger in for a scent sample then I whiff it in front of my nose real quick without her noticing. That can be done quite easily if you are concentrating on her breasts at that particular moment.

If it smells like the shithouse door on a tuna boat then no oral for her!

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Doin it outside!!
Posted: 2/18/2009 7:17:14 PM
Say yes and forget about the neighbors. If you can....

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 62 (view)
 
WHAT IS SHE DOING?
Posted: 2/18/2009 3:34:02 PM
Just use her for a piece of a$$ and "friend" until you find what you want. Just don't tell her that you are still looking, otherwise you will wake up one morning with blood-soaked sheets and your penis laying in a field somewhere.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 262 (view)
 
What is wrong with men?
Posted: 2/18/2009 3:30:27 PM
They just want to bang you because it would be insane for someone in their 40's to expect anything more from someone under 25 because you generally don't know WTF life is all about or what you want to do with it until then.

However, there are plenty of them dumb enough to think they have a good chance at having a meaningful, lasting relationship with someone under 25.

When I do searches for women for either an LTR or an FWB I set the age filters at 25-40. I have met women under 25 for FWB's but as soon as they opened their mouths my boner went missing in action in a hurry. If I could've ball-gagged them until I busted a nut and kicked them out the door it would have worked out just fine. Needless to say I banged them a few times and couldn't stand it any longer so I moved on.

Older women for any sort of relationship are much better. Less drama and more experience.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
how much time
Posted: 2/18/2009 3:06:58 PM
The important thing is to maintain your own identity by doing things with your friends, family or by yourself and not relying on each other to fill each other's time.

Hanging out with your m8 24/7 is never a good thing. Have your own lives that are seperate from your lives as a couple.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Men poaching other men's wives/girlfriends
Posted: 2/14/2009 3:36:37 PM
I don't pursue married or women that are dating but if they come after me then I'm all over it.

Bottom line, if they come to me I'm hitting it but I don't pursue them actively myself.

I figure if she's coming after me it's fair game because she's gonna get it somewhere, why not me? I'm only referring to sexual relations btw. I would NEVER have a relationship with someone who I met while she was married or had a b/f. That's dumb. That's like buying a car after the salesman tells you "it breaks down once in a while you gotta keep an eye on it."

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 132 (view)
 
how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman?
Posted: 2/12/2009 11:00:24 PM
It's only natural, if she's freaked out by it too bad. There's nothing you can do about it, nor should you if there was.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 54 (view)
 
What is it exactly about pulling hair??
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:59:11 PM
They like it when a man takes charge and they like exploring their submissive side. Not only that but the nerve-endings in your head are ultra-sensitive.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Physical attraction progresses as age does?
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:57:43 PM
Older women know how to f**k, younger women do not. That's why...

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Awkward One Night Stand
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:55:31 PM
That's what I do with women that I consider "last calls" for the evening. Meaning they are not attractive enough for me to pursue earlier in the evening and I grab one to go when the place is shutting down and no other options are available. He just wanted to bust a nut. Women's mouths are all the same when it comes to a BJ. He wasn't attracted to you enough to bang you, he just wanted to deposit a load in your mouth and then go home.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Spending the night
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:51:01 PM
Only if invited but if we f**k I'm gonna take a nap for sure before I drive home. My girl blew me in the parking lot at the movie theater once and after I busted a nut I tried to drive and almost crashed my car. You need some recovery time for f**k's sake...

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 123 (view)
 
He wont put out.........
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:49:04 PM
Tell him you want him to bang you NOW. If he balks at that there is something wrong with him and you should dump that dumbass.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Women licking a guy below his balls...
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:47:24 PM
It's bloody awesome when a chick does that. Most guys think that way. My girl tries to stick her tongue up my butt and it turns me on like you wouldn't believe. When she told me she wanted to do that I thought "F**K THAT!!!" but it's bloody awesome.

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Feeling sexual tension before the first kiss?
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:45:50 PM
Dude, take things one day at a time. If you look to far in the future you will be disappointed 99.9% of the time when it doesn't work out the way you dreamed.

Bang the crap out of her and then take it from there...

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
A guy I am with wants me to spend the night
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:44:30 PM
Stop acting like a teenage and letting your parents control you.

Grow up and go spend the night at his house and if they get pissed tell them to f**k off!

Unless they are rich and threaten to cut you off, then lie lie lie....

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
face stubble and sex... a way to make it softer?
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:42:33 PM
Don't worry bro if you are doing it properly she shouldn't care about the stubble. If she does then oh well...

Don't sweat it...

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 170 (view)
 
Men over 30, unmarried no children
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:41:39 PM
It shows that he is a VERY SMART man for not getting married and having children. VERY VERY SMART... Like Einstein...

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 328 (view)
 
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:40:32 PM
When we got a boner we tend to think with the wrong head. After we bust a nut then our reasoning comes back and we're like "DOH!!!"

 worldclassman
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Why would a guy turn down a fuck buddy?
Posted: 2/12/2009 10:39:19 PM
He's a dumbass. I never turn down a f**k buddy...

 
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