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Wings on my butt

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/21/2009 1:54:50 PM
: the lady very clearly told me that she was dissapointed that I had NOT gone further, i.e.: taken her right there in the bushes. She was UPSET that I had not made a pass at her. Is that just about as clear as a crisp, cold Canadian morn? Sorry but no there was nothing clear there at all hun. I went back and read your post again and you say her text message to you said "Next day, she emails me to tell me how things "did not work out." This is what you are telling us her email message said. Where out of that do you get that she was upset at you for not making a pass at her? And why do you seem so incredibly upset about all this? Is that just about as clear as a crisp, cold Canadian morn? No I am afraid it is not as Next day, she emails me to tell me how things "did not work out." does not in any way equal She was UPSET that I had not made a pass at her. You tell us that apparently she was infuriated but I honestly do not see how that is apparent. Why do you believe she was infuriated from an email telling you that things did not work out. I am open to admitting when I am wrong , but from what you have told us you are just guessing that she was upset at you for not knocking boots with her. I am not picking on you or trying to bring you down hun but I am sorry you have not made yourself clear at all. I have read the post you made after I made mine and I don't see where all this anger and rage you are displaying is coming from?

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Whats it like being single over 30? Posted: 11/19/2009 8:57:08 PM
What's it like being single over thirty? It's FANTASTIC!! I feel like I have been unchained from a heavy,clumsy,unmovable and painful rock for many years now. I am free free free! Life is sweet.

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birthing stories!!! Posted: 11/19/2009 8:47:22 PM
You fell asleep! Lucky you! I would of gladly slit my own throat just to make the pain stop. No way was I going to fall asleep even though I was awake for over two days for two of my kids and the last one I was a little more lucky. She came much faster then the first two.Still though unimaginable pain.

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X miles away : Would be nice when viewing a profiles Posted: 11/19/2009 8:03:40 PM
Ok I have seen you do the splits half way but now I want to see you go all the way.

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couple arrested for not tipping.,, Posted: 11/19/2009 8:01:01 PM
I hate the fact that we are forced to tip in certain places. A tip is supposed to be a little something extra we give when we get good service. It is not supposed to be something that is expected. We should not be expected to pay the waiters and waitresses salary. I have worked at this in the past and I would never expect a customer to of tipped me. Of course it was always a nice thing to have a little bit of extra money, but never should it be expected.

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I am breaking up with BF Today! Had ENOUGH Posted: 11/19/2009 7:48:56 PM
Well hun better to break up with him as your boyfriend them divorce him as your husband. You have to do what you think is best. Looking back I should of broken up with my husband when he was still my boyfriend. It would of prevented years of pain and bitterness on both sides.It would also of prevented our children from having a ring side seat to it all.

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/19/2009 7:39:30 PM
Hello there.My only advice to you energymaster would be to stop assuming that the reason she did not want to see you again had anything to do with you not having sex with her. I don't why you think that she was infuriated at you for not having sex with her out of a text message saying that "did not work out". I think you should take her text at face value and just accept that for her it was just not going to work out. Honestly I really don't think it had anything to do with you not having sex with her.

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Heavier Americans Push Back on Health Debate Posted: 11/10/2009 3:32:00 AM
Oh man what's next a pot head coming in to preach to others about not doing drugs. Enough with the hypocrisy already. I think perhaps you are not eating enough of that salad and choosing chocolate cake far more. I think you also need to get out and walk more as you are still very much overweight. If you are going to come in here and preach to others then you better have clean hands when you do so otherwise you come off looking like a darn fool. I assume you have heard of glass houses?

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Heavier Americans Push Back on Health Debate Posted: 11/9/2009 3:28:56 PM
Ok I have read this thread and was only interested in it because of the op. I was going to try to be diplomatic and kind, but why should I? She hasn't.Oh my flipping God zenbeth who are YOU to preach to anyone about being fat!! Ahhh hello! Your fat! Even from just a face shot a double chin and chubby face is visible. How delusional are you to complain about fat people WHEN YOU ARE FAT! Fit people don't have double chins.

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Is it bad to compramise our values? Posted: 10/22/2009 9:24:13 AM
Everyone lies. There is no denying that.If you try to deny that you are lying to yourself. Do you tell your kids about Santa leaving gift for them or the Easter bunny leaving chocolate? Then you are a liar. Do you tell your kids the needle will not hurt? Then you are a liar. There are many shades of Grey as far as lies are concerned. Telling your kids about Santa is in no way the same as robbing a bank and lying about where you got the money, or having an affair on your wife and lying to her about it.

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2 weeks into a great new relationship and you win the lottery, now what? Posted: 10/20/2009 1:37:44 PM
Well first of all if it's only two weeks into a relationship then legally they don't have any say in what you do with your money,so why you would see a lawyer I really don't know?. You have not even dated them a month yet so they have no right to expect anything from that money. Should I win money at this point in my life when I have no legal ties to any man then the money is mine, end of story!

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How Do You Feel About The Other Person In A Affair? Posted: 10/20/2009 10:09:26 AM
I hope that someday someone will screw your wife behind you back.

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Dating a person with mental illness scare u? Posted: 10/19/2009 10:56:59 PM
You people are the most uncompassionate, uneducated, and unbelievably stupid bunch of asseholes I have ever come across. You all deserve the looser that would pick any of you for a significant other. Shame on all of you. PATHETIC !!! Your kinda lumping everyone in together there are you not hun? I have read several post so far that say they would date someone with a mental illness seeing as mental illnesses are as varied as physical illnesses. Now would I? Sure, but I guess it would depend on the severity of their illness and if they were taking their medication and dealing with it as they should. Having suffered in the past with my last child with really bad post partum depression then I guess at one time I was mentally ill so I would not want someone to hold that against me. It was a very black time in my life but eventually with help and medication I came out of it. Mental illness is also genetic do you want your future children being a paranoid psychoprenic? I understand it's a sad disease and this is suupposed tobe a dating site. Be careful who you fall in love with. goodluck finding Mr or miss wright is all im sayin Well seeing as you have this view point then prior to creating any children with anyone then I suggest you get a full detailed background on their families medical histories. Does breast cancer run in their family?diabetes? Parkinson? heart disease? Strokes?Epilepsy? etc... Better be on the safe side and go for genetic counseling to check you both out to see if you carry and genetic conditions.

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leaving someone that has a kid thats not yours?? Posted: 10/19/2009 10:02:14 PM
a woman who has a kid and two fathers ... now there's a slut Well then I guess my mother is a real slut. My oldest sister has a different biological father. He was killed by a drunk driver when my mom was 8 months pregnant with my sister. Be careful of who you brand a slut because you know what? Life happens. It's not always a straight and narrow path. As for the topic at hand, well this kind of situation is why I doubt very much I will ever marry again, and if I do it will only be after all my children have grown and left the nest. The same goes for his kids as well. It's possible for me to have another kid or two at my age still, but I don't want anymore so there will be only one father for all my kids.

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What we women do for a date.. Posted: 10/19/2009 6:04:20 PM
I have never understood why women started hot waxing their private areas. Sure keep it neat and trimmed, but ripping out hair on very delicate areas!!! Why in Gods name do such a thing?Granted I have very little hair in that area to begin with, or anywhere on my body, save for my head,but ripping our your pubic hair! That is just insane. Thanks but I like looking like an actual woman and not a 9 year old little girl.

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would you date a guy who doesn't believe in education-content with his job Posted: 10/19/2009 5:53:06 PM
He is working, self sufficient,making his own money and paying his own bills. So I guess I don't see what the problem here with this man is.

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could you date someone with a child. Posted: 10/19/2009 1:16:33 PM
he's 25, he was with a girl through out high school. i guess she cheated on him they broke up when he was 21. and he found out he was a dad. he has the kid every other weekend. but still... i explained to him i couldnt do it. too much baggage. so its done. thanks for the advice guys!!! That's fine if you don't want to date someone with children. If it's not a situation you are interested in then please don't get involved in it.I have to say however that I wonder why the fact that someone has children deters them from "dating" them though. People get their children way to involved in their dating lives way to quickly now. I have been divorced for well over a year and not even once have my children met one person I have dated. Why would I want my dates to meet my children or why should I meet theirs? We are only dating after all, not getting married so why should he have anything at all to do with my kids or me with his? Anyway as I said if it's something you are not interested in then that's fine. It's your life after all. I have to say though stop thinking about dating someone with a child as if you are going to be mothering that child. The child already has a mother and does not need another. Children should be kept completely and 100% separate from their parents dating lives until things get very serious. Now as far as I am concerned the very earliest someone you are dating should meet your kids,or you theirs, is 6 months, but even for me that would be too soon. I am certainly not going to marry someone after so short a period so for me I would have to date someone seriously and monogamously for a year at least and we would have to be serious about marriage. I am not looking for a father for my children because they already have one. If I ever get married one day all I expect of him is to be fair, decent, kind and compassionate towards my children. They neither need, nor do they want another man trying to act like their daddy.

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could you date someone with a child. Posted: 10/18/2009 8:26:54 PM
yes, I am a virgin by choice (No woman has caught my interest yet/I'm extremely picky). Snickers Yeah right I really believe that,and if you truly are a virgin in this day and age at 22 years old then you are not picky you are pathetic.

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 10/18/2009 6:54:07 PM
calling it a "double standard" means nothing Actually yes it does mean something. It means that it is unfair. It is unfair in the same way that men are expected to pick up the dating tab all the time and if he doesn't he will not get dates. We can do better then this in our society. We should root out these outdated and old fashioned useless ideas from the stubborn minds of the masses.

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 10/18/2009 5:55:55 PM
For me if I end-up in bed and having sex on the first Date. It tells me she's done this many times and has been ridden better then the Public Bus. The same thing is true about you as well then seeing as you jumped into bed with her as well. Men like to complain about double standards that are not in their favor, but the truth is there are far more double standards that are beneficial to men then there are for women.

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could you date someone with a child. Posted: 10/18/2009 4:33:00 PM
Yes I could date someone with a child.It would be rather hypocritical of me to say no when I have children myself. Anyway I am not looking for a relationship so whether or not a man has kids is completely irrelevant to me.Anyway you could always tell him that dating someone with a child is making you nervous and that you would like to keep your dating life and his child separate for at least six months. I see no reason why you or anyone should meet anyones children before that anyway. I'd have to question their...mental state if they already have kids at such a young age. Lol their mental state? Lmfao!! What does that have to do with anything. Life happens. We do stupid things at any age, but we do even more of them when we are young. His mental state was that he was horny didn't use a condom or his girl didn't use birth control and a child resulted. You just lucked out that you don't have a kid yet because I am completely sure that you are not a virgin and that you have not used a condom every single time you have had sex.

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Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 10/18/2009 4:30:16 PM
Yes if you have sex on the first date or even second then this will almost always kill any chance of their being a relationship come out of it. Like it or not women who have sex to quickly and easily are still looked down upon. Many men will deny this, but it is still a double standard of our society.

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what do I do? Posted: 10/17/2009 5:27:56 PM
find hard evidence.. if you just say it with out anything that backs it up.. then he will probably say you are jealous. So, be a detectative for awhile..gather the evidence, build the case up then present it to him. :) This is very good advice. Unless you have actually evidence of what she is doing or saying then do not say anything. He will only turn against you and your friendship will in all likelihood be over. If you really feel you can't keep this to yourself then send him an anonymous email. If she is actually cheating after all then he should be made aware that his life is possibly in danger.

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Dating Women Posted: 10/17/2009 1:35:38 PM
Why you continued to date the first woman after,from what you say, seems to be a pathological liar, I just don't get. I think maybe you like drama my darlin. Now you say yourself that you were not even interested in the second woman so why did you keep contacting her when you already stated you were not attracted to her?As for the third well she was blatantly not interested and,unlike you, let you know that rather then stringing you along. I am actually not having any trouble understanding you at all. As I said you are in love with drama.You chase women who are obviously messed up in the head enough to lie about stupid and insignificant things for God only knows what reason.Again enter the drama king. You also chase women who you are not even interested in and then complain when they don't want anything to do with you.Your problem is not about misunderstanding women, it's about not wanting to acknowledge that you love all this drama you create in your life.

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Dating someone who doesn`t have children. Does it work for you? Posted: 9/29/2009 9:09:16 AM
After a few weeks I invited her to dinner so she could meet my daughter and she declined, You invited someone to meet your children after you had only known them a few week!! Omg since I have been divorced not one date has ever met my children. I only date casually but if I was dating seriously I would not let or invite someone to meet my kids after such a short period of time, neither would I want to meet his. Maybe when we hit the six month mark we would discuss meeting each others kids, but no sooner then that. Whenever I spoke about my daughter or mentioned that I was putting her through school her eyes glazed over. Most of us parents do not realize just how incredibly boring it is too other people to hear stories about our kids. I realize this so I don't do it. Some friends I know are some of those people who love to bore others with tales of their children, and when they do this my eyes glaze over and I am bored out of my skull.

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Are Women much more pickier/choosy than Men when it comes to Dating/Relationships? Posted: 9/27/2009 2:42:12 PM
Well a lot of times you see hot gorgeous women with average-looking guys. Once in awhile you see hot gorgeous women with ugly guys, and when you do it's almost a guarantee that he has a full bank account. The other times that you see hot gorgeous women with ugly guy is rare and the exception. It is not a lot it is uncommon, so if you are hoping to land a hot gorgeous women good luck with that because unless you make a great deal of money or you meet up with some crazy hot chick with severe self esteem issues then it's not going to happen.

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Are Women much more pickier/choosy than Men when it comes to Dating/Relationships? Posted: 9/27/2009 10:55:10 AM
Hey, just settle for someone you don't want and be happy with it because that **** is too good for you? The only thing I have to say is everyone wants a bargain but no one wants to be a bargain.

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Dad always told me, The woman chooses the man. Posted: 9/27/2009 7:06:46 AM
Men only really choose NOT to be with a woman if she is just too ugly or too crazy. So then I guess you do have some choice in the matter? If you don't find a woman attractive enough she could chase you all over and never get you because you would say no!Men have just as much say in who they end up with as women do as this poster acknowledges although he will vehemently deny having said it. People choose each other. No one can force another into a relationship if one is not willing as you pointed out yourself.

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Are Women much more pickier/choosy than Men when it comes to Dating/Relationships? Posted: 9/27/2009 7:00:58 AM
I have a feeling you have been chasing some woman far out of your league and this is why you experience so much rejection. Hot women want hot guys, not mr average body/looks. Go for what you can actually get and you will have a different result.

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Dad always told me, The woman chooses the man. Posted: 9/21/2009 7:46:58 AM
The woman always chooses the man. What a load of bullchit! So that means women, any woman, gets to choose any man she wants to be with and he has no choice? I say again bullchit! If that was true then Enrique Murciano would be in my bed right this very second.

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Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good? Posted: 9/21/2009 7:39:56 AM
Do you know what a woman who is a size 18 looks like wearing spanx? She looks like a size 18 woman wearing spanx. There is no real difference. The only difference can be compared to what your hair looks like before you brush it and after you brush it. You just look a little neater. So no real difference.

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Body Shapers, Pushup Bras, Tummy Tammers - Lying or looking good? Posted: 9/20/2009 1:35:30 PM
My pet peeve is when a I'm getting a woman naked and as her bra comes off, I see the bra is so thick that she only has about half of what I thought was there. Its kind of like going to a restaurant and getting a half empty plate. I then have to question all other premises I have made on the relationships status. Be thankful that you were able to get any woman into bed to begin with.

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Micheal Jackson's death a homicide Posted: 8/28/2009 11:31:29 PM
Do you think the doctor should be prosecuted for manslaughter? If you were speaking to me then you should of seen where I wrote that "yes the doctor was responsible:. He should be held accountable for his actions, however with drug addicts they are the ones ultimately responsible since if they stopped taking drugs then they would not die from drug over doses. Do you know why I will never die of a heroin or cocaine overdose? Because I don't do drugs. In the end that drug addicted pedophile is the reason he is dead.

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Birth Control Pills...PLEASE NEED PEOPLE OPINIONS Posted: 8/28/2009 11:22:00 PM
If my partner would do this I would dump him as fast as I possibly could then I would set up an appointment for an abortion as fast as I could.It is never ok to do something like messing with someones medication ever!

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Micheal Jackson's death a homicide Posted: 8/28/2009 11:19:44 PM
Micheal jackson was a drug addict and would of eventually died from his addictions. If this doctor had not given him the drugs then there was a line up of other doctors ready willing and able to give him any drug he wanted. While this doctor is responsible for giving him these drugs, Micheal jackson was the one ultimately responsible. If he had gone to rehab and gotten himself clean he would not of died this way. In the end he was responsible for his own death. I can't say that I feel any sadness over the death of a pedophile.

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Women and The Mention of Their Kids Posted: 8/1/2009 12:09:26 PM
I have never understood putting your kids before your partner? So your partner gets the sh!ty end of the stick all the time? So no matter what is going on their needs are not top priority? So in other words those who put their kids first ALL THE TIME do so even if their partners just had a parent die, but little mary anne wants to go to the water park so they just leave their partners in a crying mess on the floor because little miss princess wants something? Nothing is ever top priority in our lives all of the time and nothing ever should be top priority all the time, kids included. Top priority changes based on the circumstances. If my kids TRULY need me I will be there for them and they know that,but if I want to go out on a saturday night I will go and no temper tantrum will stop me. It does a child good to be away from you every once in awhile. It will not hurt a child,and will in fact help a child to gain a little independance. I have always believed that those who talk about their kids non stop and have to tell you that their kids are top priority don't really mean it at all. They are just saying that to try to convince themselves because I have seen it happen more then once where a hot guy, or a pretty girl was in their path and their kids became forgotten.

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Did you keep your wedding photos? Posted: 7/30/2009 6:24:55 PM
I kept them so my kids can look at them and know that at one time their mom and dad loved each other,plus I confess I kept them also because I loved the way I looked that day.When my kids are all gone I will either throw out the ones of me and my ex husband or give them to my children.

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Childless regrets? Posted: 7/30/2009 12:45:19 PM
if anyone is having regrets for not having kids ill help you out i have 3 sons, all play house league hockey, the two oldest also play highschool hockey ill loan you my fantastic sons for a short period of time, like just till you pay the regestration fees cant pass up on a deal like that, can you? kids are great no regrets here for having them thats forsure Kids may be great for YOU but not everyone is cut out to have them. Not everyone considers what you think to be great, to be great for them. They may find your life boring and uneventful just as you may find their lives boring and uneventful. All I know is that I have kids, I love them and would not trade them, but I also know friends who are childless by choice and they love their lives. They would not trade my life with kids for theirs with none for all the money in the world. I must confess that their have been days that I see their point.

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Childless regrets? Posted: 7/29/2009 2:26:34 PM
I would never say that I regret my decision to have my children however I do not deny casting a coveting eye at my childless friends who got to live their lives,up to this point, child free. They got to go to university,meet new people,get involved in different groups and sports,date different people,travel,build up their chosen career, all while I was elbow deep in poop,pee and vomit. The thing is they may still be childless at our age but most are getting married or are already married and thinking of starting a family now. As I said I don't regret my kids, but I greatly regret having them too young. I also have a few friends who have no desire to ever have kids to the point of tubiligations and vasectomies. They have no regrets and enjoy their lives very much. If you don't feel the need or drive to become a mother then please don't just to satisfy a biological urge. If the urge is not also an emotional urge then having them for the sake of a ticking clock is just not right.

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Partner to share which bills? Posted: 7/27/2009 4:39:28 PM
Why would you pay part of her mortgage? You would be putting money into her buying a house that if you split up you get nothing out of. Renting is entirely different. If you rent together neither gets to keep the property.Instead why not take over certain bills entirely like electricity,phone and cable and contribute half towards food and other necessary household items.

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Are there women out there who prefer big men (overweight) Posted: 7/27/2009 12:13:45 PM
Where did this come from? This comment is very volitile and harsh especially when the OP never mentioned anything about not being attracted to larger women and was simply interested if women in general were attracted to larger men..... Actually it wasn't a general question as the op is a bbw/bhm. He was asking for himself and the "but I am not attracted to fat women" was coming. It is the anthem of the fat man.

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Are there women out there who prefer big men (overweight) Posted: 7/27/2009 12:04:29 PM
I can only speak for myself and no I don't find myself attracted to fat men. Perhaps go after fat women and you will have a better chance at finding someone. What's that you say? You are not attracted to fat women? Yet you expect fit women to be attracted to you. I smell hypocrisy and it smells like Macdonalds. BLECH!!!!!!

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Starting a family later in life. Posted: 7/27/2009 11:48:44 AM
As someone who had children very early in life I can understand the mentality of those who put it off. When you have kids very young you miss out on everything that you should be experiencing. I never had the chance to go to college or university. I never had the chance to take what I learned in school and build up a career. I was not able to have the chance to travel and experience new things.All I have been since I was 19 years old has been a mom and while I love my children very much and would not trade them for anything,I wish I had waited till I was much older to have them. When you wait until you are much older to have kids you are far more settled are far more prepared both financially and emotionally. If I were to have a child now I would be a better mother then I was at 19.While the risk for both mother and baby may increase, the increase is only marginal not dramatic,and anyone can have a baby with problems at any age. Any woman no matter how young can have problems with pregnancy and childbirth. You will of course have a dramatic drop in your fertility after 35 but the rate of genetic disorders increasing is not dramatic. As far as these so called studies that claim that your chance of fathering a autistic or a child with severe psychiatric disorders after 40 increase,well all I have to say to that, show me the studies because no one is sure where autisim comes from and most serious psychiatric disorders are inherited so no matter what age you are you have an equal chance of passing them on to your offspring.

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Starting a family later in life. Posted: 7/24/2009 8:10:31 PM
It is so easy for a man to say "slow down and don't rush kids". You have up until the day you die to make a child. Women don't have that luxury.

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is it unreasonable to ask him to pay? Posted: 7/20/2009 7:29:49 AM
You really should find a man who lives closer to you. No matter what you feel for this man he can't be worth all of the money and aggravation. You said yourself you can't afford this so you are left with one option,dump him and find a man who lives near you. If you start letting a man pay for such big extravagant things such as holidays and everything that goes with it, then you start losing yourself to him. Please don't do that.

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Msg: 45 (view)

Nice guys and gal pals Posted: 7/19/2009 11:57:08 AM
I would have to ask you why are pretending to be these womens friends when you know full well that you want more then friendship from them?If someone offers you friendship and you don't want it,or you want more, then let them know. Don't be deceptive and conniving about accepting friendship but not really wanting it.

wings on my butt

Joined: 2/9/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

small pool of fickle-seeming women- what now? Posted: 7/13/2009 2:11:16 AM
I am just wondering what else might be behind the lousy luck? I really don't know. I don't know too much about what lesbians are looking for but you would think they would not be so outrageous and delusional with their rigid list of requirements as most men tend to be. I could be wrong about lesbians though so I really don't know. I looked at ur profile and i couldnt go past the pics . Seeing as she is not into men then I am sure she can't get past your pictures either.

wings on my butt

Joined: 2/9/2009

Msg: 43 (view)

Women and The Mention of Their Kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:04:24 PM
I hardly think that there are roaming bands of men out there who expect you to leave your child in the back yard with a broken leg just so you can go out to dinner with him. I think what most people don't like about the "MY KIDS COME FIRST" brigade is that what they really mean is "you will be at my beck and call constantly but I will never make you a priority" or "I will leave at a moments notice or cancel a date because little matthew or kelly wants me to stay home and play tea party". Hire their favorite babysitter or allow them to have one friend sleep over while you go out on a date. Both of you will be better for it. Everyone, parents and non parents, get that when your child really needs you that you have to,and want to be there for them. However it will not harm a child,and will in fact help to foster independence, if you do go out and have your own life.No I don't mean leave the kids home alone without a babysitter and go out every single night all night long, I mean don't be afraid to go out friday or saturday night on a date or with friends for a few hours. My kids tried the temper tantrum routine to get me to stay home with them, but I went out anyway. Kids are little tyrants and if you let them go they will try and run your life.They know full well that if they call when I am out that there darn well better be an emergency or some stern discipline will be coming their way.

wings on my butt

Joined: 2/9/2009

Msg: 23 (view)

Women and The Mention of Their Kids Posted: 7/10/2009 2:00:15 AM
When women say they want a funny guy what we really mean is we want someone who is able to laugh. Too many times in life we run across boring,bitter, hateful,perpetually depressed men who never laugh at anything because they see no humor in anything. There is nothing worse then being around someone who never laughs or sees humor in anything. So I want someone to laugh with at things we mutually find amusing,not necessarily someone to make me laugh. You have to be able to see the funny things in life and to laugh at yourself sometimes otherwise you just end up one of those people who are such downers that they suck all the joy and fun out of any room they walk into.

wings on my butt

Joined: 2/9/2009

Msg: 181 (view)

Trophy Wives Posted: 7/9/2009 7:42:16 PM
Should beautiful women be allowed to escape poverty on looks alone? Well if they truly don't have the brains and the ability to be able to crawl out of poverty on their own , then perhaps to them legal prostitution is the way out. Is this merely confirmation that, for many women, fairy tales can come true? I hardly think it is any woman's fairy tale to have to be tied to a man, who if she had a choice, she would never choose in a million years. It is no woman's fantasy to have to act and put on a show every single second of every day to try to make that undesired and unwanted man believe that even if he has nothing she still would of chosen him. These men who want the arm candy have allowed themselves to be tricked into believing that this 22 year old woman truly wants them. In reality if she could find a hot young 22 year old rich guy she would dump the old saggy and wrinkled old rich guy in a second. Anyway leave people to their delusions if it brings them what they want.

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