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 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 140 (view)
 
The real problem with relationships today.
Posted: 9/3/2009 9:19:58 AM
Ok.... another entry and possibly the "root" cause imho.

Communication.

Doesn't it ALL come down to that?

Is that not the Hub of the broken wheel?

Put it this way. Go have a look at all of the threads here in the relationship threads and tell me if you can't point to communication issues as the problem in almost every thread listed. Justifying cheating... hmm sounds like a communication problem.

Why women want us to come to them... uhh communication?

Did I jump to the wrong conclusion?... communication issues.

It is all about how we communicate. Be it that we don't... won't... believe we can't... think we shouldn't. Always the core aka root of the problem can be pointed towards communication issues.

Guess that means this thread is done, and there will be no reason to post anything anymore on the relationship threads....
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
What someone does that really turn you off?
Posted: 9/3/2009 9:02:53 AM
To turn me OFF... all you have to do is;

Lie

Give me the truth, no matter how gruesome, difficult, odd, or disturbing it may be. I can handle the truth.

Lie to me,and you have lost me completely.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Rules
Posted: 9/2/2009 3:02:03 PM
I need to clear my throat before I say this....

arrgghhhcccouuugghhhhacckkkk

BULLCHIT.... I CALL BULLCHIT

No rules my As$SHOLE!!!!!!!!!

I don't even for a second believe anyone who has posted in here about no rules. Everyone has certain rules they apply or have had applied to them. Fuk, you just have to read the damn forums to know that there are rules.

Example: Why does the Idgit keep texting me... I mean really, I got better things to do than have his snivelling arse all over me... I am INDEPENDANT.... whhaaa blaahh

Rules are there to stay.

Trust me!
(rule #1 never trust someone who says trust me)
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How do you get over the hump of friendship, and avoid being timid?
Posted: 9/2/2009 7:54:02 AM
You get over humping your friends by not humping them to begin with... I mean really. Unless your friend is Sally the camel... and you can have 5 humps with her.

I am going to hump over to a better thread my friends.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 81 (view)
 
What someone does that really turns you on?
Posted: 9/2/2009 6:24:02 AM
For me it has to be when they are lauging so hard they might wet themselves.... seeing a woman belly laugh is a real turn on to me. (I am hoping they are laughing so hard their panties might fall off...)

Another has to be that moment before you "cough enter cough" her.... that look of anticipation is a HUGE turn on.

Another is when they shudder when you pull up their hair to kiss them on the nape of the neck....

I gotta go.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 116 (view)
 
The real problem with relationships today.
Posted: 9/2/2009 6:03:05 AM
I have been reading the relationship threads WAY too much lately. What the has lead me to believe though, is that too many people are too jaded to actually be able to have a healthy relationship. The old... baggage check issue.

It is good to be wise in the ways of love, but I think as we age we seek maybe "too much" from potential suitors. The lists being so long that even we forget what requirements there are for the other person.

Sadly, this sems to be the way it is. I have noticed that some cite examples of friends and family that have been together for a long time and seem happy and function well in a "couple". I believe that part of their secret is they either can't handle being alone and love to work as 2 in 1, or they have a ton of activities that they do NOT share with their mate.

I am rambling.

I really want to know what people think will help us get over the hurdle and into healthy functioning relationships.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How do i walk away?
Posted: 9/1/2009 3:51:03 PM
Ok.

Maybe print this off or something. Do exactly as I say and you will have the answer to your question.

STEP (pun) #1 > Take your right foot and lift it and then place it about 12 inches ahead of where it was before you lifted it.

STEP (pun) #2 > Now take your left foot and lift it, placing it about 12 inches forward of where your right foot is now.

STEP (you know) #3 Repeat Steps #1 & 2

Keep this up and you will be amazed at the results
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
penis fly trap
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:04:32 AM
I believe it is called Vagina Denata.... One would hope they are vagina dentures and can be removed for more "welcomed visitors"
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 49 (view)
 
What do you do when the step children are determined to hate you??
Posted: 8/31/2009 9:01:01 PM
Having been in a blended family environment I have learned the following about what to do and what NOT to do.

#1> The Biological parent is the one that should dole out any punishment for their childs actions. This is actually a RULE... and one that should be followed. The child should be aware that BOTH parents have agreed on the punishment but the delivery must be by the biological parent. Doubt me? Ask a family counselor!

#2> the children must be aware that the parents are planning on coming together and that the family is changing, but for the better. There will be work and major opposition as many single parent children have adapted to a parenting role of their own. What I mean by this is; if you are a single father with a daughter, your daughter has subconsciously become a mother. Vise-versa for a male child with a single mother. This can lead the child to feel "displaced" yet again. The new parent can be a threat, and an adversary.... This is an area that requires the REAL adult to act like one, and not get into a power struggle with the step-child.

#3> Show the children what a healthy relationship is. Remember that in most cases, their last memories are not so great. The Biological parents have shown them a failed relationship, and they may be wired for that as the norm.

#4> Always include the children. You don't need to provide them with intimate details, or a veto vote, but you need them to feel active in the new living arrangement, and they must feel welcome to share their thoughts and feelings. We need only remind ourselves that these young people are quite intelligent, and will react well to being treated as contributing members of the family unit.

There are many more things I could go on about, but these are some of the basics. One really key element is a "united front". As it would be in any healthy parenting role.
IMHO
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Pro-Life vs. Pro-Choice in Dating *scary music swells*
Posted: 8/31/2009 5:52:56 PM
I wonder how many people that have posted in this thread have had any "first hand" experience with abortion. My guess is that there are a few, but like anyone who has been through a very tramatic experience, they may wish to keep such matters private.

Whatever your position is on the subject, I suggest you recognize that is legal. It is the choice of the parties involved, and it is PRIVATE. I HATE when I see these types of threads (as I do with mental illness ones) where every hairy-dicked Tom & Tamantha come out of the woodwork to chastise people for their feelings on extremely difficult topics.

I would say that some who have experienced abortion would understand what I mean when I say... a little part of them died that day.

This discussion is too close to a religious debate and I wish the thread would go away. Believe what you believe, but be respectful of others opinions. DO NOT shove yours on to another.

PEACE
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Mistakes
Posted: 8/31/2009 10:11:50 AM
Yah ^^^

Fa Que

 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
penis fly trap
Posted: 8/30/2009 9:04:17 AM
Ahh

The OP is so cold she is the Penis Dimilo...

VVV
ESP60

Your ESP isn't working dude.... The statement above is a PUN... ffs

 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 67 (view)
 
The real problem with relationships today.
Posted: 8/29/2009 10:46:27 AM
Looks like there are a plethora of reasons people think relationships are problem prone.

I guess a common denominator is that you are trying to take 2 different individuals with different histories in relationships and try and mold them into a "functioning" one.

The only way this works in my opinion, is if you can agree to the rules of engagement.

Your cards must be clearly laid on the table for the other to see. You must agree on what is "vital" in your interaction, and what can remain for each as individuals.

I am learning that a relationship of merit will include a healthy balance of "me" and "us". You shouldn't expect the other person to like everything you do, or even partake in all of it. You should allow the individual to remain true to their character and remember that is most likely what drew you to them to begin with.

Maybe it is as simple as unrealistic expectations are the demise of relationships. The "real" problem being that you can't "be single minded" when in a couple.

I have witnessed many people speak and act like they expect a mate to adhere to their rules and shape their lives to suit them. NOPE... you create a bond that allows for seperation and uniqueness, but you also work on being a "team". Remember the old addage... their is no I in team?

Healthy balance. Extreme communication. Love. Care and empathy... all part of what it takes. But what the fuk do I know? I am single.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 224 (view)
 
What's the latest nice thing you did for someone?
Posted: 8/29/2009 8:13:19 AM
I am about to do it .....

WALTS.... you have road rage. (remember the biker you tore a strip into in Hope at the gas station??) Now the Coquihalla...????

Buddy. BREATH...

There
Nice thing done for the day
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
The real problem with relationships today.
Posted: 8/28/2009 11:11:07 AM

the simple reason they have increased over the last decades is the higher social tolerance to being divorced or a single parent.


OK.... is this not a "real" problem?? Do we not understand what this is creating in the minds of our children? Is the family unit in real danger??

I only ask these things because I am a single father of two kids. One male one female. I am the full time parent. Do I think I understand my daughter? Do I know how she feels instinctually??? Nope. Would a relationship where one of each sex in the parental role be preferable???

There are "real" problems with relationships today. I would almost push "independance" to the top of the list. But what do I know?? I need only read these forums to know that there are some major malfunctions going on...
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
The "real" problem with relationships today.
Posted: 8/28/2009 7:48:09 AM
I definitely think I have this in the correct forum Category. I also think it is a somewhat "new" Topic.

I want to know what people think is the "real" problem with relationships these days.

Is it any of the following or do you have the answer;

Internet Dating
Patience
Narcissism
Greed
Independence
Fear
The economy?

What do you think is a major contributor to our relationship issues?

I personally can only find fault in myself. If I allow any of the above to enter into my concerns or hamper my ability to "connect and stay connected" then I can say that I am to blame as those are but mere outside influences.

So... again, my question is really simple. What is the root cause of the majority of relationship failures today? In your opinion.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 99 (view)
 
do YOU see others as they truly are?
Posted: 8/28/2009 6:27:39 AM
Mirror Mirror on the wall
Who is this man I seek with my call?
Is it but a reflection in glass?
Or not so subtly, but just an a$$?

Mirror Mirror on the wall
The father that stands here asking it all
Is he but an illusion, a trick, a conundrum?
Is the mirror where his answer will come from?

Mirror Mirror, do you mirror this man?
Are these questions, just part of the plan?
Mirrored or mired in desire
Quagmire

Mirror you show me this man that stands before you
The lines of his face and the girth of his stance
All but a reflection of others who came before
In this little life’s dance

Mirror Mirror on my wall
Please oh please answer my call
Am I an illusion pasted on your surface?
Mirror mirror... only you know it all.

Fa Que 08/28/09
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 89 (view)
 
do YOU see others as they truly are?
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:39:18 PM
Well OP

I would say with 36 out of the 89 posts in your thread coming from YOU... I can assume I see YOU for who you are... and subtle isn't part of what I see..

I would venture a guess that you see yourself as somewhat "important" considering the number of times you have responded to your own thread.

How did I do?

(ps... take it for what it is... a real response to your question. I tend not to like waxing on about things. It is an interesting topic, but I think we might get more from having others "sound off" in it.)
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 76 (view)
 
What would you guys do?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:59:06 PM
This thread has been SUPER SIZED

VVVV

Don't go there. Not the same and you know it. I understand why you say it but that isn't overly relevant to the question.

The woman has gained weight. He needs to discuss his issues with her and allow her to do something about it IF she sees "fit" (pun intended)

 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Nasty
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:51:12 PM
Neededx to bring this thread back up to point out what REDUNDANT threads are...

How's that for Nasty?? (aka MEAN)
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 511 (view)
 
Decoding the Female Language
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:03:48 AM
^^^ You two should get a room. Might help if it is padded...

Me thinks you two should just naked wrestle and see who wins.

That language clear enough?
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Manipulation or acceptable behaviour?
Posted: 8/26/2009 9:10:41 PM
What an oddly wonderful world we live in huh?

Nothing is beyond reproach. Sincerity is only subjective at best. Up is down and in is out.
We can behave in any manner we see fit as it really doesn't matter anyway because you can be accused of manipulation, despite your good intentions.

Rune did kind of get into it as your intentions may be honourable, but that is subjective too as you are the one who bestows said honour....

What is acceptable is what you deem acceptable. Your only jury .... You!

In this convoluted arena of public discourse, you are best to be wearing a suit of armour, lathered in Armour All to keep the blood suckers from latching on and trying to rid you of your manipulative ways. Really... everyone is lying and prying and ready for frying...

Acceptable behaviour in my world is bathed in honesty and integrity. You don't like my bath water... you can throw me out baby.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How would you approach someone on here that you have a professional relationship with?
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:33:28 PM
<--- Clears his throat....

DOCTOR DOCTOR.... Give me the NEWS.....
I GOT A BAD CASE OF LOVIN YOU....
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
How would you approach someone on here that you have a professional relationship with?
Posted: 8/26/2009 1:49:17 PM
She wants to play Doctor... with the Doctor.

(too easy...)

Who gives a *shit* if he is your doctor. Actually you are fortunate enough to know you are already attracted to him, so you are miles ahead of anyone on here.

He is expressing interest, as are you. GO FOR IT.

Might want to "nurse" him into it...

(again .. too easy)

I need to go "scrubs" myself
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Bi-curious?
Posted: 8/26/2009 8:33:04 AM
I think this is pretty simple. You have to let go of your man and take the chance he may be gone permenantly if and when you choose sides. You are completely selfish in your thinking and if I was your man, I would tell you to go figure your shite out.

You want it all, but your greed will cause harm.

If you want to try women, go for it. If you want a BF, stick with it. You have been told you can't have both, yet you come here whining and hoping someone will tell you it's ok to be greedy. Not gonna happen with me. You are being selfish and you know it. Get off this box and go deal with your issues.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Yawn
Posted: 8/26/2009 8:16:52 AM
Well... this definately wins the "Most Appropriately Named Thread" award.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 8/25/2009 5:02:31 PM
Faq-me....

I OBVIOUSLY wasn't paying enough attention when I responded to the thread.

That said, just replace HE with SHE in my post and all remains relevant

Just doesn't seem right to say "suck it up princess" though....
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 8/25/2009 12:31:31 PM
you betta knuckle up and protect yo grill homey cuz if they is hurt you gotta break they off somethin proper like. don't no one lay big rap on you, they say cutty can't hang so stay loose blood ya be on the rebound java side, ya dig


Me thinks someone must have just finished the 40Yr Old Virgin Marathon....

All the "shizzle-fo-rizzle aside young blood. Let's make this very simple for you.

Follow along

She doesn't want you anymore. She doesn't care to tell you why because she knows you will say something moronic like... "BUT I CAN CHANGE", or "YOU JUST DON"T KNOW ME ENOUGH" or "MY BALLS HAVENT QUITE DROPPED YET"...

It's better to NOT know because Ican almost assure you, you don't really want the truth. Go with it being the distance ..... that's a fuk of a lot better than finding out your winkie is too small or your breath smells like blue cheese or she got the BIG O with some other dude...

POF out there man...
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
fitness
Posted: 8/25/2009 11:15:45 AM
I was once quite the fat**stardo... I decided to change my lifestyle (10 years ago) and lost the equivalent in weight of my daughter who is 12...
Part of the lifestyle change was to incorporate "workout time" into 5 days of my week. I have been a member of my gym for 10 years now and on average I am there at min 4 days of every week. I am addicted to working out now. Summer is usually different as I seek my exercise "outdoors" and love to hike and explore.
I play squash 3-5 times a week too.

Working out has tremendous benefits both physically and mentally. I STRONGLY reccomend people doing things that make them sweat!

(and yes, sexual workouts count.... or so I tell my "workout-partner", I tell her that we HAVE to do it because it is good for us... I mean ME)
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Need a woman's advice.
Posted: 8/24/2009 5:04:49 PM

Stupid douche bag.


uh oh.... is this what she will be refered to if she isn't quite the "peach" you thought origonally???

Why do so many of us want a glimpse into the future? Go with it man... take it for what it is today because it may not be the same tomorrow.

Don't be....
Stupid, douche bag
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 237 (view)
 
Men who wear sunglasses in their profiles
Posted: 8/24/2009 8:14:39 AM
The shifty ***stards* that wear sunglasses in their profile shots are trying to hide something....
Eye am not sure what... but I bet it has something to do with something really shifty... and really unwholesome...

NEVER and I will repeat NEVER trust a shifty sunglass wearin asshat!

Trust me on this
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Guys Please help me understand why??????
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:40:59 PM
Another tip that I have learned personally is if a man is calling you ALL the time at the beginning and you are answering his every call and calling him back every time, it is going to die quickly. Another mind game, he will seem AMAZING but don't make that man the center of your universe before you even know if he's worthy to even breathe in your space. Don't purposely tease him, but get back to him on YOUR time. If he calls at an inconvenient time, let it ring or send him to voicemail. Don't answer and say you'll have to call him later. He is not too good for your voicemail. Not only will he realize that you have better things going for yourself, but your feelings will be balanced if he decides to drop from the planet without a word. Live and learn.


OH NO YOU DIDNNN....

What a crock of *shit*
Pot, please allow me to introduce Kettle.

So you accuse men of playing games, and then proceed to tell her to play one of her
own?? THIS is why things are so fuked up between men and women.

No wonder so many people are stupified and afraid to date.... because they face this rediculous behaviour and are actually coached to play "the game".

I am 43 years old. The only game I want to play is naked twister, and I will need a flippin backrub after because I am not as flexible as I once was. (oh and a front rub too, because that is still quite flexible..)

Absolute crock of shite up there.... buyer BEWARE


How is that a mind game?Living her own life and responding when she's good and ready means she does not have some man on a pedestal before she even knows much about him. Too many women drop everything they're doing because some guy has convinced them that he's the one (without ever actually saying it). There are so many women that answer the phone to quickly whisper 'It's not a good time, I'll call you later'. What's the point? Don't be afraid of a little voicemail greeting.

Seems like you think women should drop what they're doing for your call? Talk about buyer beware


So now if you answer your phone, and it is a man calling... he is elevated to some pedestal? What ever happened to common courtesy? The fact that you actually buy in to this behaviour tells me a tonne about how sad things really are out there. I feel so fortunate that I have a lovely lady in my life that answers the phone because she is genuinely interested in hearing from me. I think it is pathetic that you can ASSume that someone is looking for control or whatever your twisted thoughts are about why to make someone go to voicemail. Seriously, you may be a great lady, but you are perpetuating rediculous stereotypes and adding to the problem.

If someone is too busy to answer a phone, COOL... I get it, that's why we have voicemail. BUT, to suggest that you send someone to voicemail as a way to "control".. well... again YOU are the hypocrite.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Cash for Clunkers to be suspended.
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:18:54 PM
10 year loan = $150 per month and that's not including the rebate.


Brilliant.... absolutely BRILLIANT.

You are not getting ripped off by paying for a fuking car for 10 years??
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Guys Please help me understand why??????
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:10:54 PM
Why didn't this get deleted? This is a freekin pity party for one....

He didn't get back to you because he didn't get back to you.

You're welcome

Nothin to see here
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 396 (view)
 
do you look like your pictures?
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:09:14 PM
I look like the dude in my pictures. Which is wild because I believe it is my doppelganger..... He's a bit of an asshat, but I am cool.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Deal-Breakers! How soon is too soon?
Posted: 8/22/2009 3:27:40 PM
I always thought you had to "ease your way" into anal sex?

Info like that shouldn't be slammed on the table or it might cause a stink.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 192 (view)
 
The tolerant and the less-tolerant
Posted: 8/21/2009 10:48:38 AM
This thread has definately tested my tolerance

Sadly.... I failed.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 569 (view)
 
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/20/2009 4:33:15 PM
about 1-1/2 inches north or south

I know... shitty.. joke
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
How much contact should one expect...
Posted: 8/20/2009 4:30:53 PM

How much contact should one expect...


Why... Full Body contact of course! Nothing less is acceptable!

Depends on the "couple" doesn't it. Where it won't work is if it is dis-proportionate. If one wants to see the other 5 times a week and the other would prefer twice a month...uh HOUSTON, we got a problem!

The lovely lady I am seeing has a similar situation to mine, which includes being a single parent for extended periods, so our schedule will dictate when we can see each other. If we want to see each other badly enough, we will jiggle the schedules and break free for "full body contact" whenever it works.

Is it enough? For now it is what we have and time will tell if we can make more time.

The key however is to make the MOST of the time you have together and use it to strengthen your relationship.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
what do you miss?
Posted: 8/20/2009 2:12:22 PM
I miss those moments;

coming up behind her and gently lifting her hair up so I can nuzzle into her neck and smell her scent... gently kissing the nape of her neck and sliding my hands down her hips...

I miss watching the corners of her eyes krinkle up when she laughs from her belly... and me being the source of her laughter.

I miss watching her play with children or take delight in seeing something beautiful to her... which in turn is beautiful to me.

I miss holding her. Bringing her head to my chest and running my fingers through her hair.

I miss the random road trips with no set destination, knowing the journey will provide the memories that will last a lifetime (or until I am shitting in diapers again)

I miss knowing that she would do anything for me and I for her. That we have bonded in a way that only lovers can. Both accepting fault in each other, but not looking for it.

I miss the feeling of pride I would get when I made her something. When we would "create" a space that was part her.. part me... and part US.

I miss being able to feel vulnerable but knowing I would not be judged for it.

I miss feeling like I was HER MAN.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
what do you miss?
Posted: 8/20/2009 8:46:43 AM
I missed the memo...
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 333 (view)
 
Decoding the Female Language
Posted: 8/20/2009 8:13:28 AM
Boy has this thread ever gone off the rails.

What's with all the bashing and stereotyping?? Maybe too many around here aren't getting the loving they need? I feel like Rodney King right now and want to say "Can't we all just get along?"

There is no need to decode anything when it comes to the "female" language as far as I am concerned. I think men keep missing the point that women just want us to "ask". Be it about how they are feeling, what they may mean when they say something, or for a freekin date.

Women are not a subtle as some may want to believe. They can be extremely to the point, but dare I say it, us men tend to stereotype and forget that women allow emotion into their language. That to me is the beauty of them. They do not need to quote horsepower stats and jug size... they prefer to discuss things from their hearts and minds and sometimes they fuse the two together.

We all need to recognize that despite possibly being burnt at somepoint, we should be healed or healing and nuturing the best relationships (not just with women, but everyone) we can.

Stop the back and forth diatribes as no one wins in these cases. Everyone has a voice, but they should not use it to yell, but to clearly communicate what they think and feel.

I for one enjoy listening to women speak and if I don't understand what they are saying I will ask, or offer something else for them to use their mouths for... LOL (I still am a guy)
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 206 (view)
 
Spelling and Grammar, does it count?
Posted: 8/19/2009 8:20:53 PM
420 is a universal time to smoke a joint. If you smoke a joint THEN you get GOOGLEy friend
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Your brain - the sex organ
Posted: 8/19/2009 1:07:09 PM
Jesus I hope my brain is BIGGER than my sex organ....

Anyone know how to play the organ btw?
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 286 (view)
 
Decoding the Female Language
Posted: 8/19/2009 10:49:36 AM

Ok, to all the men in this thread: Bite me!!

Was THAT direct enough? :-)


NOPE.
You didn't advise "where" you wanted us to bite. Nor did you clarify HOW you wanted to be bitten. You also said "to all the men in this thread", but did not offer any suggestion as to a "pecking (biting...oohh I loves me some puns) order for said nibling..

Yup. Decoding sucks or in this case "bites"
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 108 (view)
 
I think I get it.
Posted: 8/19/2009 7:03:38 AM

It's very tiresome to carry the dead weight of a partner who won't do thier share to keep things mutually satisfying.


I wonder if the problem is that we do not communicate our desires enough?

Do we allow too many outside influences to distract us from our relationships? How many times to you hear the old... "we grew apart" reasoning?

I wonder what it is we need to do (if anything) to keep a relationship viable and enjoyable for the long term. Is it possible that "long term" is just passe and we have come to the point where a LTR is in the neighbourhood of 2-3 years?

I really am unclear where we are headed, but I can't help but think that we could be in trouble if we don't find ways to be healthy couples for extended periods.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
dead-end relationship?
Posted: 8/18/2009 3:41:57 PM

How would you deal with it if someone you were dating tells you they love you very much, but doesn't ever want to marry you?


Well... I would cue the music

DO A LITTLE DANCE... MAKE A LITTLE LOVE.... GET DOWN TONIGHT...

Jesus, get serious. He says he loves you and wants to be with you. That is BETTER than marriage now adays... Get with the program.
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Is this any way to treat a cat?
Posted: 8/18/2009 3:09:51 PM

Is she feeding the cat mayonnaise?


If she is , then all I will need is some Dijon for a purrrrfect sandwich....
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
When guys get cocky
Posted: 8/18/2009 11:08:43 AM
Usually when my "cocky" comes out.... it's RUN FOR THE HILLS...

Sorry. Couldn't resist, guess I was just being a little "cocky"

Fa Que <----- "Cocky"

(Yes I said little "cocky", may be "cocky", but not a liar or braggart...)
 fa que
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Who are YOU?
Posted: 8/18/2009 6:41:48 AM
I am any or all of the following.

A Father
A Mother
A Cook
A Painter
A Poet
A Lover
A Pervert
A Joker
A Sensitive Man
An ***hole...
A Troll
An Executive
A Son
An Uncle
A Biker

and according to a few I have met or know..

An Enigma
 
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