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 Author Thread: Anal Sex...he wants it, but I'm scared to try
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Anal Sex...he wants it, but I'm scared to try
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:02:57 PM
lots of u suggest using fingers...well i think that's a bad idea... for me, fingers make me cringe... fingers r bony, not fleshy at all. they can only hurt...what works best is for the man to be really in the mood, hard as a rock and take things nice and slow without turning soft... the man has to focus on her expression while doing it, taking in all the hints of pain... if the man constantly has to look down to see where his dck is heading and worry about getting it inside or turning soft, then he can't put too much of his attention into pleasuring her... anal is fun, but only with the right guy...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Men Shaving...
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:46:03 AM
i have to say men shaving it all off is the biggest TURN OFF. i guess they want to make it seem less like a micro-pee-pee down there lol! but seriously, just because men like shaved women doesn't mean women all like shaved men... i'll tell them to put their pants back on lol...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 179 (view)
 
Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:33:31 AM

It's really not much different than an orgy...except fewer people. As a guy you have to be secured in your sexuality. With the right people and chemistry it can be pretty erotic.
well said! but it's so hard to find men who r secure about themselves... most of them will not even entertain the thought of mmf...it's too bad...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 251 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 5/26/2009 8:29:33 AM
my bf can tell you that... he's 54 and he says he gets more attention now than ever... well maybe because he works out and he's easy on the eye... besides, girls who have been with him and enjoyed it do talk... i'm glad we're on an open relationship LOL...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
The elderly and Sex
Posted: 5/21/2009 11:57:38 AM
some ppl r just way too hung up on age.. my bf is 54 and i can tell ya no one in their 30s or even 20s can keep up with him...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 5/18/2009 8:56:12 AM
hi lila, call me old-fashioned but i think it's more dangerous to hook up with 2 male strangers at the same time... my suggestion is: get familiar with a male f-buddy first, get to know each other's limit and then bring in the second guy. now if u trust the first guy enough, let him bring that second guy along... --Lydia
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 110 (view)
 
No woman really enjoys anal sex
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:54:22 AM
Suggestion: try a bisexual guy... my first painless anal was with a bi... he really knows how to give maximum pleasure without causing discomfort...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 291 (view)
 
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:52:04 AM

Woah, back up. How did a 54 year old land a young cutie like you? Rich? 12 inch personality?


Actually I think she may have answered that:


he can just keep going without missing a beat


thnx for defending for him... when some people see an older guy with a younger women, all they can think about is he's rich and she's a gold digger, or he has a big something... what i find attractive about older men is they are more attentive and have more skills learned from years of experience.
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 290 (view)
 
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:48:46 AM

my bf is just like that... if he wants to, his first orgasm comes quickly, usually in 5 minutes, but he can just keep going without missing a beat. the first time he did it with me, i didn't realize he'd cum until some milky liquid slid down my thighs! and then it can take him 30 minutes to an hour to cum again. his 3rd and 4th are almost dry ones, but i can still see some semen oozing out... my girlfriends think i'm bull*hiting...i don't care... i do get sore the next day... but it's good sweet kind of sore! by the way he's 54.


Woah, back up. How did a 54 year old land a young cutie like you? Rich? 12 inch personality?


Only 8 inches, thank u very much... and he knows how to use it.
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
disappointment in the bedroom
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:31:25 AM
i find it funny... again and again the word "communication" is suggested... i used to have an issue with my bf, quite the opposite of OP's problem, and i was afraid to bruise his alpha male ego so i just put up with it without making any comment. but i got lots of suggestions from POF people and it worked out great... he went to see a doc with me and i have no complaint....we're able to explore lots of options in the bedroom... altho once in a while i'm still not sure if i need to bring up a sex issue with him LOL men are so difficult...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Wondering what the majority thinks...re...cheating and bisexuality
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:18:23 AM
i suggest u guys hook up with another couple or bi couple to give it a try... that way u can both explore your bi tendency without hurting each other... sex is fun. there's no need to put restrictions on it if both parties r happy...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Men wanting women only and not other men
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:35:32 PM
my bf and i hooked up with a male gay couple. it turns out one of them is bisexual... it was the best anal sex i ever had...pain free in the beginning and just unspeakable pleasure afterward...the gay guy, on the other hand, got soft as soon as i touched him...LOL
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 275 (view)
 
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:24:21 PM
my bf is just like that... if he wants to, his first orgasm comes quickly, usually in 5 minutes, but he can just keep going without missing a beat. the first time he did it with me, i didn't realize he'd cum until some milky liquid slid down my thighs! and then it can take him 30 minutes to an hour to cum again. his 3rd and 4th are almost dry ones, but i can still see some semen oozing out... my girlfriends think i'm bull*hiting...i don't care... i do get sore the next day... but it's good sweet kind of sore! by the way he's 54.
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Are there some women that PREFER bald guys over guys with hair?
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:44:47 AM
naturally balding is hot!! i hear balding men have high testosterone level... long hair men turn me right off... sorry dudes...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 65 (view)
 
orgasm count, is he lying??
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:40:31 AM
totally possible... if i really dig someone, i can cum quite easily...altho it's difficult sometimes to tell if a small o is an o at all...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Gangbang
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:31:59 AM
i find smaller groups easier to manage...like 3way or 4way... more than that number, it's easy to become unsafe... one guy may get inside u with a condom fresh from someone else's a-hole... that's gross...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
How do you deal with guys who come onto you strongly?
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:29:30 AM
just ignore them, period...
 kazuoy
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Libido after 50
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:28:31 AM
it's not uncommon... my first bf and my current bf are both active that way... when my current bf and i are involved in group sex mmf or mmff, guys always compliment on how virile he is... at first i thought he was just horny because we just started dating. but it's been 6-7 months now. he's in his mid-50s. everytime we have sex he cums at least twice.
 
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