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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
single mum
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:43:15 PM
Every person in the world is different so every man is different as well.

I'm sorry OP, but we cannot read the man's mind you've been seeing from the internet.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 3021 (view)
 
do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:42:11 PM
This is a thread that just won't die.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:23:29 PM

Had to look to see your age. Yep, another puppy talking about how older people feel and what they want.


30 is hardly fresh out of the womb.

Anyone ever tell you that you may be an ageist?
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
When a woman says she needs space
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:17:13 PM

"I need space" - translated - I just met this really hot other guy, and want time and space to be able to f**k him, and you are my fall back guy.


Or...

"I like things about you but I really don't like other things about you. I need some time to decide if I can deal with the stuff I don't like and continue building a relationship."
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Y do men want to play house but not committ?
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:15:25 PM

Why is it that some men spend multiple nights at a woman's home but when the topic of relationship comes up they say they are not ready for a relationship? My thing is why enjoy the pleasures of having a partner when ur ready to run as soon as the R word comes up...


It is very simple. You're good enough to bang, but not good enough to date. OR he may be telling the truth and not ready for a relationship yet.

Everyone is different which makes dating more of an art than a science. Sorry.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/5/2013 7:13:37 PM

Short, fat and middle aged, you cant be too fussy mate! You can turn out the lights and fantasise you are with someone else, and she will do the same, no doubt. The BO prob is not on I agree but like attracts like. If you are a 3-4 you wont get anymore than that, in a woman. I wont go on about the changes I imagine she would like lol! T he ego astounds me lol!


What a person looks like has nothing to do with what they themselves find attractive.

Some people may not be realistic about what/who they can attract... but this is irrelevant from the perspective of what that person finds attractive.

Additionally, MEN primarily chase on looks.

Statistically most women marry/cohabitate "up". As in, one of the great things about being a man is that as we age and gain more wealth, we don't become invisible to the opposite sex.

Women on the other hand have an INSANE amount of power over men until about 25 or 30. Then looks fade. This is the tradeoff. The world is based on balance and the different kinds of attraction between men and women are balanced as well.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
why do they ask for my number make plans then bail?
Posted: 4/5/2013 6:55:39 PM

you have become a nuisance. obviously you must flake out all the time. good luck with that. it is childish and stupid. i cant discuss grown folks issues with a child.


Wow what a catch!
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Common in Online Dating?
Posted: 4/5/2013 6:43:01 PM
It's completely normal.

I met my x wife online and I met my current gf of 3 years online too.

Online dating is a numbers game and a meat market. It's the price we pay for the added convenience and the enhanced ability to pre screen before wasting time or money.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/5/2013 6:41:35 PM


Hmm, I bet she may feel the same way about you .

Newsflash: men and women are different.

Even if what you said is true, it doesn't change facts.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Not attracted physically
Posted: 4/5/2013 6:40:51 PM
OP...

What you are describing is the friend zone.

She can be your friend. Unfortunately, without the basic attraction you ARE going to hurt her.

You're a guy. She cannot keep your interest in a relationship.

This is the truth.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Do you only chat with 1 person
Posted: 3/12/2010 6:38:59 PM
After a date or two, I talk to one lady.

Before that, I am a free agent.

I don't expect any woman to act differently than me, but once I am paying for her food, she is seeing only ME, darnit! lol

-8sf8
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 145 (view)
 
What are your messaging ratio's?
Posted: 3/12/2010 6:29:15 PM
As far as swearing off this site as a tool for dating, I reached that point along time ago. I think only about 20 percent of men on this site do ok, basically the richest, best looking tall guys.


Since when am I any of those? And ... I do just fine.

When are people going to take responsibility for themselves? Dude, it's not women's fault that you have no photo up, your profile sucks, and you're probably hideous.

Nobody owes you anything. The internet is not a magical wand that makes you irresistible. You'll generally get the same amount of serious interest from people on here that you would in person.

Sure, my female friends may get 10 messages a day, but very few of them are men they'd be honestly interested in. Same with the shopping mall, or the grocery store. The only difference is that the internet gives men looking for something casual the anonymity to troll for p*ssy with impudence.

My suggestion is to take all that negativity festering inside of you and channel it into something positive.

Just like people who claim that they only date azzholes, the only common denominator in that equation is them. Same with people who don't attract anyone. Perhaps you should turn your gaze inward instead of outward.

Women are not rare and mysterious animals, or mythical creatures to attract with honey. They're people. Get a clue. If people in general don't like you, women won't either.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 433 (view)
 
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 3/12/2010 1:58:24 AM
I don't use condoms.

I don't have casual sex.

I don't have STDs or baby mammas.

Men I know who have casual sex and wear condoms...

Some have both.

Lesson learned? Don't have casual sex.

Herpes can and is transmitted with a condom on.

So... the only STDs you can get that a condom would prevent (Like the Clap, except AIDS) are curable with $$ and pills (including pregnancy if you're a pro-choicer).

How many straight people actually have AIDS? Not many. I don't worry about it because....

::drumroll::

I don't have casual sex.

::bows::

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 256 (view)
 
When should the woman offer to pay?
Posted: 3/12/2010 1:45:07 AM
Men have been beat down, and now feel they need to accede to women in order to get attention. It's a damned shame. Why in the world would a man feel 'lucky' that a woman paid for around half of a date? I think that shows a terrible state of affairs for men in the current dating market.

Personally, I don't much mind paying for women, but at the same time I don't expect women to be my equal. I'm not sure why so many men quote the aphorism 'well it's 2010.. women wanted to be equal, here you go!'. Why would you care if women want to be equal, most especially if men see that women will still carry the same level of expectation from men regardless? Why are men so caught up on treating women as equals? Women acknowledge that they don't even consider themselves equal with men.


I'm still trying to figure out whether this is profound or misogynistic.

That said... I kind of understand where he's coming from. I'm an alpha and I date 9's and up. These women are in HIGH demand.

So I suppose just like a fat chick may have to do sexual things she doesn't like to keep a man, she may have to foot the bill for dinner.

Christina Ricci doesn't. Beautiful, rich women - despite being rich, I highly doubt pay for much of anything. Why? Because they're beautiful. And I don't fault them that.

The tradeoff for hot women getting a free ride in life is that women are pretty much only judged on their appearance. Men can diversify ourselves a bit, and women are stereotypically attracted to a much more diverse set of things on men then men are on women.

I think it's worth it to pay for dinners to have my attractiveness judged on my hands, my travels, or my hobbies. I'm not an apologist for women. I just don't go for the modern, pants suit wearing types.

I expect to pay for every date I go on with the women I attract until/unless it's a LTR. I've noticed that women who try to pay are usually less attractive, or less attracted to me. I think it creates guilt for some people to let someone they've already put in the friendzone pay for dinner.

So guys, if a 8.5+ woman keeps trying to pay... you should be worrying about how the date is going.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 84 (view)
 
I hate my girlfriends best friend
Posted: 3/12/2010 1:28:27 AM
OP - the fact that you have this problem is bad on multiple levels.

Even if it's innocent, you have trust issues with her and her friend (they may have merit)

She has trust issues with you - either to keep you from finding out about her affair, or because she's afraid that you'll blow up on her friend and strain the friendhip.

Personally, if I were in your position, I would bail even if she's not cheating. Why?

Because she is placing her friend's feelings above yours by not allowing you to talk to him.

She may be a good gf, but she is not marriage material. There's no way she could not know that you're bothered by this friend.

If I had a female friend that my gf really had a problem with, I wouldn't stop being her friend, but I would keep contact to a minimum and allow my gf full access to whatever is going on. Acting suspicious can be as bad as actually cheating for the health of a relationship.

OP, please don't even think about marrying someone who does not make you the priority in her life.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 66 (view)
 
just told the girlfriend i won't stay if she smokes pot
Posted: 3/12/2010 1:22:46 AM
You'd let a chick who smokes pot and has kids that you're just dating move in with you?

Wow dude. I know you can do better than that.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 135 (view)
 
What are your messaging ratio's?
Posted: 3/12/2010 1:19:26 AM
I've gone on dates with a few women from this site, and I get about a 40% return ratio on my emails.

If I send out 20 emails, I'll get 8 back. It varies from week to week, month to month, but that's the average.

I get emails from women I've never contacted as well.

Not too bad. The caliber of women on here seems to be a bit lower than other sites, though.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 463 (view)
 
What do you girls think about guys with guns?
Posted: 3/11/2010 2:31:09 PM

One word....HOT! Don't know why it just does it for me.... Could be that whole bad boy thing.


Not surprisingly, a large number of the attractive women on here go for it...

And people wonder why I date hot women.

"Hot" women are generally feminine. It takes a decent amount of femininity just to know what to wear and not throw on flannels.

My theory is that the more a person wanes to the feminine or masculine, the more extreme they look for in a partner.

So girlie men who shriek at the sight of spiders get women who will paddle their bottoms for being naughty.

I date the girls who like to be paddled.

It all works out. ;)

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 51 (view)
 
User asks who is your friend in that photo with you!
Posted: 3/11/2010 2:26:21 PM
Whenever a girl has only one pic, and it's of a fat, ugly girl and a fine girl,

The profile always belongs to the ugly girl. Always. I have never seen an exception.

Why?

Because pretty girls have lots of pics of themselves. Even if they don't take them, others will.

That said, I have seen women who have a pic or two with friends where their friends are usually more my type - i.e. attractive.

Why do women do this? Pretty girls have ugly friends so they look better by comparison. It's not usually a conscious thing, but it seems to be the norm. Why in the WORLD would a woman put a pic on a dating site with a far better looking woman with them?

A also don't message women anymore who are hanging out with douchebag guys. I can care less whether a woman has a pic with an x, a brother, or a friend... but if she makes it look like she hangs out with crackheads on a regular basis, I lose interest.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Is he keeping his options open?
Posted: 3/11/2010 2:22:46 PM

Read cooldudeinberlin's post. Then read packagedealx3's post.

Now read them again.

And again.


I concur.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 80 (view)
 
can you stay hard if you are NOT attracted physically....
Posted: 3/10/2010 5:48:09 PM
Yes, I could easily have sex with a girl I am not attracted to. I am male.

I CAN'T date a girl I am not attracted to.

And since I think it's really stupid to risk babies and STDs with someone you're not committed with, and don't have a future with, I only have anything to do with beautiful women.

Just my .02

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 456 (view)
 
What do you girls think about guys with guns?
Posted: 3/10/2010 5:44:20 PM
I wish more women carried guns.

I think that women who take responsibility for their own safety are sexy as hell.

I don't want a Bella Swan who is waiting for some douchebag, sparkly vampire to swoop down and save her all the time.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 213 (view)
 
When should the woman offer to pay?
Posted: 3/9/2010 4:35:11 PM

Actually I believe that my chicken remark was quite clever. HMMMMMPHF!


Oh... it definitely was clever. In fact, when I meet a cute chick, I want to cluck her.

LOL! he he he he

:evil:

OT: I don't think there is a right or a wrong on this issue. Some people are just compatible and some are not. That said, people should be honest about what motivates them.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 211 (view)
 
When should the woman offer to pay?
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:49:03 AM
^^^ Wow. Well done.

That's one of the best rebuttals I've ever seen on here.

Lady - whoever he was talking to.... you just got pwned. Badly.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Filming Sexual Encounters!
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:45:14 AM
Lol... if the picture is in infrared and there is no way to know it's my truck... and I can't be identified...

Then I don't care who watches me.

I'm not an exhibitionist. I don't seek an audience. But if i find out someone saw me, as long as it doesn't bring embarrassment to my life, I really don't care.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Why do guys do this?
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:39:56 AM
I endorse the OP's decision.

Stupid people should not breed.

Life is not sacred. It's the fact that we coddle pathetic people (like welfare queens) that we're breeding our world dumber.

Successful, intelligent people generally have one or two kids anymore.

It's the least intelligent, biggest losers I know who pop out babies like it's a hobby.

Please abort, OP. There are enough unwanted, unplanned children in the world without a daddy to last the next 100 years. We don't need another.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 208 (view)
 
When should the woman offer to pay?
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:35:27 AM
I don't understand why who pays is such a big deal to some people.

If I dated a chick who made a big deal out of it one way or another, I'd probably dump her.

Life is too short and happiness is too fleeting to get stressed out over who buys the friggin coffee.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Question asked + brutally honest response = feelings hurt: who's at fault?
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:33:37 AM
People shouldn't ask questions they don't want answered.

If someone asks me a question that they don't want answered and I reply honestly, if they get upset that is both stupid and weak.

I can't stand stupidity.

I can't stand weakness.

It could be a deal breaker if she gets too upset. I've dumped girls for it before. I want a gf - not a psyche patient.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Why do people search for The One?
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:30:59 AM
I've never met a perfect woman, but I've met a few who were pretty darn close (for me).

The problem is that I am such an eccentric person that finding women like that is difficult, and they're usually a large distance away.

My x wife before she went crazy was an incredible woman, and not many women can compare. After being divorced, I am not going to "trade down"... lol

While I have met some gals who are at least the equal to my x or superior, many of them tend to be taken. It's supply and demand, and strangely enough there seem to be a lot of other men out to date beautiful, intelligent women who don't want to squirt out babies....

lol

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 70 (view)
 
After A Month She Tells Me She's Pregnant - With Another Man's Child
Posted: 3/9/2010 2:03:17 AM
OP... don't walk, RUN!

Seriously. If you stay, it will ruin your life. You've only known her for a month. Go

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Just broke up because the sex was bad
Posted: 3/9/2010 2:01:08 AM
If the sex is bad, why stay? A relationship with no sex is a friend.

Plus, who cares that he has ED? The world is not fair. It sucks if some girl gets in a car accident and loses her legs, but I won't date her.

Life is not fair. It's not my job to give up my happiness to make someone else happy. I want a gf, not a patient or a project.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Walk out on a date?
Posted: 3/9/2010 1:58:04 AM
I see no problem with leaving if it's not working. I don't owe anyone anything - especially my time.

If a girl lied about her profile or how she looked (if I meet her online) or about something important like having a bf (if I met her in person) I feel completely justified to leave.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 424 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/8/2010 1:41:04 AM

It is interesting that you brought up money. I was recently reading an article about shorter men dating and a dating expert was quoted in the article as saying, "The taller your wallet is to stand on the more women you will get."


::nods::

That's the tradeoff.

Women arguably have it easier becaues the more attractive a woman is, the more dating cred she has. USUALLY all that takes is working out a lot. It doesn't cost a woman anything more than her time.

HOWEVER, some women are just ugly - now way to fix it. Those women are screwed.

As men, we have the opportunity to be attractive, AND wealthy, AND successful, AND notable. Just like women are more diverse in what they are attracted to, men have more ways to be attractive.

It allows us to diversify a bit.

I don't think either gender really has it better than the other. It's just different for both. And arguably, us guys have it better because we can get better looking with age. Most women look like chit past 35.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 229 (view)
 
What does voluptuous mean to you?
Posted: 2/7/2010 10:19:10 PM

^^^^Why are you apologizing for an opinion that is your opinion? As PCC noted, we all have different opinions regarding what the word means to each of us. As a fat woman, I appreciate it when a man states that he is not attracted to women larger than a certain size on his profile. The ones who apologize for it or insult fat women or act as if they are insulted that I might actually read their profiles make me wonder about them. Now they need to state if a woman has ever been called voluptuous she need not respond, as that word means she is 60 pounds overweight? geez......


I've always just been really creeped out that you threatened to voodoo my penis... and that you come across like someone who'd try to burn my house down if you knew were I live.....

Well, after eating everything in my 'fridge first.

Scary stuff.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 421 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/7/2010 10:16:42 PM
^^^^ I'm not tall and I still think you're a whiny loser.

Care to explain that? ;)

You're no better than the women who complain about being fat.

Sure, they can lose the weight and men can't get taller, but the trade off is that men are judged on things other than the physical. The more money you make, the more eloquently you speak, the better educated you are, the more people you know... these things all contribute to male attractiveness.

Instead of having a positive attitude and improving yourself as a person, though... you're boo hooing to Santa Clause because none of the other elf girls will date you right now.

Grow a pair.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 126 (view)
 
how do your pick up women at the gym
Posted: 2/7/2010 3:23:52 PM

I've never in my life picked up someone in a bar. But I have picked up 3 women in gyms, one turned into a ltr. If your gym has a co-ed sauna/steam room, that is the chattiest part of the gym. Real easy to talk to people there. I think it would be a little weird to try and chat someone up while they are actually doing thier thing and trying to get their workout on.


Best advice in the whole thread.

+1

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 409 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/6/2010 11:21:46 PM

lol it's kinna mystery to me why tall guys wanna go out with someone short like me lol


I'll give you a hint. You're drop dead gorgeous and you look 22.

I agree, though. You're not that short. My x wife was 5' even.

And where I grew up, 5'4" was about average height for women.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 145 (view)
 
The Dumbest Thing You've Ever Done For Love...
Posted: 2/6/2010 10:47:41 PM
Gave up a 75k a year job working 30 hours or less a week at 23 years old...

To move her to another city so she could go to school.

I took a 45k paycut and had to work 20 hours a week more than I had been.

And she complained about money. (she didn't work - just bought a lot of bras)

::FACEPALM::

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 386 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/6/2010 12:56:21 PM
^^^ I think it's interesting to note that the more self confident people are, the less hung up on societal standards they are as well.

I've noticed that a lot of the most attrative women I've seen post on this site say that height doesn't matter, or that they have and will date shorter men.

It seems to be the fat women or the so-so lookers who are most adament about height.

Women often say that men compensate for low self esteem or high levels of self consciousness in silly ways. Fast cars, flashy clothes, etc.

Perhaps, as humans mimic the animal world (think peacocks), women with similar issues try to cover their insecurities by dating men that bolster their self confidence.

I OFTEN seen short and fat women with tall and skinny guys. I think that these demographics are fascinated with each other, but perhaps the more attractive a woman is and the better her self confidence, the more free she is to pursue men based on personality and happiness.

Just an interesting thought.

And once again, it makes the winey guys look even more ridiculous since it's the hot chicks who will date short men!

lol

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 120 (view)
 
What are your messaging ratio's?
Posted: 2/6/2010 12:45:38 PM
My response rate is usually about 40%.

Pretty close to 50% sometimes. Sometimes it's really low, though. There's no telling when it will be what.

That said, of the ladies who respond back, most of them get rejected within an email or two.

::shrug::

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 388 (view)
 
What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex?
Posted: 2/6/2010 12:27:17 AM
That was sooooo good! It was my first time as a woman.

:O

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 462 (view)
 
Astrology
Posted: 2/6/2010 12:25:58 AM
I'm an EMTJ gemini.

I'm going to be successful... but I am so screwed when it comes to relationships...

LOL.

And NO MORE PISCES!

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 379 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/6/2010 12:20:11 AM
Alright... so how to you explain me?

I think that anyone can find a reason for their defeatest attitude if they try hard enough.

I mean, Gary Coleman is married. Granted I hear things are not doing well on the home front... but the dude has a decent looking wife.

All the dudes on here pissing and moaning, and acting like they have toxic shock and need to change their tampons... How do you all explain my existence? I'm 5'7", I've never had a problem dating, I've been in leadership positions since I was 18 years old, and I have dated better looking women than almost all my guy friends.

Seriously. How do you explain this? What makes me better than you? 3"? Please.

The only reason others look down on you is because you let them. The only reason women think you're shrimpy and lame is because you think so.

NOBODY disrespects me. I didn't even know this was such an issue until coming to these forums. I honestly had no idea that women even really had height issues or that so many men were self conscious about it.

And you can't judge social issues based on 2 posts in the POF forums, or because you have a bunch of READ/DELETED messages on here. In POF land, ALL men have READ/DELETED messages.

Who the frack cares?

I know I'm probably wasting my time here, but I'm going to give it one more shot.

Women want a man they can rely on - not one they have to build up the ego of just so he can be a normal, functional human being.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 134 (view)
 
Why do men like women to wear dresses/skirts?
Posted: 2/5/2010 6:05:03 PM
I like women to dress differently than me.

The more feminine and non conformist a girl dresses, the more attracted I am to her.

If I wanted women who acted and looked like men, I'd just go gay. Well, not really, but you get my drift. ;)

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 115 (view)
 
Do girls use guys for sex?
Posted: 2/5/2010 5:33:52 PM

Why have sex repeatedly with the same guy if you weren't into him?

I can't imagine saying to myself here is this guy who holds no interest for me,
but I'm going to take off all my clothes spread my legs and let him ram me,
and do it over and over on a regular basis.


Just because you don't get it and that's not how you are doesn't mean there aren't a lot of girls out there who just have sex for sex.

I've met many younger girls who have been having sex since they were 12 or 13, and have completely dissassociated emotion from sexual intercourse.

It's more of a stigma now for a woman to be virginal than a whore. Girls have changed their actions over the years accordingly.

It's kind of depressing.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 216 (view)
 
What does voluptuous mean to you?
Posted: 2/5/2010 5:31:16 PM

So what does one call a thin woman with breasts that are larger than her size, a waist that goes in, but a small butt?


Top heavy.

Or Slim and stacked.

I know some guys who love this look above all others.

I'm not into big boobs as much... and I like an hourglass but I don't like a big butt. I like fairly compact women.

Different strokes, different folks, and it's not like I don't make exceptions. Both my long term relationships were with women who were DD or larger.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 93 (view)
 
First Line, Last Line (Part Deux)
Posted: 2/4/2010 11:41:15 PM
Something was calling. This one grew african violets.
A haunting melody in the breeze only I could hear.
A wistful sigh as the soil was patted flat, moist under the hot sun.
The future will bring petals and color and closure.
Fingers through hair, tangled like the jungle. A haunting memory.
With fragile seeds, this one invested hope. Invested life.
Until then, there is only patience.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 210 (view)
 
What does voluptuous mean to you?
Posted: 2/4/2010 11:35:07 PM
LOL....

::grabs popcorn::

Oh yeah... on topic....

To me voluptuous means kicking curves and a little waist.

A fat chick is nothing other than a fat chick. Put lipstick on a pig and it's still a pig.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Do girls use guys for sex?
Posted: 2/4/2010 11:31:57 PM
^^^ You've obviously not talked about sex with many girls from my generation.

Women from my generation and younger are downright predatory.

Seriously.

Men get used all the time.

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 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 367 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/4/2010 11:17:02 PM
I give up on this.

People who take no responsiblity for their own lives, and project all their unhappiness on the actions of others cannot be reasoned with.

El fin.

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