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 Author Thread: Breast Augmentation over 45
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 261 (view)
 
Breast Augmentation over 45
Posted: 10/13/2009 9:47:16 AM
Yes it is fine, her tits....her decision,. and if it makes her feel better about herself, who is ANYONE to judge the subject!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 102 (view)
 
women as pure sexual objects
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:31:02 AM
Women are pure sex objects....see that is what makes the ladies special! that is what the allure of ladies to men is! you are not supposed to be our pal! you are to be wanted, adored,lusted after how ever you want to phrase it.
Why is it that just because a woman loves sex you think that makes her a whore or cheap slut? (op)
Loosen up a little, it will amaze you to find there are all different types of folks out here that enjoy life and don't find it useful to fit into anyone's bow for what is good or bad.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Is it possible to like both very voluptuous women and super-skinny ones?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:26:21 AM
Yes, it is possible. i for one love all types of ladies! the only thing that they have in common is the vagina! got to have one of those for me to have a interest!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 987 (view)
 
yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 9/20/2009 7:06:18 PM
Friends with benifits are great! now most ladies won't like that statement, but it is possible to just use sex as a way to relax and turn down the stress level a wee bit!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 138 (view)
 
Is appropriate to sleep with your ex to get closure?
Posted: 9/20/2009 7:00:40 PM
The ex to some extint will always be in his life, better to see now that there is nothing left of the relationship before you get to entangled in one, and just as a aside you might want to back off a littlem does not sound like enough time has passed from the last relationship to start a new one!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Is it ok to date the friend of an ex
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:57:26 PM
Why not? People, what is with all these rules? you are no longer with the other person, get over it! move on! and at least a dozen other pop culture sayings! who cares if they are their friends? get out there, enjoy life and stop living life on anyone elses terms! you only get one chance at life ( my apoligies to shirley McClain) so grab all you can and don't look back!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Dancing With Another Man Besides Your Boyfriend/Spouse
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:53:00 PM
IT's just dancing, a fun invigorating way to have a blaast get a little excercise and let loose! relax dude and dudett's life is about having fun and way to many people try to complicate it.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 98 (view)
 
How Many Seek Love Over Sex?
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:50:27 PM
I'll take sex over love as love is way over rated these days, but even bad sex.....ain't really that bad! lol
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 153 (view)
 
is it him or me??
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:48:22 PM
All the polls say women want honesty...yet when a guy is honest with them they get upset! I just don't understand.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Would you leave a relationship because you wanted marriage and your SO didn't?
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:46:25 PM
Well i advise all the ladies i know to cut and run, because they are just wasting their time with a guy that does not want the same thing as they do.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 84 (view)
 
When he says he doesn't want a relationship... could you at least still place some hopes?
Posted: 9/15/2009 8:46:32 PM
I wouldn't...at least if he is anything like me, I am comitted to never getting married again, and have had to tell a few ladies that. Now i am no great catch so don't really understand why women have to latch on and set their hooks when it is clear that is not going to happen, but some do....
Good luck, But would move on if i were you unless you can handle just a dating experence with the guy and no promises for the future.
Take care,
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 494 (view)
 
What is your favorite type of sex?
Posted: 9/15/2009 9:29:18 AM
sex with no orgasm.....blue balls never really apeeled to me, but hey if it works for you then by all means....whatever floats your boat! lol
What i was trying to say was people make to big a deal out of a simple biological function....sex happens everywhere and everyday, whether we are there to enjoy it or not.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 492 (view)
 
What is your favorite type of sex?
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:40:30 PM
Hmmmm....if i was being totally honest, i would have to say the kind that ends with an orgasm!!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
unique divorce problem
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:35:09 PM
RUN FORREST! RUN!!!!!!!!!
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
What about women my age with a child?
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:19:22 PM
It really doesn't bother me, afterall i am never going to get married again, so dating a woman with children is just that....a woman with children. You have to make a few more plans due to the fact that her main concern is the kids, but other then that it is all good.
My choice in order of likes would be a lady with no kids at all...but that is kinda hard to find so you make the best of the situation, after all she is getting you( in this case, me) so that might not be what she once thought life would be for her too! lol
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Dating a couple people but not having sex at our age
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:11:43 PM
Nothing wrong with it at all..... but i think you can date and still have sex, ( i think i read that someplace) lol dating is just that hanging out getting to know all about someone, and in that process sometimes sex is involved.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 53 (view)
 
are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:06:01 PM
So much still, sometimes i feel like a researcher!!! lol
why not, when you stop trying to learn new things about yourself and the world, get the rocker out and wait for your number to be called.....
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
multiple sex partners when u have a friend w/benefits or bootycall
Posted: 9/14/2009 12:55:46 PM
If that was the case, throw a party, clear the funiture out of the way... jump in the pile and make the best of it...it is just sex folks, why is there such a big thing make of it? are we not all adults? just wondering.
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 183 (view)
 
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 9/14/2009 12:51:28 PM
They came home early from a weekend trip and found the 3 of us asleep on my bed....thats when i learned not to doze off, the look on mom's face was a mixture of panic, shock,disgust and rage...dad was to busy sneaking looks at the two young ladies! lol
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 224 (view)
 
Let's get naked
Posted: 9/14/2009 12:48:30 PM
Afraid my six pack is gone as well, but having traveled to many nudist beaches and resorts over the many years, i have come to notice that it really is not that big a deal, (at least to me) we are all human and some hold up better then the rest of us...so drop the clothes and grab a drink and let the good times roll!
Doug
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 3164 (view)
 
GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:55:21 PM
Well as long as sex is nit that importaint then yes. Now then again a sex life is importaint to most,and to wait only to find out that there is no sexual connection...could be dooming the relationship from the start.
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 216 (view)
 
Apologize for what exactly?
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:48:52 PM
'you have a winner here!...rush her to the altar and marry this woman! why let sombody like this get away?
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Is it possible to 'tame' a man?
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:35:49 PM
Why does or would anyone want to tame,,,( insert change) anyone? would you not be changing the things that attracted you to them in the first place?
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
I don;t want sex or a date!
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:33:43 PM
Sassigurl,
Find yourself a gay guy! he can be friends with you,go shopping and hang out. Be a great listener, and you never have to worry that he will try to get into your pants....unless they are his size,and he likes them!
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Nude pics!
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:30:57 PM
What is the big deal?
its just nudity!!!! ya know for a society that is suppoused to be so forward thinking,it amazes me that Americans are so hung up on the human body.
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
2 control freaks; can it work?
Posted: 4/27/2009 11:13:06 PM
I saw this somewhere...oh yeah! the war of the roses....never ends well.
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 446 (view)
 
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 4/27/2009 11:11:27 PM
It is really simple,we are men,we are human...it is encoded in our DNA!
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 919 (view)
 
yes or no? Friends with benefits!
Posted: 4/23/2009 12:33:48 PM
A big yes, to this! I am blessed to have a few,and it is nice to be able to not have to play the game..... If your horny,your horny and it is a give as good as you get situation.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Why would you want to remain friends with an ex
Posted: 4/23/2009 12:30:04 PM
Because believe it or not ( and by most post on here,hard to believe) we are supposed to be adults....not 2nd graders, so why would you not remain friends? it didn't work,and i am willing to bet it was not 100% the others fault,so why not remain nice to each other?
Guess i just miss it somtimes,but i am friendly with all of my ex's
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Love vs in love
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:25:29 PM
Thats hard to understand, but then again i was married to the love of my life who out of the blue told me she still loved me...but was not in love with me.
So even though i don't understand,it does happen.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How do you deal with guys who come onto you strongly?
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:19:28 PM
I just nicely remind them that i am not gay, just a good dancer so give it arest! lol
that usually takes care of the problem.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
It Drains the life out of me
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:17:05 PM
Good sex seems to revitalize me, but that is another good reason for having 3-somes, if you do need to nap afterwards...they have someone to talk to till you are back in the game, so you don't feel bad! (see a solution to every problem!)
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 185 (view)
 
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:11:41 PM
I think it makes you very smart! Heck i have a box just about everywhere i might need them.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
3somes
Posted: 4/21/2009 1:18:03 AM
If you are thinking of having a threesome and are worried he might enjoy her more then you.....you are not ready for a threesome.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 244 (view)
 
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 4/21/2009 1:11:56 AM
Everyday! the exact numbers of times and positions to be determined at a later time.lol
i do know couples that make this work, they agreed many years ago b4 marriage that the sex would not decrease,and they would not fall back on the tired old excuses folks make for not having it....Kids,tired,jobs and the like.
It becomes to easy to make excuses then it is to make the effort to work on the relationship...but then again,guess thats why these sites exist.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Stripping and relationship....
Posted: 4/21/2009 1:05:53 AM
I was with and married to a dancer for over 20 wonderful years, that was what she did when we met, and i was secure enough to handle it,i guess that some are not and for those i would not recomend it.
The point i would raise is i don't think it is healthy for any relationship to have either party telling the other they can't do somthing.
just mho
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Jamaica
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:53:19 PM
and what did that have to do with topic, crazy people abound everywhere.
I understand your feelings, and viewpoints but in defense Jamaican travel is booming as best it can be in these times and in over 20 trips to the islands i havee never had a problem...ok 1 time they ran out of grey goose in 1st class on air jamaica...but i still managed to have a great trip! lol
I am happy that you still have a good business as a few travel agent friends of mine have seen their business turn south as todays travel needs have almost eliminated the need for a travel profesional, I myself only really use them every now and then as a friend, as most of my needs i can do myself through the internet.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 137 (view)
 
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:38:53 PM
Why not,its just sex people. i am constantly amazed how many folks make sex out to be more then it is, i think we set it up to high or in turn use it for our own agandas, some use sex as a weapon,with holding when they don't get their way and some use it as a reward like some kind of doggy treat! lol
Come on, people we are all supposed to be adults on here... And if two or more adults,(just seeing if you were paying attention) lol two or more adults are like minded what the heck is the problem? what is the difference between the 1st or the 100th?
if it is a question of morality...then there are folks out there that think if you are having sex and not married,,,you are wrong so whatever floats your boat,go for it! life is to short.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:33:05 PM
Wouldn't bother me in the least, some have for various reasons brands they like, and like the poster above,shows an ability to think for themself and not reley on the man to be prepared.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 130 (view)
 
Sex is over-rated
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:27:33 PM
Nope not in my book, I enjoy sex,i am a very sexual person. Does it rule my life? not really, but it is a great way to kill an afternoon.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What do you do/enjoy after....
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:21:08 PM
Call her a cab, fix her somthing to eat...or if she is staying the night,make up one of the guest rooms.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Is this Bad to Ask?
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:15:44 PM
if he does,then don't.....i think he will wear out a path to the shower! or better yet jump in with him and start it there!
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
How to Pickup Women
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:04:57 PM
Never,ever by the ears! they hate that!
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Jamaica
Posted: 4/17/2009 2:17:10 PM
You have to remember that you can be robbed at knife point right here in the good old safe usa! don't think you should let your bad experence cloud your judgement for others, it was a bad experence just like the ones people have all over the world.
Although i do tend to stay on the reservation mostly ( just due to the fact i have seen the other tourist places) and maybe to lazy to put clothes on! there are some wonderful places and exciting things to do for those that want to explore.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 305 (view)
 
WHY DO MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU, BUT NOT DATE YOU?
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:16:34 PM
ummm....how do i put this nicely, you are a booty call ,nothing else nothing more, you are just that.
YOU are good enough for him to use but not take you out! wake up...or continue what your doing,if that is enough for ya.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Why are so many attractive people divorced?
Posted: 4/16/2009 12:13:35 PM
Because sometimes it doesn't matter hoe hawt they are....you just can't live with them! lol
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 670 (view)
 
would you marry for money?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:03:37 AM
Did that the first time.....
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Guys - when do you 'expect' sex?
Posted: 4/9/2009 2:13:21 AM
Nothing wrong with the 1st or 100th date, People use sex for many different reasons...currency,control,bait, various reasons.
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 4/9/2009 1:59:04 AM
A couple reasons for this,it is every mans fantasy to have 2 women,and then the other reason is men don't want to take the chance that the other guy will be better.lol the fragile male ego being what it is.
My ex and i had many threesums both mfm and fmf both were fun and worked in the moment for what they were....fun!
 pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Do guys really want just one girl?????
Posted: 4/8/2009 4:32:23 PM
Most guys want one basic relationship with a woman.
 
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