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What is your Bail? Posted: 10/11/2008 11:57:44 AM
470........ what can I say, good times:)

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Defining Dating (romantic intent) vs Buddy get-together? Posted: 9/27/2008 3:23:47 PM
What happened to the men who open the door for you,not walk thru and let it slam in your face? Who walked around and opened your car door and gave you his hand to help you out? What happened to the men who walk on the steet side of the sidewalk to protect you you?(From what, I never asked) What happened to the ones who take their hat off indoors,wait until everryone is served before they dig in,and flag the waitress/waiter when he notice that your drink needs refreshing? Walk you to your door whithout the expectation of being let in and led straight to the bedroom? Bring you flowers when your not feeling well ,or just for fun. Im asking for alot I know, But I was spoiled by my Husband. And I cant say it a maturity/age thing, because he was 10 years younger than me! God,I miss that Man!

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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 9/27/2008 1:29:16 PM
You Dont, Its like a sack filed with heavy rocks that you carry with you.All the time.Its so heavy and it hurts so much to carry day after day that you feel like you just cant move. As the days and the Monthes pass,you are able to set it down once in awhile and think of other things. As the years pass those times that you can set it down come more often and last longer, but it is always there, waiting to be picked up again. After awhile its such a part of your life that you dont even know when you set it down or when your carrying it,its just always there.......its just is not so heavy anymore,somewhere along the way someone,or yourself,has removed some of those rocks and its not so heavy anymore.It hurts less. Its always there,it just hurts less to carry it.

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bf 12 year old daughter beats him up...... Posted: 2/20/2006 6:34:42 PM
Thank to everone,You all helped me make up my mind. And wlrdave,just so you know,Mom is still in the picture,they trade off weeks,every other. And from what I can see Mom does not put up with her behaivor for a minute. Ah well, Its for the best and my responsibility is mine,and my own kid-ling. Thankx Again

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Soul mate??? Posted: 2/19/2006 10:51:21 PM
I beleive I had mine,we had each other for 6 years and then he passed. Ive had my happiness,or do we get more than one? I wonder......

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bf 12 year old daughter beats him up...... Posted: 2/18/2006 9:08:56 PM
Oh,she KNOWS very well what shes doing and I have told her on many occasions that I will not have her talking to her father or acting that way in my home,with him right there,So now she just waits until they get outside.........and then pummels him! SHe is VERY angry and for that and I do feel very sorry for her because at the rate she is going she will only get worse and Im afraid escalate into bigger and better ways to torment her Dad. No body wants to see a young girl taking the path that she is on. Well, all I know is that it ruined the thing that I had with her Father.And he does not want to admit there is a problem.... Thank you for your perspective, Its helps I dont want to think that Ive been to "Hard" About the whole thing.

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bf 12 year old daughter beats him up...... Posted: 2/18/2006 7:28:21 PM
I do. AND I have tried to talk to him about it,then I had to lay down the law that we (Myself and my 6 year old daughter,who by the way was taking all this in) would not be going anywhere in public with him and his until she could work on a little self control.SO, then he would invited us places,just him, and when he would show up,he would have his daughter.Inevidebly there would be "the fight", and we would all have to go home. Resturaunts,amusment parks,the beach....she was not picky. So,now we go nowhere together and she can not make a show of us........sad. And I did suggest counseling,He did not think it was a problem "Its just the way she is" is all he says! Thank you, Ive just never seen anything like it! Ive ceased being shocked.Now Im just amazed.......

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bf 12 year old daughter beats him up...... Posted: 2/18/2006 7:02:59 PM
Well the first time it happened I about fell out of my chair, then I thought "Man,hes gonnna KILL her" then......nothing. I really didn't expect him to kill her but a nice "GO TO YOUR ROOM" would have been appropriate,I think. Im very sad because if it were not for her and her "Little temper" we would still be together,as it is I could not stick around and watch the bloodshed.(his).

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bf 12 year old daughter beats him up...... Posted: 2/18/2006 6:45:31 PM
I broke it off with a VERY nice guy that Id been dateing for almost a year because I could not stand to watch him get the living crap beat out of himself by his 12 year old daughter. If she gets angry (daily) she will just start WHOPPING on him, hitting,kicking,slapping,punching......and he just sits and takes it. When shes done she stomps off muttering and cursing him "Stooopidd JERK" ect.THEN he just resumes the conversation like nothing has happened! (Like I said these "epidodes" are pretty much every day. AND anyplace.) Has anyone else has seen kind of thing?...I know I never have. Child/Parent abuse ? I did try to talk to him about it and all he will say is "Well,thats just the way she is"! The man is SCARED of his daughter! What do you all think, was it worth the break up? I do have to say that I lost a little bit of respect for him each time......... "BUT HEY....Thats just the way she is"

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What is the baddest thing you have ever done to a guy/girl? Posted: 2/17/2006 7:33:08 PM
I was very angry at an ex and at work passed the remark that Id give my diamond earring (He gave me) to anyone that would flatten All 4 of his tires. About a week later I got I call from a co-worker.......I had to give up the earrings.

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Friendship Prayer Posted: 2/3/2006 8:20:15 PM
Irish Prayer May God bless those you love, May God bless those that love you, And for those that don't, may he turn their ankle so youll know them by their limping.

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Friendship Prayer Posted: 2/3/2006 8:19:41 PM
Irish Prayer May God bless those you love, May God bless those that love you, And for those that don't, may he turn their ankles so youll know them by their limping.

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Tommy Boy. Posted: 2/3/2006 8:03:26 PM
"Are you sure theres nothing there?" "Uh,Noooooo" "It doesn't hurt here...or here...so much as here...." Classic Movie,if you love "Tommy boy",have you seen "Almost Heros"?

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Single Father Posted: 1/2/2006 3:07:02 PM
Venting is good.Especally here because chances are good that you will never see any one of these people.Like getting completly drunk and crazy in a bar....in a far off city.So long as you dont get shown on the nightly, news,your good.As far as raising your son,good for you. And no,its not a bad thing to women,women who have had kids.It is DEATH to women who ahve never had kids and has no idea that sometimes kids DONT want to sit nicely in a resturaunt or they have serious issues with long car drives or that they do say EXACALLY what they think ("Whats that on your face?").But it goes both ways and there are men who have a reall challenge with dateing women with kids.So dont feel like the lone ranger,there are plenty of range-etts out there who feel your pain....Hang in.

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So she is 9 years my senior... advice on this one? Posted: 1/2/2006 10:16:12 AM
Age is the least of of your problems here. Cultural difference,language,customs! I was married to a guy 10 year younger then me and we had a great 6 years togeather until he was killed in an accident. But we understood each other,we beleived in the same things and had the same goals.No question,in this country Id go for it...in a another? no.

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