Cheers Ruth..... I guess I'm worried about being 34 35 36 and still waiting..... Funny thing all the girls I feel a spark for shoot me to the friend zone right away grrrrrrrr.......what's up?

are you saying that women don't need to be needed?? i think EVERYONE needs to be needed.

The whole picture thing is a reaL JOKE on here. I don't find anyone looks as good in person as in the photos. Everyone puts their best photo forward I suppose.

I smile, say "okay seeya" and move on.

There'll be another bus coming any minute....

I'm thinking if people put as much creativity and thought into actually getting a relationship going as they do invernting excuses and finding reasons NOT to give someone a chance, there probably wouldn't be so many single people

have two good friends and they are single parents, why is it when someone is looking for someone they have kids, some times I don't need to rise someone elses kids, I always like to start fresh and and build a family the old fashion way. I don't like divcorce, I think itis wrong or leaving someone.

The whining is from lack of sex

Or if they get it on a regular basis, they then find out their partner is wack-a-doodle, or has some major personality flaw/disorder that makes the cost of the sex way too high

I think this is a ridiculous comment from someone who doesn't even post her own pic on her profile. Hypocricy is my number one pet peeve.


Yeah, but how do you feel about ironic wit or sarcasm?

The photo. I think it's all about the picture. The more photos the better.
If the photo is awesome and there are two words in the email and 5 words in the profile I might still want to respond to him.

In New York City it is against the law to fire a pistol at a jackrabbit from a trolly car

Not even in self-defense? They can be ruthless! I guess if I go there I'd better bring the Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch. If there isn't a law against hand grenades on a trolly, that is...

In Illinois, the law is that a car must be driven with the steering wheel.

What's the deal with these automated toilets that flush entirely on their own schedule? Sometimes they just go off randomly. You're still sitting down and suddenly it just flushes. "How dare you! I'll decide when I'm done!!" And then other times it won't flush when you want it to. You stand up and stare at the toilet. Sometimes you have to fake it. You sit back down. . .stand up! Sit down. . .stand up! Then you try tiptoeing away as if you're leaving. Nothing works.

Oh yes. I can go from Zero to Biotch in 1.5 seconds when I see:

Feigned ignorance
Ass kissing brown nosers
Insincerity
Passive aggressive behaviour
Rudness
Sarcasm aimed at me unless they've earned that privilege
Verbal abuse of children
Anyone being unkind to an animal
That I am being lied to
That I am being manipulated
Anyone cutting down someone that I care about

AND

People who walk under awnings with their umbrellas up and try to force me to walk in the rain. Step aside or there WILL be contact.

But thats just my opinion...and what do I know?
Take my advice...I'm not using it!

People on these forums (myself included) have been shot down and accused of being shallow for only wanting to date people that we are attracted to and for not 'seeing whats inside that counts'. Maybe she took their advice and tried it - it doesnt work!

Communication is about 70% body language, 20% tone, and 10% content. ( I'm not making that up-- reasearch it and see!) What does that say about emails?

if the guy is no1 , then the group cannot influence the so called girl. just sometimes, a girl needs and likes to be with someone other than the s/o. don't men like to sit around with their buddies and watch games, and drink beers without the relationship thing in their mind? it's just a different breath of air.