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 Author Thread: Russian Women?
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 171 (view)
 
Russian Women?
Posted: 2/3/2009 8:45:29 PM
LOL I remember I had an incident a year or so ago with the pics and all,and she was gorgeous. But when the pics appeared to be of different women and she wanted me to send her $200 to have her flown here. I sort of dropped the issue. I should have sent her the money,or specifically $200 in monopoly money. lol oh well.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 99 (view)
 
What’s the most important thing that men don’t understand about women that they should
Posted: 1/27/2008 9:14:38 PM
A statement like this was humorous,but harmless....IN THE BEGINNING GOD CREATED MAN AND RESTED,THEN HE CREATED WOMAN AND HAS'NT RESTED EVER SINCE.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 

Posted: 1/11/2008 10:11:35 PM
I appreciate everyone's points of veiws,but some are more negative than I could ever be lol,some were helpful.. Yup, Self confidence is definitely a must. Happy fishing to all!!! My pic is getting reposted.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 381 (view)
 
Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 1/11/2008 2:20:31 PM
People that have a spine,if they've been seeing someone a bit,to tell them it's not going to work. Met women like that,and I'm sure guys do to.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Is it really suppose to happen? When?
Posted: 1/11/2008 11:28:16 AM
Well I appreciate your efforts ladies, but there's a lot more to that than what you picked up on. But thanks anyway. I guess in a nutshell,we are all in the same boat for different reasons. Hey in the long run single is not too bad. I have a friend in a very shaky marriage,and I would'n trade places with him for anything. I'm pretty happy with things,ya have to make the best of everything,my whole post was more about results for efforts. As I mentioned in the beginning,it was'nt a big deal,there's no negative attitude here..
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Is it really suppose to happen? When?
Posted: 1/11/2008 7:39:20 AM
Thanks,you're a sweetie. I've learned not to be toooo nice,it can be taken as a pushover lol.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Is it really suppose to happen? When?
Posted: 1/11/2008 7:12:15 AM
Well really to people who know me as all of you don't lol,so I'm often told. I'm pretty positive and easy going . And as far as geting to know people,availability with women that are at least average is scarce anymore ,even over 25 years old LOL. This is only the second time I've had a post on here,so this has'nt been too common. I think a lot of it is the town I'm in,it's under 20,000. The town is quite nice,but the attitudes of many are negative. Well to a fair number anyway. Oops!,I need to attent to some aliens that have just landed. I do appreciate your imputs!! Try to be positive if ya can.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Is it really suppose to happen? When?
Posted: 1/11/2008 7:03:54 AM
I guess I mean,is it worth putting the effort in anymore. Are we just meant to be as we are? Example I was out with a lady I was quite attracted to a while back and we got along very well. And I thought WOW! a great connection!!And we agreed to see one another again and after calling a few times,she then started blowing me off saying things I wanted to hear,the call after the date was very long and still had lots of chemistry,not much effort was needed. As far as words,If you don't mean them DON'T SAY THEM!! If you're not interested,tell the person,I always do in a very tact ful way of course. I guess we live in the world of the WHAT CAN YA DO FOR ME society,or I just meet the wrong types of people. I've been told often that they can't believe I'm not taken,not to sound arrogant lol.That usually comes from people I'm not interested in or ones that aren't available. The question? I quess there really is'nt one except when will there be good timeing on things,but well then again I'm constantly remined of all the broken marriages and relationships around so I figure it could be much worst,and my sympathys to those people.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Is it really suppose to happen? When?
Posted: 1/10/2008 10:16:33 PM
No big deal,but just in the mood to vent right now.I'm 44 and never married. Been dating for 20 or so years,and I truly think the nice guy finishes last,but in recent years I try not to be too nice. A little kockinness is cool. Man...no matter how fun and careing,romantic etc ya tend to be even without adding pressure,it always seems like a stepping stone for someone else,if you like them anyway.. Over and over the same result. Always some reason as to why the connection gets terminated. Whether it's me or them. I sort of seem to draw types that are below what I'm really attracted to,and the level is not that high. Maybe not having a kid of my own has something to do with it,I get asked that as to why I have none of my own in a sarcastic way.,but then again I could add the reply "why could'nt you wait until the kid has a solid relationship with a good married mother and dad,rather than you just giving in to your passions lol". I do love kis though,I'm a part time leader of a youth group,And the kids and I really click well together. But being single all these years taught me to be independant. What's really insulting is when women you're attracted to flirt with ya,and trust me,it is a genuine flirt,there's nothing you can do about it because they're not available. Maybe a lot of us can relate to these things. And what really gets my goat is when I encounter a beautiful sensible woman who is hooked up with an abusive loser. My whole family was married early,brothers and sister( feel like I've been called to deal with what they have'nt had to),even my cousins are hooked up. Those family gatherings can be very lonely,but thanks to my independance it's been easier in recent years. I'm exhausted from trying(and mind you ya can't try too hard,I'm more so refering to opportunities when they come along.),we all have to make the best of our lives as far as happiness goes,but things like this I guess just have to happen.and unfortunately for being a guy,I have to make the first move. Can be a real risk on the ego. But I'm strong,but yet still seeking,but not desperate,we can't be.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 227 (view)
 
When men get all GIRLIE.
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:37:12 PM
I guess that can work both ways. But just out of curiosity,well around here anyway,why is it that most single women that are fairly decent looking have such major issues? I went in to a silent giggle the other night when I called a lady,and all she talked about was herself,her son's father is in jail,he did drugs on and on......it's everywhere ya meet them . They say they can change them... Are lots of women drawn to abuse or something??? no common sense?? I know it's not everyone,and there are many cases where they are victimised but jesssssssse,there are so many,I feel so sorry for many people out there,they need the Lord in their life.. etc etc. How bad does a woman really want a good guy?? dependable relyable ,caring, giving ,wanting to make his lady happy but without being a whimp about it. Just venting
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 226 (view)
 
When men get all GIRLIE.
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:28:55 PM
That's why they call dogs man's best friend. kidding
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Women are often not good at being reliable
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:12:01 PM
PLEASE READ This has been an interesting forum ,and I believe some cans of worms were opened. Alls well with me and thank you all for your insights. Yup I do sense that she really is'nt all there now. But I think the potential,and the unrealistic expectaions sort of got to me. Was sure nice being out with someone I felt sparks for. A lot of times I attract women who don't even appeal to me. If ya look at my pics,I'm far from a 10 but not bad looking. Be nice to meet someone in that catagory. OK now a new point, I went to a resataurant with a buddy today,and this waitress who he knew was there and she was quite attractive,and nice.,but the more she talked to us ,She went on about her husband (I think) who was very abusive to her,not necessarily physically but in other areas,sounds like a real nut case,and she was really frustrated. I'm sure her 3 kids have seen alot,so sad that this is going on everywhere. Do people not really look before they leap or what??
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Women are often not good at being reliable
Posted: 11/19/2007 5:17:49 PM
Hey R,very insightful. Yup I've come to learn that women are really testing me on issues with kids,when they have them,because they want a dad to ultimately step father their kids.. But when I'm questioned this, Right away I tell them that I'm involved with a youth group and I love kids. It appears to score good Brownie points. And yeah I definitely love them,and thy definitely take to me,because I have a humorous kiddie side to me they like. But while still being at the responsible adult level. But being I have no kids myself it can appear unusual to some. But from my point of veiw I could come off saying to single people with kids "how much do you love your kids by not trying to make your marriage work?" Or "what? you could'nt control your passions enough to wait till you have a stable father?" lol,well you know what I mean,the list goes on,and there are many unfortunate circumstances out there,which I feel for . But the reality is,I've chosen to wait on all that I guess ,I've learned that to always keep opportunities open,until you're ready to commit to someone. Better than being COMMITTED i guess lol. I have an old saying with dating and when things start getting goofy like the olympics "let the games begin lol"
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Women on reliability,and yes it works both ways
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:41:56 PM
I appreciate your feedback ladies,and yes it does work both ways. I actually wanted to go back and change the title,but did'nt know how to at the time lol.
 hossey007
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Women are often not good at being reliable
Posted: 11/19/2007 8:39:48 AM
I went out with this lady a month or so ago,we had a great time,and I was quite attracted to her, Very positive attitude. She told me she was to me,and was looking foreward to see me again in so many words,I could feel the chemistry.. After a few phone calls which were great and enthusiastic,she eventually blew me off,there was'nt much pressure on my part,just going with the flow.. Just interest. I called her a week later,out of curiousity and asked her what her motives were in a casual kind of way,after some good conversation... And she told me what made you think I was attracted to you? (I told her that I have no problem telling someone that I'm not interested,but if they want to be friends thats great). I like to get it all out in the open. And I remeinded her of what she said,then she replied with,YES,I am really attracted to you and I had a great time,and am looking foreward to seing ya again. but these days I'm busy with my kids and such,how do Thursdays work for you?? And I said well call me and let me know. Never heard from her. I recently knowticed that she's on this site now,and I emailed just to say hi. she emailed back,and said with your time of,(I'm off for a few weeks),we should get together So I emailed back and mentiond what days would be good for me,but will be gone after next week for a few days,well nothing back so far. Talk about insulting ones intelligence. :modhammer: Why am I 44 and still unmarried with no kids?? And developed my own independance? It's because of this crap,I've not had too many problems attracting women,but if I like them..... this is the treatment. Where are all the fairly attractive sensible women?
 
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