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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth...
Posted: 5/11/2009 6:11:37 PM | Man, it's the truth. Girls are looking for a challenge. Do you ever wonder why girls go for jerks with tattoos and motorcycles? They like that bad boy image. I struggled the same way you are struggling for so long.
In high school I was the type to listen to sad songs, watch chick flicks and write love letters. I'm not saying I don't have any of that left in me, but you have to disguise some of it and be as masculine as possible.
Girls like to be teased and challenged.
Back in the day, if I liked a girl, I would spill to her... Throw myself at her and make it obvious she could have me at any moment. These days I play the game a little bit. Don't call a girl the second you have her phone number. Make her wonder why you haven't called. Poke fun at her about stuff. Pretend you're serious and then tell her she's a dork for believing you. Sounds weird but that's what works.
Be**** and funny. Not too much of wither one but a perfect mix. Instead of telling her she looks beautiful in the dress, tell her "Ya you're alright, but there's like 8 billion women who look good. Tell me something that makes you different than them. Don't be boring!"
Run the show, kid! That doesn't mean don't be a gentleman. But don't be a pushover. Guys can play hard to get too.
You know how fun it is to ride jet-skis in the surf? It's freakin' awesome. Why? Because it's a rare thing and you look forward to it. You want to do it. Now go do it every day for a year. It's not as special. It becomes bland and boring. Dude, the same goes for your romantic comments and hopeless love gestures. Make her lookf orward to a compliment. Make her earn it. Make her earn you. If she has you "whenever she wants you and knows it" (much like the jet-ski analogy), then there's nothing left to want.
Now... Go be a stud. Women can smell it if you're not confident so don't fake it buddy. Go get 'em. | | | |
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