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anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Panic at 40, the middle age crisis. Posted: 9/8/2008 3:37:23 PM
It's seven years later and Your STILL focused on what happened,,, lol thats what I I find weird,dont you think its time to LET IT GO? Or maybe your like alot of folks nowdays and use the ex as and EX cuse to not move on? Nope Mid life crisis has nothing to do with this blogger .......happy fishin

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Advice about midlife crisis/commitmentphobic Posted: 8/13/2008 8:13:32 PM
I was with a man like this for a few years and he kept that daisy pull "loves me /loves me not thing going on the whole time.Even went as far as to tell me it wasnt me its him, he needs his space,but soon as I moved out he was calling wanting me to move back in?Your guy will NEVER commit to a marriage hes and old dog thats learned some tricks over the years(hence the fact hes never been married ?)My old mama would say your bout as likely to catch him as you would catching a greased pig lol....sorry your going through all this I know the feeling of pain and indecision.My advice is cut all ties that bind sugar and move on with a life and lover that wants more and deserves you.

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

Has anyone tried It's Just Lunch? Posted: 5/19/2008 6:49:17 PM
Had a fella contact me for a date from one of those sites and decided to not waste his money by meeting him... when he told me that he had" first dated " 150 women in the last 18mo...I dont even like placing second lol let alone 151st so him telling me that told me Id be about as special as his next change of underwear lol,,,,,,for the guy that stated women are "hoes" for dating someone just one time for a dinner?whats that make this guy? Idiot and glutton in my world......

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

dating a younger woman Posted: 5/4/2008 3:07:07 PM
Ok off topic just a smidge,,,,,,but I keep reading about "get viagra" well I think that damn blue pill is the reason for WAR , POVERTY,DIVORCE,PLAGUE LOL,,,, before the "blue? guys understood their sexual peakage , you reached a certain age and you knew when you went from a 60 watt bulb to a 25 and that was ok,, caus your lady was a 25 too...but now? old guys that used to just chase the firetrucks? catch them well catching that (girl) aka firetruck might be awesome long as you can choke down that viagra fellas but it dosent change the fact your butt looks like mud flapps, you have hair grown where your ears used to be, you cant fool around the kitchen cause the microwave affects your pacemaker lol,sooooo ok if your 70 and yah have 3 hrs to live and the last thing you want to remember is that last piece of ahem....pie? lol go for it other wise go natural age ISNT THE ENEMY kisses lovvvvvvvvve CAT lol WAIT sexual peakage being reached in progress ,,,,,,,,,,,lol THIS HAS BEEN A PUBLIC SERVICE MESSAGE REGULAR PROGRAMING BACK IN SERVICE

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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dating a younger woman Posted: 5/4/2008 10:46:25 AM
LOL on this one,,, firstly sounds like a lotta braggin there bean farmer ,,,but hey dont worry about keeping up with her, after she goes through your bank account ,wrecks your car, runs up all your credit cards to the max (spending it on the younger man that you dont know about) she will kiss you and explain how the age thing just isnt gonna work for her LOL,,, sorry had to put this in it happened to 2 male friends of mine recently,,,,,,final message is DONT WORRY BE HAPPY LOL .For all the mean people that jump on my case for telling you? Forums only work if you have people respond, and its all individual public opinion so relax lol. heading out to troll the nursing home for my old guy LOL Happy fishin....

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 442 (view)

Men Blacklisting Women?? Posted: 4/4/2008 10:30:53 PM
Its ignorant to think you can judge someone by the number on their favorite list ,Ive said this before and I'll say it again for the redundant,If someone places me on their favorite list that does in no way mean I have chatted with,had contact with or want to have contact with that person Im never asked prior to them placing me on said list and if I try to delete those that have placed me on their list it takes time out of my day that I dont care to spend since you must do this ONE NAME AT A TIME,Its like saying Im dating the whole town because my names in the phone book??? If this bothers you guys then all I can say is GROW UP this isnt high school and your not trying to date the varsity cheerleader ,,,,,,get over it

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 855 (view)

Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 3/27/2008 7:53:58 PM
Take? this is redundant,,,, its allllllllll about personal preference,,,, end of WHINE!

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 181 (view)

would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 1/30/2008 10:23:30 PM
I want to be someones trashy second,,,, grin,,,,thats wife yall pervs lol .There is no taking that ops question seriously with out a serious smack, yahhh me an you scooby,,,,nooooo snack for you

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Leaving Site Posted: 1/30/2008 10:19:26 PM
Quick grab the nets the guppies are revolting errr,,, evolting?,,,,,bolting? heck there leavin ,,,, I am always curious why people feel the need to announce they are leaving,,, I dont get and announcement when they arrive? my my my,sorry for anyone thats lonely tonight,,,,, me? well i have pof to keep me ,,,, ,,,welll by golly I have pof lol

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Hairs the story... Posted: 1/30/2008 10:09:23 PM
Darlin when someone wants out any excuse will do,,, your hairs to short,your makeups to heavy, your mac n cheese sucks ,,,well you get the drift, fish on lovers

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 76 (view)

Ex wife is best friend but women see her as competiton Posted: 1/25/2008 11:51:53 PM
BIG RED FLAG!!! for all of you that say this is wonderful and people should accept it yada yada, go listen to the "Id like to buy the world a coke" song.Give me a break he cant start a new relationship as long as theres one going on ??? which one of you would tolerate and ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend hanging around for days at a time? tag that word ex on there and thats supposed to make it ok? and btw if its for the kiddies? why arent they out there on that lake with momma? Little bit of hanky and whole lotta panky I'm thinkin.NO wonder another woman dosent want to walk into that bee's nest ?Im thinking he dosent want to let her go,,,, sorry OP if you were playing nice for the kids sake? you wouldnt be playin house with ex mom to do it. fish on

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 129 (view)

Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/4/2008 1:28:53 PM
There are NO garantees in any relationship,when one breaks it off and the other wasnt ready or willing there will always be the feeling of being misled,One has to maintain personal integrity whether or not the other party does ,I think its natural to feel hurt and mislead when there is a break up but lets face it ,,,it happens and if there was and intimate relationship? It makes it that much more difficult if you feel the need to punish then the one your punishing is most likely yourself and no one wins there to want to take legal action against a person that you chose to sleep with no matter if you do feel some how tricked?Is a road to bitterness that no one should travel ,best advice? If you get involved dont sleep with someone till you are ready?and if you do decide to take that step?take responsibility for your OWN actions.that would be a NO to legal proceedings. happy new year everyone

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Emotional Baggage Posted: 12/26/2007 9:07:07 PM
Hum.. wait... didnt the op have a question in all this chest buttin,bush peein, pots callin kettles black contest here?ohhhhh yeah,,,HE DID some woman flippin out cause she thought he was cut of the same cloth his predecessors were? I dont think anyones surprised at that?So kid either buckle up for the long haul? Get a new lady? and heres just a tiny thought? but arent you now carrying a suitcase sayin beware of ladys that flip? Ahem...aka baggage lol..so when you date again somewhere in your mind youll have that little fear or big one that if she acts just a smidge like the last one she will BE JUST LIKE FLIPPER???if your over 18 then your gonna meet people that have had or maybe recently had wounds?sometimes if you fall in love your willing to help bandage them,,sometimes if you get to far involved to fast and its not love? your not as willing to stick it out thru the hard times,,,,,Im not picking on you?just speaking from my own vast aged experience lol,,,and for those that hollar dont be lookin for someone till you fix yourself? darlin if we waited till we were all fixed? NONE of us would ever date again,,,just have to be BRAVE and get into the ruckus of life merry christmas all you nay sayers lol

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Ok you dont want to meet,,, sooooo Posted: 10/20/2007 9:13:04 PM
Hey Suthrn,, How you doin sugar? just checking in,,, noticed we had a little lively conversation on this subject? glad to see im not the only one that gets annoyed with the whole process,Hey whens the next local meet and greet? I know your our social butterfly round here :) I want to have one for all the little phat gurls and the men that love us lol,,,let me know your thoughts kisses cat

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 169 (view)

Why are most men looking for Friends with Benefits? Posted: 10/19/2007 8:49:51 PM
LOL,,,OKKK kinda surprised this is even a question but hey,,,I'M game FWB (yes it has its own initials) lol No commitment issue NO cost issues(this clause has anything to do with date the word date the implication of date the meeting friends ,family or having anyone else call you DATE oh yah and the cost of the DATE LOL PS he DOSENT WANT TO DATE YOU ) Yahhh ya'll know who you are ......:) the gosh I'd rather play golf with they boys than hang out with you AND I DONT HAVE TO SAY NUTTIN HONEY The I'm middle aged have my own life, family,plans, dogs,home ,yard,(you get the idea) and I can have sex when I feel like it and its ALL GUILT FREE FOR ME!!!!YEAHHH I have the cure for this malady,,, Ladies and gentlemen,,,, stop handing sex over on a silver platter to those that want to use you as a recreational toy(disclaimer: for those that like this process of being a recreational toy by all means carry on just dont fuss and whine when yah thought all that sex you were handing out like free lollipops thinking it was gonna get you the chewy middle ? Oh hell I dont really care screw who ever you want,,, now back to our regularly scheduled program,,,,lol

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Ok you dont want to meet,,, sooooo Posted: 10/1/2007 12:41:13 PM
wellllll I'm back at the request of Suthern boy lol,, I didnt realize the post was still here since it only generated a few responses I assumed it went the way of the dead forums that perks no interest I do apologize for anyone that may have felt ignored that certainly was not my intention. I hope everyone has had a great year and continues to do so and I will check n on my "patients" now and again to see how your doing feel free to say hi, I promise Ill respond. Cat

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

When is it Okay to start dating when your marriage has failed? Posted: 6/30/2007 10:20:23 AM
I dont get to really getting pissy on these threads to often because ,, well its not healthy to worry about what everyone else is doing,,, UNTIL,,, some guy or woman comes online and starts "looking for a special friend" and they are married,, I have been on the end of " Im getting a divorce when the kids are grown, when the business sells, when the wife gives me everything , when the damn dog dies,,,Aint gonna happen today or tomorrow or the year after .If your married your married end of subject you cant date .. thats called cheating and Personally I want nothing to do with a cheater,, cheats on her will cheat on me mentality,,,,, If your truly trying to divorce ? then accept the fact you shouldnt be dating until its over ,,, and for the nay sayers that say ohhh if the papers are signed its ok? its not over till the judge signs off on it .Seperated isnt single ,having a big house and yall livin on opposite sides lol isnt single,,, place and ad on personals that advocate the cheaters club im sure youll get all the stuff your looking for and deserve hum,, theres a new fish,, "cheater fish" prolific and has a lure hangin out of its mouth attached to another line lol

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

Poor POF date...who is raising these guys? Posted: 6/24/2007 12:44:53 PM
ok you invited a kid over gave said underage kid liquor ,tried to seduce him and then,,,, thank god you scared him with your singing and smoking enough he ran lol wonder if it was the smoke orrrrrrrr did someone try putting the tent pole down hum op?he wasnt rude sugar he was doing what momma told him never play with strangers lol

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 187 (view)

Dumbest question you've been asked on 1st date? Posted: 6/19/2007 10:35:05 PM
Could you loan me five dollars for gas? Could you let me spend the nite I promise my wife wont mind? Could I bring my Mother along on our date she worries about me? Could I borrow your lingere and your heels?Borrow? no please help yourself lol Could you watch my 2 yr old while Im out with the boys ? good lord I just realized there wont be enough room for all the dumbest questions ive had lol just laugh at those

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 76 (view)

Shortest Date Ever - With a very tall man Posted: 6/13/2007 9:00:22 PM
laughin to tears here,, yall know why this ape acted like he did???? because his experience is with the margo s of this world that think because they preach equal treatment thats what they get well guess what,, YAH DO,, you get men that cant be considerate or polite or act like honor bound men that actually care and nurture the females who in turn honor and nurture them because they are so confused at what their role is spose to be,, should i offer a seat and get yelled at? should i pay and get demeaned for being a male chauvinist? or is this a woman that appreciates nice considerate treatment for the way im behaving? give me the good old guys that will toss their coats over a puddle for me hell ill pay the cleaning bill,,, lol at least i know what side of the fence im on,, and margo before you start yelling? just wait for the fella that wants you to pay his way, buy his gas there and leaves you standing in the rain so his suit you purchased dosent get wet lolol play nice and keep swimming lol

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 158 (view)

Anyone Ever Been To One of Those BBW Parties? Posted: 6/13/2007 6:07:26 PM
Skinny people of the world be calm,,lol there are bbw parties and they exist because the skinny people of the world shun them at the skinny people parties,, also known as bars ,pubs, dances yada yada so see? you skinny folks do already have your own club,, truth is there is the little people organization, the bbw clubs, swingers, gay clubs,it goes on and on,,, life is to live without regard to size ,stature , color or sexual orientation hum there should be a club for forum writers? swim on!!!

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 71 (view)

What is your take on mail order brides? Posted: 5/30/2007 9:50:42 AM
Well after carefully reading all the forums on this particular subject It seemed to me that American women are terrible terrible awful creatures that dont deserve happiness and a mate at all ,, I mean good lord we work like dogs, bring up the kids,cook and clean after working at that wonderful career all day, we take care of the man of the house when he has a cold and go to work when we have one, we hand over paychecks (when he decides he has to have that motocycle) we make love when its been a 18 hr day and we have 15 min of energy left,,, yeah we are a rotten group of women,, i say fire all of us,, then we can become the pampered housewifey pets to some guy from across the pond that thinks we are beautiful, courageous,dedticated and all we have to do is 2 hrs of house work and shop,,,, sounds wonderful,, I want to be mail ordered where do i sign up??

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

how do you tell that your potential date is real?? Posted: 2/18/2007 12:48:23 AM
wishes she could sell enough "pantings" on the side of the road to go abroad....lol darlin darlin darlin,,,scam big ole scam ya'll shouldnt worry about how its written but the content of the message that screams SCAM!! LLOL bless your heart any way

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

OK - wanna pick ur brains.... Posted: 12/28/2006 8:30:19 AM
Why are people asking about the weights bar - nobody else around here look after themselves I think people are asking because you look like your standing in a laundry holding a cheap barbell in and even cheaper cheesy pose and maybe its just me ,,, but the body in pic 3 (sans the head btw whats that about?) dosent match the fella in pic 1? and who is in pic 2? im beginning to think you should definately go to the ukraine save the rest of the women in the world,,,good luck

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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How Does POF Compare To Other Sites? Posted: 5/29/2006 3:09:28 PM
hey blue good for you spoken like a true male chauvinist put the woman in her place,,, oh yeah love it

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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How Does POF Compare To Other Sites? Posted: 5/29/2006 3:01:52 PM
You are of the opinion you have the ONLY CORRECT OPINION so go for it sugar as to my "questionable services" you dont need to go for the throat darlin you have my sympathy im very sorry that your so damaged by what ever means that you have to continue to attack please accept my sincere apologies for whatever wrong you seem to think I have done to you I intend to continue to enjoy my day,, please do the same cat

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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How Does POF Compare To Other Sites? Posted: 5/29/2006 12:54:51 PM
Ok you got me big boy,,, I have been demeaned and put in my place,,, feel better now? Im sure you'll catch lots of fish this way forums are for open discussion ? The fact that you had to pick apart every comment made tells me you have a lot of growing to do and I must have hit a direct nerve for you to get so upset at any rate I'll go about my happy life just the same hum and maybe its not your mother in law that has the anger issues? You take care sugar love cat

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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How Does POF Compare To Other Sites? Posted: 5/29/2006 10:00:10 AM
Hum,, perhaps its the age difference but I dont see the profile written as wonderful as the writer obviously does,The humor is bleak he attempts to wow with how high his IQ is and assumes he needs to explain all the "big words" perhaps this isnt the same profile that rewarded him with 124 responses But you know how we blonde bimbos are to much reading and we lose focus ~~so leave off the bragging , complaining(ex's),being a walking dictionary,and oh yes wasnt there something supposed to be funny here? I think it got lost in transition and get a photo in place I doubt that your ex mom in law fishes here (after all you arent the type to put your address and or phone number here on the site are you?)lol but if she does I promise to protect you yours truly blonde bimbo aka 2 degreed,nurse,teacher and law student( non plastic) ps most of you guys do and excellent job of placing a profile you all have lots to offer dont be so hard on yourselves on what women want the right one is just a hook,line and sinker away POF cant be all things to all people and certainly cant replace REAL life events,, so get out there and do it LIVE

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 86 (view)

Alpha and Beta males-how to reconcile? Posted: 5/23/2006 2:08:03 PM
hum,, winding my way thru this post I thought,, "read her profile see what all the fuss is about,, and LO and Behold,, this woman is MARRIED ok is it just me or is this woman looking for her NEXT replacement? ook k,,shes lookin but she cant date (theres a surprise) darlin Im not sure you should be lookin for Alpha or Beta or Zepher for that matter,, just my lil ole opinion and hey when your hubby finds out bout this? and moves on? give him my profile Id be happy to Alpharize him heheh

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 21 (view)

To the men... Is this an epidemic or just a local bug? Posted: 2/19/2006 2:03:27 PM
Actually if you are really serious about going out with the guy you shouldnt be asking him to confirm with you... thats a classic woman trick for breaking dates confirming is a way for ME to be sure He still plans to show up or has a nascar appointment aka MY mom is sick cant show excuse lol some dont or wont show because they arent the person they have described or the one in the pic? have a wife or hubby or just get off on the conquest of getting the date but never plan to show,,,,, its internet dating,, have and alternative plan ,, if the person dosent show,, do errands see a movie, get your car waxed lol its THEIR LOSS DARLIN,, LIFE GOES ON LOVE CAT

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 2/2/2006 6:07:12 PM
ok i give up viking,, how many a%^ holes does it take to make a man?

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Ok you dont want to meet,,, sooooo Posted: 2/2/2006 3:36:00 PM
Have to ask the same old question ?Why get on these sites if all you want to do is talk?some one help me understand, personally I find the adventure exciting,the possibilites endless did I misunderstand the user instructions? "knocking on the screen,,, helloooooo anyone out there??" love ya

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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Meet N Greet? for 40 and over in middle tn Posted: 2/2/2006 3:11:26 PM
For those of us that would actually like to meet members in person Im planning a meet and greet party at my home yeah im crazy enough to do it not interested in tryin to find people in a eattery, coffee house,bar,club thing its Feb 18,06 all pertinant info can be given if you email me, come on lets have a cozy "Hi how are you wow im glad I came " kinda evening Be as wild as you dare or as innocent as you please hahah let me add

anatomynurse

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Msg: 191 (view)

Being over 45 is apparently the kiss of death. Posted: 2/1/2006 8:43:19 PM
and did you lose your shirt gambling? lol

anatomynurse

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Msg: 190 (view)

Being over 45 is apparently the kiss of death. Posted: 2/1/2006 8:43:00 PM
and did you lose your shirt gambling? lol

anatomynurse

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Msg: 106 (view)

Whats the one thing you hate to hear on a date... Posted: 2/1/2006 7:02:14 PM
you must be very skinny kid

anatomynurse

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Msg: 105 (view)

Whats the one thing you hate to hear on a date... Posted: 2/1/2006 7:01:41 PM
you must be very skinny kid

anatomynurse

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Msg: 63 (view)

need some help..please..i am begging Posted: 1/31/2006 5:59:01 PM
OK YOUR AND IDIOT, FIRSTLY YOU ARENT A DOCTOR SO PLEASE DONT DIAGNOS , SECONDLY HE SHOULD STAY SINGLE FOR A WHOLE 2 MONTHS? WOW AS LONG AS THAT, YOUR SHALLOWNESS PROCEEDS YOUR IGNORANT ANSWER DID I MENTION YOUR IGNORANT,YOU OBVIOUSLY DO NOT NEED TO GIVE ADVICE MISS WHAT EVER,:

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 126 (view)

The Dog or the Girl? Posted: 1/27/2006 6:54:06 PM
needless to say anyone that would choose and animal,no matter how well behaved has some obvious emotional attachment problems,now before you start digging on me? look at what you are saying.. If you prefer animal company over human great,, then just dont date keep buying dogs and playboys and pet him with that larger dominant hand,,, happy tails darlin

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

im Cat Posted: 1/16/2006 4:11:17 PM
HI all Im really enjoying the emails,everyones been great , Valentines sweet heart wanted,,bring the chocolate and ill bring the strawberries

anatomynurse

Joined: 1/2/2006

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what kind of man women want Posted: 1/15/2006 9:48:20 AM
We want a man that knows there is a difference between sex and romance, one that knows aviator glasses went out 10 years ago, one that still opens doors, dosent live with his mom at 40 , one that dosent want me to support him, one that isnt afraid of commitment, brushes his teeth,loves his car more than women,thinks that hanging out the guys is more fun ,is over 50 and thinks he wants to date a 25 yr old( and please dont let me hear "well if older women took care of themselves" because we do, the list could go on and on,, and dont think for one min i dont love guys,,,Im just waiting for a MAN to step up and be one ,and as for you sebast,, get rid of the hat sit up straight lose the pocket protector the whine and get yourself out there,, women do want guys like you,, we just have to be able to see the man not the props lol this should get you some replies,,, good bad and awful lol cat

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