If someone cancelled a date with me via a text, there wouldn't be another date.

This thread has been a long, long story of you.....waxing, maintenance, ya da, ya da. Enough already. Hope it is effective in finding you the right men to date.

Next........

being yoked to an unbeliever.

Don’t cha wish your girlfriend was hot like, Bea? Don’t cha?

He was trying to relate the humor in it, folks. Stuff about heads in the fridge...um, a joke? The heavy drinking? Um...another joke! Yeah, why is it that on either end of the spectrum you find people utterly incapable of humor: Fundy Christians/Jews/Muslims/hell, Hindus, I imagine can't laugh and neither can fundamentalist atheists. To say nothing of MADD mothers and other Carrie Nation types (for the record, and my detractors: I rarely drink anything stronger than rehydrating fluids

You have an image of heads in the refrigerator because she doesn't believe in God?

I suppose that's my point. If those doing the reviews help take out all these things, haven't we the reviews just changed who these people APPEAR to be?

interesting how generous the women in this thread are to the childless, never-married 49-year-old woman. a man with that relationship resume gets crucified.

My personal trainer and friend looks like she weights 110 but she weighs 130. If you work out and have more muscle than fat you may weigh more than you look.

whatever, I love my photos, they were done by a good friend and are me 100%. I'm artisitic and these represent that side of me. Sure they are minorly touched up, but barely. I told him to keep them as normal as possible. They are me and I love getting them done every so often for fun.

If there's complete anonymity on the internet-- no one knows you, no one can vouch for you, you have no accountability-- should people suspend their disbelief and assume whatever you say is the truth?
If you won't go for showing your ID, what other options are agreeable to you?

LMAO...not trying to get a compliment. Uh huh. And the sun rises in the west too...

I've seen better, but I digress.

Doesn't matter what you wear OP, people will say whatever is on their mind when they contact you. You're getting attention which means mission accomplished (yea I saw the full naked back shot btw), but you're just not getting attention from guys you "want". Get used to it. You could wear a potato sack and still get the same shallow endorsements that you're seeing now.

It's how things work around here. Don't like that kinda attention, I suggest using the "crop" feature in your photo editor and keep things neck up.

Doesn't take a genius to figure it out. If you didn't want the boob commentary, you'd have made sure to not appear quite so provocative and crop accordingly.

Nice try though.

Because a professional photographer will use lighting and angles to create an "image" shot and then will re-touch the photo to remove imperfections (lines around and under the eyes, skin blemishes, etc).

It's not a "glamour shot" but still isn't showing the real you.

OMG i LOVE that show!! it's sooooo scary. i guess i have more in common with you than he does, lol.

I don't like "damaged" women. I don't like drama--it's no fun. But, on the other hand, my last honey was a self-contained, postured, well-behaved, domesticated sort whom everything had to be perfect for. There was no passion, no spontaneity, I fell deeply into her routine, and was bored out of my mind.


Maybe she was bored out of her mind, too. Are you really Captain Adventure?

ETA: I used the quote wrong, and my reply was included in quote.

Maybe I'll give it a try just for experimental purposes. Might be good for me!

I never **** at people who are self sufficient. But if my mom needs me to help her out somehow, and it meant she had to move in with me or vice versa, I wouldn't say no because someone who is self sufficient thinks I shouldn't. It wouldn't be permanent, just temporary. What I have said is that so many women think men shouldn't be living with any parents regardless of the situation.

I buy used panties

Put it in your profile or where ever else you want to cry about your poon waxing. The visual for me isn't so pleasant!

Alot of Women will always immediately think a guy who is living in his parents place is a loser and mooch. Even if you explain it to her, she will still think you shouldn't be there or that you are lying. It is a stereotype and you can't make those people think otherwise...Sad.

The next azz wipe that brings up that question.
Answer abstinence or castration. What a azzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

If you haven't dated or don't plan on having sex that is just absurd.

If someone can't understand children having access to their parents while the parents are out, I'd say don't date people with kids. It's on everyone's profile, so it should be easy to weed those people out. :)

East side of US1 between Johnson and Hollywood Blvd.

I would decline an invitation like this.
If I was interested in a woman, I'd want to be alone with her so I could get to know her better.

Tell you what is creepy, are the guys that I avoided because I googled. Married, players, and criminals.

Who else finds these just a little bit depressing? I do. I think it is sad (and maybe hypocritical) that women don't seem to have any real intellectual interests. I don't expect politics to be high on the list, but absolute least favorite? Jeez. And I think we all know that "hopes and aspirations" is code for the man's income.

As for the stereotyping of BDSM being all about pain and dark, devious, sexual acts, I recommend anyone who thinks along these lines to read:

"When Someone You Love Is Kinky" by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt

The Meetup group that I joined is 90% women/10% men, so odds are better for men. But I would agree that it is the best way to meet a "real" person that you can actually see and talk to.

Huh? Why is that? I have no problem with skin color, I only brought it up because sexism is not very different from racism. It's basing an opinion and expectation on a fact, that has nothing to do with the person and is completely irrational

How do you feel about people being racist and expecting you to be automatically guilty of something because of your skin color? Once they've made it clear, that they expect you to be certain things because of your race, do you still listen to them?