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And so God said........... Posted: 6/28/2009 5:20:45 PM
On a personal note: I had for several months now been developing and on-line relationship with a wonderful women with whom I shared numerous things in common. We had plans to meet and see if it was something we each wanted to pursue further. As a result of her reading my comments in this thread I got an email this morning explaining that any potential S/O MUST believe and share several veiwpoints that she holds dearly concerning the concept of love - one of a very few areas we had not previously explored with each other. She felt that my posts indicated that I didn't hold similar views (I think she is wrong in this but that is beside the point now...) so she ended things. The irony in this is that her insistence on a S/O holding similar views IS setting the terms for an implicit trade - which was exactly my point here all along. In knowing you for the years I have, I have to say, the woman that let you go...huge mistake. You're one of the most caring, giving, and loving people I know. I didn't know we had to hold the same views on everything to love or be in love with someone. I didn't know love came with preconceived conditions. In all this, didn't see fighting. I did see someone trying to get a point across, to which others didn't agree so it came across that way to them, but whatever. For those who feel one needs to think the same as you in order for you to love them, you're in a for a huge disappoinment, not to mention a very boring existence.

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Should a man do his eyebrows? Posted: 6/17/2009 9:06:04 PM
YES! When I was a stylist, one of the first things I would do was ZIP the clippers over my comb and trim those wily things! Looking directly at a man and trying to concentrate while two huge, furry catepillars are moving up and down, well, it's quite distracting. You trim your hair, shave for face (well, some do), trim nose and ear hair, why not eyebrows? And for the record, nice brows!

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If diamonds are a girl's best friend... Posted: 6/17/2009 9:02:53 PM
Cumin basil oregano allspice.

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One for the girls ....... if there was an all male brothel ..... Posted: 6/17/2009 9:01:12 PM
yes, I would. Smart, witty, and sexy as hell. That's what I'd look for. Who needs dumb and submissive? Not I. I want some I can play out all things with, not just boss around.

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Are you kidding? Posted: 6/16/2009 11:39:58 PM
After a year... You've met twice in that time. How much slower can it go? You need to put on your big girl panties and out and out ask what is up. Otherwise, it's going to be a long year.

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Dog the Bounty Hunter Posted: 6/13/2009 10:34:04 PM
No, we do not dress like this as a norm. He is, as the poster above me said, effective in his job, but he's a bit too cartoonish and dresses like a 90's rockstar throw back for my tastes.

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Do we women really need an orgasm? Posted: 6/13/2009 10:28:37 PM
Yes, I do need an orgasm. Sometimes several times a day in fact. God bless porn, nerve endings, and toys!

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How Scary Are the guys on here? Posted: 6/13/2009 10:16:07 PM
As Casper said it's not just the men. Stories I've heard from my guy friends here, the women can be scary and stalkerish, too. I don't like pushy and demanding men telling me they want to call ASAP. If I'm not comfy, you're not calling. Period. If you genuinely like someone you should respect their wishes and wait. I know there are some that never come through, and that's when you cut your losses, but pushy and demanding suck.

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What is with the 'Don't talk to me ifs' Posted: 6/13/2009 10:07:30 PM
I have 'don't message me if' set up for a reason. Firstly, just because I'm inviting you to drop by and say hello, doesn't mean I want you to write me, somene you barely know, telling me all kinds of pervy stuff. Where's the respect in that? Pervy is for later, way later. And, I am cynical to a degree, not so much defensive. Not everyone is the same that writes to me, but I will tell you, when I get a message, I look to see if they've posted in these forums to try and get a possible feel for how they think of feel on things in general and how they interact. If I don't see a lot of interaction, I tend to be wary.

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Am I ugly? Posted: 6/13/2009 10:02:09 PM
You're not ugly, but after your opening post, don't expect too many women to take you seriously or reply to what you send. Just my .02

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Rain, rain, don't go away....(a sexual question) Posted: 6/13/2009 9:49:35 PM
Doesn't matter if it's the end of the day or early afternoon, or even if I'm waking to the sound of it falling down. When rain starts falling softly, it's soothing. If the day is cool outside, too, it makes me wish to stay in bed and play all day and find out what it's like to make love. However, when it's thundering and lightning outside it's pelting on the roof and windows, that causes a stir of passion. Not to mention the earthy scent of the first rain when it comes down and whets everything... or it that wets? ;)

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Masturbation - when it just isn't enough. Posted: 6/13/2009 9:35:11 PM
Nice way to post a F/B ad!

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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 6/12/2009 11:19:25 PM
This was quite the apropos bump considering the 'No clitoral orgasm' Thread.

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No clitoral orgasm. Posted: 6/12/2009 11:12:35 PM
Research, people! "The internal walls of the vagina itself do not have a great supply of nerve endings, thus are not very sensitive to touch. The outer one-third of the vagina, especially near the opening, contains nearly 90 percent of the vaginal nerve endings and therefore is much more sensitive to touch than the inner two-thirds of the vaginal barrel. http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/vagina.html

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Is this to much? Posted: 6/12/2009 11:07:06 PM
'Here's a great way to get realistic and save time. Spend your time losing weight and improving yourself, then search for a date... or, be realistic and contact people like yourself. Ya know, people with extra weight, around the same age 35 to 40, similiar lifestyles/hobbies, etc. Not saying that you can't write to people, but, it's unrealistic to expect something that you can't provide.' Wow. "People like yourself." I am amazed at people. Maybe it's just me. But who the hell are we to tell someone to go improve themselves when we don't know jack squat about them? You certainly come off nice and judgemental, not to mention quite shallow. Only people with extra weight are attractive and attracted to the same? Christ on a cracker.

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Is this to much? Posted: 6/12/2009 11:03:14 PM
man, some of you women can be really snarky (that's putting it nicely). It was sincere. Honestly. Where did he go on and on about weight? He mentioned it twice in almost 2 and a half paragraphs. Get a grip. We can't all be hardcore and tell people like it or leave it. RR, be sincere, be honest, and not trite. And I like that attitude, "I'm an amazing catch." Don't ever stop thinking that way, ever.

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Anyone see the feminist article in the paper? Posted: 6/12/2009 10:57:04 PM
It does take two to have sex and make a child. But more often than not, OP, when a woman becomes pregnant, not all, but many walk away and leave her to raise it. How is that for being a responsible male? Kudos, however, to the men who step up to the role of being a father to a child when the biological father is too lame to stick around. Seems OP was looking to stir the pot tonight and doesn't seem to like females too well. Just my .02 As I said, it takes two.

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No clitoral orgasm. Posted: 6/12/2009 10:51:45 PM
"The vagina lacks the nerve endings to produce full fledged orgasms in women." Christ. You're kidding, right? There are more nerve endings in the first inch of the opening of the vagina, than the entire vagina itself! If yours isn't feeling it, I'd take that puppy back. You got jipped.

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No clitoral orgasm. Posted: 6/12/2009 10:47:49 PM
There's not much fun in it because there's no pay off? Sheesh. I'll remember that when I am pleasing someone just because I happen to enjoy it.

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Watching porn and having a girlfriend? Posted: 6/12/2009 10:40:36 PM
hiccup

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Msg: 39 (view)

Watching porn and having a girlfriend? Posted: 6/12/2009 10:33:35 PM
"My girlfriend told me the other day that her boyfriend (they have been together for approx. 7 months now) watches porn on the Internet (without her), on Redtube. She talked to him about it asking as to why he is doing that and he said that he watches it sometimes so she told him that she doesn't really like and feels left out but he apparently keeps watching it. Why would a guy watch that on the Internet when he has a girlfriend? I can see this happening when a relationship goes a bit stale but they have only been together for 7 months or so." She should be thankful that's all he is doing and doesn't have someone on the side. I mean so he's watching porn, big deal. He's an adult, people are curious, and variety and fantasy are good things in this instance. Hell, I watch RedTube, YouPorn, and a few others. It's all about being adult. It more than likely has nothing whatsoever to do with her, and all about him having wanking fodder when she's not around. I can tell you this, if she wishes to keep a tight rein, show insecurity about him watching porn and playing with his johnson, the relationship will be short-lived, and he will be out the door. Sheesh, people. Life is too short.

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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 6/10/2009 12:42:10 AM
Dave, you get quite feisty! People really do need to read up, though. It's sooo not pee.

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First Contact Emails Not Working...Some Advice Please? Posted: 6/10/2009 12:27:41 AM
Cute guy. For the ladies posting, why take the pic of the girl out? So what? Wrong impression? Gees, you guys are demanding. I could see if it was a child or whatever, but Christ, so what if it's a previous girlfriend/friend/sister or whatever. People have lives and past relationships. Some of them may even still be friends. It's only a big deal if it's a threat to you, it seems.

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BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured?? Posted: 6/10/2009 12:21:59 AM
I love coming back to this thread and reading other's POVs. Some I just shake my head at, some I get a chuckle from, and others are just great. I learn a lot in here about people who post on PoF. The forums are a great way to get to know how, to a degree, people may really be. John49152, you rock my socks. Great posts.

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A guy who only wants it from behind! Posted: 6/10/2009 12:17:06 AM
Maybe his johnson is too small and that's the only way it will fit! Just kidding! I swear. Seriously. If I were her, I'd bluntly ask if that was all we were going to do. If yes, well, we'd be having a serious talk. That gets old real fast.

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Define Kinky Posted: 6/10/2009 12:14:33 AM
this has been done SOOOOOO MANY TIMES already!! and there are hundreds of new veiwers every day. So?

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Define Kinky Posted: 6/10/2009 12:13:15 AM
"leather whips double penetration role playing food insertion strap ons. golden showers theres tons of kinky stuff" That's not kinky, that's just exploring. I'm not into whips, however.

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What would you say??? Posted: 6/9/2009 12:20:30 AM
I concur, CharminC. And seeing the pessimisim and cynicism here shows how a great deal of people feel about life and living it. It's a "So what? They're going to do it anyway." mindset. People shrug off the troubles of others and simply don't want to take the time to reach out to anyone. Sad, really.

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Why do girls... Posted: 6/9/2009 12:11:42 AM
Kind of a double standard there, Danny. I see many men posting pic in the same provocative way, some even have their pants well past their hips almost exposing their johnson. Why do guys feel the need to post pics of them with their trucks and cars? I don't know about the other women here, but I'm not shopping for a car or model, just here to seek conversation with a guy.

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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral Posted: 6/7/2009 6:12:08 PM
'Well how would you want a woman to ask you about a lubed finger or two in your ass during oral?' Some men that I have known absolutely love it. A couple even came close to passing out the O was so nice and intense. Not everyone is uptight about a.s.s. play.

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ladies have you ever done this???? Posted: 6/7/2009 6:03:23 PM
She obviously liked pleasing you and making you feel good. I hope, given the chance next time, you do the same for her.

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Another question about oral sex Posted: 6/7/2009 1:02:50 AM
For me, dck is a demeaning, nasty word. When I speak of a man's johnson, I'd much rather say cck. More masculine, more sexy to me, anyway. I think, depending on who you know, how you were raised, and things you hear, it's stigmatized as dirty. Not just sexually dirty, but hygienically dirty, too. Soooo many misconceptions. Silly women.

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So you want it rough, eh? Posted: 6/7/2009 12:57:48 AM
"Well according to most of the comments in this thread and others with similar subjects, most people have never ever experienced this. YEAH RIGHT!" Well, of course they haven't. Heaven forbid you let your real self be known here. And, if they truly haven't had this experience, they're missing out.

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Should the guy initiate chat? Posted: 6/7/2009 12:46:48 AM
As the Nike slogan goes...Just Do It! If you see someone you like, someone who catches your interest, let them know. You never know until you try.

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So you want it rough, eh? Posted: 6/7/2009 12:42:21 AM
Being brutal? Truly rough, shoving, pushing? Nah. I don't think so. But do you ever have one of those days when you are so incredibly aroused, so passionate about the person you are with, but you can't be with them for various reasons (people around, company, out dinner, etc) the tension is growing, the looking lingering more and more, and you just KNOW what's going to happen when everyone's gone? Yeah. Like that. Clothes being ripped off, hands touching, feeling everywhere. Pants, growls, gasping... You know. Moans, yelling, swearing, dirty talk, and a rough ride. Raw. Not brutal, not violent. Hands gripping her hair tight in your fists, or gripping her hips from behind, a swat out of the blue to make her catch her breath and whimper. Like that.

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Difference between a slut and a stud?? Posted: 6/6/2009 11:56:38 PM
How many of you gentlemen posting in the thread would marry a woman or have a serious relationship with her if she has had more sexual partners or F/Bs than you, or many not more but definitely a good many? This should be interesting. Be honest, too!

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Is my girlfriend pregnant? Posted: 6/6/2009 11:44:25 PM
I can't stop laughing. "You know what!" hahaha How old are you, really? It sounds like she may have a UTI. Omgawd! You gave her cooties. Listen to many who've posted here, get to a doc, make sure she is seen and taken care of, and birth control for Pete's sake~! (Red Rider?? That's hilarious in light of the situation)

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How many guys do you want to attract? Posted: 6/6/2009 11:15:59 PM
In all honesty, friendship is great for now. I'm not looking to attract Prince Charming. It's just me in my profile, of which I need to do a rewrite. It's old and sounds kind of snarky. I'll put it this way... I'd like to meet a great guy that I have chemistry with. One who will make me laugh and make me forget about everything else around me. One who will be the only one in the room when there may be thirty others. He'll be all I see. I don't want to be a second thought, and I don't want to be that someone on the side because your wife just doesn't get you anymore, or the "well, we are just really good friends anymore and there is no sex between us" thing. ;-)

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Well slap my ass and call me Daddy...WHY? Posted: 6/6/2009 11:08:46 PM
I'm amazed at some of the short sightedness of some of the so many who said they're kinky, they're this and that, and not one person bothered to look up what it may actually mean to some. And, it's certainly not what many here seem to think. You guys are hilarious. Research, people. Quoted from a website: "A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND� a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him! The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally." And another... http://www.socialperversion.com/2008/08/25/daddydom-what-it-means-for-his-baby-girl/ Reading some of the posts, I felt like I was back in high school again. Gees.

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registered sex offenders Posted: 6/6/2009 10:53:54 PM
THIS is one of the main reasons I gripe about people posting pics of themselves with their children in the photographs. On a dating site? Come on, people.

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Calm down, Dave... Posted: 6/5/2009 11:23:29 PM
Pssst... http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

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How young is too young? Posted: 6/5/2009 11:17:39 PM
" if she's old enough to drive, **** it. just dont get caught if she's under 18.lol." Wow, that speaks volumes.

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Sexual Resume Posted: 6/5/2009 11:13:49 PM
Interesting post there, lamhoir. Oh, and most times the yelling should be in the throes of an orgasm or when stroked just right. Never in someone's ear. (-;

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Lady's tasting there own sweetness Posted: 6/5/2009 11:11:12 PM
Mmmm there is something to be said about the scent of sex, the sensations, and the taste of each other. I think it's heady and intoxicating tasting each, and I do love tasting myself.

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ok so we've stopped having sex... and i have no idea why Posted: 6/5/2009 11:02:40 PM
Lord, all the stuff people have posted. Well, first off, I'm going to ask something I don't think anyone else has. Has she ever been abused, sexually or emotionally? Also, if you were having sex A LOT when you met and now out of nowhere it's dropped to nothing and she's made excuses and is just now saying it doesn't feel right, she doesn't want to feel forced, she's either found someone else and you just don't know it yet, or it sounds like she's bored. I don't know too many virgins who've had sex and had it a lot right after losing their virginity and then their libido drop off to nothing. I'd sit down and tell her you are going to have a talk. If she doesn't wish to or keeps making excuses, I'd take some serious thought and wonder if you wish to keep seeing someone who doesn't wish to talk about a major dysfunction in your relationship. If you like being a doormat, stay and keep taking it. If not, man up and move on. Also, it sounds like you're a bit clingy just by reading what you've posted.

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Sexual Resume Posted: 6/5/2009 10:48:40 PM
first they would need to compose a nice cover letter explaining all their duties and any "shortcomings" in MLA format* then proceed with the resume* Being a college student, I had to laugh. :D In all funniness, I would ask what their previous S/Os or girlfriends would tell me that might be a warning. Also, how they feel about PDAs or being close in general. Then I'd ask them to list one shortcoming, just one, that they feel they have as a lover.

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Orgasms, lack thereof Posted: 6/5/2009 10:43:33 PM
'Stop me if this thread has been done before... I haven't ever had an orgasm, so yes I can't help but wonder what it feels like, but so far I've found sex satisfying enough without it. But I can sense that it bothers my boyfriend that I don't orgasm when we are together (though he wouldn't admit it when I brought it up later). It's like I'm starting to feel guilty for not having an orgasm :( Which is why I've been snooping around the various orgasm threads which have already been posted. My question is, do men (in general) feel disappointed if they don't bring a woman to orgasm? And to those who might be wondering-- I only became sexually active about a year ago, which is why I'm asking questions like this.' OP, why don't you take a weekend, if you can, and just have some serious exploration time by yourself first, playing and using various toys and also just by hand, just to see what may feel good to you. Then, have some exploration time with him and guide him to see if he can provide sensations you might be able to bring about yourself. Relax and let him touch and play and give him cues as to what feels really good and see if it can be pushed a bit farther. Another something you may wish to try, with a little patience, is a G-spot exploration. It really works and will feel incredible. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892 Good luck in exploring.

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Do you get turned on reading this forum Posted: 5/30/2009 12:14:57 AM
Umm NO. Actually, I do get a lot of good laughs, though.

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Do players keep trying? Posted: 5/30/2009 12:12:12 AM
Like a moth to a flame, like Icarus to the sun...and so there is you. This 'guy' gets close to you and is so intensely loved that he must back away for fear of being consumed in the white hot flames of a woman's love. Don't blame him, he can't help it, he seeks solace in the arms of another less profound. In Greek its a strange situation that is encapsulated in the two words....σεξουαλικός φιλαράκος. That was awesome!

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Am i overreacting? Posted: 5/30/2009 12:03:45 AM
You did overreact. However, I'm of the same mind as gzburack above me. If I've been dating a guy, exclusively or not for a month, I'm not going to put myself in a situation where I'm going out with a g/f and two guys I don't know AND be sleeping in a tent with overnight with booze involved, and then sit and wonder. Obviously, too, there is trust plays going on here. Seems she baited you, and you don't trust her. Of course, I'd wonder what kind of person she was throwing that at you and not expecting you to react. Not to mention, I wouldn't be sleeping with her again. Good luck to you either way. Seems like you may need it.

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