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jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 186 (view)

Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/6/2009 2:55:06 PM
ive been following this tread for a while..and i got to thinking about the question.."Justifying Cheating?" well its simple..we cant. if 2 people in a relationship are dealing with a lack of commitment then the cheated is the only one who can or can not justify the cheating.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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New LED flashlight : ) !!!! Posted: 7/6/2009 2:40:08 PM
You have to buy the batteries by the box (12 to a box). They're about $8 for to at walmart or about $15-18 for the SF brand online. There's a local police supply shop that sales them for that price too. If you don't want it send it my way. I'll put it to use. its 18.32 a box for the ones they allow in the plant..i think someone said the cheap ones get really hot and explode. i belive someone said we want the most bang for our buck. this is all work exspeses for me and i only get back about 70%. my gas alone is over 2000 a month. oil, tires, repairs or a new truck every 6 months..trust me when i say my expenses alone are more than allot of people make in a year and that check is only cut every 3 months..so yeah im all about the most bang for your buck. ok so lets say its a slow year..as per my experiences with the light so far. 3 batteries a week..12 a month. one box a month..12 a year times 18.32. thats 220 bux a year. my pelican takes 2 C's and lasts a month and my mag takes 4 d's and will last me 2 r 3 weeks. i pay maybe 10bux a month for batteries thats half the price for 2 lights. considering i have to have a light that i can hit a tank a quarter mile away and see the number on it, im not going to buy crap..and thet best part the lights themselves are cheaper than than the surefires ..dang i just saved enough to buy a blueray player... well you play with your light im going to watch a movie in ultra clear hd. just playing bro. i already have a ps3..i bought a xbox instead

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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New LED flashlight : ) !!!! Posted: 7/2/2009 3:51:31 PM
it cost like 12 bux for the upgrade. you can buy the 3 and 4 cell leds. i havent seen the bigger 6 and 8 cells with the leds right off the self, but the module works in em. my big 8 cell will will have you seeing spots for 2 days. yes they do make a good club. i got charged by boar a couple of years ago and im glad i was carrying it or it could have been real bad for me. i have surefire g2. they gave em out for a safety bonus this year. the only good thing about is was when it slid between my seat it was bright yellow so i could find it easy. it lasted about a week and i threw it in my catch all drawer in the kitchen. they are bright but the batteries get too expensive for as much as i use a flash light. but anyway either way any of the higher end led lights will out do thous cheap Duracell and garrity lights you get at walmart.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Is this true, or political hype???? Posted: 7/2/2009 2:07:00 PM
no.. i think your thinking of this the wrong way. Americans dont do this, this is stuff industry does and large industries controls the government by finding greedy government officials and paying them to make sure things go their way. unless "we the people" get together, quit fighting with ourselves, and turn our attentions to the people responsible things will never change. lets face it 200years ago we would have overthrown our government if they pulled the stuff they do today. we r comfortably numb to what our government does in the name of We The People.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Is Lyme disease sexually transmitted? Posted: 7/2/2009 12:00:28 PM
no bro you have no worry there. lyme disease and west nile or common down here and it cant be transmitted to partner through normal sexual contact... unless your a vampire and they have proven if it can be transfer to humans that way

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 107 (view)

Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/2/2009 11:08:51 AM
I'm not sure if it's my age or life experience or what my friends are going through, BUT, I am beginning to understand why people cheat. Any way you slice it, it isn't justifiable, however, is there any validity in this scenerio... well ive only cheated once on my exwife, but thats not why we split . she was going through some issues(married to young trying to work some stuff out type stuff) and was coping by trying an alternative lifestyle and told me to. it still felt wrong to me. i dont if there really is a justifiable reason to tell you the truth

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

New LED flashlight : ) !!!! Posted: 7/2/2009 6:31:20 AM
Mag lights are crap if you actually want a decent flashlight. I'd get one for a younger child for camping and what night, but I'd get them a real light once they got a little older and didn't have to worry about losing it. dont knock the maglights. hes not talking about the baby key chain mag. in fact ild challenge any of the more expensive brands to beat the 4 cell led mag i carry in my truck. maglights are just as good as any other of the modern leds. ive always been able to spotlight the number on the side of a shore tank from a quarter mile away with mine. now with the led bulb its much brighter on the side of the tank. it beats carrying a flood light around and trying to drive down narrow mule paths, on top of the levees in a pitch black tank farm. the best thing is when my pelican dyes the mag lights passes for intrinsically safe unlike the more expensive lights you all are talking about.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Is this true, or political hype???? Posted: 7/1/2009 7:45:38 PM
im not going to cut paste and quote stuff just going to post the answers as best i can. they dont implement new tech till the last minute so they can try to get the government to make us pay for it. i mean hell we payed for a pipeline through Afghanistan and didnt even know thats what we were paying for. i mean we thought we were paying for better armor, supplies, and medical care for troops. nope we were paying chevron/Saudi Aramco/ velero/ Phillips-conaco to hire and pay for hb zachery to biuld a massive oil pipeline through Afghanistan major industries have been getting emission credits for years whether they are environmentally compliant are not . the larger the industry the more credits they get. non compliant industries buy credits from compliant industries so they can continue releasing excess emissions without being fined. thous of you who live in California and owned one of the classic cars that got crushed know that some industries also host so called community cleanup programs to gain extra credits as well. you still carbon emissions even with the e-10 e-85 blends, but its still gasoline. gasoline is a hydrocarbon. you burn a hydrocarbon and what do you get?. the e-10 and e-85 do however produce less carbon emissions than standerd gasoline using mtbe and mtt as you said the corn used in ethanol is reject product not suitable for humans r livestock. we ust to send it overseas to 3rd world countries but we figure it was bad pr to send tainted food to starving countries. now industry is paying farmers for garbage so i dont really see that as a bad thing.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 85 (view)

No abortion! No Adoption! Posted: 7/1/2009 2:11:26 PM
she got one without telling me. she didnt even bother telling me she was pregnant , just went and did it. she has a child with asburgers(sp) autism. its genetic and there was good chance any child she has will be born with it. her baby daddy couldnt deal so she assumed i couldnt. its not beating your head against a wall autism. asburgers is very functional form of autism(like add) and besides my sister has down syndrome with severe mental retardation so its not like i cant deal with a disability. there should have been a discussion first. i cant stop a woman from getting an abortion. that's her right. theres no risk to my body and i dont have to give up anything because i cant carry the child for her. i dont have to like it and i dont have to agree with it but its her body and her business . what im saying is once it gets past the time limit when she can have an abortion(i think its 6 weeks but im not sure) and she has decided to keep the child this is when it becomes a guys right to decide if he wants to be a part of the childs life and a women cant take that right away from a man..well in this state anyway. if a women doesn't want the child at birth and a man has already told her "im going to be this baby's daddy and i wont sign the papers for adoption" and then she gives that baby away at birth she can get in allot of trouble these days. i work with a guy who has full custody of his son. the woman signed the adoption papers after he told her no. he didnt see his son till he almost a year old but he got his son and she had to pay all his court costs and lawyer fees and got charged with something that had her on probation for 10 years.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 81 (view)

No abortion! No Adoption! Posted: 7/1/2009 12:52:01 PM
As for the whole man thing - well ladies I guess I'm a traitor. WE decide whether or not a guy has to be a daddy - we decide to have a baby if he doesn't want it (and make him pay pay pay) - we decide not to have it when he wants it - we decide on adoption and he can go to hell if he doesn't like it...absolutely NOT FAIR in any way, shape or form. we cant stop you from getting an abortion,but your wrong as far as adoption goes.dont get me wrong adoption is a viable option if both parents agree. but after, what is it 6 weeks into the pregnancy, the daddy does get rights. if you think courts put up with that attitude these day then really need to be prepared for guys like me. this is one guy who wants to be a daddy and who's got the funds to rip a woman with that kinda attitude a new one in court. like it or not ladies,that kinda thinking is no longer acceptable in this millennium.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Is this true, or political hype???? Posted: 7/1/2009 11:55:25 AM
as far as petroleum product well i am an ogc(oil,gas and chemical) inspector. thats why this new bill worries me so much. we do currently produce ethanol(a product made of plants) to replase petroleum octane boosters like mtbe and we do have bio diesel. in fact i live right down the road from the biggest ethanol unit in this country(at least thats what they tell the press) . those of us who have diesel engines already know we can use vegetable oil. the valero terminal in this area has units that are supposedly able to create viable fuels out of waste product(tank bottoms, slop oil, blendstocks ..ect). all the major oil companies are working on producing synthetic crude oil(they have the tech but wont implement it). i know we've been bringing allot more condensate crude to offset the lack of sweet crude coming in . just out of Louisiana alone they get around 25,000,000 bbls of condensate a year. so the tech is there for alternative petroleum products.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Is this true, or political hype???? Posted: 7/1/2009 7:45:29 AM
nope defiantly not hype. and after reading the first few posts and checking it out i do believe the numbers are greatly inflated. ive been trying to read this because i actually have an interest in it as it directly impacts me. a bill like what everyone is talking about will eliminate my job completely in the next 10-15 years if it goes through. the first few posts are ok then you all start fighting and posting book reports that just repeat what the person your trying to disprove just said. you all really need to relax and quit fighting for a minute. we have different views on some things while not all we say is right not all we say is wrong either. then again we dont have all the facts. we have how many news channel, all giving their own prospective or just trying to scare people because that gets rating. Lincoln said You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time...well im beginning to think he was wrong cause we cant put aside our differences long enough to get the facts . nobody will ever have all the answers because as long as we stay at each others arguing throat we dont actually talk

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Metalica's SOME KIND OF MONSTER Documentary... Posted: 7/1/2009 2:36:10 AM
ive heard allot of it. ill download it free before i give lars anymore money.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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No abortion! No Adoption! Posted: 7/1/2009 2:27:29 AM
jerolhay, you're killing me, you're just saying that because you're a man! 'Cause there's NO WAY a woman would agree with this! would it help to know that's why i broke up with my last serious g/f. that was about 3 months ago. you cant say what your going to do until your put in that position. she should have ,at the very least, discussed it with me before makeing a decision that important. the simple fact of the matter is it is a woman's right if she doesn't want to have a child. until men can give birth its not our right to tell someone what they can and cant do with their body.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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New LED flashlight : ) !!!! Posted: 6/30/2009 1:17:07 PM
pelican has been selling them for years. Ive had to carry one for 18 years due to my work near the process units and and on board ships. i remember years ago they cost 160-400 bux, u couldn't change the batteries in the cheap ones. a new one now they cost less than 30bux.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 67 (view)

No abortion! No Adoption! Posted: 6/30/2009 1:07:05 PM
"No abortion, No adoption! You've made your bed..." wow... volatile. ive seen that statement similar to that before. ive actually gotten in a physical fight with a couple of protesters because i pulled in the wrong parking lot and got my truck surrounded by a bunch of people yelling and hitting my truck with that sign. i cant stop a woman from doing what she wants with her body. even if i could i wouldn't. and i dont think its really anyone's business if thats what she chooses ... i think its already been said ..consent to sex is not consent to parenthood..

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Fear of Love? Posted: 6/30/2009 12:21:34 PM
you cant force love hun. you may just need to take a break from looking and find someone to talk to about it. and not a bunch of bitter lonely single people on an internet dating site. . then again maybe theyre just not your type..

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/30/2009 11:54:53 AM
Who would think that hair length is such a volatile topic?? No wonder why we're all friggin' single... geez.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Metalica's SOME KIND OF MONSTER Documentary... Posted: 6/30/2009 9:22:26 AM
yeah i can still remember when metallic was a metal band..i didnt really need a doc to remind how much they have..well..sold out... however the doc was very revealing to me. i really do have allot respect for the band even though i wont buy the new stuff.it takes allot of talent most of us wish we had to adapt and continue to grow in a field where your just a fad and age is your biggest enemy

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/30/2009 7:39:24 AM
Who decides what "pretty" is? well.......we do. as long as women expect us to chase them then its going to be what a we men perceive as beauty. every man has their own personal perception of beauty.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Are some people just not able to have a relationship? Posted: 6/30/2009 1:32:55 AM
im not being funny or sarcastic but have your tried alternative relationships.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 125 (view)

Long vs short hair Posted: 6/30/2009 1:15:52 AM
aliveone1.. move to texas please

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Redneck Bumper Stickers Posted: 6/30/2009 12:52:02 AM
CAT the other white meat lost your cat? look under my tires ive got a perfect body, but its in the trunk and starting to smell is there life after death? touch my truck and find out uncle sam wants you.....to speak English i tried seeing your point of view but i couldnt get my head that far up my ass dont drink and park..accidents cause people i wounder if you'ld drive better with that phone up your ars squirrels...nature's speed bumps I love animals. theyre delicious

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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How Hot are You? Posted: 6/29/2009 11:56:56 PM
mine like to attack the sprinkler..i can let mine stay in the house all day because the cat trained em to use the litter box.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Should I feel guilty for the separation? Posted: 6/29/2009 9:24:36 PM
oh dang bro i really hate to hear stuff like this..you shouldn't feel guilty , but the fact of the matter is you will for a while. you work in a field where more than likely you will have to relocate at times to advance in your career. your 22 years old and your life hasn't even started yet.you seem like a smart kid so it'll only get better. im assuming she pretty young as well. 20-24 is pretty scary for most people. its when everything changes and you start growing apart from your freind and making new ones. who knows this might be the break you both may need to evaluate what is right for both of you. if she truly loves you she will come around. your young enough to take your time and give your heart some time to recover.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 188 (view)

Difference in IQ - your experiences? Posted: 6/29/2009 8:52:44 PM
My job is giving IQ/Cognitive tests. just a question for luiza6 and only luiza6.why are they still give out a test that has really no bearing on someone actual intelligence. sence this is your job i figured could give me the answer because my score never brought me anything but misery in school. as for the actual question on the thread. i tested very high on the iq test ( in the 140 range) . ive found in my own personal experience that being smart can have its disadvantages. they wouldn't even let me into the armed forces because they thought i cheated on the asvab exam. it very hard for people to relate to you when all you have to do look at something and you can figure out better than someone who went to school for it or being able to remembering useless information just because you made the mistake of reading it 10 years ago . its very hard to dumb yourself down so you dont start talking over peoples heads and people see you as arrogant or think your talking down to them. so yes i guess being smart(or having a high iq) can directly impact a relationship.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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How Hot are You? Posted: 6/29/2009 5:51:51 PM
my dogs wont even go out side it so hot..but it rained over here today and it feels so much better now

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 111 (view)

Should a 42 year old male email a 31 year old lady ? Posted: 6/29/2009 5:25:50 PM
on average i date 8 years younger than me..but im 34..it when they get blow the 24 year old mark that i start haveing problems

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Need some help with my profile Posted: 6/29/2009 5:15:45 PM
its just very vague..try to elaborate a little more. dont be negative don't talk about past relationships .and "cant wait to hear from ya" probably wont work at your age.. this sounds bad but dont be above using cheap tricks to get their attention.I use my puppy..it works.. i think women are supposed to love a men in the military. post a pic of you in uniform

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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How can a guy show interest and be persistent without being overbearing? Posted: 6/29/2009 5:07:59 PM
post an example of a couple of the emails that you got called pushy on..please replases the names with **** so you dont get bombed with protesters

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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I feel like my profile is missing something... Posted: 6/29/2009 4:47:05 PM
Kendo and anime are huge parts of who I am though they are my main hobbies and any one getting involved with me would find out immediately. So I'd rather be up front and honest with a girl rather than lie although I truly appreciate your input maybe there is a way to keep it in there with out seeming scary? i agree with you here. with your age and the generation. im huge into anime i actually had to change mine because of the age i was attracting. ive dating allot of women a generation younger than me because theyre into all that..unfortunately they r also relate to because of the lack of life experience.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Give her a look for me? Posted: 6/29/2009 4:28:44 PM
if its working for you ild leave it. i dont really see anything too negative its written like a women would like to read it. i would personally take out the one night stand reference.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Many views but hardly any replies. Posted: 6/29/2009 4:14:16 PM
take out **** in the last paragraph.. thats pretty offensive to allot of women.just remember for the most part they scan a profile before they read it and that one word will turn them away.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Profile Review Posted: 6/29/2009 4:08:16 PM
wow its great, but long.allot of guys have the attention span of a fly. i thinck if you shorten a little and leave out relationship experiences. its too bad you live so far away

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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When should it be ok to talk sexual? Posted: 6/29/2009 3:50:12 PM
you can never go back to just friends.. most guys are incapable of this with women they have feelings for because they become jealous and possessive and drive them away(women or actually more capable of no strings sex) so it depends on you.are you serious about her and is she worth getting hurt over. i say take the chance.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 38 (view)

Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 6/29/2009 2:42:48 PM
^^^^because we dont talk about it. it becomes a dirty little secret and the issue from the 1st bad relationship just keep coming up in the later relationships . nobody ever wants to admit they might have been wrong so we blame the other person.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 6/29/2009 1:34:19 PM
It is so very amusing to see how a woman would rather live in solitude than NOT be an unbearable kunt. being as the thread wants an example of drama. this would be example of what causes drama. on a personal note..however that's a bit over the top bro. you know a smart women is going to read that when she looks at you profile right? you women arnt by nature evil they are just different. wtf... lets see if this posts then i have to call timewarner

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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I'd be curious... Posted: 6/29/2009 9:57:22 AM
This allows you to long hair is much easier! Most men/women with short hair visit the barber every few weeks and I go maybe two or three times a year. there is nothing worse than going out with a women who has , dried out, jagged edges and split ends. just looks like she doesnt care about her appearance. and if its an old hair style it just makes you look older than what you are.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

having a SO or a Wife but not at home Posted: 6/28/2009 11:15:57 PM
ill start by saying im sorry if i hurt your feeling, but this isnt just for you This is life. Come join in the fun! Anybody has a chance to fly...want to fly with me? Want to take a swim in Lake Bisteneau? Jump off my pontoon boat and swim with the gators? You choose what you think about my weight. I am 5'6 probably should weigh about 140 to 150 considering I am extremely muscular but I weigh about 185. Yea, I would say I am too chunky but so what have you looked in the mirror lately and evaluated your looks as opposed to the way you looked 20 years ago.........spot on! CRAW DADDY'S RULE! ok let start with this.. your profile reads like a escort ad and you dont have a pic. you give no indication of anything and you chose to be anonymous a guy will already assume your hiding something. if hes actually looking for someone to have a lasting relationship with he will not contact you. Initial contact for one week via e-mail here. Moved forward to iming then to texting,talking on the phone. His profile says single. He tells me he has been married once before and then in a long term relationship for ten years but never married. He then decided he didn't want to be alone and joined POF. this is where the power of the internet comes in. youve been burned 8 times so you know what a player is by now. you have his email his name and general location. did you check my space and the other dating sites for his profile. did you look in the phone book to see if he was listed and if anyone sharing his name was listed in the same house. its not paranoid and if a guy says it is, then he's probably trying to hide something. What questions can I ask to prevent this kind of situation. How can I get these men to be upfront before I invest time and "thoughts" about them. All I want to do is make sure that I am clear as they are that we are free to explore life together and not only when their partners arn't looking. r you married or seeing anyone..how many favorite does he have.. .is his profile perfect???? have you caught him in a lie or has every avoided a question(changeing the subject, asking the same question back with out fully answering you), have doctored pics or no pics, and look at the screen name. and when your talking, pay attention to everything not just the sweet parts. i can, if wanted to, point out 4 potential players on this thread alone, and one is a woman

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 88 (view)

When your man checks out other girls Posted: 6/28/2009 10:11:22 PM
I have to disagree with many of the posters on this particular subject. It is not OK to ogle members of the opposite sex when in the presence of your significant other. You can try to justify it as nature all you want, but the fact of the matter is that it is nothing short of rude and utterly disrespectful, it is contemptible. absolutely right on the money. unless this actually turn this particular woman on. shes really need to get off the computer sit down in a quite room and think about this for a while. we can give you advise on our personal experiences but if we really had the answer we wouldn't be single.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/28/2009 5:28:07 PM
jerolhay..what are they proving? That said behavior keeps the divorce rate consistently at 50%? she is proving that women with long hair or very insecure and apparently very evasive too. now guys one women attacking everyone because we have an opinion isnt representative of all women. i think the other women on this thread should be taking some offense to her by now. if i could find the link belive me i would be more than happy to post it. i it came out of a cosmo many years ago. and im not going though a million fashion tips to prove a point i dont really care about. the only reason i remember because my exwife shoved a cosmo in my face and i was informed she was cutting her hair just because of it. to be honest i dont care what length it is i dont see any difference in the difficulty level of getting a number anyway. i dont really like plain hair on a women anyway. gimme the tattooed pierced Betty with blood red hair and blond streaks that doesnt mind riding in an old merc

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/28/2009 1:33:27 PM
honestly i can post 50 study's from 50 difference people on here and they will all have their own veiw. it wasnt meant to start a war, but you are prooving a point without me saying anything.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/28/2009 12:48:41 PM
Conducted by women with short hair? What is the basis for the claim? conducted by Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Anyone from Texas HERE ??? If so introduce yourself Posted: 6/28/2009 12:11:34 PM
groves tx here..just saying hi

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 6/28/2009 10:58:01 AM
drama means i dont want to deal your exs or your girlfriends exs, you crying if i tell you im working in the yard and cant talk, or trying to guilting me because i want to hang out with my friends .

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/28/2009 10:44:00 AM
im into medium hair myself..long hair just get in the way and women cant put short hair in pigtails but that a bedtime deal. seriuosly though women with long hair are just as easy to get close too. however there is a study that claims women with long tend to be more insecure than women with short hair.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

Msg: 158 (view)

My hormones are killing my relationships... can u help?! Posted: 6/28/2009 10:35:06 AM
hun this aint hormones. my god if a guy said im sorry i slept with her it was just hormones you would rip him a new one, call him a dog, and tell all your friends he was a jerk. you were horny and your getting some. your old enough know exactly what your doing and whats going on. if this is what you like fine if not then don't do it. dont use that hormone excuse to make yourself fell better. 6 years of physiology???well im not an enabler and im sure you know what transference means. if you really cant control yourself i suggest paxil or lexipro

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Is it possible to look past insecurities Posted: 6/28/2009 9:52:36 AM
Landra hit the hammer on the nail.... if they have certain worries that I can help with and they want and earn the help, the answer is yes. If not, I'm sorry.. I'm not the fixer-upper of the universe. If they can't grow the H up, I'm out! exactly..if theyre not will to work on the issues now its just going to come up later.

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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do women like music more than men? Posted: 6/28/2009 8:36:25 AM
just an example, but i think most guys can relate..a woman might ask why do men like cars more than women. unless your having an affair with your tailpipe you know that's not true. a car is something you can feel music is a feeling(logic vs emotion, men are from mars women are from venus ..ect)

jerolhay

Joined: 2/23/2009

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Dateing at 35 Posted: 6/27/2009 9:21:18 PM
im sure youve heard this before..its not about being prince charming or the perfect guy. its all about getting their attention. you have to be confident and have no expectations. more importantly you have to observant. ima walk in a bar and im going to walk to up a woman out with her friends and say hi my name is jerold would you and your friends like to hang tonight. she going to say yes or no. this is your interview this is your chance to impress are repel her AND her friends. remember confidence is key. you have to be happy with yourself. if you walk around with your dateing issues showing and have a jaded attitude towards women they will see that. lets face it these women or just like you they a preconceived idea that your a jerk. your there to prove your not like every other guy. you have to be different and yes you have to be honest, but dont volunteer info. expect nothing your not there trying to take a women home your trying to make a freind. oh btw be realistic. your going to be single for a while, get ust to it. be okay with being single and find a constructive way to work out you issues with women. youll find someone.

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