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the one I used to be

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Msg: 35 (view)

Oprah show ending - Arrogant to the end. Posted: 11/20/2009 6:32:04 PM
why not just change the channel on the remote? (lazy people with nothing going on in their lives would rather watch the show and b!tch ) If you dont like it then switch back to other more educational shows which Im also so sure your watching. (not). Easy remedy.CHANGE THE CHANNEL.

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Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc Posted: 10/29/2009 1:28:14 PM
Mr. OP Ive notced youve changed your profile from when you first posted this delima. So your following and reading everyones advice. Good.I dont think your a bad person but as I previously stated .Your not entirely inocent. and this thread is going on gripping about the gf not expressing herself correctly everyone agrees its childish the way she handled it.Its stupid to go on with this thread calling her a nut job. The original poster realised leaving out details that he was disloyal, lookin for someone to "meet treat greet and seat" (originaly in his profile )Proving he wasnt into this relationship from the begining.proving there was more to this story than a magazine .Original poster wanting to be childish and see dirt thrown onto gf. Im glad to see you changed your profile.I think this story is now done.yes yes the girl over reacted a lot was left out and IMHO Mr .OP I think your childish and hope you grow up. You got your fame in the forums.

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Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc Posted: 10/28/2009 7:06:32 AM
kids play nice. back to topic."wouldnt ordinarily do this"? yes , I think you do .You just got caught. I also dont think all the story is told . I think a lot of details are left out so you can justify lookin at ya mag and hunt for another sweetie who aproves of the mag. hes lookin for someone to" meet greet seat and treat" doesnt sound like hes realy into this relatinship at all.I think pressent sweetie is pickin up on his straying and hunting vibe . I think she went over the top and complained about a mag when she didnt scratch deeper to the real root of the problem perhaps lack of communication skills.Its in there but she couldnt verbelize it correctly. Mr. OP I dont think your so innecent . I think yer tryin ta pee on her and make her stink so you can justify yer infedelity and try not ta stink so bad. Grow up take responsibility for your actions. move on find another wilder version of sweetie as apperently your trying to do. leave her out of it.separate .stop playing kid games. Hon , the mag aint the problem . Some of us grown ups thats been around the block can see that.

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Msg: 110 (view)

registered sex offenders Posted: 10/27/2009 9:05:05 PM
are you the sex offender police? Its your choice not to date one . Its your responsibility to check out your potential dates . as for mine mind your own buisiness I check mine out . My mommy is past on . Im all grown up.who are you to decide who gets on this site. everyone deserves to find love its up to the offenders partner to decide if she wants to deal with him.get a life and stop being a nosey buisy body.

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Wouldn't ordinarily do this... Maxim mag/porn accusations etc Posted: 10/27/2009 8:50:33 PM
your on a dating site looking for someone to meeet , and treat?I think your not ready for her and shes not ready for you.maybe the magazine isnt the real problem ,maybe it was the fact she may be onto you and the mag was a last straw and shes too imature to discuse it like adults. Go your seperate ways perhaps you both will mature from this and do better with someone else.

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Msg: 92 (view)

I'm on the couch ! Posted: 9/30/2009 10:00:18 AM
You realy painted a pretty picture of yourself. Women are gonna bust yer door down wanting dates . What are you thinking?You come off as a selfish cheater and ya want us to believe its your wifes faught? Advice, get off the couch , find another place , pay child support and let her be. You arent doing anything but giving her another person to take care of .Your takin up space.And not giving anything in return. Your complaing your needs arent met?You dont deserve your needs met.Youve been shopping outside the marrage for a while . Depriving of her needs (love, compassion,help with kids , and the man she fell in love with no longer exhists).Your going outside the marrage to fix it? Pack up,move out, get divorced, be a man pay support Your not a good example to your kids. Then go shopping for sex in the privacy of your own place.Keep in mind her needs arent met either or the sex wouldnt be an issue. BTW a lot of theses female sexual issues are an excuse to start with.If we were getting our needs met we'd be getting more friskey.Hard ta feel sexy with babby poop runnin down ya leg not having an extra minute ta shower tryin ta clean up after you while your watchin tv after a hard days work , suppers is burnin kids cryin and your sweet enough top invite a few buddies over Your pissed My fat a$$ is blockin tv while I vacum around yer feet. yes hun lets slip one in real quick.

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Please help me understand this man ! Please give advices ! This man has been in and out of my life Posted: 9/27/2009 12:50:06 PM
please help me understand this man?hun what you need to be askin is please help me understand me. advice- pull up your big girl panties and get out. start workin on your self esteem.Is this the type of relationship you want to be in 3 more years? Its scary to make a change and its hard . but once ya get walkin and meeting others youll be wondering wow what was I thinking? Start takin time to think of yourself.Look for someone thats wanting the same as you from a relationship.

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Msg: 117 (view)

Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/24/2009 1:51:14 PM
My sons had several friends over for an icecream party male and female.This one girl has ocd.She moved her chair next to my bathroom.Every time she lifted her spoon or someone told a joke or lite a ciggerett she had to wash her hands.The girls all left to go next door to get a joke book and picture album.The guys shapped a large tootsie roll candy in the shape of doggie poo and laid it on the carpet.My doggie was playing with them then one shouts look! ewww that dog took a crap.My son picks it up with his bare hands smells it and eats it.The girl freaks and starts washing her hands cussing them. Everyone laughs .They apologised .The fun continued they respected her and got her some baby wipes to take fishing. My sons baited and took fish off her hook.

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Opinion wanted Posted: 9/21/2009 9:46:10 AM
many women wont judge you on your disbility . However you find some women who do . Keep dating , you deserve love and happiness as well as everyone else.Be honest about it and the few who run sideways ,consider it a blessing because they wouldnt be worth your time.It helps weed the good from the bad .

the one i used to be

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What is your number one fantasy? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:25:00 AM
Ok Ill take the gay pirate fantasy.Ill tie him up.put a little fear in him.Ill swing over on a rope take a large knife and cut off all his buttons ( put em in a jar for another project ,I recycle)Im a pirat too damn, I hung my skirt on a rusty nail on this boat ripped it all the way too the waist line. look im not wearing panties(Im a clean pirate mine are still on the line drying with the other laundry)umm this gay pirate is gorgeous I know I can saticfy him Ill look around ta find something to use aw hes cold were I cut off all his clothes and the sea is spraying his muscular body with a mist his body glystining in the moon light.Ill rub my warm body against him warming him up. hes swelling down there , maybe hes not gay after all. crap maybe hes lookin at at that guy over there all bent over moping.I throw his butt over board. look back and my gorgeous pirate lost his erection I shoulda just sat on the step and continued ta watch them while pleasuring myself. Now Im stuck with all the cleaning . again.

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Do women really prefer rough sex? Posted: 9/21/2009 7:33:06 AM
In my experience its not neccesarily the roughness its physical showing of you wanting her real bad .wanting to be inside her grasping hard holding tight.feeling your the only one he wants.There is no greater feeling than knowing you got a guy so turned on he almost cant contain himself.anyone can be a great lover if your so into it and showing you want to saticfy their needs to the fullest.We all need to be wanted and the more you show me want me the more Ill cum. Simple.

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Msg: 55 (view)

if you don't get it at home because she does not want it is it ok to find it elsewhere Posted: 9/20/2009 5:06:04 PM
also who would let someone set up a profile for them and not read it? she could be puttin in request for transvestites or drag queens,rape senerios , a gang bang,etc just ta get even . Liar !I wish there was a throw my shoe button.

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Msg: 54 (view)

if you don't get it at home because she does not want it is it ok to find it elsewhere Posted: 9/20/2009 5:00:43 PM
I think its all made up.His poor wife unable to fulfill his sexual needs because ?ah aha!! he dont know ,he didnt make up the reason by the time he posted this.He didnt listen in biology class well enough to make his story good . lol.red flag #1He wants to cheat and make it discret.(tells me wifie dont realy know about this)If she set it up then shed know and there would be no reason to hide and lie and be sneaky.red flag #2 Im hoping its legit and the reason for her not fulfilling his sexual desires is because her a$$ is all tierd from bangin his best friend. Stupid people trying to justify cheating grow up kids . If ya gonna make up a story do some reasearch first.at least make it convincing.

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Msg: 76 (view)

Kanye West; He's a Jackass Posted: 9/18/2009 8:24:49 AM
oh no time for Obama and Kanye to meet for a beer and make up. lol seriously everyone has their own opinions .People dont use manners anymore.Kanye felt Beyonce was great Obama felt Kanye was a jackass. Its where and how you voice your opinions and if you should share it in such a public way .We need more role models with manners. We need to teach our kids to have compassion and be sympathetic to others feelings.Not get so high on a horse and think your thoughts are any more superior than anothers. People are spoiled and have fat heads that dont think.

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Will pen ink in tattoos seriously injure you? Posted: 9/14/2009 1:55:40 PM
my kids ordered a tattoo gun and ink kit on line. They done a more professinal tattoo with a homade gun. You can order a large selection of colors online.My fav tattoos the kids done were what they called pick poke they did on thier calves it looks very proffessional. they also done thier own peircings. oh, my kids are 23 and 20. They started the tatoo addiction at 17 .one has 5 the other has4.I never alowed tats or piercings where people can see them in public or on the job for now they are respecting that wish for me.

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My boyfriend feels he hasnt slept with enough women. Posted: 9/11/2009 1:54:21 PM
My ex stated that early in our relationship.Well determind as iIwas ,I was out to show him he needed no other women but me.I got creative .I got costumes, toys,make up, candles lotions, crazy places, crazy positions.I even checked out pornos for information and ideas while he was at work.It was like I had many personalities.I blew his mind. I wore him out.(I took naps in daytime when he was working.)I lost weight. He made up tickets with suguestions(virgin, farmers daughter,prison guard,pow,race car driver,drunken bum) Id have to draw 3 from the red heart box every night. My ex was a sex addict (a true addict )He was in counceling for it .It got to the point he was abusive.I didnt mind pleasring him at first then he got too demanding then it took a turn towards dangerous.Of course yours is not like mine was.I was with him 8 years . Hes still bragging to his friends I was the best he ever had. However if its a good relationship , get spicey. It can be fun for the both of you.Above all talk it out with each other not friends or forums.

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What is it about women having Jack Sparrow fantasies. Posted: 9/10/2009 2:43:27 PM
ecuse me but refering to ky or west virginia Youve watched way too many stupid movies hun . ya know us kuntry folk backyard is where they did the first hand transplant surgury?Kentucky and West Virginia are very highly educated parts of the world .They are doing great things in the medical field and both have extremly great colleges. heck give us hillbillies a comb and a worsh rag and we clean up quite nice. ya caint tell us from the normal folk. sum a us even gots som maners. clem and bob seys you miat not fit in here no good but ya got an awful purdy mouth come on over fer a visit. BTW we know pirrats arent real Its his voice and combination of characters he plays. ohhhh that barratone voice he can read me fairytales every night.

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Msg: 40 (view)

Should I Be Able to Accept My Husband Smoking Pot? Posted: 9/10/2009 2:20:36 PM
hummm should you accept his smoking pot and forget your morals? I think you ve already decided that . Your on here lookin for a LTR. Duh , it depends does he accept you lookin for someone else on a dating site? people ask some dumb questions before they update thier profiles lol. what? they dont think we read the profiles for back ground info before answering accurately?

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Msg: 150 (view)

Micheal Vick Posted: 8/18/2009 2:32:40 PM
I think what he did is wrong . He now needs to prove hes changed. He did his time and saticfied the courts . he deserves to make a living . But gosh people is he the only guy that knows how to play? What is it why do people go crazy over a few select players . surely hes replaceable .Daddy always taught me . one monkey dont stop the show everyone is replaceable.I dont understand sports I thought it was friendly competitive and team work now its the team making one man a hero. and get him on a pedestle at ALL cost. the other peons on the team dont count. Nothing against Michael Vick but Im currious , what makes him a better player than someone else?Could he be replaced?How did the team do without him when he was in jail? I truely dont understand why we have sports heros. people wanna whine cause an office visit at the doctor is so high and pay these mega bucks to see sports heros without batting an eye

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Coach Rick Pitino's cheating Posted: 8/18/2009 2:04:08 PM
What Im bothered by is in his contract it states he loses his job if he does something imoral or gets involved with the legal system (Idont remember exact details).had sex ith another woman while married , pays for abortion(sugar coat it anyway you want),trys desperately to hide it for 6 years. This man a super hero basketball coach. If it wasnt for pitino us hillbilly kentuckians wouldnt be on the map. Perhaps he should run for office . Or get into medicine and find a cure for cancer.You know pitino wasnt the only one on that basket ball court. The players and the school system deserve some of that credit. Weve always had great atheletes.In his contract it states hed lose his job, what use is a contract if we dont follow it. It sets a poor example to athelets . If you get famous they will let you slide with an apology just show tears act like your sorry. Pretend to put others first.Oh and bring up losing a loved one in 911. people can relate to that . it will pull sympathy votes oh poor him hes suffered so much awe go ahead let him slide and keep his job. As far as Karen , shame on her she did things all wrong. This should have been taken care of years ago.However I believe she will recieve her punishment accordingly and then some. She will soon be one of the most hated women on the planet.Suffering far more than just the law. Media will fire that up because she isnt high profile . She wont be able to do the written rehearsed apology.

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Coach Rick Pitino's cheating Posted: 8/14/2009 5:46:04 PM
refering to msg 8 what makes you so sure the rape was fabricated ?was you there ?I wasnt . How can you judge so surely?perhaps we need a rape thearpist as an expert on here explaining how people react to and deal with an actual rape.Its a shame thing , your control being taken away and it does affect the way you think and cause stupid decisions and will affect you the rest of your life.I for one hope she wasnt raped and if she was then it explains a few things to me. I feel she is driven by shame and fear and it can make you do nutty things.Im not looking over what she did but gosh people should shake a finger at him too.His head should be held in shame as well.I think hes saying what he thinks people want to hear to try and salvage his marrage , job his family unity,he should have been sorry back then instead of hidding it from his family (same as lying) for so long. so now its out it will be part of his past not his future . yipee! its clean up time on isle 5.

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Msg: 42 (view)

what can i do to become more attractive Posted: 8/14/2009 5:27:57 PM
love yourself first and boost your self esteem .looks are ok but an attractive personality will get you further. Sweet smiles draw attention too.People enjoy being around happy people . We tend to shy away from sad grumpy sour p*sses.

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Silly girl. Posted: 8/14/2009 5:20:36 PM
So you say duh I dont want you but Ill let ya make a fool outa yourself trying to win me back with a second chance. Sounds like a high school game to me. If you dont want her then move on. If there is no way she can" change "into what you want why tease her. Thats a mean game . I didnt check your age but you seem very childish.Be kind just move on.Dont mess with her heart.

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Coach Rick Pitino's cheating Posted: 8/13/2009 1:45:59 PM
wow this must be personal to so many rick lovers . I agree both acted very imature.Ive made many mistakes in my life as well however I dont think he should be standing so high on a pedistle.Sports nuts are still gonna worship him and shes gonna be looked down on for this .This stupidity shouldnt be glorified in any way and we shouldnt get a media high off her taking all the worse of it.Remember it was 2 people. Its not what she did was worse so let him continue setting a imorale example for our young athletes without so much as an ugly word concerning his part his shouldnt be swept under and forgiven and her be be publicly stoned by media and sports folllowers . People with a high profile should be held just as accountable for wrong doings as common folks.

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Coach Rick Pitino's cheating Posted: 8/13/2009 11:39:15 AM
yea its sooo the womans fault. he was quick to giving money for the abortion and willing to do and offer things to keep it quiet. drunk or not his *** was workin so his brain was too and he never admited there was arm twisting. poor high profile king of basketball.That bad woman led him astray. We (all us vendictive women )should be tied up with mouths gagged and used for sex.Poor Rick it would be awful such a great man may lose his job because he was a victom of this womans plot ta get rich. keep lookin at ya hero through rose colored glasses it makes you look stupid . Hes a man who made a mistake its stupid to blame just the woman. more facts are comming out.There have been new updates. As for her being a lunatic this all happened in a period of 6 years the 3new each other she and associate fell in love and married. Musta been awkward fro rick hidding this all these years.

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tennis skirt patterns Posted: 8/4/2009 3:35:34 PM
Does anyone have a favorite tennis skirt or skort pattern?Im looking to make my own with my own fabrics.They seem to be pricey and making a few designs myself Im sure I can beat the price of $50 -$75 easy.Id love to add my own creative touch.Ive been checking out Macalls and simplicity and havent had no luck.

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a felon wanting to become a volunteer firefighter Posted: 8/1/2009 4:26:33 PM
UPDATEthe two guys didnt get the volunteer firemans job.The main man stood up in front of the firehouse meeting and said"sorry guys we cant use you two,because we enter many homes with thousands of dollars laying around in their homes.We cant trust you to do your job with that kind of temptation . These victoms need to be able to trust you." The one guys wanting to volunteer commented"duh we arent gonna be by ourselves,and durring a fire Im not gonna be interested in money or jewlry.adrenalin will be pumping and the only thing Id be worried about is getting to the victoms getting them out and saving my a$$.If I wanted money shit ,why would I risk doing it in a fire ,hell the same house and money is there without a fire and its no temptation to me now and wont be then.People who has more to lose in this situation?Im trying to make up for what I did not make things worse. Ive got time hangin over my head .Im on probation.I have to be good I cant risk it." The other guy commented "hey, I dont have to be in your special club.Be prepared, If I see someone in a fire Im going in.Im not waiting for your truck.We want to try and live as normal as we can.We did our time we paid our restitution.Its over . We havent commited a crime for a long time .We are working doing partime jobs that dont pay well.We arent complaining.We are paying bills. Call our probation officer he will verify were no threat and havent been for a long time." I know these 2 guys well.I think both would be an asset .I believe both will continue doing well. Some people just have a fear. I think they should aply again in 6 months. and be reavaluated.

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a felon wanting to become a volunteer firefighter Posted: 7/24/2009 3:53:41 PM
one guy was charged sexual abuse in the 1st (felony)he fooled around on girlfriend , got caught wanted to go back was trying to apologise had arms around her begging forgiveness.she wanted nothing more of him.called cops . It got amended to wanton endangerment.Because he was holding her against her will. other guy broke into house stole stupid things , nothing of great value several things added up but ment something to the owners . did his jail time and paid restitution victoms even speak to him now and has forgiven him.

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a felon wanting to become a volunteer firefighter Posted: 7/22/2009 8:53:04 PM
Would you object to a felon becoming a volounteer fire fighter in your town?What about paramedic?I myself wouldnt have a problem either way.If my house was on fire Id want anyone brave enough to break down my door and save me and my kids. Who cares about a past.I feel if a person is out of jail then time is served.If he repeats his offense then its the courts job to reprocecute not mine. If he learned a lesson and living legaly then his past is past.

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Felony Posted: 7/22/2009 7:55:00 PM
So what? Is he out of jail? Then apparently he did his punishment and saticfied the courts .Did he pay restitution? Is he working now? Hes in your past , you chose to get out . let it go . Are you trying to reconvict him. Too many people on a high horse lookin down on those whom have made mistakes and paid , most pay dear.Settle down folks . Sweep yer own back porch off first. Ok he got caught , its been taken care of .My advice GET A LIFE . Leave him alone.Thats why we have a judge and jury and so many stupid laws that courts are a booming buisiness.We need to revote on our laws .Should we have a law keeping us from hangin clothes on a line?BTW I sunbathe nude on my property too. Yes my fiesty ass has been in jail.I point that out in serious relationships.other wise its no ones buisness as long as Im harming no one.

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If this happened to you, what would you do? Posted: 7/18/2009 6:39:19 PM
If you and others are sure who did it then there should be enough evidence to prove it and bring in authorities and let them handle it. Humm maybe someone you dont expect took the money because of hard times and the unlikely person is set up and blamed.I would hate to falsely accuse some inocent person . what if the same thing happened to you and you were inocent . wouldnt feel so good huh?

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Msg: 101 (view)

So he has been in prison so what right? Posted: 7/17/2009 8:56:32 PM
Mr painlessend ,Thank you I agree. The laws need to be up graded.You can get a felony charge for stupid things. well when it happens to them and they cant get a job then they change their tunes.I know 2 guys charged with feloniesdid time , paid restituion.Tried to volunteer for local fire dept to give back to comunity and help change thier name from being black balled.They were denied even though fire dept only has 7 volunteers and was begging for more . They are so understaffed.Me? I dont care if Im dragged out of my burning house by a fellon. who is gonna take time to case my house for valuables if they are fighting a fire?People are nuts , oh yes bring on the ex cons they make better workers because they need jobs bad and are black balled from every thing.They are more dependable and more respect ful .In my experience.Ive delt with many and worked them at my company.

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Msg: 100 (view)

So he has been in prison so what right? Posted: 7/17/2009 8:39:15 PM
I have no problem with him being released from prison , people change . They make mistakes . They learn from them ,its life.Now for you , you state your being 100%supported by your family ( if I read corectly ,Forgive me if Im wrong)tells me you cant support yourself for some reason at your age .And you dont want to jeoperdize that? So your imature and using your familyletting them support you?.Showing off your comonsense and judgement skills.Perhaps your not mature enough to chose if this relatioship is a good Idea .yup maybe mommy and daddy should help you decide this too.Id be sure and run it by them to be safe.You seem to come off very imature.Good luck.

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panty snatcher Posted: 7/14/2009 6:47:00 PM
During my first marrage Id hang my panties and thongs on the line to dry . My husband always helped chose from Fredericks of Holywood. We both loved em. Id find many missing over the months.Well my nieghbor asked me to help clean and decorated her home because her 26 year old son was about to marry.(he lived at home with mom & dad)I went into his room to put up his laundry.There were my panties all over his wall put up with thumb tacks.I confronted him and he confessed he had a crush for several months.We started seeing each other .Then his older brother wanted in on it.I ended everything and decided I wanted no one for a while . I felt I deserved better than to dirty myself like that. I had some of my own growing up to do.

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girls do you like crossdressers Posted: 7/2/2009 9:26:31 PM
I have no problem with crossdressers.To each ,their own.I love checking em out. Besides folks women has been doing it for years dressing in pants , short hair. Women get by with doing it why cant men.As long as the goods arent hangin out who cares.

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Why do women scratch your back and bite your lip during sex? Posted: 6/29/2009 7:48:27 PM
answer to ya question, perhaps shes inexperienced and doesnt know what else she can do. experience tells ya to read the person feel them out. some like lip biting and back scratching . some like tenderness. many like the wrestle you till I get mine and kindly undo the head lock when finnished and tap out. the key is comunication on both parts.

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Msg: 65 (view)

Long vs short hair Posted: 6/28/2009 6:23:12 PM
Okay , I have long hair.Its 52 inches long now.I realy dont see what long hair has to do with anything.Its no different than having blue eyes, large breast,nice teeth.My hair is beautiful and healthy and always smells great. However it doesnt define me.Nor does it determine my personality or how I treat people. Just because it long and beautiful, its not a crown .It doesnt make me any better than a nice lady with short hair.

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One for the ladies. Would you get mad if??? Posted: 6/22/2009 2:40:40 PM
hummmm I just took a peek at ya profile .Perhaps shes changed her mind about all the uh, extra(&^%$$##@@!#$%^) people change all the time.Maybe thinks yer not just takin matters into your hands but maybe several others.perhaps shes grown up and wanting a more serious, more mature relationship and withdrawing from the extra partners and activities is the only way for her to cope. maybe she thinks you shaking and waving charlie means yer wanting to call in the other play buds. Id recomend toning down ya profile and chating this out with her. seems to be serious feelings at risk at this time.If shes worth salvaging . JMHO. Im finding sometimes these post make more sense if ya read the profile and get some insite.note to all*

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Msg: 75 (view)

Random Acts of kindness Posted: 6/11/2009 7:23:06 PM
For mothers day each year my sons give me a scrap book filled with stories and dates of the times they do good deeds for no reason.Move a nieghbor,give a person envelopes with 5 or 10 dollars at the gas station.bring lunch for a co-worker,change a flat tire,help change a ladys oil or spark plugs,surprise someone with a thinking of you card.Feed someones dogs when they went on vacation.sawed a load of wood this winter for an old man up the road. They have built 2 handicap ramps.worked on this one ladies water pipes when they busted this winter. I get so much more out of reading these scrap books than any other gift would have done.My kids know their gift of compassion means the world to me. Im so proud of my kids

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 13 (view)

What do you keep in your wallet/purse? Posted: 6/11/2009 7:03:05 PM
in my purse I keep,a small hamer with purlpe flowers the handle unscrews to hold 4 screwdrivers.(my kids got it for me years ago.My little black book(actualy brown with palm trees)has all my numbers I've ever called.My cell phone I forget Im carrying.oh a purple pair of pliars that match the hamer lol.electric tape (small roll)screws and small tacks.money stashed in each compartment one dollar here ,another there.at leat 6 ink pens.walet , check book,band aides. 4 key rings with the keys to my vehicles buildings etc.(keep another copy of all the keys at home and one copy at my dads just in case I screw up.lol.believe it or not this is all organised neatly in a cute small purse.Extremly heavy.Im always prepared.I keep a tool box a air compresser that runs off lighter,jack and first aide kit in my trunk of my car.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 25 (view)

registered sex offenders Posted: 6/7/2009 1:44:45 PM
ok I know im gonna catch it now but here goes. Many are charged and convicted when they do stupid things such as skinny dipping or public urinating. Or mooning while driving down the road being a registered sex offender is a tricky thing. So many things fall into that catagory many dont relate to sex at all. Now , dont these guys deserve to date ?Find a true love? Id much rather see em in a happy healthy mature relationship than out looking for who knows. As far as yer kids are conserned dont shove the responsibilityof parenting and guidense or the blame onto pof or others. You laid down and made em stand up and raise em.If you know where your kids are then this shouldnt happen. They shouldnt be out there exposed to potential dangers.Im not just talking about sex crimes .People freak over sex crimes because they are uneducated . There are more kids getting hit by cars ,falling from trees,In home accidents etc.Because parents are too busy doin their thing.(Probly cyber sexlol)People nowadays just arent responsible .BTW Pof dont say put ya kids photos up we will protect em. There is danger around every corner.Use some common sense.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

lack of emotion Posted: 5/22/2009 7:27:20 PM
Im sorry , time for me to go off topic.Miss GSB.Granted you may be highly educated and perhaps your thoughts are correct but maybe people will be more apt to take your advice or even listen to you if youd sweeten your style a little .Ive noticed many of your post and opinions enlightening and some helpful. You do a lot of growling and bitting and your quite mean. Perhaps you know more about the bi polar disease not because of your education but maybe experience. I think I tend to agree with your post . You do make valid points but your delivery sucks so bad we look over your statements and only see the meaness. Back to original post ... I think I wouldnt worry about what your ex thinks shes an ex for a reason.Her opinion no longer counts . Nothing youd do would ever be right in her eyes. If you feel your emotions arent expressed loudly enough learn to verbalise them . Your already sypathetic and know to do the caring romantic things. I think you shouldnt worry , its her problem now .

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

sibling rivery Posted: 5/21/2009 2:52:45 PM
my older son chose a job farther away to allow her to be the one to exit once again and go back to her other boyfriend same as before .see she tires of him when he doesnt respond violently to her fits .So hes exited himself this time.He does love her but he knows its hopless. Hince 4 years of this yo yoing mess. We dont want to hurt her farther .This time when she leaves hes locking the door.Its just when my older son working so far away , she got board and tried the younger .She was angry any way because this job was out of town.She couldnt watch his every move and get her "fit fix".(Sorry but its a way of discribing it)

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 2:38:37 PM
Thank you wonderful people .Youve been helpful.I was a mess earlier.worrying about all this .My younger son is planning to speak to his older brother when he returns from this extra job hes on.He wants to do it face to face,come clean and beg for forgiveness.Hes called the girlfriend asked her to move on apologised to her for his part in this .Let her know under no circumstances does he want anything to do with her.Changed his cell phone number.The girl is very angry.Called me a nosey a$$ good for nothing. lol She wants my older sons number , we refuse to give it to her. As I stated before I take pride in the fact my sons are very close so I believe all will be forgiven soon. As for the one who thinks this is fake and no none like this exhist and Im trolling. well hun ya read about this every day in the forums . There are nut cases like me every where. And yes I thank God youve been blessed with a perfect family. However most normal people make mistakes some not as bad as ours .If your family is doing that well then keep up with your exceptional parrenting skills . write a book and share it with others or feel free to e-mail me .Id welcome your skills.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 21 (view)

sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 10:48:25 AM
UPDATE My youngest son and I talked.He admited to his fling.Hes having guilt pains .He asked my advice on what to do .Hes affraid his brother wont forgive him.I recomended he be honest and give him time .discontinue contact with the g/f.And work on building brothers trustback. Hopefuly Things will work out. Thanks to all.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 9:00:17 AM
Thank you Ms Bella for your post . I wish to thank others as well.I will consider all your ideas and oppinions. Again my biggest fear is my little 3 person family I tried to provide for and protect all these years will be broken. Im just a mom who made honest mistakes . I just had to prove to my ex that ran away , that we were fine without him. I totaly went overboard trying to protect my kids perhaps top the point of controling their lives. Hummm lesson learned ...alittle late .

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Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 13 (view)

sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 8:28:01 AM
yes please excuse my spelling. as for the father situation. The father chose to run away from responsibility.He left when they were around 7.I admit my fault in this.I know I aparntly went wrong in some of the up bringing.However my kids know right from wrong wether they chose to do right or not I cant help it .Thanks to some for the****ness and blaming me again I accept my responsibility in this .no need for harshness. Thank you for the inteligent responses so far. As for those trying to outwit each other for a laugh carry on. It reflects a nice image. Im trying to learn to back out and let them be but as a mother I want to protect them as much as I can. I took pride in the fact they used to be so close . Thank you people Im listining to your advise.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

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sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 6:09:14 AM
thank you for your reply. Oh yes Ive thought of the razor blades.lol. Ive been doin some research on her uh mental illness. I been begging her to try a mental health proffessional for years .I even told her mom what was up .The girl keeps wanting to confied in me and my sons.Im not qualified I remind her . It just makes me so angry when someone trys to come between my sons and dystroy thier relationship with each other. Believe me Im very pi$$ed at my younger son.I dont want either of my sons near her.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 1 (view)

sibling rivery Posted: 5/20/2009 5:10:29 AM
This girl drove my older son crazy for 4 years both legal adults now.She played him like a puppet on a string. he even lost a large sum of weight because of her contantly critisizing and control.She knew he loved her more than life itself.She wasnt happy unless she was making him unhappy.My son has been away for 3 weeks doing extra work. Well this girl(23) calls up my younger son (20). Talks him into having sex.She purposely marks her territory so it could get back to my older son.She covers him in hickies and claws his back raw .Shes doing this to get a mean reaction from my older son. She has mental problems she is a self- mutalater and cuts her body. And constantly wants to test a guys love for her by seeing how mad she can make him and he still loving her.She goes for other bad boy types gets them to beat her then comes to my older son to protect her. Her father abandened her .Her brother whom she was very close to died in car crash this summer.She had a baby by a drug addict who beat her and is in prison.She gets mad my older son wont get angry enough to hit her.(Im tempted !) She keeps trying to anger my older son.How can I encourage my younger son to leave her alone before things get rough.I want her out of both my sons lives.My younger son in it for the sex Im sure. I cant believe my younger son had sex with her knowing it would hurt his brother.What should I do at this point to try and keep harmony.ALso I dont want my older son to find this out . Clearly she does.

the one I used to be

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 56 (view)

I need a push, please help. Posted: 5/19/2009 7:21:35 AM
If your tierd of crying then stop. You already know he doesnt love your or respect you in any way.Do you want to continue this? Would you like to wake up every day for the rest of your life and feel like this? Leave,so what you love his family well its not a pretty price to pay to be with his family if it cost you all this pain.You can be friends with another family. There are many oppertunities around every corner.Get you some counceling .Boost yer self-esteem.Put you first. Start with a make over for you and run like the wind. Dont let no one be in charge of your happiness. Your scared of change , but you dont realise change can be a good thing. Sweety take over his control on you. You can walk so much taller and see so much clearer if ya wasnt carrying his gloomy a$$ around. Note:he has problems. he has to put you down to step on to make him taller and feel better about himself.It makes him feel loved and special when you take his abuse and still love him after all that so in his Eyes he must be pretty special for you to stay after all that.(thats why he does it)So his problems arent yours leave him with his problems let him suffer his worse fear.

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