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marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

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Is different taste in music enough for you to kill the second date? Posted: 10/27/2009 7:43:30 PM
I am A music geek . Im into just about everything so if anybody is into any type of music I guess I can get into their music. Problem is some people hate my music. Here are a few examples of musical differencesruining a relationshit that have happened to me. Riding in my car have my music on. date says who the hell isthat i apolitely answer the ramones I she says it sucks. end of relationshit. I also went out with this girl I TOLD her she smokes more then keith richards- she says who is keith richards? ended another one. who the hell is that- nirvana. who? nirvana curt cobain {at that time he died 6 months previously}/ who the hell is he? never mind.

marc100000

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The Longer it takes To Get Her in Bed..The Lousier the Lover? Posted: 10/15/2009 9:30:56 PM
I have seen all the combinations. 1. someone who goes right into bed and its not that good 2. someone who waits a long time and its great 3. someone who goes right into bed and its fantastic 4. someone who waits a long time and its not good

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

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She's Too Into You! Posted: 10/7/2009 7:16:25 AM
Here are a few less obvious ones than calling 900 times a day or stalking. 1. Person calls you gets your voicmail leaves a long message and then afterwards calls you again. 2or 3 calls in a row isnt a big deal but if its done always it shows a sign of depsperation or someone who is over anxious. 2. someone who always asks you how your family/friends are .- normally this is extremely nice and caring behaviour and if one of them is ill one of the first things i want is someone who will ask how they are. It weirds me out though when a girl asks me almost every day how my mom is when she never met her and she is doing fine. It also makes me feel this sense of guilt that I really dont care about her family too much unless they are ill to find out how they are doing. 3. tries to impress you by knowing information about you which you said once ,looked up on the internet or remembered something your friend said about you. one girl asked me what color hair my ex from a long time ago had and a few basic personality qs about her. next day she thought i would be so impressed that she knew who she was on my faecbook list. 4.Thinks you are so great and have so much unlimited potetential . they eventually will label you as a lazy underachiever who will never amount to anything

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

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What does it mean when a woman says... Posted: 10/5/2009 3:48:58 PM
If a woman ever says that I deserve better then her I tell her nicely that I can get better then her and will continue to do so. I also reassure them that even though I am a better person then them I do value their looks and would like to see them until I do meet someone else who is nice and not so screwed up. I also explain to them that we are both playing with house money in the repsect that we both know what we mean to each other and that even though I am basically not a cheater or a liar and i treat people fairly I make no judgements on her behavior.

MARC100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

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How long before you know you're attracted to someone? Posted: 10/1/2009 8:48:08 PM
I can be 2 blocks away from a woman and see physical attributesthat I am attracted to . I have a saying that is taken from a line of a BOB Dylan song "What looks large from a distance close up is never that big" Which kind of means after getting closer very often you are not attracted anymore . Could mean you got a closer look at the person could also mean you saw the kind of person they are. Sometimes though you see a person and its not just their physical beauty but their smile and the way they carry themselves and it only takes a minute.

MARC100000

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seeing the person you've just started dating on a date with someone else Posted: 9/29/2009 3:19:19 AM
This happened to me once with a girl i went on a first date with and was about to schedule a second date . I thought it was preety funny and explained this to my group of friends who had to tease me about this . The girls who I was friends with showed me considerable attention and the guys kept on introducing me to other women even going as far as buying girls drinks and telling them to tell the bartender it was from me. I did kind of have a neurosis and a few things entered my mind. 1. Do I talk to other women? If i dont talk to other women she might think im not talking to them cause of her and if i do she might think im talking to them cause of her. After 10 seconds of bunch of neurotic thoughts I just figured act like its any other night except once call her on her cell phone as a goof and tell her she looks great and that im having fun but would be having more fun if i was with her. Something to that affect . We did laugh that off and had a few more dates after that. It was a aquard moment which became a amusing conversation for the next few dates to come . there definitely was a positive spin on it though as we both handled it with greace which honestly wasnt much to handle

MARC100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

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Cell phones and the first date Posted: 9/29/2009 2:54:27 AM
I do leave it on vibrate and excuse myself to go to the bathroom a few minutes later and then answer my calls. After a few dates or a comfort level with a girl I do answer my cell phone most of the time but I keep the calls brief and I will then discuss my friend or family member who called and say something to the effect that you have to meet this guy he is a pisser. It kind of indicates that you have a warm relationship with your friends and that you kind of see a future with your date cause you want them to meet your friends.

MARC100000

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Men and Dating and Looks... Posted: 9/29/2009 2:34:05 AM
I find that a few of my male friends who are quite average or underaverage looking have been with at one point in their life a girl who was much better then them in the looks department . also they have been to other countries where the girls have been exotic and have been with them. Saddly they are ruined in a way cause they are not attracted to women who are considered average to them. It could be even some joe schmoe who now looks like george costanza who got the cheerleader in high school 25 years ago. He reached his pinnacle .

MARC100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

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Is he into you? Posted: 9/24/2009 6:12:42 AM
I am quite old fashioned and I want a man chasing me,. You and many other women say that. Now im all for persuing a woman but chasing. Lets take this basic concept at face value . If I am chasing after someone they are running away from me . Many guys dont over anaylze or have a deep intellect we figure they are not interested . Also A guy doesnt want to be talked about as being pathetic or someone who cant take a hint. Many will call you one time maybe twice if they are giving you the benefit of the doubt.

marc100000

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Sex while talking? Posted: 9/6/2009 6:03:55 AM
My ex always used to call me on the phone to talk during sex. Now if you have a whole conversation with someone during sex do you have to talk to them afterwards?

marc100000

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Rules Posted: 9/3/2009 10:04:54 PM
ALways break the rules but never break the law

marc100000

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Do you try to be the best sex they have ever had? Posted: 8/19/2009 8:44:52 PM
I must be the best, women have told me this. "mt last boyfriend really hurt me during sex you on the other hand seem to fit so well.

marc100000

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Do you try to be the best sex they have ever had? Posted: 8/17/2009 8:57:07 AM
I try and be the worst lover i possibly can . Fortanutely I do everything wrong and i end up doing a real good job.

marc100000

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I think Girls have it a lot easier than Guys when it comes to Love, Dating, Relationships, etc. Posted: 8/16/2009 9:12:39 PM
I wont say the op is wrong but anything can be looked at 2 different angles as a advantage or disadvantage. Here is your advantage ladies= Guys will approach you. Here is your disadvantage ladies=guys will approach you This sounds like doubletalk but I see both sides of the arguement of a woman having this great advantage of having guys approach her and they probably wont shoot her down or reject her cause they approached her first/ Disadvatage is lots of jerks will also bother her as well. Lots og guys will charm the --- out of a woman{80 percent of charm is an illusion} Once it gets passed this preliminary stage it all evens out and there are many exceptions of men going through what women generally go through and vice versa

marc100000

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More to love , drop dead diva etc Posted: 8/9/2009 3:22:52 PM
My guess is your friend normally is into thin to average body types and just about all the bigger women he has seen have not been all that attractive in many other aspects besides their weight. face it some people call themselves bbws but if they were skinny they still would be ugly. I saw about 15 minutes of the show and had a similar reaction which was. A lot of these girls are preety and that wasnt coming from a standpoint of having any sort of preference for big girls. Sometimes a guy will be into a girl even more if he is into her and she is not normally the type that he likes. Once in a while beauty trancends normal preference

marc100000

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Why do Women hold men hostage on the phone? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:04:56 AM
Here is what you do. Next time she is busy at work call her and basically say whatever she would say word for word and not care one bit what kind of day she is having at work or that she has to go. This could backfire though if she does not recognize the sarcasm and loves the fact that you shop for dresses and can describe to a tee how to put on makeup

marc100000

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My boss has a theory... Posted: 8/4/2009 9:58:02 PM
I have a friend who doesnt send nude pics but he does some things that are considered downwright weird or vulgur when first meeting or approaching a woman. He is a good looking guy with intelligence it works with one out of 100 women which based on his frequency he will very often have some great adventures He gets really suprised though when he ends up with a psycho of a woman{what do you expect from a woman who responds favourably to your s--t}. The women believe it or not get kind of dissapointed that he isnt quite the bad boy he says he is and deep down inside is a nice guy.{or at least much nicer then his first impression}. I guess what I am saying is for a bunch ofnormal woman out there who you think the guy is a total s bag for sending out nudes there is one who will find it appealing . Once a woman finds that appealing you dont have to be normal and can be unhibitied. Not condoning that kind of behavior but just explaining it

marc100000

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Lets see who can answer this question... Posted: 8/4/2009 9:35:17 PM
There really is no true answer to your question. I can see both sides to this dillema though. A indivdual is stating that there are possibly no good people left and a good person shows some interest and is shunned. You have to be preety narcassistic to think that there are no good people left in this world. On any given day I meet at least a few . If i went out with 100 women who were all psycho****es from hell and it wasnt my fault I still wouldnt believe that there are no good women. They are looking for a good woman but also are looking for many other attributes as well. They try and come off sensitive by just merely asking for a good woman and in truth they want a good woman but they want a good woman with a good rack also. Does that make them shallow. perhaps. Does that make them human . guess so

marc100000

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Why do Women hold men hostage on the phone? Posted: 7/31/2009 7:16:12 PM
Lamont I think we are similar. The first phone conversation I used to have with a girl would be for about 90 min. second conversation 60 min. A few conversations after that would be 30 min and they think you totally dont care about them. I am very talkative on the phone sometimes and sometimes I just want to see how someone is feeling and not to chit chat . Suggestion is to keep the first few conversations a little shorter. We start out extremely interested and once we know them it dwindles. this is bad. Sometimes even if you dont have much of an interest in what they have to say you just bare it. On the other hand if they dont give a shyt that you dont give a shyt , then you must tell them

marc100000

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For a Laugh- What movie would you base your life on as of now? Posted: 7/29/2009 5:23:03 PM
Lost in translation- deals with things that almost happened yet somehow just fall short Clerks- I own and operate a store and it was omewhat of a documentary of my life in my mid to late 20s. Hi fidelity- the John cuzak characters love for music and his lists and relationships bared lots of similarities

marc100000

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Always on? Posted: 7/26/2009 11:07:18 PM
When you are loud ,fnnyand on does he ever share or let you take the lead or the spotlight. Sorry about using the sports cliche but if this isnt the case and it sounds like it isnt. he isnt a team player. It reminds me of a situation a few weeks ago where we all were playing a trivia game and one of the guys came across as a really funny friendly guy. Type of guy who would want at a party. Well the game was a free for all and the topic was music. The guy was a musician so many of these questions for him were common knowledge . He had to shout out every answer. I feel you on this guy, perhaps he can tone down though but dont expect him to be someone else this is what he is.

marc100000

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What is Your definition of Drama? Posted: 7/26/2009 6:22:31 AM
Drama is making a elephant out of a mouse

marc100000

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A female cop. Could you? Posted: 7/24/2009 5:46:48 PM
I could date a cop now i realize that she will never ever want to associate the cop uniform with anything sexually. It would disgust her. I guess she can always dress up as a nurse or a teacher. In all seriousness I wouldnt be intimidated and would be proud of her but I would be worried constantly about her. Also I would have to realize that she has some intense friendships with the opposite sex and respect that. She also would have to take her cop attitude{if she has one} and leave it home at work . {SORRY TO stereoptype cops, but you people for the most part are really intense}

marc100000

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Is adult dating like high school with money as late rocker Frank Zappa opined? Posted: 7/22/2009 6:23:00 PM
Its a shame we dont keep many of our aspects and behaviors we had when we were teens. The big crush where you just cant wait to see someone and your energy level is so high without anything chemical to aid it. The idea that anything in the world is yours and its your inevitible right to go for it. The intensity and the playfulness. On the other hand many do keep certain other aspects of their youth intact. The iresponsablity family and fianancial wise. The obnoxiousness of one having their first drink is still evident on old drunks it just takes them more and they have a extra lyer of anger in their obnoxiousness. Its a hard balance to maintain your immaturity and to grow up simultaneosly. One must do both. I look at this way. lets say one is 40 years old they are also 39 and 28 and 18 and 5.

marc100000

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Song titles..... During sex Posted: 7/20/2009 8:17:06 PM
THE LATE GREAT MJ 1. beat it-during sex 2. off the wall-during sex 3. dont stop till you get enuff-during sex 4. dont let your son go down on me- duet with elton john- during sex 5.mamas pearl-during sex 6.i want you back-during sex 7 im bad-during sex 8. remember the time-during sex 9never can say goodbye-during sex

marc100000

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Inter-racial dating Posted: 7/20/2009 7:46:00 PM
You might see the hispanic woman white male more often then you think you see it. Ill explain this one. Some hispanics are not that ethnic looking and are light in color and you might see them with a white guy and not notice they are spanish. I have went out and have various friends who are part spanish and are mistaken for italian or anything else. I agree with you though on hispanic women assimulating less with white men . Perhaps it could be that many live in more urban neighborhoods and would have more in common with someone of their own culture or even have more in common with someone of african american descent. I hear you cinsav on your prefrence for spanish women. Lets just put it this way. "they are one of gods unique inventions"

marc100000

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Sure-Fire First-Date Killers Posted: 7/20/2009 1:53:14 PM
Steve the girl was acting rational for not wanting to hurt her boyfriend of 6 years feelings. If he found your number in her cell phone he would have cried. after all the dude is only 6 years old.

marc100000

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Song titles..... During sex Posted: 7/20/2009 1:05:25 PM
BOB DYLAN like rolling stone- during sex dont think twice- during sex blowin in the wind- during sex most likely youll go your way-during sex lovesick-during sex hard rain-during sex hurricane- during sex visions of johanna- during sex i dont believe you {she acts like we never have met}during sex lay lady lay-during sex shes your lover now- during sex i shall be released-during sex serve somebody-during sex solid rock- during sex grooms still waiting at the alter-during sex subterenean homesick blues-during sex love minus zero= no linit- during sex can you please crawl out your window-during sex i believe in you-during sex time passes slowly-during sex just like a woman-during sex lonesome death of hattie carroll-during sex baby let me follow you down-during sex ill keep it with mine-during sex ill be your baby tonight-during sex mixed up confusion-during sex

marc100000

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What is the wierdest date you've ever had? Posted: 7/19/2009 4:41:32 PM
We went to a restuarant and the conversation was like pulling teeth . She was extremely non responsive to anything I said. She didnt seem crazy or anything but it was a boring date and I couldnt wait for it to be over. I drive her home and say politely it was nice meeting you. She asks me if I can come up to her apt cause there are weird people hanging around and she feels unsafe. I say sure figuring at face value thats what she meant cause she showed literally no interest in me whatsover. I again say "it was nice meeting you" she than gets affectionate with me out of nowhere kissing me and grabbing me asking me to come in/ {the most affecxtion we had was shaking hands at the beggining of the date} Some time goes by and we are in bed and we have done about everything else besides sex/ I go to my wallet to get something{ a condom of course} and she starts yelling." what the f are you doing?" You really think we are going to have sex? this is only our first date and will be our last you @#$%^ pig. I told her i wasnt going to get a condom I was grabbing my wallet to show you pictures of my family. She says really? I told her no i was getting a condom . im out of here, goodnight

marc100000

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Inter-racial dating Posted: 7/15/2009 6:48:46 AM
You asked what do people close to you think. The only negativity has been from female friends. Males that I know have no problem and are just cool with all types of women who are either nice and attractive. It kind of breaks the stereotype of men being more prejudice and women being more open minded Too small a sample in my case though and ill chalk it up to my female friends being more opinionated and my male friends just caring if I am happy

marc100000

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Inter-racial dating Posted: 7/15/2009 6:34:56 AM
Think about what she said 'nobody likes an oreo" Well I just checked in with a friend of mine who is a oreo and asked him if he considers himself to be well liked. He said he is not sure if he would have got to where he is in life if everybody hated him. This particular friend threw out the first ball last night at the all star game. In all seriousness in my experiences with dating 2 different black women is the only thing that weirds me out a little bit is white females approaching us and telling us how great it is that we are a interacial couple and that we look so cute together. I honestly think they are sincere and perhaps are a little envious to the fact that many would judge them negatively if they were with a black man or perhaps they are one of those love me im a liberal types that have to tell you that they support you .

marc100000

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Why would you lie about your age? Posted: 7/14/2009 6:37:29 PM
The question was why would you lie about your age? I am not condoning lying but this situation might make people understand but not condone why people lie about their age/ I was talking to a young lady in a bar this saturday she was 26 I am 42. We were discussing going out at some later time. We exchanged numbers and she then proceeded to ask me how old I am . told her 42. She politely said she thinks we have too big of a difference in age . I understood where she was coming from{her parents were both under 50}. Now if I lied about my age on a short term basis I would have got a better result. I still wont lie and when you do you eventualkly get caught , but damn sometimes you say to yourself why tell the truth

marc100000

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Do women speak better than men? Posted: 7/14/2009 3:05:56 AM
I think we can call it a draw. Often in my experience though I might say less when a woman has a problem . I just feel she wants to vent and she doesnt need me to tell her."this is what you go to do" She just wants someone to listen . So in that case I have talked less then the woman I was with instead of being a big shot who knows everything .

marc100000

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Like this Man but not the Jokes he makes Posted: 7/13/2009 10:09:13 PM
I remember saying something really stupid once and it got my ex so pissed that she almost cried. A friend of mine saw us together and said in a joking manner "hey its the beauty and the beast" {reffering to me and my ex/ I told him its not nice to call her a beast. Now realistically I was trying to say she is geourgous and was being sarcastic but often that gets lost on women not out of lack of intelegencia. I am curious if the guy said he is in so much better shape then you was in fact in much worse shape then you and was merely being sarcastic or ironic.{dont quite know the definition I know rain on your wedding day isnt irony} If its said on a constant basis to try and piss you off then good riddens to him but otherwise cut him some slack.

marc100000

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Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/13/2009 9:26:48 PM
NO head is not a turn off for me if the girl is a manequin , because i realize some of them dont have heads. As far as a real women this would cause problems . How would she able to breathe?

marc100000

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Do women speak better than men? Posted: 7/13/2009 5:29:44 AM
I think there is a energy in women more often then men that make them talk a little bit more . Also it is more common for a woman to ask and answer the "how was your day question" . where as men will talk your ear off sometimes also we are more moody when it comes to talking. sometimes we just dont want to talk. if our day sucked the best thing to do is shut it out. Question - Do more women or more men carry on claiming they know it all about subjects that they have minimal knowledge about? I have found in my relationships that many women will be extremely opinionated on things that they know almost nothing about while my male friends will freely admit they dont know. I dont think it is much more prevalent with women then men ill just chalk it up to the people i know.

marc100000

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He said we should be friends...is this a rejection or what? Posted: 7/12/2009 6:55:51 PM
The word friends is kicked around often. Many say they would like to be friends but it merely means "if we bump into each other lets be civil" or it just means lets end this peacefully. Sometimes though it is meant sincerely and some do want and become very good friends after dating. If he doesnt excude good social skills though he would make a crapppy friend as well. Friendship isnt something that has to be agreed to. Dont bother being friends with him

marc100000

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Good Girl? Posted: 7/11/2009 4:18:58 PM
Its subjective but there are little things that to me make someone a good girl as opposed to not being a good girl . most use the term ratherly chidishly to brag about sexual prowess. 1. If a girl offers to pay sometimes isnt a give me this give me that . 2. someone who calls you when you are not feeling well 3. somebody who you can bring to family functions or to a friends house and is presentable , well spoken and conducts themselves in a socially friendly manner 4. somebody who handles themselves with grace / 5.somebody who doesnt put somebody down who is a nice person- situation- a rather unattractive guy approaches 2 women. girl number 1 is nasty and wonders all night why losers are approaching her and says why me why me. girl number 2 talks for a little while is friendly cordial and eventually says nice meeting you and goes on her way{according to plenty of fish guys this girl is not nice for not giving a guy a chance by going out with him} . this girl is a nice girl to not make a guy feel rejected. 6. a nice girl can drink and can go out and have fun but its not her main priority and it isnt too big of a deal to her 4

marc100000

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Heels and shorter guys - advice please! Posted: 7/7/2009 6:24:33 PM
I am 5 foot 7 , i might even be 5 foot 6 and 63.2 percent of an inch. I realize that some but not all women will not date me cause they like a taller guy {which is no problem for me}. So if some girl is going to wear heels I am fine with that and like it. most guys will feel the same way . Personally I love when a woman feels good about herself and in turn that makes me feel good as well.

marc100000

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Friends, more than friends, what? Posted: 7/6/2009 9:19:55 PM
I have a feeling that its the religion thing. Him being a orthodox jew and being a man also [in jewish religion if your mom is not jewish and your dad is . you are not a jew} You are partially jewish I am not disputing you there but in jewish law there is no such thing as half or partially jewish. Ask him if religion plays a role in his decision to remain friends.

marc100000

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Women and The Mention of Their Kids Posted: 7/6/2009 8:59:22 PM
I see both sides of the arguement here. On one hand women constantly will say or write that they love their kids and their kids come first but they seem to go beyond that. Very often they say or in the case pof they type it in a either condescending way or to say you are not the highest prirority here and i dont need one more kid. On the other hand women do write this not just to be hard to deal with but cause some other guys have been bad to them. Not sure if it makes it right but I guess their complaint isnt just a wine and is based on reality. It does reek of being captain obvious or kind of like a Chris rock routine where the ghetto dad says"I take care of my kids" dumbass thats what you are supposed to do.

marc100000

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He won't ask a girl out unless he's 80% sure he's got a chance Posted: 7/6/2009 8:10:57 PM
That kind of thinking doesent get the maximum reesults. Hate to say it but very often I really like to be sure a girl is into me when i really like her. Now I am never 80 percent sure I am always around 40-60 percent sure no matter what they say or do. If they say I am cute I can go either way, that would be a 50 percent thing. If they say they like my shirt I can take it as they are really into me and complimenting me or that they just like the shirt another 50 percent sureness. In the past this has caused me to be more aggressive with women I really didnt like that much but I was 90 percent sure or didnt care too much if they didnt like me. With the few that I liked I looked at whatever they said or did and analyzed it at both sides to think it could mean this or it could mean that. I really do better when operating from the corazon rather then analyzing what they mean.

marc100000

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What lessons have you learned from online dating? Posted: 7/6/2009 6:53:39 PM
I have learned absolutely nothing. matter of fact i think I lost a few brain cells in the process. While I only had 1 date here [havent tried really} my total online experiences have been similar to my offline experiences. If i meet a psycho or someone who has no morals I dont go crying about online dating cause in all fairness I have had the same results in other places even from setups from family members. {maybe they think we are a match}

marc100000

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Speed Dating - Does anyone have experience with this? Posted: 7/5/2009 8:18:46 PM
Did it once. My experience was kind of weird. To start my friend and I got there early and we started talking to 2 girls who were part of the speed dating event. MY FRIEND and I were asked not to talk to them as we will be able to talk to them later on. We begrudingly agreed but basically berated the host to the amusement of the other patrons and ourselves. It starts and the girls for the most part were allright looking. Mixed bag of people. Everything was at random the ages had a wide age range 25-50 . you had guys who were 25 with women who were in their 40s and vice versa. Inbetween dates they had this guy who was a rabbi{it was a jewish event} trying to hawk his book on jewish marriages and was preaching why jews should not interamarry. Eventually I yelled out for him to stop preaching and trying to hawk his book and to let us go on to our speedate . Most of the girls were nice even if they were not interested in you, others were not physically attractive to myself but were pleasent to talk to for the short time. All in all i made two matches one didnt call back and another we went out twice and it just didnt work out. so it wasnt a bad experience all in all,.

marc100000

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What can I do to make a man last longer Posted: 7/5/2009 7:20:44 PM
golden girls reruns will do it. although that estelle getty is very cute

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 25 (view)

Using a phone during sex? Is this really bad? Posted: 7/5/2009 4:55:37 PM
My ex and i used to have a game which we would take our most boring friends and have a boring conversation with them while having sex or give oral to each other while one of us was on the phone. Its not something to do early on in a relationship or if its not done in humor.

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 127 (view)

Why dont men call? Posted: 7/4/2009 11:03:27 PM
HE is your boyfriend of 8 months so being that young he probably doesnt know how to use a phone. Kidding aside. The frequency of phone calls isnt the most important thing. Some guys just are not "how was your day kind of people". Here is what would be important. You are not feeling well {not dying or in the hospital but slightly sick} Does he call you to see how you are feeling? Do you call him also? If you do , do you call him so much that he doesnt have to bother calling you cause its definite you will call him anyway. I used to go out with someone whoearly on in the relationship would end a conversation or leave messages on my machine with the following. Give me a call if you want. ill give you a call later in the day.

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 4 (view)

Excessive marriages?? Posted: 7/4/2009 10:36:10 PM
You would know that they are not afraid of commitment

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 346 (view)

He brought his Fanny with him... Posted: 7/4/2009 10:05:02 PM
I would wear a fanny pack. Under one condition and one condition only. If i was forced to wear a speedo and the only way to cover my armadillo was to wear a fanny pack over it

marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

How long do you wait to delete that number. Posted: 7/4/2009 8:24:00 PM
I dont store numbers. the cell automatically stores the last 120 or so numbers you called and the last 50 numbers that called you. Question within this question though. Have you ever been in this situation. You met somebody a while back traded phone calls but it never materialized for whatever reason you become reaquainted with them and she {or he} both agree that you should call and when you ask for their phone number they get all angry that you didnt keep their phone number. This happened to be last week and i explained to the woman that we spoke over a year ago and lost contact and i didnt feel the need to keep your phone number once we lost contact {which was on her part}. She really got all upset that i didnt hold on to a number that I wasnt going to call out of the blue.

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