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cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 119 (view)

I’m separated … is this a problem to get a new love… with out divorce???? Posted: 12/19/2007 3:20:05 PM
i believe LATE' has the answers i feel the same way i have been seperated over 3 years she lives in another state she;s got the mine i;ve got the shaft but i;m happy let me find my new love and move on there is no recindling the relationship life doesn;t stop at 70 how can a senior citizen afford a divorce when the aliens are getting all our ss funds LOL

cpoorboy1937

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Calling all 40-60Something Males? Posted: 12/15/2007 12:07:03 AM
whats wrong with 70!s were human too we like women also any in nw. ohio available call me just because theres snow on the roof doesn;t mean theres no fire in the furnace believe me it;s still burning

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 118 (view)

Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 12/3/2007 11:36:34 AM
DARICE 58 ou said the magic words also the cost she called the shots so let her pay she got the mine i got the shaft it seems people just don't understand yep i call it principles i've been seprated 3 years as far as i'm concerned thats the same as divorced[ after all life doesn't end here ] [live today tomorrow may never come ] :

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 114 (view)

Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 12/1/2007 6:25:54 PM
VHDC you got it wrong i don't live in the same house she lives in another state it's been 3 years now so don't throw stones shes got her life i try to have mine why don't you join it

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 113 (view)

Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 12/1/2007 6:21:13 PM
sweetie i'm always available you notify me i'll be there i promise JOE

cpoorboy1937

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Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 11/21/2007 9:37:57 PM
GOODLISTENER314 sock it to them whats good for the goose is good for the gander it works both ways why the women condemn us is beyond me ladies go back and read DON'S points please thank you Well being a separated man, I completely understand why anyone would not want to date a separated man or woman. Now, having said that I do have a few points. 1) Even though I personally would date a separated woman, I think it is very annoying when a separated woman will not date a separated man. That just smacks of double standard and I hate that. 2) For all of you who say because he (or she) is married. Actually that is not true. There are two aspects to a marriage. The legal and the spiritual. Just like that, there are two aspects to divorce. Separation is the spiritual side of divorce. There are dozens if not hundreds of reasons that a couple chooses not to legally divorce (insurance being the primary reason I have seen) Now having said all of that I'm the one that did not want the separation but I'm also smart enough not to "pine away" for someone that obviously does not want me, hence my profile on this site (among other sites) 3) For the ones that speak of divorce as final... Just how many divorced people have you known? Just from my 3 years being out there, I've come across at least 10% that divorced and then went back to the ex. So Divorce is no more final than separation or being single. The status can change in the blink of an eye. As anyone who read my profile will see, I'm out here in a passive sense although what I have not yet updated on my profile is that the pseudo-wife has decided on divorce. Bummer for her but come the beginning of the year, better for me. Don PS I was re-reading the posts and came across a Hallelujah Brother one :) To the one that was talking about being separated is the best filter. Amen to that, the only women that contact me are those who are genuinely interested in me. Enough to risk the separated tag. I might even keep my separated tag after the divorce because as I mention in my profile, "If you are still reading this then that is a good thing" that means they are really interested and feel a pull more powerful than the "separated tag" pushes away. Since I'm looking for love at first sight, this really helps narrow the dates down to just those who actually might be love at first sight.

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 98 (view)

Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 11/21/2007 9:28:24 PM
ZEEZEE? you hit the nail right on head thank you i have been seperated for 3 years since last october mainly due to family situations /hers is more important than her marriage after 25 years blood is thicker than water families don't like each others life is too short all these years i could have advertised on these sites that i was divorced or widowed but i chose to be HONEST PS. also she lives in another state PSS. wish you were a little older i would ask to meet you ?' sound like my kind of woman thank you JOE.

cpoorboy1937

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Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 11/20/2007 3:18:03 AM
BLONDEINNY thank you ; you pretty mush summed it up for me finances family; time and moods ; plus age in other words my case[ she got a 25 year mine iv'e got the shaft ] but i'm happy she lives in another STATE thank god

cpoorboy1937

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Why women wont date seperated men Posted: 11/20/2007 2:55:54 AM
i agree 100% with BRIDGE 317 i have been seperated from my wife going on 3 years and by choice not returning to it she lives 3 states away has her life and happy as i also am happy nobody knows the reason for it until they hear it comes from the heart i also believe age has alot to do with it sometimes your too old to start over take it one day at a time ' live today tomorrow may never come ' the way i see it it's the woman's loss if she won't date him

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 278 (view)

Older Men 'Pleasing'...or is it a low libido????? Posted: 4/25/2007 9:37:42 PM
i would like to try and answer that being an older man and i feel that way the reason being most women today don't think that we can still take of business so we like to please them to prove we are still capable of course we please ourselves also but in my case at 69 years old my partner is more impotant i'm happy if shes happy so don't let the age stop you it's only a number 'looking in nw. ohio

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 214 (view)

Oral after sex Posted: 4/25/2007 9:20:53 PM
you've got right on mark sweettalkingwoman you wanna come and sweet talk me

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 136 (view)

For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute? Posted: 4/25/2007 9:17:54 PM
they know what you want & they give what you want thier expierenced if they can be truethful & trustworthy :

cpoorboy1937

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For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute? Posted: 4/25/2007 9:13:57 PM
yes i woul date her if she didn't charge for it [never paid for sex in my life and not now] free i'll take it

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 172 (view)

Anyone have any good advice for dating SEPARATED people? Y or N? Posted: 4/19/2007 4:05:19 PM
anenigma i agree with you time is of assents here i have been seperated for 2 years no intentions of rekinling we live 3 states away from each other and i'm happy that way the reason for time lapse is financal PS' i noticed there was no mention of seperated women dateing men whats wrong i'm searching

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 151 (view)

Men Over 55 Years Of Age Posted: 4/19/2007 3:35:40 PM
sexy red head i'm over 55 and looking real hard but nobody in my area nw ohio so just to let ya al know i'm available

cpoorboy1937

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Men Over 55 Years Of Age Posted: 4/19/2007 3:30:41 PM
alana you never asked me or emailed me at any time i'm always available you must not search the correct sites email me any time sweetie i'll answer ::

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 92 (view)

Invited a woman to drive 60 miles to meet for a cup of coffee !! Posted: 4/19/2007 3:24:38 PM
double oh heaven you've got that right i'll go almost any distance for the getting i have driven 60 miles many times just for coffee to meet a woman and will until i find the right one

cpoorboy1937

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70 year old man, 55 year old woman Posted: 4/19/2007 3:15:32 PM
is that wrong ;i don't think so i'm almost 70 i'll date a woman 55 or older or younger ;;don't give him up wish i could find them in toledo oh. area

cpoorboy1937

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/19/2007 3:08:47 PM
what difference does it make most men on these sites think they got it all when they show thier stupid**** 'sicking'i think how do you know the person in that picture is the same person i could show a picture of my son how would you know or not so just go by description is good enough PS. chances are you will never meet any body on these sites any way most of them are just teaseers

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 4/1/2007 1:48:36 AM
cotter & others in concerned i think i owe every body an apology about another site like this after going through these messages i di visit the site over 45 and it does seem very approtiate enough i found some real good message there thank you JOE

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 4/1/2007 1:32:11 AM
cotter 'sorry didn't realize caps lock was on my computer was messed up at that time sorry sort of new at this also thank you JOE

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 4/1/2007 1:29:14 AM
sorry my computer was messed up didn't realize my caps lock was on thank you [new puter here]

cpoorboy1937

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 3/28/2007 5:26:00 PM
oooooooooppps didn't know this site was for this state only DISREGARD PLEASE]

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 220 (view)

Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 3/28/2007 5:21:09 PM
senior citizen 69 NW. OH. TOLEDO area guess were too old for these sites looking for love in all the wrong places any ladies over 55 lets get aquainted 419 area 2130055

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 195 (view)

sex on the first date Posted: 3/28/2007 4:33:43 PM
i made the remark on here before [you don't buy a car unless you test drive it ] i did once and she lasted 24 years so now i'm searching again the first day was one of the best now i'm only 69 and still interesed first and last [every day or one night stand doesn't matter to me ] shes willing i'm willing [remember it takes two to tangle ] live today tomorrow may never come so ladies if your over 50 live in north west ohio give me a shout :

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 11/28/2006 10:42:07 PM
JUST EXATLY ARE THESE TONS OF WOMEN YOU SPEAK ABOUT THATS AVAILABLE AROUND NORTH WEST OHIO WHEN AND WHO CHANGED THE SENIOR CITIZEN AGE TO START AT 45 [BOY THIER GETTING OLD EARLYER NOW HA MAN O MAN WE OVER 60 MUST BE ANCIENT NOW] HOLY COW WHAT ARE THEY GONNA CALL TEENAGERS NEXT ????

cpoorboy1937

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Sex on the first night Posted: 11/28/2006 2:25:14 PM
HA YA LIE ABOUT THAT YA LIE ABOUT ANY THING [HOW BOUT ORAL]

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 155 (view)

waking up to sex... Posted: 11/28/2006 8:33:29 AM
I,VE TRIED THAT BUT THE MORE I LICKED THE LOUDER SHE SNORED 15 minutes into it she slaped me kep,t snoreing[nothing in return ]BUMMER HA

cpoorboy1937

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Msg: 773 (view)

Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 11/27/2006 1:29:44 PM
KSUE44 i agree whole heartedly with you i live in a senior citizen complex mostly women their all like family to me [but if one of the chosen ones offer a good time i,ll take it ] if i was in a relationship with just one lady and she didn,t like it there wouldn,t be any relationship [friends are important live today tomorrow may never come ] relationships can fall but friends are forever JOE

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 11/27/2006 12:58:30 PM
OTHER SENIORS LIKE MY SELF WOULD LIKE TO HERE HOW THEY SURVIVE THIS WICKED WORLD :

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 11/27/2006 12:52:57 PM
you know why theres very few seniors on here because the younger generation laugh us out seems like we get old were forgoten thier days are nearing 'then my grandchildren can laugh ps, i think we should be able to corespond amongest ourselves keep senior citizens alive thank you or shall we call it quits we did our jobs we raised our families now were not needed //// REDICULICIOUS

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 11/25/2006 9:04:44 PM
IF THEY DON,T WANNA HAVE A CATAGORIE FOR OUR AGE GROUP THE N WHERE ARE YOU ALL AFTER THE AGE OF 45 GONNA HANG OUT GET AQUAINTED AND CHAT MY 2$

cpoorboy1937

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Can we have some age threads added for Seniors Please? Posted: 11/25/2006 8:51:59 PM
YOU TELL THE RUBY I,VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE SAMR THING I,M JUST 69 THE WORLD HAS FORGOT US I,M LONESOME TOO/////

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