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splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

No Show(ers) Posted: 12/31/2006 9:55:28 AM
I had that happen to me once. I knew when I had made plans with the guy that he was going to be a no show. I didn't bother to get ready or to get a sitter. I ask for an explanation. He didn't give me one right away but after a while he did. I listened and then I didn't bother to talk with him again. I just don't have time for that in my life. I wouldn't give it another thought. It is his problem to deal with not yours.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

What to do if they do not talk back???? Posted: 12/26/2006 3:47:11 PM
I was on one date like that. I went home early. I just chalked it up to there being no spark. I can't date someone who just sits there all evening and can't hold up his end of the conversation so I move on.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 199 (view)

Sorry, I just don't find you attractive Posted: 11/12/2006 5:58:30 AM
No not at all. If you are not attracted to someone then your not attracted to them. Lets just all admit that there has to be some physical attraction.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 311 (view)

HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on? Posted: 10/23/2006 4:10:54 PM
Well if you are bored with the site then I suggest that you leave the site and find another way to meet people.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Text on a page Vs Expression in ones voice Posted: 9/6/2006 2:13:55 PM
I agree with you 100%. It is another level when you talk to someone on the phone. I think that you get to know someone better on the phone over the computer.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 115 (view)

She broke my heart and my mind (venting) Posted: 9/6/2006 2:10:58 PM
Well It sounds like you still need therapy. I do hope that you are getting it. Talk to a professional about asking her to join you for a session even if it is via phone. I understand the need for closure.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Sex or friendship first? Posted: 8/27/2006 7:23:57 AM
I don't like to do the friendship thing first. If the chemistry is there then it is there. If you are in a relationship with someone then the friendship should be there.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

Is living at home with parents such a turn off for dating someone? Posted: 8/27/2006 7:19:45 AM
It is a turn off. If you can't afford your own place then get a roommate.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

Advise on a gal... Posted: 8/27/2006 7:17:47 AM
I would move on if I were you. I know it can be hard but if you want that relationship that you long for this is the only way that you are going to be able to get it.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Come between 9pm and 10pm Posted: 8/9/2006 4:50:21 PM
Does anyone know if this party is only between 9 and 10? Is the bar open to the public?

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 17 (view)

Anywhere in Charlottetown, PEI!!! Posted: 8/2/2006 1:38:43 AM
57 Stone is playing that evening.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Will You Leave? Posted: 7/21/2006 2:35:15 PM
Have you ever heard of a meet and greet for an hour first before a date or even a date before you decide to spend the night together. Sorry but you left yourself open for this to happen.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

Broken Hearts Posted: 7/21/2006 2:27:24 PM
If that is how you feel then delete your profile and get off this site.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 80 (view)

23 Years and I get thrown away! Posted: 7/21/2006 2:26:40 PM
For starters you can't find someone else to fix yourself. That is something that you have to do yourself. Weight Watchers the Core Plan helped me. Once you feel better about your weight everything else will fall into place.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Feedback on a spat Posted: 7/17/2006 11:47:17 AM
Ok for starters I guess you didn't get the memo. This is a DATING site. What the hell are you doing on here if you have had a girlfriend for the past 5 months. Anyways now that I have said that. Dump her ass. She sounds moody and high maintence. You don't need to be treated like that.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

My Ex : Five weeks from Separation to Suicide. Posted: 7/17/2006 11:33:26 AM
You need to find a professional to talk to. This is to much for someone to try to handle on their own. Take some time,maybe a year, to be alone without a relationship. You need this time to heal.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

sensual touch or... Posted: 7/7/2006 9:12:36 AM
I would go with the handshake. Some people would think that touching is sexual. If you don't want to extend the wrong impression then go with the hand shake.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 124 (view)

Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship? Posted: 7/7/2006 9:08:44 AM
If you want a relationship it takes time to build up to one. If you want to get laid sleep with him on the first date. The choice is yours.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

Wife pregnant from another man Posted: 7/5/2006 9:40:25 AM
Well I would say if you think that she is still involved with the man who she had an affair with I would leave her. If you think that you can work things out with her I would go to a councilor. As for the child is she willing to give the child up for adoption? If not and you are going to work things out with her than you need to adopt the child, face up to what she has done to everyone, and let the chips fall where they may. Who cares what anyone else thinks. By the way if you are married why are you on a dating site? I would guess that she is not the only one stepping out.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

how to be friends with an x Posted: 7/5/2006 9:34:32 AM
Well it sounds like you are nothing more thatn **** buddies. It doesn't sound like you are friends at all. I would find a new friend.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Is it wrong or arrogant to be upfront on what you are looking for in a woman? Posted: 7/3/2006 4:01:50 PM
I don't think so. If you are not willing to settle for anything else then why bother wasting a women's time.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Need some advice Posted: 7/3/2006 3:59:30 PM
ok I just got bored with the story. You lost my attention. Drop her ass and run buddy. Find someone else.

Splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 87 (view)

Would you date an ex-junkie who's cleaned up his act? Posted: 7/3/2006 3:54:06 PM
Well I don't think that I would hold that against them. I believe everyone deserves a second chance. I would proceed with caution.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

Can you be friends with someone who wants more with you? Posted: 6/20/2006 5:09:05 AM
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Back off for a while. Once he realizes that you are serious you should be able to be friends with him.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

A question for the ladies.. The word NOTHING.. Posted: 6/20/2006 5:07:34 AM
Honestly I think that you are dating the wrong type of women. If something is bothering me I just say so. The nothing thing only breaks down communication and once that happens the relationship is in trouble. Try to start dating women who aren't so damm moody.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

Is it innocence or interest Posted: 6/20/2006 5:04:03 AM
Why don't just ask her yourself or your friend should ask her. If you really want to know go to the source.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

how do u move on when a wife finds out Posted: 6/20/2006 4:59:04 AM
You are the one who put yourself in this situation. If you are not happy in your marriage either fix it or leave him. You have no business being on this site when you are married and either did he. If he loved you more than his wife he would have left her for you. Since he didn't I think you know who he loves and wants to spend his life with.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 201 (view)

Genital Herpes Posted: 6/19/2006 8:20:42 AM
I don't think that I would be able to date that person but that is only my choice.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

Do you want the world to know what a jerk he is? Posted: 6/19/2006 8:19:40 AM
I wouldn't air my life out for the world to see like that but it is your choice. I would be the bigger person.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Has anyone here given up or thinking about it? Posted: 6/19/2006 8:18:36 AM
If you feel like deleting your profile then go ahead and no just that. If you feel that you haven't explored all avenues then get off your ass and stop whining and explore those avenues.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

How to get a date on plentyoffish Posted: 6/19/2006 8:16:15 AM
Well why do you ask for their msn? You can chat on pof. As for the phone number I would never give a guy my number after one conversation. Chat for a while through emails, pof instant message, then ask for a phone number. Why rush things. Just set up a day and time to meet on line again.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 429 (view)

dating an overweight person? Posted: 6/19/2006 8:12:09 AM
I am in the process of loosing weight through Weight Watchers. There are some guys on this site that will only date women who are rake thin. Those are the guys that I don't want to date even after I loose all the weight. The way I look at it is that it is their loss not mind.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

Starting to see the same people over and over Posted: 6/19/2006 8:09:38 AM
I only use this site so I guess I am no help to you.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 3 (view)

What would you say...? Posted: 6/19/2006 8:07:38 AM
Take her to see someone who she can talk to. It should be a professional not a friend.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 16 (view)

5 1/2 years meant nothing to her Posted: 6/19/2006 8:05:35 AM
Women don't want to date a guy that is always doing the "poor me" thing. Just because it didn't work out with one women doesn't mean it won't work out with another. If you really feel that way then maybe you should start dating men instead. Who said you were not good enough for her. It just didn't work out. Deal with it. She didn't just wake up one morning and decide to break up with you. I'm sure this is something that has been going through her heart and head for a while. She just finally decided to tell you. If you really think that this site is a waste of time then please delete your profile.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Ready to give up Posted: 6/18/2006 4:27:16 PM
Well you knew what you were getting yourself into when you started sleeping with someone else's common law husband. If I were you I would find someone else that isn't already in a relationship.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Tell it to me straight Posted: 6/13/2006 5:32:38 AM
Truth. Who wants to me lied to.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 51 (view)

WHERE have all the cowboys gone? Posted: 6/13/2006 5:32:00 AM
If you find any let me know. There aren't a lot of men out there like that or they are married.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

:fustrated: :verymad: Why women don't respond emails? Posted: 6/13/2006 5:30:23 AM
I find that guys are the same way. If a person has enough time to read and delete an email then they have enough time to respond to the email. I guess there are a lot of lazy people on this site.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

Puking me out! Why? Posted: 6/13/2006 5:28:44 AM
My guess is your gay. Have you tried dating a women?

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 16 (view)

All I want to know is why! Posted: 6/11/2006 3:16:08 PM
Well to be honest I got bored and stopped reading. My advice is that you are better off without him. Stay the hell away from him. Get into coucilling if you need to. He is skum.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 13 (view)

Who here feels weird being single? Posted: 6/7/2006 5:16:32 AM
No I don't find it weird. I guess we are all searching for something and we just have to figure out what that is.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 11 (view)

Tantalizing the one who interests you... Posted: 6/7/2006 5:15:11 AM
Just keep doing nice things for them. Make the person feel special. They will get the hint.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 77 (view)

A player. . . how can you detect one? Posted: 6/7/2006 5:14:06 AM
Well you have to get to know someone a bit before you can tell they are a player. As soon as you find out they are dump them. I wouldn't only be chatting to one person. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 421 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 6/7/2006 5:12:07 AM
The person must have a very low self esteem if they are willing to kill themselves over a broken heart.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 454 (view)

Dating Someone On Welfare ** Posted: 6/7/2006 5:10:34 AM
I wouldn't date someone who is on social services.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

You work in a bar and people call you a whore. Posted: 6/6/2006 3:50:53 PM
Well women don't like it when a man they are interested in is flirting with other women even if money is involved.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

what is with the never call again crap and why do we put up with it? Posted: 6/6/2006 3:48:59 PM
I agree I think that an explaination would be nice but some guys aren't that considerate. They are called ***holes and give the rest of the guys a bad name.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

Slim, Slender, Average, Athletic, Fit....now what??? Posted: 6/6/2006 3:46:59 PM
I am also in the process of loosing weight so I know what you are going through but if he is the right guy for you he won't care about the weight and he will be encouraging your weight loss. If he isn't then dump him.

splinter

Joined: 1/6/2006

Msg: 72 (view)

got decieved Posted: 6/6/2006 3:43:54 PM
Well it sounds like she either got cold feet or she never intended on the two of you meeting. If the address doesn't exist my guess is that she never intened on the two of you meeting. I would cut my losses and move on. I am sure that there are other women out there that now what the word honesty means.

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