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Joined: 2/28/2009

Msg: 105 (view)

E-mailing of passwords Posted: 10/5/2009 5:53:51 AM
Cowboy, Are you saying that if you don't change your POD email address, POF will delete the account? I wonder, because there are so many people who haven't logged in in over 2 years. Just wondering because it would make the database so much cleaner. Only because in the registration screen, there is much bragging about the removal of bad accounts and how quick that happens.

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Why does everyone have their IM turned off? Posted: 10/4/2009 8:49:33 AM
Bring back IM I agree

Joined: 2/28/2009

Msg: 101 (view)

E-mailing of passwords Posted: 10/4/2009 8:37:09 AM
I agree it is unusual to send out the passwords. I have a related question. If you open a pof account with one email address and then change to a new email address and closed the email account that was used to open the pof account, will those emails from pof bounce back to pof and then the pof account gets closed? I can't experiment since I like my account and don't feel like closing it just to do that.

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Date joined Posted: 10/2/2009 1:32:53 PM
Well it looks like he can post now. Ha ha. But seriously, if you want an idea of how long ago someone joined, look at the profile id in the URL. For example Chitownguy is member# 15428123 and Cowboy is member# 1672753. The bigger the number the more recent. The smaller the number the longer ago the member joined. In this example, Chitownguy joined a few days ago and Cowboy joined about 1.4 million members earlier than Chitownguy.

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Old Profiles/Profiles not in use etc... (If someone doesnt log in for an X amount of time.... ) Posted: 10/2/2009 1:23:50 PM
I know this is a really old thread. But I was just reading it and the OP has a great idea. Besides, then the POF admin's would be able brag they have x users instead of 5x users.

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Msg: 156 (view)

Married. So Why Is My Home Not His Home? Posted: 10/1/2009 9:47:43 AM
"When my husband and I married it seemed everything was fine. We shared everything, including paying the house payment. But, my husband's mom started suggesting to him I was using him (his income) just to pay my bills. This is certainly not the case, but now he will bring this accusation up often and has even told me he doesn't want to help with paying MY bills anymore. We are married and live together: I thought they were OUR bills?????? A little history here on the house. The house loan is in my mom's name, but it is by no means HER house. To me the name on the loan doesn't matter unless there is a default. It was my house before I married, and when I married, I thought the house would become OURS. He tells me he no longer wants to live in MY house and that it will never be HIS. He also stated that if we were to divorce, then he would be left with nothing, since it was not a home we purchased together and does not have his name on it. Financially speaking, we can't exactly move and buy another place. I always remember the quote, "Home is Where the Heart Is?" Is his heart not here and why not? I believed, especially after we married, that he was to take what I had for his own and I for his. Does it not work that way anymore? Was that only what happened in my parents and grandparents' days? Also, why is he thinking about IF we divorce, he would be left with nothing? Is it customary to think when you are married what would happen IF we divorce and base your next steps in the relationship on that? Just curious as to others opionions. Thanks." Some married couples have separate finances and some have pooled finances. Sounds like you agreed to pool finances and his mom is asking him to change that. So if you can talk to his mother. You are correct. The two of you have to stay in that house. That is the financial situation you agreed to, to get married. Tell him that G-d forbid you get divorced he gets half your assets. Period. So if that means you were poor before, you are poor afterwards. Just because you have his money paying for bills, doesn't mean you suddenly have the full value of the house. His heart is not there -- only he can answer that question. How you split the assets is upto you, it can be all one lump sum or lots of little assets. You see a house or other goods aren't easily liquidated. So the conversion process from net worth to acutal cash isn't immediate. Some gets lost in the shuffle. For example if you have $1 million in cash and stuff, it might be worth $100,000 when it is all turned into cash. So he would get $50,000 and you $50,000. If there was a boat worth $10,000 one person could get that and then $40,000. You see now how the splitting up of the assets works? Customary to think about divorce while being married, lots of people think about lots of things. But worrying about stuff isn't always productive. Guaranteed, if you divorce you will lose money. It doesn't take $0 to convert assets to cash. Plus there is at least a $500 fee to get divorced. So just ask him what it takes to keep the marriage together. Like I said before, if he was poor before, he will be poor after the marriage. It isn't a magic money making proposition.

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Likelihood to Respond display Posted: 6/30/2009 8:37:12 AM
in my unscientific opinion, I have never seen a suggestion implemented via the suggestion box. I have worked in computers a long time. I had a friend give me a program. He never made any changes I sugested. He wanted to sell the software too. I even suggested he have a suggestion box in the program. He still doesn't have that. He now has a message that says to blame him and he gives his name, but no way to contact him. Keep fighting sine, somewhere somebody will listen.

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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor Posted: 6/5/2009 12:41:58 PM
Bring back IM

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Not Married Posted: 6/5/2009 8:50:26 AM
Hey cowboy, You are divorced and not filtering out married people. hey Lori "Uuummm, yeah. We answered you perfectly...it will say so right in the bottom left corner if they do not want to be contacted by married ppl." Yep I think you did,

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Not Married Posted: 6/4/2009 8:17:15 AM
I want to do an advanced search and not find profiles of those people that have "no married people can contact them." For example, in my profile I have listed must be within 75 miles to contact me, so yes they are filtered out. But if I want to not see profiles that are more than 75 miles away, that option is available on the advanced search. Does that clarify my question?

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Not Married Posted: 6/3/2009 5:56:07 PM
Thanks for clarifying, but with all due respect, I think you misunderstood me. How about this scenario. I open up a profile, read two pages of a beautiful profile. Then craft a message in my mind. Then boom at the absolute last second, it says, must not be married to contact. It would have been easier, if I never even saw the profile.

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Not Married Posted: 6/3/2009 5:20:27 PM
Mizz, You are excellent, too bad you don't live near me. I still don't think everyone here understood my question. You clearly understood. But not these other people. They thought I was asking how to block people from contacting... Have a great time fishing

Joined: 2/28/2009

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Not Married Posted: 6/3/2009 2:53:39 PM
Married here, I want to see a way to filter out the people who don't want to be contacted by those who are married. What do you think?

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