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gadolinx

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hello to all my my old freinds Posted: 12/15/2004 12:55:16 PM
Hello all, sorry I have been gone for awhile, been busy with my kids and school and my relationship. It is still going strong now after 6 months. We did have our first fight, but found out it was not really over what we were fighting about and the communiction is there. I finish this semester out and got all great grades, like that was in jeporday of something lol. My xwife is now out of jail and is seeking help. She is active in the girls lives and is doing well controling her bipolar for now. I am allowing her 2 nights a week with supervison of her mother or father being there the whole time. The girls are happier now than they have been in a long time and for once there mother thought of them and bought them a great chrismas. I couldnt ask for things in my life to be better and I owe alot to all you folks. Happy holidays and hope to be back on the forums soon. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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where is the romance..or why I don't want to have sex with you! Posted: 11/8/2004 6:49:33 AM
There are many problems with romance now days that just didnt seem to be a problem years ago. Now days if any romance is tried you are called unreal, trying to get some ( well duhh , romance = very interested ) and women see it as a weakness also. Not all women do , but a majority will now days. I am lucky to have found some one that I can romance and show attention to with out all the problems of todays modern woman theory's. Most men are scared to death to treat a woman a such way because the first thing they do is try to abuse everything they do for them. There is a fine line there, and the two must walk it and talk about things as such. I have been told that line I can hold my own door, Just say WHO CARES! get your a** in and let me worry about the door, my hand was here first, Most will laugh and move on but you do get the pissy look every now and then. I show alot of attention on my current gf and she loves it, but what makes men want to do it more and more? Simply show that respect back, plain and simple and men will. Well if ya find one that is lol, good luck to ya all. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Sad story but a great lesson Posted: 11/2/2004 7:55:14 AM
something to that effect yes, pretty nasty if ya ask me. I know they are reading this and hope they get the idea that its never going to happen. But people like this never stop and keep on no matter what, I guess either ill have to slit there tires or something to get them to stop lol. I really dont understand any of it, they were friends to my girl friend and she said she would deal with them this weekend so I will leave it at that. People like that as friends who the heck needs any enemies thats for sure. But EWWWWW that sounds so gross, dont worry I dont swing that way, matter of fact I dont swing at all. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

Joined: 7/5/2004

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Sad story but a great lesson Posted: 11/2/2004 6:20:52 AM
I guess the saying " misery loves company" is so true, cant belive they tried this. Found out also she is bi and wanted my gf to sleep with her, so they asked her if we all could " swap" parteners for a weekend. What people will do for sex now days is really unbeliveable. Guess they got pissed when she told them hell no. Ohh well they need to grow up, some of us are happy to be with the one person we care about and dont want to share hehe, cant wait to see what drama they pull up this weekend. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

Joined: 7/5/2004

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Hey, I'm away for a little bit and people are deleted? Posted: 11/1/2004 12:21:56 PM
Welcome back silken, glad to see ya still kicking around. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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NFL POSTS Posted: 11/1/2004 12:18:53 PM
The chiefs are back, just had to get there recievers back and healthy so that priest holmes and tony gonzalas are not being watched, needed that threat and now that it is back the chiefs are going to be hard to stop. Now if only teams would kick off to hall would the chiefs tear people apart, i will get back to the football gods and start praying more i guess lol. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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How a nice guy got even in the end...a POF dating story Posted: 11/1/2004 11:44:19 AM
Best thing to do is meet up some where and do something before you go eat. That way you have a idea on the situation between you. If there is something there on both parts I would have no problem paying for a dinner like that. Hell if there was nothing between us but having a great time out I wouldnt have a problem with it, but if she was acting like the cold fish, i am better than you, then to hell with that. I can take that money and spend it on my kids and have fun, cause whats a date with out having fun. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Fess up Ladies, it's our turn Posted: 11/1/2004 11:41:09 AM
Shannon, what if the person opens doors and such all the time? I act like i normaly do anyway but being raised southern I do have better manners than most anyway. I for one use to have problems with woman paying any part of the bill, but now I just say, " hey I am taking you out, so its my dime, you want to pay? Then next time you take me out ", has worked so far and it lets me be myself with out being to pushy on the subject. But I do think you are right, so many people just will not talk when they go out, why not? That is the point where many things are considered and weighted, why not put the whole picture out there so that later down the road there are no surprizes. Think of it as a interview, because that is what first dates are. If things are going right then go have some fun, show the other person a good time and hopefully they will back, its not that difficult all, just have to learn to let loose and do whats fun, all else will fall in place. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Sad story but a great lesson Posted: 11/1/2004 11:06:58 AM
I have been seeing my current girlfriend now for around 5 to 6 months. We decided it was time to bring the kids ( my two girls and hers ) together and see what happens. It worked out beautifuly, no problems no fights was wonderful. We have been getting really close and are trying to slow things down as right now I have never been with some one that matchs me so much. So we take all the girls out to a halloween party for them, and we invited other people that either were missing there own kids or felt left out. Well a couple we invited out has been having major problems in there marriage. They have a open relaionship and are very madd at each other and fight all the time. We had to leave early from the party because they could not get along and such and went out to eat pizza. When we got to the pizza place I took all the kids with me and we hit the vidio games while the rest of the adults took care of ordering and could talk and have fun. I had no problem doing this, though it did cost me 40 dollars in quaters lol, but my god we had a blast. Well while i was watching all the kids the couple were talking about me to my girlfriend and trying to get her to go out with them after eatting to a bar and have me watch all the kids for awhile. Well I had no problem with it sence they said they would only be gone about 40 minutes and would catch up so we could all spend more time with the kids. Its there time and I hated for them to be that way, but I can only do what is good for my children and others that is there choice. Well I head up to the couple's house and watch the kids, while the husband of the couple shows up and is seeming like he is trying to bait me into saying something about my girlfriend, well that is not a mistake i make anymore and learn to change the subject. Well they show up a hour and a half later after my girlfriend threatened to take a taxi or call me to come get her, she wanted to be with me and the girls for crying out loud. Well when she gets there we take off back to her place and leave the rest of the party butt heads and we have a very good night, the girls all played and watched movies while we currled up in bed and watched one. The next morning I left to go get bacon and stuff for breakfast and while I am gone the woman of the couple calls up and tells my girlfriend all kinds of lies that I was to have told her husband. Well I get back and my girlfriend is all pissy kinda of and I ask what is wrong and she said wait till the girls are playing and we will talk. I said ok and we all had breakfast. Well after we finished and cleanded up together, she turned tome and said I know there is no way you could have said the things Susan just told me you told her husband. Well we sat down and had a nice talk ( we dont raise our voice to one another ) and got it out in the open. It seems to both of us that there seems to be more and more people in this world that want to mess up things that are good between other people. We know this is the reason because about 2 hours later Susan called asking if we were fighting yet. Well she didnt like the answer and I am sure she will not like what is coming. It is sad cause it could have ruined something I have been looking for my whole adult life, and I would have lost someone very dear to my heart. To all of those people that will get involved with other couples lives, stay the hell out, its none of your buissness, and if you dont like your life then change it. There is never a reason to destroy some one else's happiness just because your life is destroyed, specially when you made it that way to begin with. So butt the hell out ! For the couple that can read this, listen to what these people have to say. Sorry had to get this out, just shows how strong a realionship can be if two people trully want to work at it. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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WHAT WILL NORTH AMERICA BE LIKE IN 2010/2015 ???????? Posted: 10/28/2004 7:14:40 AM
Did you all know that teachers that are working in what is considered a low income school district ( has to be more than 40% of kids on reduced lunchs ) can get any school loans cut? It is alot of numbers but my girl friend is a 7th and 8th grade math teacher and her student loans were just cut in half! That would help alot of them, I for one and going to go into the teaching field, and I can tell you its not for the money. Here is a sample of a email i got ok. Our teachers make to much ! we should pay them for baby sitting our kids, lets see that is 4 dollars a hour per kid per day. humm 120 kids for 8 hours = OMFG, humm ok, lets move them to waitress pay of 2.15 per hour per kid, thats 120 kids x 2.15 x 8 = OMFG. Well humm lets just pay them for there degree and hold it at that. Lets see a masters makes OMFG ok lets just keep them at poverty level then, much easier to let others figure it out. Just doesnt add up, teachers not only educate our children but alot of them almost raise some kids, they are leaders in this world and we need to stop hurting them finacialy and tying there hands down. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Halloween party Posted: 10/28/2004 7:04:39 AM
LOL I was suppose to have the weekend off from the kids, but decided to take them so will just walk around why they bang on everyones doors HAHA , this way i dont have to get up at home every 10 sec to answer mine, damm what a trade off. Just hope the walking tampon doesnt come to my door again this year, damm that was gross. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Hell On Earth Posted: 10/28/2004 6:56:42 AM
Dead on tar, about summs it up dont it. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Why is it?????? Posted: 10/28/2004 6:51:38 AM
Looks shouldnt be the top thing in meeting some one, but there is a point that you have to say no way. What she did was uncalled for and I am sure she will get hers sooner than later. We will all one day be old and grey and the top things on our minds will be food and a good rocking chair. I for one would rather have some one sitting next to me that had a good life with many stories to share with me, than have some one that missed out on everything because they had to have the person with a perfect body fact ect. To much out there to enjoy, and hurting people seems to be what people love to do the best now days. I for one want to be remembered as a great father, wonderful husband , best friend a person can have and a wild cat in the sack ! other than that I could care less what others think. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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MEN's ISSUES Posted: 10/28/2004 6:42:56 AM
Maybe things are different all over, but when my xwife attacked me, not only did they file charges against her but she is serving jail time. I won full custody of my children in court by just being the better parent. So not every case is bad, men can win, if given a chance by the court system. I see both sides of the problem for women and men now days. First off women do not get the same rights as men now days. I have watched as woman after woman that more than qualifies for a job get turned down, while a bumm of a drunk got the job to only hold it for a couple of weeks. They are fighting for equality, that is simple you would think, but we are a far cry from it. I am disabled and can not be discrimanated against for it, YEAH RIGHT. I am back in school for a degree and people throw fits because I get some help that makes the playing field a bit more even. All I ask is that I be allowed to miss some class's due to doctors appointments and a scripe to write my long essay questions on tests. I have arthritis and my hand cramps up. Why do I get treated different? Because I want the same things everyone else wants? Its bs and we all know it. That is how the women feel. If there was a more even playing field then we wouldnt have as many problems that we have today. As for the men haters out there, get over it ! What happened from the start of time is not the fault of many men today. Some carry on as they lived back then, but most men do not and are tired of being put into this group. Times will change to where there is a even playing field for all, but untill that time how about not hating anyone. There is no dang reason for it, fight for what you want but for crying out loud, why bring down some people that were not born back then and did these things to women. Stop calling all men pigs and whores and every other thing you can think of. Would you like it if all men called women b*tchs and other nasty degrading names? I dont think you would. You have a right to be made at the equalities of todays world, but where do you get the right to bash every man for mistakes they may or may not have made? Hopefully you will see the world in a better picture and not do that, if not and you want to continue to do those things, then I pray karma doesnt catch up with you, cause it always seems to do just that. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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....................IN BED... Posted: 10/26/2004 6:24:41 AM
" your will be advanced socially, with out any special effort .. in bed ! WTF, thats not even funny. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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What is BIG? Posted: 10/23/2004 11:52:36 AM
OMG how many post has this been, 9 million or so good god, guys a woman never cares about the package that much, not when peting them, smiling at them and treating them right means so much more. If you make a woman feel GREAT about them selfs, your under achievments will mean so little to them that they will not care. Grow up and move on to another subject lol. I would rather talk about a algebra class. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Stop your WHINING! Posted: 10/23/2004 11:46:02 AM
Women women women, no other creature on this earth can do what they can do to a male. They can change there mind a million times, do some of the worst things in the world and make it look like its your fault, get almost any man they want, they can have mood changed every 10 minutes and if you dont like it, they can go to every 5 minutes! Would you want it any other way? I wouldnt, would be way to boring and I like it. So must alot of you guys cause you know what? You got your bum in the clubs, stores, bars, and everywhere else women are, so cant be that bad now can it. For all you shy guys, wake the hell up, get out there take a chance and stop posting on how shy you are, cause how are they to know you if you just stand there looking like wall paper? Dont like being alone, well get off the damm computer and get out there and meet people, better bet is get out and do something you enjoy and maybe find a woman that enjoys the same things you do. The gift of gab is not a gift, its what a person will do when they GROW UP SOME , and dont want to be alone and will just get out to meet people and enjoy them selfs, then watch, the person you have been soooo badly looking for will find you. As for Kenmaxwell, how about puting a cord up your a** and get some shock treatment and maybe you will be saved from years of just eating on your bull crap. People treat people bad, it happens, same as a triping over your damm shoe laces. Buckle up and move the hell on. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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the hairy whole? Posted: 10/23/2004 11:30:22 AM
LMAO damm that got me going today. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Fun topic: How far into the relationship do you wait.... Posted: 10/20/2004 3:01:24 PM
LOL wait till your married for about 6 years, the x would let some go that cleared the entire place out many times. After being around some one for so long those things become like every day practice. Nothing is funnier than the first time i will admit. Just funnier when they stink so bad you have to air out your entire house, then gives me something to make fun of or just laugh at on those bad days. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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The decision that BROKE my HEART to pieces Posted: 10/15/2004 4:21:35 PM
Wasnt meant to be a slap in the face , far from it, I just layed out what I would do and what the kids will remember is all, but just keep working hard, if more people out there would learn all is possiable though hard work and dedication the world would be a much better place to bring little angles into this world. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never WIll !

gadolinx

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Ever have your World Rocked ? Posted: 10/15/2004 3:16:39 PM
HAHA you are in deeep trouble, better work on that stamina my freind hehe, good luck to ya and if all else fails, remember you can always hit the floor into a fit and foam at the mouth, give ya at least 10 minutes of recovery time. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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The decision that BROKE my HEART to pieces Posted: 10/15/2004 3:10:41 PM
Seems a little late to second guess your decision so the best that you can do is work your a** off to make room for them in your new life. I am sure it was not a easy decision but one that you made, the things the kids will always remember is the fact that you busted your tail to make room for them. Miss them, for god sake love the heck out of them, but bottom line get your butt in gear and get some time with them. I have both my little ones and no way in the world would i be strong enough to move away to start a new life and have to wait as long as you have so far, my hats off to ya on that. The part of are you a mother with no heart will answer its self in time, if it was me the question I would be asking is how do I sell the rest of me so my heart can be with my kids. Good luck to ya. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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In need of reassurance.. Posted: 10/14/2004 10:06:34 PM
Great job man, way to stand for something, cause you didnt fall thats for sure, my hats off to ya bro. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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next to you Posted: 10/14/2004 9:47:18 PM
Sleeping next to you brings comfort and joy to my soul being with you is the highlight that I know Listening to your breathing takes my breath away Knowing the joy of waking up next to you today. Laying next to you I feel my heart beat wild with anticaption of that of a child wanting so badly to be held and loved not knowing just exacly what that was. Its all so new to me you see I dont know how to explain these feelings in me I try, OHH i so try to show them every day But some how I need to bring them forth so much today You have shown me so much in the last few days I dont know if i can ever repay The feelings that have grown because of you I am accepting it like the morning does the dew. How did I ever grow to what is me When not many have ever seen The feelings and emotions that run so wild in my soul For a person that is as perfect to me as some to gold. You raise my soul with each phone call A wisper of your voice sends chills over all I think of a smile that warms my heart OHH please call me hon, my heart wants to be hot Please enjoy what I send to you Know that no one else has ever seen this side of me as you do I have never seen a person that deserved so much of me I just pray that I am honored enough to have you next to me. I enjoy our laughs and talks The joy it brings to my heart Will forever burn a memory in my soul I hope you will call me before bed I must go

gadolinx

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Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age? Posted: 10/14/2004 8:37:33 PM
Well they are, nothing to me is more sexy than a woman that knows what she wants and how to act toward another human being. Its maturty plain and simple and to me, its always what I wanted, If i cant be, then i would rather be with some one that is. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Deciding to Meet Someone Online Posted: 10/14/2004 8:28:17 PM
I joined to meet people but also joined about 4 other sites, in a 4 month period meet about 10 women from sites and 4 to 5 from just being out and doing things. This gives just another way of meeting people, my current girl friend I meet on line and its working out great as of now. So I guess people do this so they can be at home but also meet others and feel they are meeting people with out having to spend money to be out and doing things. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age? Posted: 10/14/2004 8:25:51 PM
I date older women for many reasons, one I am attracted to them, They are way more mature in all aspects of life. Most in know what they want out of a man and will take nothing less. They will respect my belives and morals that are very high is what I am told. They Know what they are doing in a relationship and can maintain there feelings and think before they act. Older women are serously more attractive in ever way, I cant help it but young girls remind me to much of my daughters and that is something I do not want. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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How to please you woman after you are together ! Posted: 10/14/2004 8:21:05 PM
Ok guys, once you get past this first part of actually TALKING and are now some what a couple, there are ways and things that must be done daily ok. Its not all about sex ok guys, no matter what other guys tell ya. Make sure you smile at her at least once a day and make sure she knows you are smiling at her. I tell mine damm girl, why do you make me so happy my face hurts all the time. Things like this leave them knowing you are there for them and want to be there. It is too early for love ok guys, dont say I love you untill you are 100% sure that you do, then hell think again. But saying damm I am lucky to have gotten to know you and cant wait to know more, will always make them blush. Guys if they say it to you and it makes you feel good and comfortable, why not say something back to them? Every woman I have ever dated says the same thing all the time, Why didnt my x just once say something like this? Its not hard and it takes less time than you think guys, the ball game is not going anywhere ok. I know this being part of how I was raised to treat women helps me alot, but you can train your selfs in doing things like this, it will surprize you how much better things will be when the bad stuff hits the fans. Its called respecting there feelings as much as you do your own. Wish you all the luck, had to post this due to all the postings about how peoples relationships seem to go down the drain after awhile, there is help, ye only need to seek it out. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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HOW TO MEET WOMEN 101 Posted: 10/14/2004 8:12:29 PM
LOL ok guys, go pick up a accent, seriously, I have gotten more people attention with mine than any body can belive. I can be talking to the check out person and watch 4 to 5 women and sometime men ( YUKKAAA) just turn and smile. Its the country in me coming out big time , I use to hide it because people just think right off that you are inbred and stupid, but now after 5 minutes they do not put that on me and blamm I am off to the races. I meet my current girl friend cause some guy asked me where this shop was and I responded its over yander, and next thing I know she is talking to me, asking for my number, and just could not stop giggling at my accent. Hell even now I make her all jittery with it. I guess somethings just happen for a reason I guess, go figure. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Your all special Posted: 10/14/2004 8:06:37 PM
Way to go hon, hang in there and yes, karma will find all of us one day, what have you done good or bad in your life. I will continue to pray for ya hon. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Woman and Pornography Posted: 10/14/2004 8:04:57 PM
If you are the one controling the vibrater then make it so she wants you more, if you lose out to a machine you are doing something very wrong guys, a machine cant tell her how good she looks, how much you care for her, if you will only make her feel you want her more she will. To much porn = bad, its a bunch of crap anyway. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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WHILE HAVING SEX ,DO U EVER THINK OF SOMEONE ELSE????? Posted: 10/14/2004 8:01:58 PM
I have found once i have feelings for some one I dont, but if its just sex for the sake of us both letting go of fustrations I have before, though only can think of twice. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Re: Bedroom No No Posted: 10/14/2004 6:15:12 AM
a cab? Call a doctor, cause one of us is getting run over and I think my fear would out weight anyones being that horrny! gotta go and go fast. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Down falls in a relationship Posted: 10/13/2004 1:58:37 PM
I figure I would start this, so maybe some can tell others of there down falls and help some one with some questions. 1. I tend to be distant at the start when the sparks fly. 2. Once I know I really like the person I really love to spoil the hell out of them. 3. I try to always let them know how I am feeling and show my emotions, kinda how I am so its not a try thing, I just do it. 4. I love to talk to some one I am interested or have feelings for so communication has never been a problem for me. 5. I enjoy certain things but always willing to try what ever they have on there mind. 6. I really enjoy pleasing, I kinda get off on it so some think i am weird. 7. I keep my priorities straight, dont call off of school just to spend time with them. 8. I do the little things, holding doors, slight touchs of affection and use my words wisely. 9. Always have the other persons emotions in sight, trying not to offend to much, its just natural to me. I know these dont seem like down falls, but if they are not then how come I get told in every relationship I am in that they are waiting for my flaws? This is me and I am this way with when we are friends, dating, lovers when ever, I dont change and dont want to, hell its my upbringing and its who I am. When it comes down to it, no matter how long the realtionship is I get the same thing everytime. My xwife was this way for 3 years with me till she figured out that is how I am, the only problem we had is when her manic deppresive side came out and I could no longer deal with it. Guess I am doomed to just be to good to be true and called a player for the rest of my life, thanks to all you players for taking how I am and destroying any hope I have had for a having a woderful partner in my life. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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whats your hobbies? Posted: 10/13/2004 1:48:54 PM
Hobbies, have so many now lol, I love to paint with acrylics and water colors, potter or ceramics to some, charcoal drawings, spending time with my kids and what interests them, helping friends though times of trouble, and this forum. I enjoy many of them and soon will be able to do my water sports again WOOT. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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difference between sex and love Posted: 10/13/2004 1:46:05 PM
Sex is something I share with some one I love, Love to me is sitting on my love seat many years from now, with both of us have our feet in a tub of warm water while I hold her and pet her and watch the sunset. My love is the part of me that does not decrease as the woodys so surly will. It is the part of the end road that we all most face one day if we are lucky, and by that time you better figure out the difference or you will be one lonly person in the end. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Back Posted: 10/13/2004 7:42:55 AM
Got back on Tuesday but have been busy with mid terms so just now getting to post. We didnt end up going to texas cause of some time issues with my girls so ended up staying in Colorado and going to Vail, Denver and mount Princton. We had a wonderful time and lots of fun. Will be back to posting tomorrow, going to school then have a night at her house sence we both dont have the kids tonight heheh. Laters Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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This cat has ninnnne lives Posted: 10/13/2004 7:40:15 AM
Dont go leaving us all now, not after all this. We want ya to stay and talk with us ok hon, dont go running off keep us posted on how you are doing ok. You have people here that actually do care. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Are Looks so important??? Posted: 10/13/2004 7:37:51 AM
OHHHH this could be a great subject or get very ugly fast ! think ill keep checking in hehe Gado Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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too all friends of karrarose43 Posted: 10/12/2004 1:14:09 PM
Tell Karra to get well soon and get some protection in the home, she is going to have to do something to get things done it seems there. There is a loop hole in our system here in the states and it takes time to get it done right. I just wish I had taken her up on that move to where she is living, dammm funny how little things like that hit ya when something bad happens. Let her know we are all praying hard for her. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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men expressing emotions Posted: 10/6/2004 3:03:12 PM
One of my biggest down falls is I show all emotions and there is never a time when some one is around me that they do not know what they are. If I am madd you will know it and fast. If i am upset, hurt, happy, goofy, what ever. I have no problem in showing my emotions, life is to short for me to play games and hide how i feel. I do how ever hide if I am physicaly hurting from my loved ones and friends. The last thing I want in this world is pitty. I am disabled some what and wants to be normal so bad I would give so much for it to happen. Well the time has come for it to happen, Some time in the near future I will be going in for surgerys to fix my ankles back to some what normal. From there I can build them back up and move on with the rest of my life. So as you can see I am extreamly happy with all aspects of my life and my future right now. Ohhh how I wish I could give everyone of you this feeling that I feel today. I wish you all the best of luck. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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new update Posted: 10/6/2004 2:57:58 PM
LOL the best part is I get to tell the xwife that I am happier now than I ever was with her. Pretty sad I know, No idea why I ever hooked up with a selfish person that has no feelings for anyone or anything other than money. Must be a pretty sorry existance to just want money and nothing else. She says she has had everything but money, and now wants that, but at what cost was it worth loseing everything and everyone in your life for that one thing. I live well and have everything else, think ill stick on my road for now. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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keeping the spark alive Posted: 10/6/2004 11:18:16 AM
HOLY shat, man i am so going to go running away now, have at em ladies. Gado Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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new update Posted: 10/6/2004 11:10:17 AM
Well all I know I have been gone and not posting awhile, but I have been reading as much as I can and will get back into the groove of things shortly. Well my relationship with the lady I am seeing is going extreamly well. We have been spending time together and finding out things about one another and so far the peices seem to fit right. My girls adore her, her daughter likes me and they three get along wonderfuly. My xwife is getting help and trying to become a mom again with out involving me in any of her problems. Her xhusband is moving on with his life and leaving us alone. We are going to San antonio and Corpus Christy this weekend for 5 days to spend more time together away from the kids. I will have to say the advice you all have given has worked out for me a million times better than I ever thought they would, and a message to all of you out there looking for advice. I have found better advice though some of these great people than I have ever gotten in 29 years. Good luck to you all and again thanks for the support and help. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Possibly going on a first date on friday.. HELP! Posted: 9/30/2004 9:31:18 AM
Try to calm down for one, women like guys with some confedence, just dont be over bearing and above all else be yourself. Find a topic that puts you at ease and work from there. For some reason people relax around me and I think its because I do most of the talking first and let them just stay to there shy side and learn that I am relaxed and they can do the same thing. Go to the zoo, make sure you are polite, find something funny to talk about, laughing always breaks the ice, and dont expect to much from her. If you two click things will move naturaly and if not, show her a good time anyway, cause you never know, that might turn out to be one of your best friends later down the road. Take her out to eat after wards or just grab something there, bring money my friend and lots of it ok. A woman likes to know that you are intrested and going to show that she is special to you, so one way is to listen to what she says and dont guess, but know before you answer. Look her in the eyes when you talk and when she talks, this shows respect to her that you care enough to pay attention to her when you are talking to her and listening. Try not to touch her in any way but the small gestures, take her hand and lead her down some stairs, slight touch on the lower back when sitting her down or leading though a door. IF you run into a crowd, grab her hand and bring her behind you and lead her though the crowd, shows that you are a man that can take charge and are not scared to. The little things that you do will be noticed on first dates, its like a interview actually, if you show up in crappy cloths, bad attitude and talk about why you hated working for this company, think they will hire you? hell no, so treat it as such. Above all else you are the man courting her, show her that you feel lucky getting the chance to take her out and strut your stuff man. Good luck to you, let us know how it all goes bro. Gadolinx Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Re: Sleep walking Posted: 9/25/2004 8:13:31 AM
The problem with waking them is they are so out of it they usually strike out or anything can happen. I use to sleep walk when I was a child and pissed in the fridge many times hehe, my mom hated that. My youngest daughter sleep walks and when my xwife shook her to wake her up she got bit and scratched before my daughter knew what she was doing. So maybe the warning is for those that are waking them up. Gado Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Re: A GRAVE SITUATION Posted: 9/24/2004 10:52:00 AM
Hey I am in the last place I thought to look for me at !! gado

gadolinx

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Re: what is your most embarressing moment? Posted: 9/24/2004 10:28:54 AM
Never claimed i was the best in bed, just said it never gets boring !! Gado Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

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Re: what is your most embarressing moment? Posted: 9/24/2004 8:17:57 AM
This one always makes me cringe hehe, I was with my xwife and we had not seen each other in like 3 months due to my army duties and back then we were very much in love and still hot and bothered by just looking at each other, so we go back to my place. Well I had eaten nothing but MRE"s in the feild that give you the worst gas ever! Well we were going at it I had this feeling and was like ohh god no, not now. MRE's keep you from going to the bath room after a while so that is not a problem durring war time that offten, well I had to go i thought, and BLAMM was the biggiest fart ever, nasty smelling like something had crawled up in me and died!, the worst part was the fan was blowing from behind me and OMG I went so limp so fast it wasnt even funny. We both can laugh now but wow I felt like a nasty pig that day. I had just came off of 24 hour duty and had partied like crazy the night before but I was so horny I had to have some so the xwife comes over and the only way she can get off is some oral that takes a long time at times, depending on stress levels and such. Well She had been stressed i guess cause I was down there for like over a hour and finaly I feel asleep LOL She woke me up madd as hell cause she was almost there, I was like @@ CRAP so 45 minutes later and 5 tounge cramps i finished and I could not even look at her lol. So glad she was forgiving back then hehe. This happend Wendsday night, me and the girl I am now seeing were on the phone, she says come on down so I can buy you dinner and whine and dine ya, well I said ok, wth , why not right hehe. Well I get there and she had 4 shots of blue wave vodka and I had a couple and off we go to eat. We head over to chillies cause that is where we had our first date and its kinda special to us and we order and find these things called Apple martinis , well she had 5 and i had 2 and OMG, we almost didnt make it out of there hehe. We get back to her place, and its only like 5 blocks thank god and we get hot and heavy. She thinks she is going to get sick so she heads to the bathroom. Well I go in help her out of her shoes and whats left of her cloths and tell her Ill be in the living room if you need me cause I cant be around some one vomiting or I will join in. Well after 5 shots more and 2 more beers I gotta go pee badly ! Well she cant move so I go out side, nothing like peeing in the street when a cop rolls by waving at you !! well I head back in and drink some more waiting on her, well she had grabed the trash can and headed to lay down for just a few minutes and then we will continue. Well I am really ready for that so I get all hot thinking about it and think hey ill just walk out and cool off. Well I did and heard the click !! the damm door had locked behind me and I am out side in my shorts only and no key ! I call and call and even knock on her window but she is like way to far gone. Well her neighbors hear me and start coming out and yelling so I get in my truck and get the hell out of dodge. I get about 15 minuts to the 33 minute drive home and omg I am so drunk so I try to call my roommate, he is on the freaking phone ! So I call my xwife and she wants to come get me but I know how that will end up, I am drunk she is horny and alone hummm, hell no. So i continue and get home safe as I can. I walk in and my room mate is just laughing and I tell him I locked my self out and he just keeps laughing. Well walk to my room and like 5 of my friends are there useing my computer and they had just heard. I was Like damm its not my night. So at 2 am she calls and is upset thinking i got madd at her and i am like no baby i locked my self out, so she is not laughing at me. Well I now have a key so no more of that, cause that was the second time it had happend ! Well everyone got a good laugh at me, all i got was the stress of driving drunk and the biggest case of blue balls ever. What a hell of a night The real bummer was I dont remember calling her drunk off my ass and saying dont be madd I didnt leave and I love you ! Omg i cant belive I said that grrrr stupid me. But she forgave me and said she had wanted to say it a week ago, but we are leaving that out as long as we can. We want to take things slower so we shall see. Gado Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

gadolinx

Joined: 7/5/2004

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Re: what is your most embarressing moment? Posted: 9/24/2004 7:59:56 AM
LOL dang chuck, now that was a classic way of handling it bro, good job. Gado Cant never Could, Wont never Will !

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